₦airaland Forum

lilzcee:
i used to talk a bit fluently before buh now i struggle before i say a word, i have tried everything in my power to stop it, if i talk people won't hear what am saying, is it that my talent has beginning to manifest? Is stammering a talent?

isan:
Common civil defence wey no be soldier

toboreSPECs:
fire fighters go nreach there after everything don turn to ash

toboreSPECs:
fire fighters go nreach there after everything don turn to ash

jonaifame22:
My friend is dating my sister behind my back secretly and the little money I give to her to support her,he still manages to deceive her and collect a good part of it frm her and he'll still fvck her again and I'm very sure of that.
Now I met his younger sister on the road and she asked me if I had a small spare fone that I can give to her for her to manage for the mean time, and yes I do have another fone it's a torch 2 I stopped using on december 24th when I bought the bold 5 I'm using now and I made her understand that I have one but it's not a small fone, so I took her home and showed her buh I explained to her that I'll get her a fone or even give her the torch 2 cos I've not used it since last year and it's still in perfect condition,
So as we spoke I jus remembered the time her brother made my sister lie and collect money frm me so he can fix his samsung galaxy screen and afterwards wrote on his watsapp status "thank you bae for the cash gift u're one in a million", there and then I knew it was my time to shine too on his sister
So right there in my room,I began to tell her that I like her very mch and I'm capable of taking care of her of which she knows, then I started lieing to her that she's the reason why I'm still close to her brother cos I hope to get her to date me through her brother and so many other lies I told her of which I can't remember, after that I told her to be free wth me and act like a big gal and everything will be fine,then I held her hands and drew her close to me and she did not resist me and I slept wth her, buh I don't feel like given her the fone cos I told her to come back in the evening to get it after she has done her welcome back sim card.
Should I jus give her the fone since I have achieved my aim, or jus bone up!

FlawlessRebirth2:
.HEHEHEHE

dre11:
CAN trying to whip up sentiments again
I thought we have gone pass this regionalism politics

Sunshine2016:
Hi,

Would really appreciate your advice. Please try to be kind. I am extremely nervous and stressed out :-(. I'm a 29 year old female and my boyfriend is 33 years old. We are both working/ have decent jobs.

Some months ago, I started a relationship with a guy whom I had been friends with for a year. He's everything I've prayed for- gentle, kind, loving, committed and generous. We started the relationship and he quickly made it clear that he wanted to marry me.

He's met my mother and I've met his parents and they all approve. Our parents are however yet to meet and the plan was for them to do so very soon so we can commence weddng preparations. He's already ordered the ring but it's in Dubai and he can't get it until may.

He's supposed to see my mum this week in order to formally ask her permission to marry me. He's already informed her of his intention to marry me but now wants to formally seek her permission in line with Yoruba tradition.

However, yesterday I found out that I'm pregnant for him. He's very supportive and although naturally a bit scared he's happy and wants us to marry by June latest before I start showing.

We've agreed to inform out parents this week ( after he formally seeks my hand in marriage from my mother ) and thereafter commence preparations for our wedding in June. Right now, I'm just so terrified about how to tell my mum. She's a very strict christian in Mountain of Fire. She loves me but is deeply religious. She was pregnant for my dad before they got married but she's now a very strong christian so frowns on premarital sex.

I'm so terrified as I don't want to disappoint her. My boyfriend wants to marry me by June, no doubt about that and is being be supportive. He has offered to even go with me to tell my mum.

In a nutshell, I'm wondering how to go about telling my mum? Will she forgive me? Should we tel his parents first or tell my mum first ? Thanks a lot for reading.

valencia25:
Please share the experience

Cutehector:
Marriage will never phase out, instead it will be on d increase.


7 women will say to one man, pls let us bear ur name, so that we avoid d shame of being unmarried.

publicenemy:
Ever since my secondary school days I have wondered why some guys still think being nice to women is and should be part of every man's psyche. I see guys sending their last kobo on a girl that's financially buoyant. I see guys risking their lives for ladies and I see guys fighting or quarrelling over ladies, I see friends breaking up becos of women, I see brothers fight etc and up till this very moment guys still think being nice to ladies wherever you find them is paramount. BULlSHIT ! ... Show more love to fellow guys than ladies. Unless she is ur sister or ur wife.

Ladies forget fast how nice you treat them becos they see it as a normal thing for guys to be nice to them. And there are several guys being nice to a lady at every given time so they can always forget one. Its better to be nice to a fellow guy than be nice to a lady. I had a female friend that got a very beautiful phone as a gift and within hours of getting the gift I got to her house and saw the beautiful phone, I envied the pphone and asked how how much she bought it only for her to repply me saying " Na one yeye guy buy the yeye phone for me. I no know whether na this kind phone he mate dey buy for woman" and I asked her if she was dating the guy and she said no that he is just a friend.

Once a lady gets married her business with you is over all the nice things you did or bought for her is down the drain but for a fellow guy its even the beginning of ur friendship... A guy will never forget the good deeds you did for him and there are very huge chances that you will meet a guy again somewhere in life, and most likely in a working or hustling environment... But for ladies they seldom even leave their home and are constantly looking for guys to assist them.

So guys please start being men and start showing more love to fellow guys not ladies you barely even know.