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thebosstrevor1:
you are the one that lack comprehension

i will end with this

The companionship between a man and a woman is directed by the influence of the husband through his provision and protection and is covered by his caring, gentle, and graceful love for his wife and family.

You need deliverance for real.
No be small deliverance sef, I mean the Celestial and Cherubim kinda deliverance. The person wey do you like this no try at all

You think you can satisfy a woman's wants completely. I pray you don't regret marrying an unloyal bit**ch that will be busy kpanshing different men up and down since those ones can provide her with what she wants. Na then your eyes go clear


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thebosstrevor1:
They become one flesh with the husband been the head and provider of the family.

Chai, you are impossible. At this point, I have nothing to say to you, your lack of comprehension is a big issue. I weep for you


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thebosstrevor1:
a helper in the situation of Adam means a companion

He saw adam was lonely and decided to create another human (a woman) that will be his companion

You are saying bs.

When a man and wife are joined in marriage, they are no longer two; they are one.

"For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24).

So what is the essence of marrying her if she won't be willing to work together for the betterment of the family. You need prayers. I would rather file for a divorce than live the rest of my with a selfish and self centered woman.


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Elder0001:
Before you get married to any lady, sit her down and let her know that she has to contribute financially, if she abhors the idea don't marry her. Just call off the proposal or whatever you've already done.
Why is she working and making money if she's not going to contribute to the family (financially)? To buy clothes and perfumes for herself?

Like I said earlier, sit her down and tell her before you guys get married don't wait until after you guys get married because that's where the problem will come from.

Just like your moniker Elder, you just gave people like thebosstrevor an elderly advice. I pray he listens before it is too late.


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Martinez39s:
I don't know why you all are arguing with that woman. Leave women to rot in their delusions.

Oh so I was arguing with a female moniker all this while? Didn't know, I thought it was a male moniker. No wonder

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Martinez39s:
If only men can swallow the red pill, put themselves first, and go mgtow, things like this wouldn't be happening. Women ain't shit, and marriage and relationships are scams and absolute waste of time. Many married men don't wish their children dead but if they could rewind the hands of time, they would choose to stay single. Most married men facing hard times and hell/betrayal from their wives would have never been broke and/or mentally and emotionally tortured and saddened if they had stayed single and avoided children. In current times, marriage is just extra responsibility for the man without any safety for him or necessity for the woman to contribute anything tangible to the union.

Men are willing to share their pots of gold with women, women are never willing to share theirs with men. Women only love what you provide and how you make them feel. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past, once she can't benefit anything from you, she leaves you cold. A woman sees a man as an expendable utility. A utility serves, a utility is never served.

Chris Brown has said it all

He said This girls ain't loyal


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thebosstrevor1:
you are the one that can not comprehend anything

Do you know the meaning of a helper according to the bible that you love to quoteif god wanted women as providers he would have written that,

The role of the husband in the Bible starts with leadership. Scripture makes it very clear that a husband must be a leader of his home and have healthy control of his life

So how do you expect a woman to respect a man that want her to ask her parent for loan to take care of her

Can you tell me what helper means according to the Bible? It seems like you have a different version of dictionary.



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thebosstrevor1:
God said i will make a helper(companion) not a provider

Bro, why is it so hard for you to comprehend things easily? I never stated in any of my post that the wife should be the provider, I only stated that she should be able to help her husband during the time he needs her the most.
Now go back to page one and reread all over.

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jimmychang:
Check what I wrote and try to comprehend just this once in your life.In the mean time when the man is down I didn't say the man should sit down and cry like a baby.I don't know how your background is have your back ever been against the ground.
Things happens bro,what if the man is rendered useless maybe an accident to his spine or something like that. Nigga STFU.I have pride as a man.I don't subscribe to Laziness bro tueh. I don't accept gifts from girls due to pride and I don't give either except it is worth it .
Guy that period when you are down and she should at least help not just adding to your burden.She should just on her own observed that things ain't like before and she help you take care of a few things cuz she knows you are not lazy.
A woman like that will motivate you bro not that one that will make you enter depression.Are you married self?

Na who never see life go dey yarn watin you yarn so ...

The guy just dey amaze me

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thebosstrevor1:
the truth is always pointless, when you marry you can go alone and depend on your wife for survival

1 timothy 5:8

But if any man have not care of his own, and especially of those of his house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel

Genesis 2:18
Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.”


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tunjilana:
This is toxic masculinity at its finest...Any woman who cant and wont support u wen u are down isnt worth being called a wife...such shud end as a girlfriend or at most baby mama

Don't hand over your life to a selfish person all in the name of marriage...no one is promised a smooth financial ride forever

Thank you for this piece of advice. I hope he listens.


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Mtcheew, who cares? Sons and daughters of thieves. We don't care if you wed or not since your fathers has looted this country dry. Give us referendum and let decide our future

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Most of them are bunch of lazy rats. And it isn't their fault, it is the fault of guys that encourage and indulge them in this kind of attitude.


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One thing I will never accept from my woman is cheating. You cheat on me and it is over. I am never going to look back.

So @op wise up, a cheating spouse is a terrible wife.


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thebosstrevor1:
i guess you see nothing wrong in being a dependant, in self-entitlement, in deceit and in weakness.

Any man that is looking at his wife money and thinking on how to take it whether by manipulation or deceit is a weak man

I dont know who is your role model but A real man does not depend on his wife for survival only weak men do. there are many strong men out there who will rather kil themselves then feed on their wives money, they rather go outside work hard, earn cash and use it to take care of their family, that type of man cant be control by his wife.

people like you claiming marriage is support, it is team work and other idealism continue waiting for the supporter, if you are not in control of your own life emotionally and financially, you can never be in control of your marriage

Now, I am tired of arguing with you. Your arguments are pointless, you seem to have comprehension problem. I give up on you.

Adieu!


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Hmm. Wahala dey this world o. I don't even know whose story to believe.


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Hmm,oga ooo. This life no just balance.

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Opoor.


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Dpsychologist:
This is where game is important. If you keep chasing a lady not interested in you thats where you end up spending unnecessary on p*ssy. When you have a girl insanely interested in you, you can get the pussy anytime, anywhere.

You are on point.


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Any girl that think I will be overly desperate for sex with her is on a long thing. You do normal with me, I do normal with you. Me wey no dey look Uche's face


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ednut1:
A lot of women are naturally wicked. My mumsy tenants then used to complain after he was sacked from apapa wharf. The wife refused to assist and they would always fight. Shop wey he open for hin wife o. She dey save the money

Most females are naturally wicked. I wonder how they think. Probably the reason why politicians don't trust them in the corridor of power.


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Mtcheww, Bullcrap.

This man should be chilling with dem boys in Kirikiri not traveling in a luxurious jet


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Na them Sabi.

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Okay . We are observing this matter from the high tower


Lalasticlala

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thebosstrevor1:
You make no sense at all because they dont relate.

Of course, they relate. Since you simply cant help a needy stranger, you can't see anything wrong in a selfish wife who can't assist his husband in time of need.

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thebosstrevor1:
No.

I don't understand how your question relates with the topic of discussion

No wonder, I understand better. You simply dont have any sense of humanity in you.
For you to say the woman has no job helping his husband and saying you can't help a stranger that genuinely needs your help shows who you are. I pray you dont have issues that are bigger than you that will warrant you needing help from strangers because you can't live this world alone, you will need help from people both relatives and strangers.

Adieu!


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Ayo2004:
Which kin rubbish talk dis 1 dey talk?

You dey mind am?

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thebosstrevor1:
I read the post.

If he was trully a provider then he wont be thinking of his wife parent or her money.

You dont have to reply, and you are not a real nigga, no real nigga has a entitled mentality.

You have no point. People like you never cease to amaze me.

Lets do it this way:

If a stranger comes to ask for your help, would you help him/her? Yes or no?


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thebosstrevor1:
The man was never the provider, if he was he wont be acting self entitled and complaining like a Bit**ch, he will just go out and find what to do to get money.

Oh really? It seems like you didn't read the post.

I will cease arguing with you until you become a real nigggarr

Liposure:
A kind woman will assist her husband in time of need. Too bad he married a selfish wife.

A selfish and self centered wife at that.


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thebosstrevor1:
A responsible man should be able to provide for his family.

If she was not from a rich home, what will he have done?

What sort man ask a woman to ask her parent for loan because he knows they are rich.

He is busy checking her financial status so that he can have money

Is that a man?

I pray you don't find ourselves in this kind of situation that this man is facing.

Read the post bro. The man has been the provider until Covid19 crisis. No man prays not to be able to provide for his family but this life is not balance. There are times things will go well and there at times that things will go from good to bad. That is why we need supportive family members(Husband and Wife) to support each other during those hard times. If the wife can't support the man during this hard times, the man should just file for a divorce and leave the self centered wife alone.

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Congrats bro.

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