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ahnie:
How's your boy ma'am,the one that was hit months ago by a tricycle?

Good pm!

He is much better now and has resumes school and other activities already1, but yet to grow his teeth back. Thanks for your concern, truly I appreciate🙏🙏

Good pm ma'am

Happy birthday son, God bless your new age

Btruth:
yes. So much. But she died 2 weeks ago now ....😭😭😭

So painful, sorry for your loss, may God confort you and your siblings.

@op please accept my condolences and allow sleeping dog to lie, arresting her will not bring back the death. Learn from your brother's mistake and avoid such in future.

ahnie:
That's the raw truth I told her,most married women here,their husbands doesn't give them faden,we use our brains to fig out a way to help ourselves,for the sakes of our kids.

And above all,it's good for a woman to have something doing,it eases stress from the man, because he also is dealing with his issues.

There re lots of hustles to indulge in,that brings in money daily.shr just has to potopoto her eyes in other to achieve financial independence or na her kids go suffer.

That's just it, you've said it all!!

ahnie:
You never ready to hustle and help yourself.if you re ready,you go go fyne person whine borrow money.

Go outside into the street and look for hustles your mate are doing,then delve into it.
Food business is lucrative,mama you don necessarily needs to owned a shop,look for empty space,pay a token and cook your food ontop table for night and sell.

Keep your pride or shame aside,shame nor dey help anybody,stay focus on your hustling and everywhere go stew.

It irks me when I see married women becoming liabilities on their husbands.when you as a wife has something doing that brings money and takes you out from the house,your husband sef go fear to talk to you.

Before you accuse me of trying to break your heavenly marriage,nne I m married too,but as a veteran in the game,when a woman starts making money ,it stops see finish and over familiarity in marriage.

And pls try focus on your kids,do not joke with them at all,I do not joke with mine one bit.my husband doesn't necessarily has to give me money before I eat .

Because I don use my blessed hands construct my own table.

Good advice.

All this wahala on top one divorcee? It's very obvious that these are the reasons why her ex divorce her.

Very soon slap alone will not be enough to reset her brain.. before you know you might end up in prison for murder. You better run for your life oo

Oga are you planning to die, did you enter a covenant that you must die before your wife??

I bind and rebuke that spirit of death (thoughts) tormenting your life, be free!!

Ayoleeboy007:
tooth means wisdom and knowledge of this world. so you may not have sense again ;Dtooth means wisdom and knowledge of this world. so you may not have sense again

I reject it for him

sacajawea:
What's that?
You make 1m in Italy? Your hubby pays you??
Your Whole Sentences is not Clear at all

Maybe he/she meant to say "hobby" instead of hubby, who knows!!

Naofumi:
Am 18 and will be 19 next tomorrow. But am not proud of myself.
I don't have any skill at all, no specialties and no motivation.
I've been filled with hatred that I want to kill each and every one that made me feel bad.
My mother and the rest of the family said alot of things to me for not being able to bring money like my elder brother. Am in HND 2 Currently, Computer engineering..... I have a Good GPA of 3.45 (nearly distinction).
But I still hate it, cause even if I got 4.0 no one is there to be proud of me.

Do other children feel the same? If yes then why can't I endure and be like them? I want to work long ago but I was stoped saying am to finish school first.
My father don't provide at all. And every morning the insults begins with me.
What should I do? I've thought of suicide countless times but I couldn't do it. I don't know why..... Maybe am born not to succeed in anything.

My dear you are never a born failure you are a divine project. Start thinking positively because having a negative thought about your self will only blindfold you from your potentials and eventually weigh you.

At 19 you can learn about 1 or 2 skills and become a specialist even before you get to 25 which is till ok, haven't you heard they said "life begins at 40?? This is the right time to start planning how your 40 will look like.

Don't over stress your brain with unnecessary thought and may God forgive your family that's putting you through unnecessary depression. Cheers

I feel your pain, sorry about that please and may God bless that woman that bail you out.

Wetin eyes see mouth no fit talk..
Shege everywhere :

I pray for that grace to locate me then I can rewrite my grass to grace story.

Authoreety:
Easy one... Just go there with the amount for 5 cup of rice and 100 naira useful stuff when the child is not there o...


Buy the 100naira worth stuff... And freely give the woman the whole money, tell her u just feel like blessing somebody today... Then carry your yeye sef out of there... Don't try it again o..

Learnt it's really tough for Nigerians at the moment

That boy will definitely tell his mum one day when being corrected about the price. Mama I sold five cups of rice for this uncle and he gave me 100.

It is more reasonable to say d truth the way it is than for d woman to find out d reason why he feels like blessing somebody dat day.

I don't even go about pricing goods with kids because they can easily be confused talk more of wanting to cheat an innocent child.

PrinceOfLagos:
Then why is Tinubu losing Abuja and even aso rock to Peter Obi

What Buhari did yesterday was eye service , he has stylishly destroyed every thing for Tinubu before this election

Buhari know Tinubu has lost this election

Exactly, it's call eye service like giving to cesser what belongs to cesser..

Modestanewsreel:
That your friend is not serious.
Whether cash or no cash, you should go and serve your God. Don't use flimsy excuses to miss service.

Nobody will challenge you if you don't drop offering. So go!

Exactly

Xedmark:
Well certain people can have PhD in spewing out bullshit. How ungrateful can people be?? the first question is even if the door will open eventually what is the assurance that I wouldn't have passed out before then cos as at when the door eventually opened I was seriously out of breath. If you don't know what to say you can shut your mouth. I owe everything to God cos I don't know why the door got stuck in the first place.

Whenever a thread like this is being created you will see nairaland philosophers with their different opinion about who or who not to give credit to.

Giving credit to God is not out of place because God alone is the giver of knowledge and wisdom to all including the security guys that eventually open d door for you, a job they are employed for.

I am happy for your safety.

Shinfuluan:
Please what herbs did you use. I am currently using Ulsakit and honestly it makes me so weak, bloated, restless. I have just used it for 5 days and to be honest I don't think I want to continue it, the drug does'nt make me feel good at all.

I used unripe pawpaw,
Some make use of unripe plantain.

Maybe you should complain to your doctor about how you react to that medicine, honestly Ulcer can be very tiring . Wishing you a quick recovery

It's well with you son

Lemmy123:
I hope they remove their clothes and lash them hard on their backs too after tying them together.... See their heads like Lokoja rocks

Honestly, that will be the best way to avenge for this kids and then take them to prison finally.

I bet if you ask these kids what they did to deserve this punishment, they don't even know. They are just too young for someone to pick offense in whatever they did to deserve this deadly punishment. Hmmm

carinmom:
Their religion had nothing to do with what happened to them. The fire started after light was restored in the area around 12 am.

Eyaa, so painful. I even though it was gas explosion or some kind of careless act from them.

May God grant their soul eternal rest.

Oloki:
This advice is dope. I too had it but went the herbal way. What I took was very simple that you can even do it yourself.
But, if you talk here now, niralanders will insult your ancestors.

You shouldn't be bothered about their insults considering the fact that some people here grow up in very toxic and abusive home, the only language they understand is insult.

Don't be bully by their insults cause you have a right to freedom of speech and you also have equal right on nairaland so go ahead and express yourself it could be of help to others.

150k and someone said it's too small? some people are just "born with a golden spoon in their mouth". When some of us are looking for Jobs that will keep us preoccupied and busy.

May 2023 be nice to all of us seeking for jobs

IyaTola God will reward you for creating job awareness and opportunities for many on this forum.

Op, which of the ulcer are talking about, you are making it sound like one deadly illness.i will advice you go the local root to cure it because the end product of that milk and yoghurt you are talking about will only worsen the symptoms.

If you are afraid of herbs it's better to get antacid and all those ulcer related medicine instead of milk and yoghurt.

I used to have ulcer, I went the herbal root and for the past two years I haven't had symptoms. Let her also try to avoid anything that will trigger the symptoms.

rickpat:
yes,if everything is square and the crowd that goes for obi's rally,comes out to vote for him on that day..cus coming out to vote is another thing..let the process be free and fair...we should outgrow this stupidity of rigging elections and all that irregularities

That's it, if we can massively come out and vote for our choice candidate instead of staying online shouting Obi.. I pray Obi wins this election for a better Nigeria

PrinceMajestic:
shut up don't claim smart here as if Nigerian pastor has never fhuckd you

I wanted replying you thinking you were d one I qouted.

What a pity

Samfloxin:
So, for three years your daughter couldn't speak out? Even to you the mother? Are you sure you are close to your daughter as a good mother. Let's wait until your. daughter says the whole truth.

Didn't you read where she said the pastor threaten she will die if she reveal it to anyone?

I'v always drum it in my daughter's ear to always report any threat to me no matter how small I also made her to understand that no body has the power to kill her except God, and that's what she has been doing and I've always react to any report from her so she knows I'm always there for her.

My daughter is almost 9years and everything I have been teaching her that partains to a girl child she is also teaching her baby sister of 2+, and whenever I come across such news as this I will call her and read it to her loud and clear �

Parents please educate your female kids it's very important, this news is very disturbing, haba!!!

dmz1:
You go school wella. You sabi summary for english.

Eyaaa how manage naw

Richy4:
The write up is A bit contradicting...or maybe I misunderstood it..

Who is earning salary amongst you that he was betting away? at least I know you were not working...u were into trading..... Does he work and earn a living then gamble it away? Because u said he was depending on you.. Please make it a bit clearer.

<<husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
<<He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money.
<<I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me.


Just asking because If he is working and then gambling it away, the advice you might get will be different from when he isn't working at all.

According to my understanding, he will gamble away his salary and even try to get the little she is using to trade which is also affecting her capital, failure to give him money usually attract malicious living from him.

Autobot05:
Bullsh*t
I even thought I was coming to read something important

Your wife should stop associating with such people as she might be influenced subconsciously

The false drama she created was unnecessary...

Very unnecessary.