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ZIM DRILL:
it is a weapon to weak minds not me

why would i want to be the same with you  i am an individaul i wouldnt want to be judged using someone's personality

Let me turn around so you can talk to my arse all day.  Jobless people have all the time in the world. Let me know when you want UNICEF to send you some rice.

ZIM DRILL:
dont be a fool

thats applies if we would have meet not now over the internet

Take you own advice.  It is for your own good.  But, I doubt you would be able to leave the tent you call a home.  So keep being a keyboard warrior.  It suits you and your finances.  

Keep beetching. You doing a great job!

Don't talk about it, be about it. You will attempt to hit me before I ever would attempt to hit you. My mouth is weapon enough too bad I can't say the same for you.  Dismissed.

As I said I bet you won't hit me and live to snitch. Bleep what you heard.

Not all of us are KEYBOARD WARRIORS (looking directly at the screen)

No thanks. I haven't got my HIV/AIDS vaccine shot. I will pass.

You can assist him if you like.

ZIM DRILL:
dont bother on her she want to sound tough remember it is easy to talk or write but tough to walk the talk

Nutrider----I bet you wouldn't hit me and live to snitch.  It is easy to bleep a mofo up who underestimated their opponent.  Don't underestimate me. 

Go beat your house help.

ebila:
I wouldn't dare woh exactly?
U really shud add SOME u knw.U can only be a threat to BOYS,not MEN!

You have claimed you are a man and made comments in reference that I need to beaten. So again, why would I add the word some? Weren't men once boys? Same thing.

Just remember my warning.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster

- what was hubby mad about?
- what was her reason for being late?
- what did the beating solve?

Exactly at the bold print.  Let me see the ARSE WHOOPING supporters gotta say now.  They were all for that ladies getting her arse beat just because she laughed and chased a guy in the other thread.  I wonder what their BULLSHIT arse theories on this scenario.

El Guapo:
Ms chima, am an Ibo oo though am aint with ma pple but anytime am home cases of this kind lurk my doorpost, moreova i have yoruba frndz but their men are quite different and hausa men are also responsible.

Whether you Igbo or not isn't the question.   The question was ARE YOU CLAIMING only Igbo men beats their wives?  It is okay.  I know IGBO men aren't the only men that have or are beating their wives.  Let me list them all since you are skimming.  

Hausa
Yoruba
Fulani
Edo
Igbo
Delta
Italian
Russian
German
Chinese
Japanese
South American
North American
Canadian
Mexican
Brit
Iranian
Saudi Arabian
Greek
Central American
Jamaican
Cuban
Australian
Indian
French
North Africa
South Africa
East Africa


Now there ya go.  There is at least ONE MAN in each tribe, culture, nation, region, race, and creed that have beaten a woman or women.

DUH.

You confessing?

ebila:

Where's @Mrs.Chima?

Trust me, you wouldn't dare.  I will physically fight men if I have to.  Any man threatens me will regret it and may or may not live to snitch.  One thing about Akata women, we don't always depend on the police to take care of the matter.  We do very well doing it ourselves.  

Let that be a warning.  

Sidenote:  I know the men would love to beat me because I am a threat to their ego.  I am the ball buster and good at what I do.  A wise woman once told me when a man threaten to hit you, you moved on up.

Guapo,

Are you saying that ONLY IGBO MEN beats their wives? You wanna go tribal up in this piece?

You get a job or a project to work on you would too be busy. Try it.

Please get laid! Save us the headache!

Abali1:
Hey I think these arguement is getting to no where. Women and men have their preferences.
But like someone rightly pointed out, life is not just black and white.
Most women I know that will not date a poor guy or are too sure of themselves and their ability in earning money, are those from a well to do family or the middle class family. I know this because am from one of them homes. But when life deals you a hard blow (example; losing your dad at a tender age), you will start viewing life differently.

@ Mrs Chima, I can relate with what you are saying(it is not totally wrong to want a better life for yourself), but there are situations in life that can humble you.

Poverty is not a crime (I am not poor ooh), most rich people we see started from poor homes or have tasted want in some way. People fail to realise that it is only when you hunger for something that you will actually start making great effort to getting that thing.

@ post let your friend remain focused, it is even better if he hungers for wealth now cos it will drive him to become more creative in searching for a way at of his present circumstances. 33 not too late for a man to start looking for ways to get ahead in life.

For example, I know of two of our tenants that hit it stinkingly rich, when they over 45years. I believe God is the determining factor in most things about life.

Guys and ladies stop bragging about your achievement, it is the Lord that gives power to make wealth. It is neither by your power or might or intelligence or beauty or connection.

I respect your opinion.

I know when the sun set, people will still choose how they will choose. We can throw rational thoughts and theories that will not change people desire for their preferences they are seeking even if it is silly.

When I met my husband, I got to know his character and his zest for life. Income wasn't a question for me because I make my own money. Through getting to know my husband I knew what type of person he is. So if he make less or more money, he will still be the same.

Character is what counts the most FOR ME. I am only speaking for me. But however, I can see where the ladies saying when it come to stability.

Please my husband is not worrying about her taking me from him. He know I don't roll like that but he just heavily into the bible and always correcting me. Like I would tell him, I want to be celibate for a year. You can imagine the length of the lectures. I felt like I was in church all day until the next day.

Mr. Chima is very smart and has a great head on his shoulder. One thing I can say is that my baby is no fool.

Dsense,

The one thing I am is honest and real. I do not adopt a persona that fits online or offline. I can't be nobody but me. It is easier being who you are regardless if people like you or not. They crucified Jesus and he did no wrong. So who am I? Just a human being being me.

My husband know how I am and how I roll. When we first met he saw my rawness and realness. His brother was the one that said, underneath all that brash, that a good woman. You do know yall love family input. His ENTIRE FAMILY were like this chick is real and we don't have to guess with her.

Did I tell you his cousin was HATING BIG TIME and only to find out that he wanted me. He was like I need an older man that been around and shit. I looked at him was like I don't date my grandpappi. You just don't know. Men over here love a straightforward woman especially the ones that appreciates a real one. However, my husband accepts me for me and still let me know he will pray that my mouth get kindred spirited.

Bless my baby's heart! My husband can hang with me and let me know that he will lecture me if he feel he has to and only doing it out of love. I can respect that. I get about nine lectures a week.

Hmm. It was the white slave masters that brainwashed them but THAT ANOTHER STORY.

Back to the thread.

Yes, I thought about telling her directly that my husband just DON'T LIKE HER and think that she going to hell.  But, THAT WOULD BE TOO HARSH and I know the stuff she goes through simply for being openly lesbian.  

My husband do not want me to be friends with her period and she is not welcome to the house nor call our home.  She thinks that my husband is influencing me and "controlling" me which why she decided to go from bisexuality to lesbian because she stated she hates men and their ego.  I can understand that but not enough to make me switch teams.  

I was surprised that my husband even gave me the invitation and he said "You already know what to do".  I asked him what do he mean?  I knew my husband is a bible thumper and always censoring me about my BLUNTNESS and STRAIGHTFOWARDNESS.  He always respond, "I'm pray for my sweet wife and THAT MOUTH".  If you can hear him, ,you will see why I am always trying not to laugh.  I know he is serious and he is AGAINST HOMOSEXUALITY TO THE CORE.  

He gave me this lecture about being FRIENDLY with everyone and said that I shouldn't be consorting with evildoers.  I am a people's person and I do not judge other people naturally because I can emphasize and still express my opinions.  

My friend also invited me to the bridal shower and reception.  Okay, I guess I have to send her a text message saying "No thanks and good luck".  On the second note, I can always get another husband.  Hmm.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=607186.msg7752283#msg7752283 date=1298005261]Waoh
Let's be serious . . .
In this situation,I woould say the ball is completelly in your court ''metaphoricaly''  . . .As in it depends on you.Do you really want to attend,Or you don't want to attend cause Mr Chima doesn't support,Or you don't want to attend cause you yourself don't support such events/acts?
Answer those questions first prior we move on.~~~~[/quote]I would like to support my friend because she was my friend before I found out she was gay.  So naturally I will still befriend her because she was honest enough to tell me she is a lesbian.  I respect that she felt comfortable enough to tell me.  I don't support homosexuality however, I think it is not fair not to befriend someone or dislike someone because they are gay. 

I do not want to attend because of my husband.  My husband made it perfectly clear that he or HIS WIFE will not participate in ANY homosexual events regardless if if I have family or friends that are gay.  So I am caught up with supporting my friend and respecting my husband.  I know my husband would be very upset with me if I decided to go anyway which I won't because we were both invited.

They are your brothers too, Reality.

Your loss.

I rebuke that in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Dsense,

I did not want to derail the other threads because I know the mods are looking. My friend sent me an invitation to her wedding and she is a lesbian. She invited me and my husband. The problem is my husband won't go because he said that it is a sin to participate in homosexual events.

I respect my husband and don't know how to tell my friend that I can't because my husband won't come.

What should I do and what do you think? Mz. Dark can answer too.

Dsense,

Check out the dating/hook up section. I have a question to ask you. This is serious.

I do not cheat. I do not need to cheat and I don't have any desire to cheat. So Mr. Chima won't catch me tripping. He better make sure HE DON'T TRIP.

I done told him about eating too much punny. He will be alright once it past through his system.

Could you afford me?

Let me tell you this:

I am none of them chickenheads that you are used to. I will personally Bleep you up if you so much put a finger on me. One thing I won't be is the chick walking around with a black eye, getting jumped at work because some man tapped my arse, and a man hit me just because HE IS A PUNK ARSE BEETCH.

Now, you run over there in the sand box before the cat bury you. Go on now.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=606819.msg7752171#msg7752171 date=1298001361][color=teal]Lmao @ Chima explaining her views on the issue only for d-sense to say: "Are you denying your past?"

but in all seriousness, I do not know what it is like to have an abortion. I am neither for or against as I am pro-choice. I do know women who have and neither of them wish to relive the experience or talk about it so I imagine the emotional aspect of it all is overwhelming. I pray to God that I am never to have to do such a thing (to my baby and myself) regardless if it is about choosing my life or my baby's or in the matter of conceiving as a result of violation. I pray it never happens.  [/color][/quote]Hey sis! Amen! I wouldn't even wish that on my worst enemy. Thanks for saving me from that rapist in Egypt! He has a funny name------[size=2pt]Dsense[/size]