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lofty900:
Say no to overspending

Daniyemi:
Hi everyone!
So the other day I posted the dilemma I was in and thankfully some of you gave me matured advice. Here is the link to the thread : https://www.nairaland.com/3697979/love-two-girls-wants-one.

I was In love with two ladies and wanted to pick one. I eventually settled with one.


The problem is the lady I picked I took her home to show my mum and she was super shocked. (She is unaware that I and my ex had parted ways.) She rebuked me strongly and warned me not to think of bringing any girl to the house to show her if not my ex. (I understand she really like my ex).
She didn't even give any reason for rejecting the girl I brought she just didn't want to even hear us out.

I had to allow the girl go in peace. Thankfully we had not gone far in the relationship. Not like I don't love her. But I think I love my ex more. Poor me right? (Currently single).

The big problem here is my ex doesn't even talk to me, she doesn't pick my calls. If only she would come back I'd ensure that the mistakes I did that led to the breakup in the first place won't arise again (we dated for three years). She went through a lot with me when I was still a student and broke. I am comfortable and I wanna reward her.

My question now is was I right to let the girl go on account that my ex has the love of my mum? (I love her too still) The girl I introduced to my mum was always complaining of my attitude to the relationship anyway. (She was always complaining of how I don't ever stop talking about my ex).

Has anyone broken up with his/her ex and reconciled a second time with the relationship strong like it was before? If peradventure she has a boyfriend what are my chances of succeeding considering the fact that we dated for long.(more than 3 and a half years.

Should I try harder in convincing my mum to accept the girl?

Love is really complicated. I feel like just being alone forever.


Insults are welcomed as usual.

Daniyemi:
Hi everyone!
So the other day I posted the dilemma I was in and thankfully some of you gave me matured advice. Here is the link to the thread : https://www.nairaland.com/3697979/love-two-girls-wants-one.

I was In love with two ladies and wanted to pick one. I eventually settled with one.


The problem is the lady I picked I took her home to show my mum and she was super shocked. (She is unaware that I and my ex had parted ways.) She rebuked me strongly and warned me not to think of bringing any girl to the house to show her if not my ex. (I understand she really like my ex).
She didn't even give any reason for rejecting the girl I brought she just didn't want to even hear us out.

I had to allow the girl go in peace. Thankfully we had not gone far in the relationship. Not like I don't love her. But I think I love my ex more. Poor me right? (Currently single).

The big problem here is my ex doesn't even talk to me, she doesn't pick my calls. If only she would come back I'd ensure that the mistakes I did that led to the breakup in the first place won't arise again (we dated for three years). She went through a lot with me when I was still a student and broke. I am comfortable and I wanna reward her.

My question now is was I right to let the girl go on account that my ex has the love of my mum? (I love her too still) The girl I introduced to my mum was always complaining of my attitude to the relationship anyway. (She was always complaining of how I don't ever stop talking about my ex).

Has anyone broken up with his/her ex and reconciled a second time with the relationship strong like it was before? If peradventure she has a boyfriend what are my chances of succeeding considering the fact that we dated for long.(more than 3 and a half years.

Should I try harder in convincing my mum to accept the girl?

Love is really complicated. I feel like just being alone forever.


Insults are welcomed as usual.

Two female robbers who were caught with bundles of master keys which they use to steal from unsuspecting victims say they started the criminal act because of the hardship in Nigeria.

The thieves, who were identified as, Uchechi and Favour, confessed that they started stealing due to the bad financial state of the country.

They revealed that they were involved in prostitution before they decided to turn into thieves.

Uchechi and Favour revealed that they robbed people because of the hardship in Nigeria

Uchechi and Favour confessed to the crimes after they were caught and forced to swim inside dirty gutter by policemen.


The robbers claimed that since they moved to Port-Harcourt last year they had only stolen from two places.


Watch video of their confession below:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCKoFzXBN5c&feature=youtu.be

MarieSucre:
Wrong. it took me many days to come on Nairaland. unlike you I have a life outside Nairaland. Hahahaha jobless mofo

MarieSucre:
Hahahahahaha small pikin na im you be.

importexpert:
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importexpert:
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Stelvin101:
Just open the door. I wan tell u something

Stelvin101:
I hear u Oga. Professor in Harvard.

Dannieln1:
swear say u no wetin e be first time


B4 Google come helep yu

IVORY2009:
This sector commander na really over sabi man, how can dis stop the rate of accident in our roads

Stelvin101:
You wey understand am clap for urself

RealHaute:
Wai

KenModi:
Gh

ecdcyber:
Ok

Dannieln1:
R

Epositive:
A

MarieSucre:
Hehehehehe, this 'e pain am' shitt is getting old nah.

Just try to have sense Abeg.

MarieSucre:
Make she go find big-big boys far above her age, una go still complain. Wetin concern you??

Shelloween:
Munachi Abii how market?

psucc:
He should due them. After the much media trial