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iykedare:
Dumb women are addicted to those sh1t.

theEYe21:
What's the difference between a poor boy and a gold digger didn't you read the stories she wrote about gold digging men . You are advising her to make the same mistake over and over again. You are funny oh! . She should date guys on her level that's the best and only solution.

EcoBlitz:
Your first point was nice, but this is just wrong. Don't generalize, there are guys i know who have had sex with girls and still value them like gold. Sure there is nothing more you could "physically give the guy other than good sex, but doesn't mean there isn't anything you can't give him in other aspects.

Also preserving yourself isn't really the way to "earn respect" from a man as there are a vast number of cases where the wife "preserved" herself, and still the husband couldn't care less about her, and rather focuses on other women. There are also cases where the man just marries her to take her virginity, and after that night, he couldn't give 2 shakes of a rats ass about her, so this you generalization is horrendiously wrong my good sir.

Also, it's not being "smart enough" to know when a guy is serious or not, as people can 'pretend" to be serious, it wouldn't take much from them, it's all an act that they could keep up even in the dream. That's just life. What you have to do is pray tha you'll marry someone who gets and understands you and who loves you truly, as people can pretend to love.

But that's just my opinion.

LegalBaby:
parents arent ALWAYS right tho

enairaprof:
Many atimes we unknowingly affect others response to us. When you tell a family member your salary, you may become the Father Christmas or have your money being planned by them. Sometimes, when we tell our friends they may get jealous or have a feeling of inferiority/superiority complex. So, I ask will you share your salary information with your family/friends? What are your reasons for your decisions?

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

nigeriancritic1:
THE MUSLIM LANDED A FEROCIOUS UPPER CUT

Kyase:
Ahahahaha you soon go two weeks oooooo

Kyase:
And one mod move am go front page sef, without confirming.......

Merlissa:
NOVEMBER


Team Scorpio Baby!!!

hibiscus76:
For so long I've watched guys insult and defame ladies saying girls of these days are loose, a girl comes across a guy, he breaks her heart and she moves on and the next thing he goes about telling his friends that she is loose..who gave you the right..maybe because she willingly gave herself to you thinking you were worth it you start feeling like a boss and calling her loose.
only if there was a way to analyse a guys d**k to know how much sex he has had prior to marriage, we would have known who's more loose between the men and women..
And please I'd like to know what factors you use to characterize a lady as loose and MATURE MINDS ONLY