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^^^ who u talking to?

gabriel4u:
If a guy sees your pics and interested in you or probably, he only saw u once (could be on the way or at your friend's place or school), Could even be through Facebook. Can u ever love such a guy that was only attracted by your physical appearance? Even if he pours out all the sweety sweety words of proposing.

And guys, can you love some one u were attracted with, just because of her appearance for the first time?

No I wont

[quote author=~*Mamken*~ link=topic=625370.msg7929227#msg7929227 date=1300346514]nigerians arent big spenders, they r just big boasters. . .

they believe its with money they can buy attention of people around them. they love it when people talk abt them.

. "Uwaifo don become big man overnight oooo"   "have u seen that car!?!?, na tear rubber he bought!!!"  

ones they finish spending the money they go home and cry. . . .
why? why? whyyyyy? and start blaming people he bought drinks for. . . ." this guy, he he he drank MY drink i bought for him!!!!!  and, "this naughty woman!!! she took ma drink and chop my chips but didnt even  give me a bl0wy!?!??" poo poo poo!!!![/quote]

but this my guy dont drink naa

Im back! Im Back! I(m Back!

Esin waju:
Well then i guess he is doing a whole lotta things right especially the tearing that place up up

I was just joking about the bedmatics area cause I wanna tease Mrs Chima

Well, I like Edo guys cause so far all of them seems to attrack me and I just love the way they flow and carry themselves.

My partner, my friends and my housemates

well, not to say I havent met the rest I have but my click is still with Edo's

CrazyMan:
Yea I have lots and lots of oranges but for the other two; I won’t mind going shopping for them just to make you happy.

Finally, why are you embarrassed?

Cause I dont want you calling me long throat naa

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=625363.msg7928859#msg7928859 date=1300340556]
Did you get banned again? [/quote]Yes but now Im back

mcnikes:
Nigerian men are hardworking and they also know how to spend on ladies. But most men spend big to cover their romantic inadequacies. Especially if he feels so insecure. Mostly he wants to be able to say "After all I did for you", when you'll think of leaving him. They also have a tendency to be violent then because he'll feel he has invested so much in you via his spending. Can't say for your own man though.

My goodness! That is kinda scary naa

How about u? What kinda guy are u?

^^^ I dont know anything of Edo girls but Edo guys. DAMN!!!

Edo men can chop toto like nobody's business during the day and night and during the time where you least expected it Edo men can cook for you and they are almost all very clean and smell nice (that one go make me Hot most of the time ooo)
Edo men would keep you warm at night cause they just know how to kiss u on the right spot and they know how to hug you with that their handsome masculine arms And they are a very funny and attractive set of guys. The one whom is always there to make you laugh and to cheer you up when you are sad

(Staring at Mr Potato in the most Hot way)

Desholah, I mean I wouldnt mind but he earns more than I do. Like 3 times more than I do. And for me to save my money its like chicken feet. U know, I just feel that if only he could know and learn how to keep that his money, he would be able to invests in many different business in a year and make profits out of that.

190:
[color=deeppink]Im sorry this was i think a month ago

Nor vex, im saving all my money for my upcoming marriage  [/color]

Ehen! U are not serius at all. The way I see it, every single persin must keep at least 10% of their earnings every month into the savings account and dont use it! So t=dont tell me you are starting to save now like in one month time? Abeg! U are not serious at all  


[quote author=BABE! link=topic=625370.msg7928093#msg7928093 date=1300325193]@OP, free you guy abeg! Let him spend his money the way he wants to spend it on you. BUT, does his source of income equalize his expenditure? If it does, then no wahala![/quote]I mean Ive seen it happening naaa. Those people whom thinks that they are rich and they just go and spend money like say there is no tommorow. . . . One day it bit them on their backside!

U know, I imagine the amount of money he spends its like if I calcualted and all, he can actually buy a condominium or maybe a franchise for seven eleven store or sumthin to invest in the future!   That is why I am angry cause he doesnt think of all of these.

190:
[color=deeppink]Thats cos we are ruthless spenders

I remember this day that i went to a popular Joint to chill

I got myself a bottle of champagne held my glass and was feeling funky

all the black and white b[i]itch[/i]es eyes were on me, i got myself a comfortable sofa sat on it

brought my cam out and started taking pics, some random Nigerian dude comes in

and bought 7 bottles and my eyes Popped and nearly fell, ( WTF did he buy 7 bottles for when it was just him )

Nigerian guys i believe are the heaviest spenders in the world even when they are broke

they could borrow some money just 2 spend and damn the consequences,

I believe i saw NL user cold that nite with his Jack daniels  

( least i forget i had 3 of the 7 bottles to myself and died that nite to champagne )  [/color]

Huh?Why now? Why are u spending like this when you know after you drink the damn thing, it will lend up in the toilet bowl?   U and I will have a serious argument I swear!  


[quote author=eku_bear link=topic=625370.msg7928032#msg7928032 date=1300324297]I'm pretty frugal, lol. Some might (and have in the past, unfortunately) even call me cheap  [/quote]So u mean u are a budget kinda persin like me too?

desholah:
Honey
Leme say i'm with your guy . . .I'm just like him.Though i do have plans often and i try as much as i can to meet up with the plans but still spend lavishly . . .It';s not matter of pride or something but it's just a spirit . . .Very natural.
You believe that you work so as to provide for your needs/ and to have fun . . .Who knows when some1 is passing to the Heaven
My advice for you ''If you are really serious bout the relationship'' . .Is to always save on your own . .Save part of the share he gives you for your own needs . . . . .and never try to change him . . .That's not going to work out perfectly and might cause some conflicts.

I got angry when he bought me a Hush Puppy Luggage which was worth almost 500USD. I already have my own bag but he still bought that for me (but I have to admit, he has got taste)   and he said that luggae bag Im carrying is very troublesome for me cause the wheels are stiff unlike this Hush puppy he bought for me is convinient to pull, push and carry and it has so many compartments. But. . . . Oh well.  

And than I got angry when he bought me dresses and jewelleries and shoes and handbags. Infact rhat day I honestly feel so spoilt. He wasn't happy with my reaction and we started arguing and fighting

Advocator:
I think men are more sensitive to the keeping up with the Joneses thing, especially when it comes to electronics, cars and gadgets ,  all very expensive items. Also, I think men have much more fragile egos than women and this is one way they can pump themselves up.

How about u? Are u like that?

fstranger3:
Only yahoo people spend like that.

And we all know why?


I have never seen a naija man spending in such flagrant manner!

Are u calling Mr T a Yahooze boy?

190:
[color=deeppink]Ms.Roperto ( Always concerned about couples )

Yes shes willing 2 learn but so far she's still insisting on stuffing

me with Jamo dishes and i get 2 eat nigerian meal once a month ( too small it should be 3 times a week )[/color]

Tell her to make it once a week.

My baby and I went on a trip to Langkawi Island for a week and I was shocked when he kept like 3 stacks of cash in his pocket and wallet and Im like have u ever heard of a Bank?

He said this is how we roll baby. And the whole week I was feeling very uncomfortable cause everything I say which is nice in a store he would buy them for me and I honestly dont like people doing that for me cause I wasn't brought up that way. . . .

Anyways, I told him to stop spoiling me and he said ok and than he took me to this expensive restaurant and when I open the menu I lost my appetite just looking at the damn price!!! Like say one fish and chips cost about 50 USD. Bloody hell! Can someone shoot me right now? I told him I want one glass of water as I am fasting. And thats when he got a little offended. Than he said can't I spoil you? Why wont I spoil you? (and he even raised his voice when he said that causing me to almost cry)

Anyways, he then explained to me that Nigerian guys are big spenders. They work hard but the play hard too. I dey fear oo for this kinda attitude. I dont know if Im able to accept it or not cause I am a budget kinda person and I dont like spending. Just watching someone spend like that almost gave me a heart atatck and I dont know how hlong more can I stand this

So to all the Nigerian guys out there, why do u have to spend money like you drink water? Or are you with me on this?

Reed, what is going on? Are you Tosinville?

Or are you and Tosinville friends?

What is happening?

190:
[color=deeppink]Potato

I am more than willing to play my part, I have said this countless time

The question is ( IS SHE? ) [/color]

Did u ask her?

What did she say?

desholah:
The girls ofcourse
We need to introduce the mentality where by you can date some1 for couple of hrs then a breakup comes in.

Desholah my dear, so u want every girl on earth to be like ISO (International Standardization of Organization). Common now, we are all not robots. We are humans. Otherwise we girls would also want all of our guys to be romantic, to be a gentlemen, to be rich and so on so forth which you and I know it is not possible.

My dear, you fail to realize the positive sight of both worlds. A white women might be easy to get dumped and she is easy to open her legs for u and she dont play shakara for u and she is very open minded but these kinda ladies might not be wife material meaning they might not know how to clean, cook, take care of their husbands and so on. Well, at least Ive seen women of this background or this behaviour tend to show that kinda example.

But the black women whom might be hard to accept or understand when a man dumped them within a day, have played with you shakara all year long and are not that open minded like them whites, they have been proven to be good wives to their husbands. They have been brought up in a way that it is a compulsory to cook, wash, support your husbands, ne there for your children and so on./

So its your calling. However, I can see now we are generalizing cause not all blacks and whites behave in a certain matter but perhaps we are referring towards a general view.

desholah:
And what to do in order to upgrade their understanding upwards this particular issue? . . hmmm

Who's understanding? The boys or the girls?

U GUYS BETTER MIND YOUR LANGUAGE OOO!!!

MAMA NGOZI IS PISSED RIGHT NOW!

THUNDER GO FIRE YOUR YANSH OOO!

Abeg now. . . Why are you guys being so insultive? Abeg not on my thread ooo. (well, not on anyone's thread for that matta!)

Stop it or else!!!!!

desholah:
You are right bout that . . .And i noticed is becaus we like to live big and proud,dON'T CARE bout what is right and what is wrong . .though we are aware of the difference but not ready to engage . . .
So what you meant by . . . . .That's why became what you are?

I mean that that is why u are asking this question naa. Its like U cannot accept your Naija girls the way they are cause u forggoten your roots in this aspect.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=615769.msg7927606#msg7927606 date=1300318757](@<@)[/quote]What is this? Are u Tosinville?

190, u expect your wife to follow according to your orders and only your needs. That is plain selfish dont you think. Love is about sacrificing to the other person and it works both ways.

And as for your wife, she should at least try to learn as well.

Remember, it takes two hands to clap otherwise the relationship would not work

And as for you boys. Boys will be boys. Ive always said it from before. Its very rare to get a guy to actually listen and follow his family's tradition. Guys tend to go astray and tend to follow exactly on how the environment changes. They always want better things and enjoyment in life not knowing that actually those so called better things are doing them bad in a long period of time

Thats why you became what you became.

desholah:
Yep!!! . . .Now we are talking . , Now you hit the point.
But why is is that some of African ladies that were born or were raised up outside the Africa still feature this african mentality and could not engage to the enviroment the were raised up from?

U are forgetting that althought they might be raised in a place where too much open mindedness takes place but still they were brought up by people whom values their origins and culture.

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt]^{Oh i see . . . but , i mean why should you change em? I guess maybe it is to stay avoid some things you don't want anymore and guild your demanded privacy . Yeah darling , i know you miss my yeye fowl jare , i miss yours too and it would be pretty nice if we start from where we've stop.} [/size]

Pele oo I didnt see your posts

desholah:
Yeah.You got me right bro.
That's exactly what i'm talking bout .BUT I'm 100% sure that trying such act with Nigerian ladies is definitely hard and probably impossible. . . . .
It seems Ms Potato is browsing right from Japan and guess what . . The nuclear explosion is affecting her already

Ehen! See your mouth! LOL!