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thebosstrevor1:
Yes lets even legalised armed robbery and cocaine, also terrorism and sucide all because people are free to use their body the way they like.

Back to prostitution, prostitution damages a woman emotional, mentally and physically.

We all know those things you mentioned there has nothing to do with prostitution and can't be legalized. Why?

Armed robbers, terrorists infringe on people fundamental rights to live. An armed robbers steal and kill, same with terrorists.

Armed robbery, terrorism and prostitution are far apart.

They are quite different from prostitution, prostitutes don't infringe on people's right, it is a mutual agreement between two individuals on how and when to have sex, shey you grab? So why should you and I be bothered about two mature individuals who agree to have sex and pay for it?


Oh, you said that prostitution damages a woman emotionally, mentally and physically, are you real? Has a prostitute ever told you that? Or you are using your church mind to make some unrealistic points here?

Like I stated earlier, be open minded.


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Disloyalty





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[quote author=Sixfeetbelle post=94646141][/quote]Hey, are you a cheat?


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Scam Alert!

Don't be daft @Op, that is a scam profile


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We are watching you from the high towers




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Living in Nigeria sef na heartbreak




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Xoly:
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Same here.


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Blackmann001:
A friend I know almost divorced his 1year old marriage cuz the wife was busy hiding money in the bank while the hubby was running from.pillar to post asking friends for assist to get the same wife out from hospital after delivery of their first child.....

The lady had a very serious complication during delivery and cost of safe delivery tripled...however the guy was shocked that his wife while on the bed still instructed her youngest sis about 16years old to go and collect her hidden money in their room and take it to bank for her b4 the hubby see it........the hubby needed just 52k to complete and bring them back home..but sh was hiding 96k..while sh has been detained in the hospital for two days.......


I fear ladies with too much value of money!

Now, this is scary. I can't deal with a lady with this kind of attitude.


Anyways @op do what is right by you.



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Burgerlomo:
Monitoring spirit everywhere , but nah wah for Mr Lover boy oooh I can't believe he didn't see this himself, abeg....

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phintohlar:
Na the guy opon cause am

You don't mean it



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Xoly:
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*looks right*

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*shits in thread *
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Guy, I just checked your profile. Are you into comedy?

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Zzor:
I feel like calling them out one after the other

What will be your reward if you do that?


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Wee*d and alcohol ain't bad, the only problem is when it becomes an addiction.


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“Should we tell him now or later” – See what a lady did to her fiance that got Nigerians talking


A Facebooker identified as Inyene Akpan shared a very arguable post in a group on Facebook and Nigerians couldn’t give a break with their reactions.

In the photo the man who obviously thinks he is having a good time with his girlfriend is rather having a really hard time.

In all the photos in the collage, the girl is pictured hiding her face as much as she can from the camera. This clearly shows the girl is just in for his money but has no feelings for him.

See Photo Below;


Here are few reactions from Nigerians;


Lalasticlala Rocktation farano



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Wow


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I haven't watched it. I will check it out asap. Thanks

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SATANNIST:
some topics dont make sense. there is no need to channel energy into shit like this na. prostitution is indirectly legal in naija. if it wasnt, police will be chasing hoes in opebi every night. instead police dey there dey guard them. how else do u want it to be legal man?

Did you read the content very well sir?

I didn't say it is not indirectly legal, I only stated some points on why I think it should be legalized and why laws and agencies should be created for it.

Please read the content again bro, this time slowly.


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Stephenomozzy:
How to die by poisoning... That's what you mean right?

If a girl has as much ego as you're trying to portray, doing all these to her will at one point unleash the demon in her.. Especially if she's doing everything to make you see her in better light.

Hell has no fury like a scorned NIGERIAN WOMAN.

BTW, it's quite sadistic to just set out to dehumanize someone... If her ego is too big, move, don't become an evil on your own

Most females has ego just like male.


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Be confident and be bold whenever you are around her and don't be all over her.

Make sure your happiness comes first.

Dont pay her unnecessary attention.

Let her chase you.

Let her question if you are really into her.

Be a mystery to her, a mystery she wants to unravel at all cost.

Don't reveal all of your private life to her at a go, let her be willing to know.

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For the sake of your mental health, whatever you do, never think that your happiness lies with someone else, no one owns your happiness.
Your happiness should always be your priority.
If you do this things, you won't have any problem with any girl.

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Okay...


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thebosstrevor1:
Prostitution should never be legalized.

Prostitution is evil.

All these liberals aka communists wanting to create anarchy by telling everyone to live like they want.

In this world you can't live as you want and wont face consequences of your actions

Haa, you again.

Bro, be open-minded.

You didn't state any genuine reason why prostitution shouldn't be legalized.

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virginprincess:
You have said it all, everybody is entitled to his or her opinion.

Yes, everyone is entitled to his opinion but it doesn't stop us from being open-minded.

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virginprincess:
There is absolutely nothing you will type here that would make me change my mind, prostitution should never be legalised because it is bad.

Bad how?
What is your definition of "bad"
Just because you see something as bad doesn't mean I will see it that way.

Anyways, everyone is entitled to his/her opinion

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CosmicPhoenix:

is it the prostitution that nigerian ladies have legalised already or another

No lies!

Falz and DemmieVee said it, they said

Everybody is a modafvcking hypocrite

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futurerex:
It can't be legalize because, what follows is free to air abortion & pornography.

Abortion is not legalized in Nigeria, yet people abort on a daily basis.

Pornography is not good, yet the number of visit from Nigeria to sex sites like pornhub, xvideos is massive.

Nigeria has the largest viewers of sex sites check it here:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2014/12/01/nigerians-largest-porn-site-viewers/amp/


We just like deceiving ourselves in this country.

In a saner clime, abortion should be legalized too.


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[quote author=virginprincess post=94635020][/quote]Now, you are not being objective. You are letting your emotions get over you.

Mind you, any person can contract STDs, it is not limited to prostitutes.

Are prostitutes the only one liable to have STDs? No.


How do we curb the spread of STDs amongst prostitutes?

Prostitutes can always go for check ups regularly and use protections always just like average individuals.

This is why we need the Government to legalize and regulate it.


And talking about fathers disowning children because of prostitution, well this is Africa, parents disown their children for a number of reasons, not only prostitution so why pinpoint prostitution?

Think about this from a neutral point of view, whether prostitution is legalized or not, a lot of people are patronizing it.

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QuinModah:
This is actually more a position statement than a question.

Here are several responses:


-Hunting,fishing and agriculture are all older professions than prostitution.
-What does the age of a business have to do with its legality?
-Why would countries whose moral systems are different from those in the West, legalize prostitution?
-Which model would be used as the template for legalized prostitution? The Asian models? The European models? The NorthAmerican Canadian model? The US state of Nevada model?
-Which types of prostitution will be legalized? Street walking? Escort services? Massage parlors? Brothels? All of them?
-Which agencies will enforce this newly legalized trade? Where will the funding for these agencies come from?
-Would people who have been convicted of prostitution-related offenses in the past be allowed to work in the trade now? What would occur if they did so without receiving licensing? How about people convicted of other offenses?
-Where is the proof that legalizing prostitution will not cause additional problems?
-How can the safety and human rights of sex workers exactly be "assured" when the rights of non-sex workers are often not done so?
-How would the problem of child prostitution be handled?

These question would need to be answered and answered to the satisfaction of the -authorities legalize prostitution before any movement could ever gain traction.

Simply stating that it "should" be legalized isn't going to get things done.

Firstly, in no way did I say that prostitution should be legalized because of its age. I only emphasized that it ain't a new profession, it has always been in existence.

Moral system you say? I laugh.

Are you telling me that Nigeria has a good and formidable moral system? The truth is that we shouldn't always use our emotions and moral justifications to make decisions all the time, we need to be logical and stay on the objective side of issues no matter what.

That has always been the difference between the developed countries and the underdeveloped, they don't make decisions based on their emotion or moral justifications rather they work on the more reasonable way out of a problem.

On which model to use and the agencies that are going to be involved.

We can create a model which works for us. We don't need to copy any country's system.

The government can create tippelzone and prostitution legal zones with prostitutes having ID cards this way it will be easier to curb the excesses.

The Government just like the other parts of the world that has already legalized prostitution will sit down and have talks on how to regulate and create
models and agencies to enforce it. Since tax will be involved, funding the agencies won't be a problem.

And just like marijuana was legalized in Canada, people convicted of prostitution related crime will be free to continue working in the industry.

There is nothing to worry about as long as the government creates a tippelzone and create ID cards for the workers and the excesses are curbed.

And on safety and human rights of the sex workers, laws are going to be made for the safety of sex workers and non sex workers. Human rights issues has always been a problem since time immenorial, it can always be curbed.

Thanks for your points.

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virginprincess:
It should never be legalised, if it happens that means you are encouraging more girls to go into that stuff which would cause more harm and damage to the society, and also the bible is against such act, .

How will prostitution cause harm and damage to the society?

You said the Bible is against prostitution, yes the Bible is against it but have you ever thought about those who don't believe in the Bible huh?

So because the Christian Bible doesn't support it, people who don't believe in the Bible shouldn't live life the way they deem fit.

We need not lie to ourselves, in Nigeria today a lot of girls are into prostitution, just that most won't admit it.


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PeaceIlya:
I support legalized and regulated prostitution. It should be perfectly legal for an adult to decide they want to use their body as a means of making money. The main reason it's so largely illegal is because of religious morals (and misogyny) being so deeply woven into legislation pretty much everywhere.

The defense for prostitution remaining illegal is almost always a subjective moral argument and that is not a good enough reason for all of the harm that comes from keeping it that way. It's about as effective as Prohibition or the “war on drugs”: people will always seek to alter their mental state and people will always sell and buy sexual experiences, so to outlaw it only forces the activities underground, where crime rings have control and abuse is rampant and unchecked. With Craigslist's hookups page and Backpage gone, sex workers won't suddenly stop selling sex—most will just sell elsewhere and some will either begin or go back to selling on the street, in far unsafer situations and environments.

In a perfect world, regulation would be the backbone to firmly separating sex work from human trafficking. That being said, I do acknowledge that there will, unfortunately, always be an overlap between the two (not to even mention people who don't technically fall into the latter category but are still doing this type of work because they have been coerced). The solution isn't illegal prostitution, I believe the solution lies somewhere adjacent to regulated sex work.


Let's turn that question around. Let’s consider reasons why it would be illegal and address those.

-Spread of disease. Modern legal prostitution includes regular recurring STD tests and mandates the use of barriers. The incidence of STD transmission is very low.

-Chance of pregnancy. This only applies to heterosexual prostitution among fertile prostitutes and clients. The aforementioned barrier methods reduce this chance and most prostitutes use additional methods of birth control. The incidence of unwanted children is low.

-Moral issues. This includes adultery, sex outside of wedlock, sex with a person you don’t love, etc. In many modern cultures we’ve greatly reduced the amount of legislative bleeps we give about these issues. Not everybody agrees about how bad they are and it’s up to the individual to deal with it themselves.

-Think of the children! In many of the places where prostitution is legal, they have limitations on advertisement and other ways that children might encounter this. Plus, they’re going to find out about this from the internet anyway. As for children actually going to prostitutes, requiring ID will solve this.

-Human trafficking. We already have human trafficking in criminal prostitution. Legalizing it makes this harder. When you have to fill out tax reports and doctors visits, that gives a lot more chances for victims to be found and rescued.

-Entering out of financial obligation. This happens now with illegal prostitution. Legalizing it will make it safer and give more opportunities to move out of prostitution compared to the illegal variety. The original economic pressures are a symptom of wider issues with the economy and the social support net. Legalizing prostitution doesn’t fix all of those problems.

-Chance of prostitutes being victimized by clients. This happens with criminal hookers already. And they have little recourse as they have to admit to a crime to report it. Making it legal gives them access to police to deal with this. Of course, getting the police to care is another matter, but we have to solve the first before we can start on the second.

An objective point of view.

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Vyzz:
If it will minimise rape then hell yeah

Of course it will.. Research has shown that countries that has legalized prostitution have reported rape cases reduced to about 30-40%.

Read more here:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_58c83be1e4b01d0d473bce8a/amp


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