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@OP does your sister in-law son look like his dad or mom?

My sister's son and my son have a striking resemblance if not for d age difference you did mistake them to be twins. These two kid are a complete carbon copy of my dad their (grandad) even in character and behavior.

Please check where d resemblance is coming before you start creating enemies here and there.

SapaProMax:
People on steady salary are hardly keeping body and soul. For those who are unemployed and without wages, be honest, how are you surviving?

The depression is on another level, sometimes we shade tears to ease stress just to keep hustling.

Why will you be bother about what people will say when you are trying to render a helping hand.

If you scam me into helping you I leave you with God, I will still render help to the next person my conscience leads me even if it still turn out to be scam. Pleasing my inner mind and not having a feeling of quilt is what matters to me most.

Jewessgratitud3:
How you take know ? @ bold.

We were discussing about getting an apartment and she mentioned one money she has that she has told him to go and look for the apartment that the she'll use the money. I now asked her, you want to pay for the apartment he's going to look for? she now changed it immediately that he's the one paying. I asked her, why are you then mentioning your money inside.

My dear... I won't be surprised if she pays and allows him into the house. I won't be surprised.

Shebi I talkam🤷, that's why them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. You don try abeg leave them alone before them use u settle matter.

Just be relating and helping your sister from afar.

Jewessgratitud3:
She said she wants to take them to be with her while he sends money for their upkeep and school fees. She also said she might have to involve social welfare to get this done.

Thanks.will remind her of this again if she insists on going with them

Please encourage her more to go with the kids it will give her more peace of mind to settle down and face her front.
And always remember that the kids did not bargain for a broken home let alone denying them motherly love, how do you even expect an irresponsible man ( quoting you) to take care of 3tender kids??

The way I am seeing it sef your sister will go with both kids and husband..😂😂

Jewessgratitud3:
Yeah I get your standpoint and you have every right to how you treat such people. I remember sometime last year when the guy fell sick and she started caring for him again and I said after all he did to you you still went caring for him on the sick bed? She picked quarrel with me and told me to stop coming to their house.

So I understand you but my church mind any time she calls no dey allow me

Blood is thicker than water and even more thicker when it involved a twin sibling, reasons why she is confiding in you more than your elder sister. Keep helping her as much as it doesn't affect you negatively and also keep praying for her. I also love her hustling spirit..it will definitely get better soon

AntiTerrorist:
Those who gave Tinubu the platform are less than 1% of Nigerians.

Exactly, even Tinubu knows that 99% did not vote for him!!

MisterBanny:
Amen. I'm destined for greatness and I will. Thanks for these words of encouragement. They mean a lot to me. I pray I heal

You are welcome

MisterBanny:
Thank u so much Sir. Her entitlement mentality is what sucks most. There was even a time she sent my kid sister to go and househelp in Porthacourt so she can be getting her salary directly into her account. I was so shocked for a mother to send her daughter to a stranger's house to be a househelp. So terrible

That your mom is a very terrible mother to her kids and also materialistic. Meanwhile try go for mental therapy as advised, I pray you heal soon from all the mental and emotional trauma you've been through so far. I pray the heavens favor you in the shortest possible time, you are destined for greatness Op.

Obierika:
Madam you quoted the wrong person!

I'm sorry please.

garriAndsugar:
OP. how to manage to commit adultery with 120k salary, please explain in Capital letters cos even a single man needs to use your tactics.
only you taking care of your family plus side woman with 4 kids from 120k salary. you go need enter that guinness book oh

Is this your own way of appreciating God for divine upliftment in your place of work ?? You need to stop that ungodly affair to avoid the impeding doom that's so glaring at you.

I wonder how some married people find it so easy to commit adultery 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

Livingstone007:
Eleojo
Ojochenemi
Ojonugwa

Uyo
Ufedo
Okpanachi
Chide

It's painful to lose such a promising young man, may God comfort your mom and the rest of the family. It's well😥

jonero4:
My little nephew was crying because i refuse to eat sand he cook ,in d name of rice.

Next time use your jaw to taste it and pretend to be chewing it tell him that the food is very delicious 😂😂😂

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.


My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.



Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.


Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

It's the gut for me..what has hair got to do with heavenly race, btw most pastors I know keep Afro.

It sounds more like a personal issue and that neighbor of yours is just a compound gossip 👌

Kobojunkie:
I tend to agree with this too. And we are after all talking here of the same people who set ablaze a 7-year-old for stealing garri not that many years ago!

What!!! Setting a 7years ablaze for stealing garri, a child that barely knows his right from the left I dont like reading such heart wrenching news and may his killers never know peace irrespective of long they've committed that atrocity.

I love reading stories online, I stumbled on The reluctant Bride by Tiffanyj's. I kept reading it and other literatures by Ishilove as a ghost then not knowing is possible to register and become a member😂😂 that should be in 2013 or so.. I later register as a member in 2019.

Always looking down on you and telling you that you are below is enough red flag bros.

ahnie:
Helping them taste it indeed

😂

ahnie:
Cornflakes dey hook for throat,my kids forced me to get for them yesterday at the mall,after preparing it for them,they have abandoned it and faced the birdie grains (goldenmorn)

Personally I don't like cornflakes.

Conflakes and Cereal saves life during my school days, these days na taste I the help my children taste after preparing it for the🤭

@op are you still in honey moon, why are you always at home to notice your mother in-law daily visit don't you and wife go to work or are you a stay@home couple??

I am not trying to justify her frequent visit to your home but your manner of approach is wrong, you should have come here to seek for advice on how to stop her instead.

I doubt if your mother in-law will ever be free with you or at your place again. She will read different meaning to that

judatech:
How did they get your pin?
Should be someone close to you

You are right, it happens to me about 10years ago, a roommate stole my Atm card and withdraw 5k from my account. I went to the bank to complain d next about the stolen atm and d withdrawal. That was how they reveal the face of the person that withdraw the money. I collected my money in full no be small shame catch her sef cause even the hall Admin almost expel her from the hostel.

I don't know if atm still capture people's face it could be of help to the O.p

Berrityga:
This one is looking for who to beg on NL. God will punish you and your rechet family if this story is,a lie.

That you are rolling in millions doesn't give you the right to call on God's punishment on the op. Why d insult on his family?

Tears of joy, congratulations to him

Sorry Sir, go for scan as advised. Divine intervention and may God bless the work of your hand🙌🙌

Abortion is not an option for you, and you don't want to birth kids by different women.
The only option you have now is to marry her to avoid abortion and baby mama

Was your death faked, I don't seems to understand abi you just dey play?

OneCandleAway:
That's why women should leave if there is domestic violence. Don't say you'll stay for the children. The mother is the cause of all these

You are absolutely right, I hope she's now happy that her child will be going to prison as a murderer because of her. Children can't stand seeing someone beating or molesting their moms..I don't really blame the boy for trying to protect his mom from a beastly dad. Rip to death and hard luck to their son,

Sorry about your loss, may God restore the stolen items in multiple folds sis.