₦airaland Forum

Its a problem of homonal inballance.Happend to somebody very close,but she has children now.
All she need is to see a doctor.

The flaring only shows that their is heavy refining going on now.

laksides:
Nope, you can't understand and I don't want to say more on social media.
Presently, RRS helicopter is hoving on the sky around the area now

Need not understand...i live arround there too.

laksides:
Bro, they are militants, they have been terrorizing imose and totowu communities for the past month now, they blocked the waterside that no one is dare to cross over, they are terrorizing because of oil bunkry happening in that communities

They are pipeline vandals...a mixture of yoruba and ilaje boys.Nothing like niger delta militants

kolmart:
Our OPC are toothless dog, what are they still looking for this is not the first time those bastard will storm yoruba land and kill people, but our OPC keep silent is Gani Adams for pipeline survailance alone? OPC over to you proof your worth

You just type trash without knowing what is on ground.
They are yoruba boys vandalizing pipelines along the water side in that area.They are not from Nigerdelta

when i look at the young ones going into gambling/betting,i just feel pity for them.
most of you be like the footbal pool players of old,that wear glasses moving
from one pool office to the other with nothing to show for it.

betting is gambling and its as addictive as heroin.
it has ruined the lives of many people in the western world.

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PLANETMARS:
ur blog reader Is a goat why won't the price of the local oil go up? she should sell at normal rate when the cost of transporting her goods has risen. won't she buy other goods that the pricce hhas sky rocketed? bros tink am na

I think you are the BIG GOAT here because i did not see anywhere the cost of transportation increased

magicminister:
Ever since the P-square brothers got married, its been one trouble after the other.
Some women will bring blessing to your life while others will bring kata-kata.

Anyway, i always advise guys not to get married till they have helped everyone in their family (nuclear family) to stand firm.
I have a friend that got married as soon as he made some millions. His mom is still living in the ghetto, his brother is still unemployed, his sister is still under-employed.

Thats the worst advice i have ever heard...

Wait till you help everybody to stand firm before you start your own family?
Thats a huge joke.

So the guy you know who got married should have made sure his mother is living in luxury apartment and help get his brother to get a job before he gets married abi?

Only a christian without revelation will say that T.B Joshua is a fraud.

This man's ministry is doing great things and well know men of God all over the world has
acknowledged that indeed this is a man of God that has a divine calling from his mother's
womb.

Be you an atheist or a member of the orthodox,all you need to do is kindly hit the road very early
tomorrow and be at the SCOAN church at ikotun and make sure you get a gate
pass to be at the front row and see things for your self.

Better still...if you have enough data,then head on to youtube and watch his videos
of prophecy,discernment,deliverance,healing and demonstration of power through
the name of Jesus Christ.

Of a truth a prophet is not honoured in his home town

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Kx:
Ogbonnaya Transport is perfect. He is from d part of Nigeria that does trade and business and should be able to understand the impact of bad and non existent roads on business; hence, he should be the best to fix naija roads nationwide.

Fashola for Power is like bread on butter. Fash is the right person to fix the power problems. He is more than capable to do it.

Finance to the medical doctor, chartered account cum CFA walking brain is the real definition of right peg in right hole.

Least I forget, Amechi on naija delta is natural.

so ministry of transport is in charge of road construction right?

Keep on exposing your ignorance

kayo80:
Hmm! But the fact is that there are so many closet gay men out there...so many of them married, and living miserable lives, cos they are living a lie. And I think it is unfair to say people chose to be gay. How can any sane man chose a lifestyle that puts his life at danger and that of his family, if he has a choice? People make it seem like these gay men just wake up one morning and say 'yea, I want to be gay' and they turn a switch in their heads, and bam! They are gay. Why don't you try being gay for a day...You can't, cos it is not a choice.

Nobody is born gay...its just a big lie to cover up pervert sexual behaviour.People chose to be gay.

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damton:
Good gesture. Big ups to our gallant troops.

H for house

Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.

discover sexuality keh? he just said he had it with another girl and you are here suggesting some stupid gay/transgender rubbish.

Silly lesbian on the trol

RALPHOW:
Why will a custom officer that suppose to know better involved himself in this scandal? Just too bad.
However Government must look into the adoption system in Nigeria,
Most of the Orphanage homes are money making company, I learnt to adopt a child you spend close to One (1) Million Naira as bribe,
they pretend that adoption is free, it is a big lie.
You give bribe close to a million before they allow you to adopt and if you try to be stubborn especially in government orphanage homes, they will give you a disable child since is their right to give out the child they like.
Also most of the catholic Missionaries will not give out their babies (somebody jokingly said is like they know the children mothers and fathers).
There is need to reform our orphanage homes adoption system law.

1 million keeh? thats very cheap....it get to 3 million most times and they will drag you for close to 3 yrs.
If the parents willingly sold the babies,then i dont blame the customs man

neocortex:
Nigerians will rather buy a child than adopt one,
just to give a fake testimony that they have been blessed
with a set of twins after 10 years barrenness.
SMH for these hypocrites.

#AdoptNotBuy

dont say what you dont know about.
Its 1 million times easier to buy than to adopt in the country.
And the worst part is that it even takes close to three years
to finalize after spending over 2 million naira.

buying is cheaper if the parents willingly sold the babies

MizTyna:
And what happened to adopting? There are lots of children in homes waiting for people to adopt them,but no. People will rather buy kids and pretend they're their biological child than adopt children who need them and will love them as well they'll love their own birth parents

dont say what you dont know about.
Its 1 million times easier to buy than to adopt in the country.
And the worst part is that it even takes close to three years
to finalize after spending over 2 million naira.

buying is cheaper if the parents willingly sold the babies

serves him right

PentiumPro:
So they ran from Alaba to Cele, a distance of about 15 kilometers or more just now?
You are a foolish liar trying to stir up conflict.

You are an idiot and possibly dont live around there.Whats the distance between alaba and cele?FOOL

The guys bought just a flat at the 28th floor and you guys are shouting as if he bought the entire block of flats.

vimo3:
OP - the best marriage counsel usually come from older experienced couples not young unmarried inexperienced individuals.

Nairaland appears to be populated by young inexperienced individuals - heck a lot of commenters are still university students! So please note that it is risky and unwise to rely on their advise.

Regarding your wife, any older couple will tell you that there have been one or two issues that rocked the foundation of their marriage. Only the couple know about it. So my dear, yours will not be the worst.

I suggest you forgive from the depth of your heart and rebuild your trust for her Like many successful couples have had to do again and again.

Your response to his simply shows that you are not married and you are still looking at marriage from the infatuation angle.
How can one marry his elder sister...a supposed grand mother who lied about her age for four good years just to be married and open her legs for her younger brother to remain in the scam?

A woman in menopause tricked a man into marrying her and you are here talking about forgiveness...

Change your orientation for good

Cityguy:
Forgive her, take time off work both of you to heal, focus more on her positives and work towards having your kids cos I don't see any impossibility there. God blessed a family with three sets of twins after 17yrs of waiting. You never can tell what you would run into in your quest for a child from other women. Patience man, your miracle might just be a night away.

The woman has no positive side whatever....all attributes she is putting up is just to stay married to a younger man and keep the man glued to her....its all pretence.I have been in marriage for 10yrs and i know what is obtainable.
If he is my brother,i will make sure the pretender of a woman leaves the house.

Dannyabu:
My Wife Lied About Her Age

Four years ago at 35, I married my wife, who I thought was 35. We both wanted children, but unfortunately, she had miscarriage in the second year and stillbirth in the third year. We began consulting a fertility specialist.

After she started asking questions, my wife admitted she is actually eight years older than she had led me to believe. She's 47 years old! She's cried and cried, begging for my forgiveness.

She's gone to try fertility treatments to get pregnant, but I don't want her to continue that for health reasons. I have forgiven her but as an African man; I'm NOT willing to consider the adoption option. She says, of course, that she feared I would walk away if I knew the truth, but she must have known it would come out sometime, somehow. I think I still love her, she is really a wife material, respectful, lovable and very industrious lady but I feel so betrayed! Letting a husband believe you're years younger than you are with all the implications for child-bearing, is a grotesque deception. Sometimes, I'm always wondering if some things she says are the truth. Moreover, after all the wahala and years in-between, her beauty has really waned. She now looks old! We have become butts of joke from neighbours and even strangers when they see us walking together. I look way younger than she is.

I think of getting another wife, but that has not been my person. I think of divorce, but where do I start? Have I wasted 4 years of my life just like that? We still have faith that miracles do happen. Our pastor has asked me to forgive her and move on, that my ability to forgive her will make her more loyal and obedient to me. She is a naturally good person, but for this act of deception.

Maybe if my wife had been honest with me from the beginning, knowing her age I would have adjusted my planning and expectations for children. But she lied. Should I prove her right in her assumption that when I found out the truth, I would walk away? Any thoughts on helping us get through this? I have given all my resources to make this marriage work.

I need matured and sincere advice please!

Whats all this silly talks of the shameless old woman having a good personality and been a loving wife?

The silly woman only put on that kind of personality in other to get her younger brother(the man) to
marry her because she knew age is not on her side and she is desperate.

The silly shameless woman did not mind opening her legs for her younger brother just to get married.

Forget about all those pretence of been nice,obedience and humble....she is doing all that so that the age
thing will not show up.

A woman that can keep such a secret for 4 good years is not worth been a wife.

Divorce the old cargo and move on with your life and stop living with your mother as a wife.

What nonsense.

Whats all this stupid talks of the shameless old woman having a good personality and been a loving wife?

The stupid woman only put on that kind of personality in other to get her younger brother(the man) to
marry her because she knew age is not on her side and she is desperate.

The stupid shameless woman did not mind opening her legs for her younger brother just to get married.

Forget about all those pretence of been nice,obedience and humble....she is doing all that so that the age
thing will not show up.

A woman that can keep such a secret for 4 good years is not worth been a wife.

Divorce the old cargo and move on with your life and stop living with your mother as a wife.

What nonsense.