farous:
Can a graduate with over 13 years working experience accept job offer of N85,000 monthly salary simply because the person's company had challenges and is out of job.

The daily transport to and fro to work is atleast N1,500 and such a person will still have to buy and eat morning and afternoon food,dress well and has a family. Above all,because of traffic and distance to workplace,such a person will be leaving house atleast by 5am and coming home can reach 10pm.

Is it worth it?,Kindly advise

Manage it till you get a better one.However, don't ever call that a job.It is a work, or simply call it hustling

Are you for real, carry a multinational problem to a friendly Olympic game , you just sold off your carrier

Can you imagine the nonsense.Na so he love he country? As for Nigeria, I know no average Nigerian can do that unless he is from the North...Am I even sure they can do that now that the country is like this?

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

First of all, you went to tell the church what happened and you were suspended .So the truth did not set you free.But seriously it may even shock you that the baby is not yours.She is just trying to put it on you since you are willing yo accept it .Wait o..just 2-5minutes sex that put you in this predicament so.God abeg oo

BigDawsNet:


Fingers are not equal bro

Life no balance

True talk

BigDawsNet:



Atleast you have something

What about someone that cannot afford 500na to attend interview or someone that cannot even eat 2 square meal a day... graduate for that matter

In the same country Cubuna is throwing money on the ground like water ?

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Someone you are not married to cannot give you peace of mind, is it when you marry her you will start having peace of mind ? In summary let her go so that your wife will come

BigDawsNet:
Forgive me but my list is important

Actually we have jobs but too many applicants (Over population)

The limited job are shared among some tribes which is very wrong...it suppose to be equal...we are all cititzen of the country and we have right and authorization to work

Greediness: we have thousands of employed citizen in different organisation competing with an unemployed person for new vacancies...how can you be managing somewhere with 60-70k income and you are dragging job with someone that borrow money to attend an interview...


Electricity: if we don't have constant electricity in the country, forget it...we will lack lots of jobs on our soil...you can't attract a foreign investors when you can't even produce a 5hours power... Sometimes I just imagine how much MTN, GLO and rest spend on fuel just to stay online

Finally

Security When the country is in deepshiit.. you will scare off a potential investors...just imagine if you won a $500m lottery...will you invest your money on Yemen soil?...
Na suya terrorist go take ur meat do...

Let's our government solve this terrorist bandits watever issue..then we can welcome people who are ready to create thousands of job for our people

60-70k nor be job ..it is either a work or hustle ..

Cvclue11:
Waiting until you're unemployed before seeking for new work is akin to waiting until you've lost your job before starting to save a portion of your income. It's just not a smart idea to take it.

It's best to start looking for work while you're still employed. First and foremost, if you do receive an offer, you will be in a better position to negotiate a higher salary because your prospective employer will be aware that you already have a job and will be able to decline their offer if you are unhappy with it. It also alleviates the stress of being at home wondering how long it will take you to find work.

We tell new graduates all the time that the best time to start looking for a job is during their senior year.
Start talking to your job-seeking friends and your professional network. Many Nigerian undergraduates take part-time or full-time jobs while attending school, which may surprise you. Starting to apply for jobs, especially entry-level opportunities, in the last few months of your National Youth Service Corps service year is also a good idea. It's important to remember that NYSC is not a job. As a result, it will be finished.

What kinds of jobs should you look into?
Is it reasonable for a recent Theatre Arts graduate to apply for the position of Head, Internal Audit at Zenith Bank, where applicants must have at least 7 years of experience? The answer is no, and the reasons are self-evident. It's a job you're not cut out for. Instead, when seeking for work, apply to locations where you know you'll at the very least be invited for an interview.

You can't continually applying for positions that you're ineligible for and then be surprised when you're not hired. For example, if you get a degree in mass communication from a Nigerian college,
When seeking for work, your Cv isn't a joke - it's the equivalent of an arrow to an archer for a job seeker. Unless you're waiting for a miracle or a favor from a wealthy uncle, your chances of landing a good job are minimal if you don't have a solid Cv.

Treat your Cv with care and respect; build it as if it were a home, with a strong foundation. It should be as small as feasible. Make it a perfect reflection of your professional experience, abilities, and achievements at all times.

Your Cv should not appear like a novel, regardless of how many years of experience you have or how many businesses you have worked with (with too many pages).

Employers are seeking for certain characteristics.
Employers are in the business of establishing a brand and assembling a workforce capable of delivering results, being trusted, and representing the brand in many roles. As a result, it's no surprise that some recruitment processes are perceived as time-consuming. In some situations, potential applicants are subjected to a battery of tests, as well as a series of interviews and assessments.
The goal is to hire the best candidate possible. When it comes to hiring individuals for job openings, we've compiled a list of the top attributes employers look for. The interview and your Cv are two ways to assess some of the qualities stated before.

Keep an eye on your curriculum vitae.
When looking for work, your Cv is not a joke — a Cv is to a job seeker what an arrow is to an archer. If you don't have a solid Cv, your odds of finding a good job are slim, unless you're hoping for a miracle or a favor from a wealthy uncle.

Treat your Cv with respect and affection; construct it as if it were a home, with a solid foundation. Make it as small as possible. At all times, make it a perfect representation of your professional experience, capabilities, and accomplishments.

Regardless of how many years of experience you have or how many organizations you have worked with, your Cv should not look like a novel (with too many pages).

My guy you can not be looking for a job when you have a good job already.It is either you have a work and not a job or you don dey fall your hand already for where you dey work.

Ezeama400:
17-Year-Old Who Got Highest 2019 UTME Score, Others Offered $4.35 Million Scholarships To Study In United States



http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/15/17-year-old-who-got-highest-2019-utme-score-others-offered-435-million-scholarships-study

This is what we are saying ...not BBN winner collecting 60-80million naira after staying in a house eating, playing , kissing and romancing all the babes in the house

MrCover:
Update From . COM

A Nigerian man, Maduadichie Cyprian, who engaged in menial jobs and used the proceeds to sponsor himself through school, has taken to his social media handle to celebrate his graduation, Reports.

Posting photos of himself doing the menial jobs alongside photos of himself on the day of his final paper, Cyprian wrote, As Obtained By Below:

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https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2956884074554032&id=100006974058902

After all this suffering person will now be waiting for Npower 33k that cannot even buy 1 bag of rice .God abeg oo

pyyxxaro:
Start coughing every 5mins , strong cough oh

Make sure your eyes are red

Go and get fake doctor report


Tell her you have acute tuberculosis

Just de cough , de sneeze , de messs continuously at the same time


Before day go break she go don reach GOD IS GOOD MOTORS

My guy it will not work.She will be so caring to you .You are even giving her more reasons to bring her clothes to the house so that she can take care of you

peppermint7:
Boss no vex harmattan done de fall already for you

The thing reach to ask

KristaPretty:
If anyone tells me to go and marry like other ladies, I will tell them to go and die as their mates too.

Una goodnight

God abeg o..Please take it easy

Missambitious:
Hmm...In this 21st century I've come to realize that most governors lack vision hence the substandard projects.

If a Governor commission this one, what then will local government chairman commission?

Local government chairman do not do anything in Nigeria. They are just there to cash out

ezenwaez:


The N-Power NASIMS physical verification will commence any moment from now as the N-Power NASIMS deployment list has been sent to all 36 States focal persons accross Nigeria.

All N-Power Batch C applicants are hereby advised to be observant and constantly checking their emails and NASIMS self service portal for further directives.

My guy it takes nothing less than 50k to feed someone for a month, apart from money for house rent.So N30k monthly means nothing in this economy

onuman:


The southsouth which should have been the first area to be equipped with standard gauge rail lines before other parts of Nigeria, if Nigeria were to be a normal country and run by normal people.

It is quite pitiable that the resources are taken to other part of country.

hilltop007:
Hello, I am corper serving in a semi-urban area in the north central region of Nigeria. My monthly allowance is N33,000 plus my employer's monthly stipend of N4,000. My monthly total earning is N37,000.

Below is my monthly budget (NGN)

TRANSPORT - 3200
GAS - 1600
FOOD - 15,580
DATA & AIRTIME - 1500
MISCELLANEOUS - 1500

TOTAL MONTHLY EXPENSES - 23,000 (apx)

TOTAL MONTHLY SAVINGS - 14,000 + budget surplus

I have learnt to be frugal and only pay for needs and not wants ever since I started service because cost of living in Nigeria is very high. I am also brain storming on business and farming ideas to venture into to supplement my earnings.

Corpers in the house, how much do you earn, spend and save monthly?

My guy you really tried.Those of us who are ex corps members in South South spend your whole salary for transportation and fuel

post=102715960:

Actor, Mofe Duncan, shared the photo of a bunch of plantain that cost N6000. He posted the photo on his IG page with the caption, Reports.

From The Update Gathered By , '' This 3 & ¾ bunch of plantain cost N6000 (six thousand naira). Read that again.
? #WhereDoWeGoFromHere ?''

See The Photo As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

My guy that is pure lie.Abeg remove one zero so that we can assume that it is costly in your area.If not, na full time scam

Robertkenny:
Adepetun R. Kehinde

A lot of my friends are in companies that they don't want to be in, have a routine that they hate and are frustrated almost three times a week. When I try to reason with them and tell them to quit their job and try for a better job or startup, it doesn't work, because I get the following answers
• I need to gain more experience here then I will quit
• If I leave so early it will put a bad impression on my resume
• You got lucky, doesn't mean I will
• I don't have any contacts, don't know where to start
Apparently the approach of asking them to leave never worked but there had to be another way. Because when someone gets trapped in the circle of their excuses it's difficult for them to get out unless someone else shows them a unique way, mine was this.
I told them "Don't quit your job, just give 10 interviews."
What does that mean?
Instead of telling them to quit, I told them just check out ten companies you would like to work at, mail them, tweet to them or check out their careers page and give an interview with them. That's it, no big deal, only ten interviews. And give the interviews like you have nothing to lose.
One of my friends got a double package offer in the second interview he gave, one in the first she gave. They both quit their jobs.
Just give ten interviews in the next 4-6 weeks, that's it, no big deal.

Shared from Bogger

What will you do if you hate your job?

Stories for the gods.I know several persons here
must have applied more than 400 times yet no interviews..

Ctorch:
Gov Obiano of Anambra state steps Out In a Youthful Attire

Lol Election don reach ?

prof2007:


https://punchng.com/spray-naira-notes-and-go-to-jail-cbn-tells-nigerians/

With una rubbish naira note...2dollars is your highest currency.. Very shameful

Robertkenny:
Mrs. Precious

The government job is better even if it pays 40k instead of private job which pays 70k.
I've worked in private sector and can confirm that Nigeria private sector jobs are terrible. For that 70k a private sector company will take 140k worth of work out of you. Most of the times, even though official timings were 9 to 5 Monday to Saturday, I rarely left my office at 5 and most of the days left around 7pm and sometimes even worked on Sundays.
Now I'm in govt job, I arrive at office at 9am and leave at 5pm without any problem.

In private job I was happy with salary initially for 2 -3 months but after that I realised few things:

1. I was getting fat because of only 5 hour sleep and drinking sugary coffee to keep myself awake in office

2. My private job was making me work 2–3 times more than normal and only paying 70k

3. No time with family and the little time I got was used by me to sleep and recover physically than interact with family

4. Since all Saturdays were working I had no time to visit bank or to do any household chores as on Sunday also I needed to take rest and could hardly move a muscle.

5. Everyday I used to curse my job but still had to work and give 100 percent otherwise I would get in the bad books of boss.

6. After 1 year of struggle the private job increased my salary by 5k, and my salary became 75k. But that hardly satisfied me as I realized expectations from me had increased even more. That meant I was given even more work than I could take.

7. Now I'm in govt job which pays me 60k a month plus benefits. And I'm happier. More respect for work done. The public gives a heartfelt thank you when I do work for them. I feel I'm contributing to the nation. I spend more time with family.

Once you have worked in Pvt and govt sector you will realise that govt sector pays more for per hours work done than Pvt Sector.

Thank you Bogger for sharing my story.

Which do you prefer Private or Government Job?

It is all about the money whether government job or private ...provided they pay on time

omolola100:
My mother advice me never to look for a rich man who is well do whenever i'm set to get married.
she said i should marry a man that we will both start our life from the foundation, according to my mum, she said it is better to suffer with man to acquire wealth, than to go for a ready made soup.

Looking at the way things are going now, do you think a woman will now stoop so low and marry a poor man that is trying to make ends meet? Although, money is not love, but why would a parent wish her daughter to marry a poor man, i am begining to see my mum as a bad mother who does'nt wish me well.
Is it advisable i follow my mothers advice? I should stay in SURULERE instead of OLORUNSOGO.

Alright Queen Elizabeth. You can go ahead and look for a rich guy who works in an oil and gas company or has his own company .When you find one that will marry you and not let make you a baby mama,let us know so that we can call your mum a bad woman .By the way, make sure he is not sacked or loses his company since the money is your goal

ekene101:
1. Hard target
2. True lies
3. Conan the barbarian
4. Mard
5. Commando
6. Terminator
7. Robocop
8. James bond spy who loves me
9.
10. Predator
11. Mortal Kombat
12. Terminator
13. Home alone
14. Baby day out
15. Anaconda
16. Drunken master
17. Who am i
18. King Solomon's mine
19. Airforce 1
20. The mummy
21.
22. Face off
23. Conair
24. Merlin
25.
26.
27. Issakaba
28. Water world
29.
30. Black hawk down
31. Blood diamond
32. Tears of the sun
33. Set it off



I yaf tried...

8.James Bond 9.Cyborg

Explorers:


Bros you don old small, you don try abeg.

You go don get like 3pikins na

3 is wrong, 16, 29 and 32.

8- James Bond and 9 Cyborg

Na scam oooooooooo

Jeon:

He's not romantic and caring.

That's why I hate people with pride and ego

Though I believe the man has pride but it is all about "Manner of approach"

One4me:



You are right and it still has not stopped deadbeat, low-life Ladies from opening their legs wide for any Tom, Dike and Hillary from spouting his Onions inside them!
I know most ladies see men as their passport out of poverty (Ooh, that is so misogynistic ) since they know that the money will come straight out of his Paycheck, the only contribution of such low-life Women is to just open their own legs wide and get bleeped vigorously.
Women dont want to work and earn a livin anymore, they prefer just to be bleeped, get pregnant and be whining all over an unwanted Child and l dont blame them, l blame people like you who think that is a proper way of life.

Civilized, deadbeat, lowlife love Peddler-ladies all over the place.

Exactly.Most of them do not work.Facebook and Instagram is now the work ladies do now.You see them 24hours on social media dancing and uploading pictures .Do you know you can know the story of their lives through those sites without asking them questions? Ask those ladies now the full meaning of NTA,the reply you will get will sadden you

ProfAmaben:
But you opened your legs for a man that doesn't have 13k to waste on balloons?

I feel sad for you

Dont mind her.Broke babies everywhere.Is it a crime for a lady to spend on her child ? Must a man do everything for you ?

blazepascal:
Lion is a fearsome beast and it' s almost difficult for any other animal or beast to pick a fight with a new maned lion.

Frequently regarded as the King of the jungle, the ruler of the animal, Lion is really strong and effective.

Human stands small hazard towards any form of wild beast mainly a Lion, with it is long and structure claws and teeth.
Lion is one animal you ought to run a ways away from when you see it however in the Bible there are information of guys that stood toe to toe with a lion and got here out victorious.

First was Samson
Judges 14: 5- 6 " Then went Sam' son down, and his father and his mother, to Tim' nath, and come to the winery of Tim' nath: and, behold, a younger Lion roared towards him.

And the Spirit of the Lord got here mightily upon him, and he hire him as he would have lease a Kid, and he had nothing in his hand: however he told not his father or his mom what he has done.

Impressive right?

He killed it with so an awful lot ease, if you study extra about Samson you will know he is like the superman of the bible

Second individual was once younger David

1 Samuel 17: 34- 36 " David then said to Saul ' your servant became a shepherd of his father' s flock, and a lion got here also a bear, and each carried off a sheep from the flock.

I went after it and struck it down and rescued it from its mouth. When it rose up in opposition to me, I grabbed it with the aid of its fur and struck it down and put it to death

Your servant struck down each the lion and bear. . . "

David most be one very robust boy to have killed a lion as nicely as a bear with his naked hands.
Samson and David are famous bible names, but any one else additionally killed a lion

I am certain many people won' t be aware of who I am speaking of, he is a very mighty soldier in David military

Let' s discover what their name is

2 Samuel 23: 20 " And Be- naíah the son of Jehoi' a- da, the son of a valiant man, of Kab' ze- el, who had executed many acts, he sleep two lionlike men of Mo' ab: he went down also and slew a Lion in the midst of a pot in time of snow: "

Who do you consider will be the strongest one of the three?

Nice references but in the last illustration, it wasn't a lion that was killed .."Lionlike men" I believe it was a figurative expression .So I will conclude by saying only David and Samson that killed lions in the Bible

darhray:
Hi nairalanders, i am 25 years of age and i just graduate from school, still writing my project, through working online, i make atleast 40-50k monthly, please i want to know if this is enough for me, Thanks.

It depends on where you are living right now.One basket of garri is now N1300, fuel is N165, beans is N1700 etc Everything is costly these days.You need at least 150k to say you are trying in this Buhari regime

obembet:
When a couple truly love each other, they shower each other with gifts, love and affection as is within their reach. As much as showing love to your spouse is important, doing what is within your reach and capacity is VERY VERY important.

Nigerian men are after ur body.. no love. No care. All what they want is sex.

U will hear something like... if u truly love me, let have sex

Babe are you sure ? I could remember when I was dating someone, we hug each other while sleeping naked.I can hardly pick a day when I didn't sleep naked hugging her on the bed