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No. I wouldn't have marry Mr. Chima without a job. I don't care what kind of job a man has to do to support his family. I don't need a rich man but I sure the hell don't need a poor man.

Otuabaroku:
Hi Pweety4me, please check my profile, if you like what you saw, then will get started.

That is a pretty wall you have.

He is good.

Well, I spend a lot of time with Igbo clans and inherited their instability trait.     It is their greatest trait.  Now keep bleeping with me hear.   

Mr. Chima is eating a bowl of cheerios.

Sagamite:
e-flirting is disgusting.

Only sick, dirty minded people start flirting with someone online and talking all seductively and naughtily.

We need to have some morals.

Why are you hating on e-flirters?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=604024.msg7719920#msg7719920 date=1297539210] ****. Nairaland guys all afta 1 punny,  including moi,  *****[/quote]You said it right: NAIRALAND guys are after punny INCLUDING YOU.

Thank you baby!    I knew you was semi-nice!

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=602156.msg7716782#msg7716782 date=1297500114]Mrs. C:

Speak for yourself and stop cutting down and walking all over other people's opinions if they don't agree with your own.  We all - ALL OF US - are due the right to our opinion.

How am I cutting down on other people's opinions. My opinions are m own. If it agrees with your it would and if doesn't agree with your it won't.


There are many, many marriages that are definitely sound, close, connected and are INDEED SPECIAL because those individuals work hard to make it so.

Marriage is still what you make of it. Let be real.


Nothing is cookie cutter - everything is effort and energy expended - the smallest minded individual is aware that what you put into a relationship individually and as a couple dictates its outcome.

Now, you agree that nothing is cookie cutter.


And that goes from 1000 years back up til today.

That's what I take issue with - not you personally because as you know many times I have deeply appreciated your input and your thoughts and humor - but there are times that your lack of restraint and impulsiveness in your approach and method appears directed at pushing and/or trampling on thoughts that don't agree with your own and you seem intelligent enough to know that when you do this it is neither right nor fair as it IS in direct opposition of WHAT A FORUM such as this is set up to OFFER to its members.  A forum is special because it allows all to air their ideas - if you don't agree - that is understandable too - many times I don't agree but I will hold my tongue unless I feel very strongly about something. 

My opinions are of my own and it is not designed to please others who DISAGREE WITH MY OPINIONS. I am not going to spend all day filtering out what will offend people and what will not. There are things that you have stated previously that I find to be farfetched however, I respected your right to express opinions. If I chooses to respond then it is my right to do so. I don't always respond to everything people say and since you noticing a lot of things, you would have noticed that. We can't control how people will react. As I have stated multiple time this is chat and shouldn't be taken too seriously. It is not worth it.

However, I don't disagree every time someone doesn't agree with me as it is their right to form their own opinion - just don't dump all over mine as though your thought(s) is the only option or the only truth - because it/they definitely is/are not.

Btw - many, many, many times you speak on items and in areas that my view is COMPLETELY OPPOSITE - when someone else opens a thread and you post in response to the topic - I notice that if someone holds a differing opinion you will then fire back on that stranger as if they have personally affronted you because they think differently and their experience in life has been unlike your own.  Our thoughts are a direct mirror of what our experience has been in this life.  So to run at them unfavorably is to say that their experience isn't worth listening, acknowledging or respecting and you are in no position to do that to others. 

Sweetheart, please understand once again when I express an opinion or respond to a comment it is not always about you or the person. Everything is not emotional or serious with me. If you like an opinion the you wouldn't have any issues with it.


You say you don't specialize in "sugary" - I DO - I definitely do and I go out of my way to make sure that sugary is in the home especially because we work so hard (everyone under my roof in the U.S. and in Lagos).  I do focus on seeing the glass FULL versus half full or empty and because I do - more times than naught - I receive sugary in return from people as it becomes fruitage that I receive from the choices I have made and continue to make in my life.  I leave abrasive people, abrasive behavior, abrasive thinking and abrasive choices out of my video.  That is my reality and it has been quite rewarding to me and mine. 

You right, I don't specialize in sugary and I see things as it is.


People will treat you as you carry yourself - if you are a loud, cursing individual, many times you will receive that in return and if you command respect and give respect and deference to others - you in turn will receive it as well.  Also, it is a "great person" who allows others to be themselves without attempting to "constantly control the outcome, responses" - as control limits knowledge and growth.  Your thoughts many times, I see that they allow and encourage growth and in turn my thoughts should encourage growth in you as well.  I purposely Open my thought to what you and others have to offer to me.  In turn, instead of approaching my ideas and beliefs in a manner of "shutting me down because you don't agree," try to learn from me as well because it will be quite beneficial for you too.  I have alot to offer and am very valuable in my many different areas of expertise.  My manner is one small area.

People will not always agree with everything you and you shouldn't take it as an offense. It doesn't matter how it is delivered to you, just know some things aren't worth stressing over. People will treat you however they feel like treating you. You can be the nicest person in the world and still get treated like shit. Remember Jesus NEVER did any wrong and was crucified.


Killing them with kindness and coming at them when they least expect it (lovingly versus mob squad) achieves much more on global levels versus projecting your image as though you stand on a local street corner.[/quote]

I prefer to be Nelson Mandela's ex wife.

Mygoldie:
I am not a flirt and would never be
I wonder why girls like Roktu and Atriedes flirt

I know you want to say my name!  Say it!  I double dare you!  Come here Chicco.  I have something to share with you.  (looing back at Mygoldie as I sashay over to Chicco)

Atreides:
You're the best momma  in the whole wide world!

 Now, I have to be naughty tonight!  Thanks a lot!  
[quote author=rokiatu link=topic=602834.msg7719326#msg7719326 date=1297532221][/quote]I don't how long I can hold Mr. Chima!  Oooh wee he is strong!

rokiatu:
I must be honest and say, your comments crack me up at times

"I don't know" hahahhaha luv you manhh! ( I mean that in a witty way )

I wonder if he is still doesn't know.

koolchicco:
PALM was/is the watch word. Unstable Enugu-Ukwu Madam.

I didn't say PALM. I said CHEAP WINE. Don't get mad at me because you are drinking out of a box!

(holding Mr. Chima back)

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=603407.msg7719063#msg7719063 date=1297529387][color=teal]that is what I said yesterday lol.
too much flirting to be "just bros".[/color][/quote]Right. Dsense get chummy when Phate is around. Hmm.

You want your papi to beat you Altreides

LMAO! 

My granny always say "Once you go dyking, you will never go back". I could never get why she said that and she can't stand dykes.

Mygoldie,

Please don't beat him. I won't do that and I don't want to upset Mr. Chima.

koolchicco:
And your palm wines come in boxes as well? Yea right! Pseudo Americana.

You got issues with Americans? I will beat you man! Cheap wine comes in boxes. Duh

Mygoldie:
Pweety are you black albino indiana?

by the way ,men scarce for your area?

You gon kill me!    You see the dogs roaming the streets looking for scraps and occasional nyansh to hump.

Rokiatu,

You is silly.  

Altreides,

You behaving child?  I saw you beating that black ugly maimed dog!  Good girl!  

Lawd Pweety!  What wrong with the brothers in Africa?

Whatever Rokiatu! You siren belle you!

What do you call crate in Nigeria? We get our yams in a crate. That is how the store measure the price of the yams. Yams in America aren't the same in Africa. Yams in Africa look like LEGS WITH NO FEET. Yams in America look like scrotum sacs. So now you see why the yams are in a crate.

It will be mostly women and a few gays. You will be getting a crate of yams, a box of palm wine, and some singlets. The bonus is the tips you will be receiving if you do a good job.

Go find an offline woman. Don't worry about mine. You calling for assistance? That a punk move.

(throws penis push up at Chicco)

Your debut is Monday! Get ready to shake it babbbbbbyeeee!

It is already done. If he keep talking that bullshit to me, I will deal with him.

Phate and Dsense.

You should be yawning.  You spends your WHOLE LIFE online since we so concern with each other.