₦airaland Forum

Poster,

The chicks are not INTO YOU. GET OVER IT.

Dsense suga,

I agree with Creamish on the NEGATIVE VIEWS that Nigeria is portrayed around the world not just the West. I don't know how many NON-NIGERIAN women are on Nairaland, but I am sure they can attest that in THEIR COUNTRY Nigeria is viewed as CORRUPTED, VIOLENT, and HIV Infected. As I have stated that ALTHOUGH the media portrayed Nigeria in such DARKNESS SOME of us know better. Some is a very SMALL PERCENTAGE against the whole.

I can't speak for the other non-nigerian women but I am sure that they had to fight against the ignorance of other people in their country about their man simply because he is Nigerian. So let be real and know that the image is not sugary nor glitter. It up to YOU and the rest to prove to the WORLD that Nigeria IS NOT just about this and that.

However, I do agree with you Dsense that your OWN PEOPLE is not painting a GOOD LIGHT about the country that is been PULLED, DRAGGED, AND PUSHED through the mud.

The question is WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT THAT?

sunch:
@mrs eve,
what's your issue wit the nigerian nah, even as u're married 2a nigerian u can still be passing dis kinda negative statement. So, if other ladys are going gaga 4we are, leave 'em 2continue. Cos we cnt hurt a fly dat really knws her worth and value.
THE FACT REMAINS 9JA RULE, IF NOT NOW.
MAYBE U WATCH OUT>>>>>>>>>>>

Omo to Dun,

Now I am saying [b]SUNCH IS THREATENED[/b]by my difference of opinions.

Sunch,

What negativity have I brought against Nigerian men, I am assuming you are talking about the Nigerian men right? What have I said NEGATIVE about Nigerian men? Please elaborate thanks in advance.

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=570836.msg7404103#msg7404103 date=1293226543]@ Eve

My very first sentence was proof that I was not threatened by others' opinions. Please re-read it---it is terse. [/quote]Since you have a vision disability let me help you.

If you feel good being a Nigerian then you shouldn't be threatened when SOMEONE else have A DIFFERENCE OF OPINION.

There is nothing in that BOLDED part said YOU WAS. Skim reading is not your forte.

Merry X-MAS,

My husband said meet him outside because he is pissed.

USA
USA
USA

If you feel good being a Nigerian then you shouldn't be threatened when SOMEONE else have A DIFFERENCE OF OPINION.

I guess it safe to say the marriage wasn't love at first sight huh?

My husband said I looked young when we first met. He didn't believe that I was legal. I had to give him birth certificate and the whole nine yards so he can believe that I am legal. I always get people saying I got nice skin and my face look young.

All my siblings in same age range and I look the youngest.

My husband does not know this one. He knows of the first one.

A kondo or whatever the hell that is doesn't make me snoar. [size=33pt]A JOB[/size] put me to deep sleep.

What is a kondo? Do you even know? What is snoar?

Atreides:
I'm serious. . I really dont go into the x-rated sections. .  . . Did you know that in some cultures in Naija im old enough to get married? Some of my Northern age-mates are already giving birth in their husbands' houses. Being in my late teens isnt that young. @Thiscounts,wooww brutha-you just told me WHAT counts! Thnx much. .

Do you want to get marry now? Or you want to go to college and be all that you can be?

So, you don't hate kids?

I am not trying to be funny but what can you get from NAIJA MEN? 

What Jaybee?  It's just a question!

yankite:
@MSEVE NA WETIN DEY DO YOU,WEY U DEY OPPOSE your HUSBAND COUNTRY MAN LIKE DAT
ON TOP EVERTHIGN NA WE STILL MARRY YOU PUT FOR HOUSE,COOPERATE JOB OR NOT WE
GET AM FOR GRAMMAR SKILLS BUT MAKE I NO WRITE GRAMMAR WEY YOU GO GATH OPEN
DICTONARY B4 U COMPREHEND,COOL DOWN OOO OR MAYBE your HUSBAND TRAVEL WEY HIN
DON TEY WEY DEM NACK YOU LAST,COME DEY CARRY YA MOUTH DRIVE ROUGH FOR HERE

Confirmed. Mr. Bigg's said BREAK OVER and clean up on table 5.

Atreides:
I'm not a child,i'm in my late teens. And judging from what ive seen,im a lot more sensible than some Nl users. Besides,i dont go into the x-rated sections of Nl.

Early teens and late teens still TEENS You don't go into x-rated section? (moving to the side and looking toward the sky)

Okay, Jaybee

I will return the one thing I deleted bad about men.

I suggest you go find some pussy and stay out of mine, BITCH. ^^^^^

^^^^^that is my point, what is the fuss?

Atreides:
@livedit. . Woww. .Youre making madd sense.what difference does it make? There is no age requirement when signing up for Nl and even if there was id only lie and say i was older.hehe. . It was love at first post. . Such things are funny.

Apparently not. I forgot what site I was on. Who else have their children registered on Nairaland?

From what I HEARD the chicks talk about over here is the NIGERIAN COCK, I guess they see one cock seen them all,

I know damn well SOME OF yall on here SPORTING the little ones.

ROSSIKE:
Creamish said:


My experience as a Nigerian dealing with foreigners has almost never involved any perceived negative prejudice coming from them on account of news headlines or stories of Nigerian fraud, crime etc.

Some of you who do not interact regularly with foreigners as Nigerians tend to exaggerate those supposedly ''widespread negative perceptions'' about Nigerians.

If you DID mix with people, you'd find that 99% are actually more interested in the positives of the country than the negatives you assume they are all thinking and talking about.

The other day I was in Jamaica, and 99.9% of the people I interacted with were full of respect for my Nigerian nationality. And I mean PALPABLE respect. I wouldn't discount the influence of Nollywood on this, by the way. Over there, almost every home has at least 20 Nollywood films. I know some people there who hold thousands of Nollywood films in their collection.

All foreigners with a bit of brains and exposure KNOW that Nigeria is FAR FAR MORE than the parochial media stereotype.

That still does not NEGATE the fact that NIGERIA is known to be dangerous. I know from experience that PEOPLE in Nigeria are like batteries, sometimes you get good ones and sometimes you get bad ones. BUT IT DOES NOT NEGATE THE GRAPHICAL view and the negative experiences of those WHO WERE involved in the dangerous side of Nigeria.

I have said many time that one Nigerian does not represent ALL NIGERIAN. Just like ONE BLACK woman does not represent all BLACK WOMEN. It goes on and on. However, we as human beings tend to thrive on the NEGATIVE ENERGY for which our chi is not balance. Without order, our life is chaotic.

So it up to US TO CONTROL our thoughts and push through to see whatever is offered sadly many of us can't because we are not in control of our thoughts.

However, Nigerian men are still the same and the fact that you can make FUFU using milk does not mean you better than the man making FUFU using water.

yankite:
WELL AS A NAIJA GUY,I WOULD TRY HARD NOT TO GENERALIZE ON THIS ONE
MAJORITY OF US(NAIJA MEN) REPRESENTS THE BLACK RACE REALLY GOOD
AND SPEAKING OF THE KINDA OF BACKGROUND WE HAVE,MAKES MUST OF US
ACG(ALL CONDITION GUARANTEE) A NAIJA BLACK MAN IS ONE OF THE FEWEST
BLACK MAN,DAT HAS ENOUGH SWAGGA TO ADAPT TO ANY CIRCUMSTANCE LIFE
THROWS AT US,PUT US FOR NAIJA WE GO FIND LOOP HOLE,PUT US FOR YANKEE
SMALL TIME,NA WE GO DEY RUN MUST PROFESSIONAL JOBS,GIVE US ONE DATE
WE GO FINISH YOU WITH OUR GRAMMAR WITH SHAKESPEARE LINES,GIVE US MUNGUN
GREEDY WITH MAN WE GO CONFUSE HIM SO CALLED SMART BRAIN,STILL CHOP HIN MONEY
UNTOP,CHALLENGE US WITH AKATA BLACK MAN,SMALL TIME WE DON TEACH AM A THOUSAND
WAYS TO MAKE MONEY FOR HIN HOUSE WEY HIM NO DISCOVER,TALK ABOUT CREATIVITY NA ONLY
NAIJA ARTISTE GO SING,RAP,RAGGA LIKE SAY HIN MOTHER TONGUE NA EBONICS OR PATUA,


INSHORT WE NAIJA MEN NEED TO BE CALLED THE 8TH WONDER OF THE WORLD

I seriously doubt that [size=33pt]You have a PROFESSIONAL CORPORATE job writing like that [/size]

hissssssssssssssss

I wonder why.

WAIT A MINUTE,

You can be a teen registered ON AN ADULT SITE?!!! Let me holla at a few people. Be right back.

Bite me.