wunmi590:
Good day Niralanders,

I was just wondering, from the topic above, do foreigners really fancy Nigerian education to enrol in it?


Throughout my almost 14years as a graduate, I always see school fees for indigenes, non indigenes and foreigners, so this came to my mind again, if people travel all the way from abroad to study in Nigeria?

Yes other African countries .I could remember someone from my unit in ourschool fellowship from a French speaking country

IconicR:
Do you live around a bushy area?

I'm sure you won't sleep in that house for one week

Do you think it's the only one there?
Ewwww

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you don't really want the guy to sleep in that house, see your question 🤣🤣

OriOko88:

You stupid fool coming online to spill trash from mouth.So any old man now is closer to his grave. What about young men also dying at their prime? Watch ur mouth,don't wish people death so u won't go before them. Its a warning. Oponu apoda

Are you mad? Can't you be polite ? I am sorry for your parents, they failed in training you .Na woman go still manage this fool .Get out of here .If you nor sabi talk, you nor go shut up ? Get out

Openfortruth:
I greet you all Nairalanders.

Please permit me to share this thing my brother is doing to me.

As my life was about to become useless in the village, I came to the city to stay with my older brother and learn phone repairs.

My plan is to have this handwork so that when i gain admission, i wont rely totally only on education which has failed many in the country.

But my blood brother I'm staying with is behaving unkind to me as though i am a total stranger to him. Even total strangers deserve better treatment.

I'm only an apprenctice and yet to start making money. Most of the days, i trek to the place and return because I dont have transport.

He leave house first before me and return before me too. Before I would come back, he would cook noodles and finish it, washed the pot and everything and keep them clean as though nothing happened. Sometimes he eat outside and come back home and ignore me.

Except there's another way for me, that is how I would go hungry throughout the night and as early as possible in the morning, he would leave the house without reasoning anything food.

I'm seriously starving. I thought he would share the little he has with me till I also start making money. Is this how a senior brother should behave with the junior one?

He's being unkind to me and now I feel like hiding the Garri I brought from the village from him.

But is this how we should behave as blood brothers?

He can't even be there for me to free from this apprenticeship.

My guy I know you feel but do not hide your garri from him.God looks at the heart when he wants to bless ,nor be who first come this world be criteria for God's blessings .Give him your garri to eat, add sugar join am...when you go make am, the thing go loud

lexylaw40:


https://thenewsguru.com/news/korofo-stand-up-order-yoruba-apex-group-strips-obasanjo-of-all-chieftaincy-titles/

No need for all that, the man is already old and closer to his grave

Anytime he touches you, shout, scream, use your slippers, books to hit him and show that you dont like it.Dont keep quiet if not he will continue to touch you , even he will touch everywhere thinking that you like it , silence is consent .So speak up, scream oooo

IconicR:
When will parents who failed their kids understand that they are not entitled to anything from such kids and whatever they get should be considered as charity ?

All these is as a result of how most of these religious leaders interpret the holy book

You should not feel bad over anything kos you owe them nothing but you may choose to still be kind to them each time you have but not under any duress

If she couldn't stand for you in your trying times please don't give her that chance of breaking you.

Satisfy your conscience and ignore the rest.

Brother when you have give it to her, even if it is N2k , N5k or whatever you can give.Be consistent and God will bless you beyond your imagination .Remember the rejected stone becomes the chief corner stone

verybadmouth:
Road Safety officer trying to stop a moving bus, caused an accident also got crushed to death in Lagos



Credit: Orimili Eri @OrimiliEri

This is no news to me.If you see the way these guys behave on the road, especially those government task force it is too bad.I can see many of them getting killed .Last two Fridays , one was chasing my vehicle, he opened the door while the car was on speed I had to tell the driver to stop because at that rate he will be crushed to death if he falls down.
Please I know that the government told you to check vehicles for their papers but overdo it .Remember your beautiful wife and lovely kids at home.Who will take care of them when you are gone ?

Ogbenison1:
Why not? Let the man breathe ✌
Children's school
Gas
Car fuel
Children's gadgets
Feeding at home
Clothing money
Children's provisions
Family members etc.
Stop suffocating the men, please let us BREATHE

Some times I just pity men.This is one of the reasons why we have a lot of widows...They are just killing my gender with a lot of responsibilities .
Please it is your marriage.If you really married your friend why can't you help him ? Are you not one, why are you in competition with each other ?

Sit your wife down and discuss with her.Ask her what does she really want ?

UnconventionalT:
Copied

"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

You better dump him now...as in asap because if he gets into your pant, he will dump you asap.Wise up!

OladipupoIyowun:


https://dailytrust.com/im-richer-than-most-of-the-men-seeking-to-marry-me-says-skit-maker/

My dear you are getting it all wrong .Marriage is not all about who is richer or poorer.It is all about two people coming together to become better, stronger etc.They can achieve great things together when they are in one accord .Stop comparing yourself with anybody.That is why celebrity marriages do not last longer than the wedding souvenirs.

Reflect7:
See enjoyment.

This man na real Jagaban.

No wonder he nor dey reason us for this country

You don't need advice, na slap you need to reset the brain.Apart from that cheat, you mean you can't ate someone else ? Leave that chronic cheat and focus on someone.

orohbiro:
I feel embarass

Funnily, I don't look at a lady's buttocks because buttocks do not settle quarrel

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

Marriage is more than speaking English.When you enter then you will know that silence is also a comment

fineboynl:
I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.

But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.

Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.

From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?

Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.

Ask about her culture and tradition. Also ask her what led to her husband's death

BrighterThanDay:
Why is it that even when it is so clear from all indications that your daughter is married to an irresponsible man who is toxic. Nigerian parents will still say endure and stay there.

A lot of married young ladies are down with depression and even high BP because of marital stress. But they have to remain there. It's just so sad

Did the parents choose the spouse ? The parents can only break it for the lady if they chose the man for her.Nor be only you bring the toxic man say you love am ?

helinues:
Have you not been walking naked already with your utterances?

A grandpa behaving like a toddler

Exactly! He dey wear clothes before ?

AnonPoet:



https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1684158425511391234?t=aJED7VDNBgsVAmQbyywY2w&s=19

How has the mighty lion fallen to be compared with lower animals? I thought we are the mighty Lion, ruling Africa, setting the pace, the Landmark, Trailblazer? But now ,we are compared with the lowest ,the worst with all our natural resources .. Too bad

jidowu84:
It's so painful to write this here cos I am feeling very bad right now. I don't know how to deal with this matter cos it's actually driving me crazy. He is a very wicked soul for sure but his wickedness ought not to affect my family. Kindly advise on what to do. Leaving the job is inevitable but no job in site as an option for now

Please tell us why he refused to pay you

Fancy4e:
here in abuja, they all got an sms from jamb, the problem with Nigeria is that we all don’t want to see the truth in it…. The question should be, y can’t jamb reset another exam for her, so everyone will see her performance. Is quiet simple.

Look at what you are saying, if JAMB should set another exam for her, will she pass? She nor gor reach 180 self

amadil14:
Good day all,
I met my wife 4years ago, before we got married she told me that she has a boyfriend and she do call him pet name as ( MAJESTY) and I do see it wen ever he calls her not until our relationship became strong and we eventually got married.
However, before we got married my wife changed her sim card entirely and even till today I have never witness any strange number call her and we have been happily marriage.

Not until last week, my wife older sister gave birth to a baby girl and we both went to visit her and the baby with gifts. Infact my wife took along with her so many things in our house including baby baff my mum bought for her wen she put to birth.

My worry now is that, my wife sister named her daughter after my wife ex boyfriend and that has been disturbing me because the name still rings in my memory and I'm yet to know why among so many names on earth why I'll she chose (MAJESTY) as a name for her new born?

Note: this my wife sister is not yet married, she just got pregnant for a married man even as I write, the married is claimed to have traveled to London.

Please ur kind advice is highly needed.

Thank.

Oga all the priblems wey Nigeria get, na this one dey worry you ?

Jokanem:
What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

After creating the first man and woman, God brought them together in marriage. He instituted marriage as a special bond between a man and a woman as a foundation for the family unit.—Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18.

God wants married couples to be happy. (Proverbs 5:18) In the Bible, he provides standards for marriage as well as principles that can help a marriage succeed.

What are God’s standards for marriage?
From the beginning, God created marriage to be a union of one man and one woman. (Genesis 2:24) God does not approve of polygamy, homosexual acts, or couples living together without marriage. (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Jesus taught his followers to adhere to God’s original standard for marriage.—Mark 10:6-8.

In God’s eyes, marriage creates a permanent bond. When a man and a woman get married, they promise to be loyal to each other and to stay together for as long as they are both alive. God expects them to keep that promise.—Mark 10:9.

What about separation and divorce?

There may be times when a husband and wife must be apart from each other, such as when one mate needs to travel to care for a family emergency. But the Bible discourages separation resulting from marital problems. Instead, it urges couples in such a situation to work toward reconciliation.—1 Corinthians 7:10.

Adultery is the only Scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if a husband and wife decide to separate or to divorce for any reason other than adultery, neither partner is Scripturally free to date someone else or to remarry.—Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11.

Does a marriage need to be registered legally to be approved by God?

God expects Christians to obey secular laws regarding marriage. (Titus 3:1) When it is possible for a couple to register their marriage legally, their doing so shows respect for secular authorities and for God’s standard that marriage is a lasting commitment. a

What roles and responsibilities does the Bible assign to husbands and wives?

Shared responsibilities. Husbands and wives should treat each other with love and respect. (Ephesians 5:33) They should care for each other’s sexual needs in a loving way and avoid all forms of unfaithfulness. (1 Corinthians 7:3; Hebrews 13:4) If they have children, husbands and wives share the responsibility of raising them.—Proverbs 6:20

The Bible does not discuss in detail how married couples should share secular work and household chores. They can decide together what will work best for their family.

A husband’s role.

The Bible says that “a husband is head of his wife.” (Ephesians 5:23) He is the head in the sense that he should guide his family and make decisions that will benefit his wife and children.

He should strive to ensure that their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are cared for. (1 Timothy 5: He shows that he values his wife’s qualities and capabilities by working closely with her and by carefully considering her opinion and feelings when making decisions. (Proverbs 31:11, 28) The Bible says that a husband ought to care for his responsibilities in a loving way.—Colossians 3:19.

A wife’s role.

The Bible says that a “wife should have deep respect for her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33) God is pleased when a wife respects the role that he assigned to her husband.

Her role is to assist her husband, helping him to make good decisions and supporting his headship. (Genesis 2:18) The Bible speaks highly of a wife who fulfills her important role in marriage.—Proverbs 31:10.

Does God require married couples today to have children?

No. In the past, God commanded some of his worshippers to have children. (Genesis 1:28; 9:1) But Christians are not bound by that instruction. Jesus never commanded his followers to have children. Neither did any of his early disciples say that married couples must have children. Couples can decide for themselves whether they will raise a family.

How can the Bible help your marriage?

The Bible contains principles that can help couples get their marriage off to a good start. Bible principles can also help couples to avoid or overcome difficulties.

Bible principles can help a married couple to . . .

show true love.—1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Colossians 3:14.

deal with differences.—1 Corinthians 10:24.

be good listeners.—James 1:19.

show respect.—Romans 12:10.

be forgiving.—1 Peter 4:8.

be loyal.—Mark 10:9.

be patient.—Ephesians 4:2, 3.

work as a team.—Ecclesiastes 4:9.

strengthen their commitment.—Song of Solomon 8:7.

Regarding the Bible’s view of customary or tribal marriages, see The Watchtower of October 15, 2006, page 21, paragraph 12.

Bible verses about marriage
Proverbs 18:22: “The one who finds a good wife has found something good.”

Meaning: The Bible speaks positively about marriage.

Malachi 2:15: “Do not deal treacherously with the wife of your youth.”

Meaning: God wants husbands and wives to be faithful to each other and to treat each other respectfully, even after many years of marriage.

Mark 10:9: “What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

Meaning: God intended for marriage to be a permanent bond of companionship.

Hebrews 13:4: “Let marriage be honorable among all.”

Meaning: Couples should place a high value on their marriage and work hard to protect it.

1 Corinthians 7:28: “Those who [marry] will have tribulation in their flesh.”

Meaning: No marriage is perfect; couples need to work together to overcome challenges.

Thank you very much for this write up .Please I want to ask, where in the Bible they mention getting married in a church, inviting people for reception, inviting a dj and a mc, spraying money and buying ashebi?

Jennyclay:
Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!

But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long

Just avoid them! Shikena!!

lol Na mum dey listen to people for social media ....if they check well you fit dey on top of a man while typing this

Candidlady:
Picture please

You are not serious

Wordsfrombimpe:
Some men hide their family

Which even as a lady if you don't know his family you are dating yourself

What about when he knows her family and she doesn't want to know his family ?

Freshtruth:
Why he didn't answer and greet his Mother he told me those guys was his new friends and they will not allow him.to mingle with them if the find out his mum is a bolle seller and the girls might laugh at him. Why we somebody be ashamed of his parents because they are poor na wa. The funniest thing this guy still come to their house and eat and he is the only son for that matter.

Someone that can be ashamed of his parents for doing a legit business, na son ? Is that one a son ?

Acekidc4:
Chef Dammy will soon Collect her Own too. Congrats to Hilda and Congrats to Chef Dammy in Advance.

Until then

OloYeOfEgbE:
DELTA STATE

Delta State? Are you serious or you don't know what they are talking about

Mrsoft3:
The same Buhari that failed here?

Someone that could not fix his economy, rather he spoilt it in in multiple folds , wants to tell others how to fix their economy.

Tallesty1:
That is Nigerians for you. Do one thing and succeed, and everyone will rush in like a swarm of ants. There is this street here with no kiosk/provision store for years, then one woman opened one, and it became popular. The next thing we knew, there were more than 10 stores in that street alone. The POS business is another example. There is a POS for every family now.

you want to bust my rib .".there is POS in every family now "