₦airaland Forum

sheanzy:
what can 100naira actually buy

It can only buy 1zobo and 1 susage roll for a KSU student

Oh, so sad may the souls of the departed rest in peace, dear God please take care of this precious and lucky Child that survived the accident

pls how do I benefit from this, I need to start my own chicken business since I have bn laid off my teaching job due to covid whatever. Any form to fill to qualify..may God help us in this trying period Amen

hyperflex:
Careful of spouses that are prone to anger and violence. One day they will carry it out. May we not marry someone who will kill us

Pls lets be considerate sometimes. How will you feel if someone you completely trust as a wife wake you up at night maybe after a stressful day, and told you that you are not satisfying her sexually and that she has been cheating on you and dat she wants to leave you for dat guy she has bn cheating with. Haba, am also a wife i can not say such hurtful words to my husband..I am not justifying his actions but her manner of approach is not healthy..

BitCraftman:
The problem here is evil communication. It corrupts good manners.
Her problem escalated when she started feeling less attention or satisfaction, and these started when she started hearing about other peoples experiences. She didn't know what she was missing until she started gearing about others having it better than her. I am sure this curiosity led her to the corper she cheated with.

Evil communication, indeed corrupts good manners.

Exactly my point

fcdgrand:
this list will only make brain if she is a virgin

Sometimes even the virgins are not dat Lucky my dear

CSTR2:
He is an idiot. na 3 years time all this nonsense go end.

Exactly

czarr:
what more do you want from nairaland?....you want us to charge her to court?...use your head brother.

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The best answer so far

Sometimes staying on your own is just d best option. I was once in your shoes before i quietly decided that enough is enough. I am the type that can give you my all just the moment you ask for it. But my inlaws started to make it look like i own them dat, i dont really care much about that, fast forward to when i needed their help..i was writing my final pgd exam, pregnant at d same time and kids were on break i pleaded with hubby to take them to d family house that is just 20mins drive from here for me to go and pick them after each exam. When i went to get my kids after exam my mother inlaw told me that she only force herself to stay at home because of my kids i thank her n left with them. The following day i fed and prepare, gave them enough food that will last them for d 3hr i will spend in writing my exam. After exam i rush home to catch some sleep lo and behold my kids were already home, my daughter told me that mama brought them home that today is market, tears drop from my eyes cos my 3kids are just helpless below 6yrs twins and 3yr old brother which were all seated outside waiting for me, i can not lie cos i have a mother that has daughters- inlaw as well. That very moment i decided in my wicked heart never to take my children to her again. Thank God my cousin sister agreed to come look after d kids and even stay extra one month till am done with exam and morning sickness. Its 4months since that incidence mother inlaw is their complaining to her son of not seeing d kids. Is judt me my kids and hubby.,. e

freecocoahubby:
Thank you! I'm so sick of women's double standards and victim playing.

The woman kept following her husband up and down like a mad dog, shouting and insulting him - and he's expected to just sit there and keep silent like a veggie?

He is a human being and he reacted just like most people would... so annoyed that he was begging her sef, like she's some diety. Nonsense!

. Maybe d OP has never kept late night before. She might have thought he is hanging out with some other lady what do you expert her to think at that time of d day. i know d slap wasnt deliberate and maybe she shouldnt have involve her family.. @ Op pls go for her, explain to them whAt happen because i know she must kept d part she playd.Then when you are home with ur wife set some rules and also tell her dat this will definitely b d first and last you wil ever come for her on any misunderstanding dat wasnt 100% your fault, and pls try not to keep latenight again because dats d genesis of d whole problem. We women hate dat with passion cos i will just add extra 1hr for you to be knocking. i fit nag biko

Good one may God bless him.