Politics › Re: "I Am Not A Kingmaker" - President Buhari by Nackzy: 1:07pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
You're not a kingmaker, you're a terrorist, Heartless, clueless, worst person ever created by God into the world. |
Politics › Re: Buhari: Working 6 To 8 Hours At My Age Is No Joke by Nackzy: 12:05pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Weldone brother you're doing well |
Romance › Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nackzy: 10:28am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Jaylynn: Okay, I know I'm gonna get a whole lot from you guys. But y'all take it easy. My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them. OP we know it's you |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Gifts $3000 To Upcoming Singer Who Grabbed His Feet(vide by Nackzy: 5:06pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Woaw that's 1.5 million plus |
Sports › Re: Al Shabab May Not Release Ighalo For AFCON - Sources by Nackzy: 12:12pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Who's igahlo, OP you would have said salah n we understand |
Business › Re: 10 Golden Rules To Make You A Better Money Saver In 2022 by Nackzy: 9:58am On Jan 03, 2022 |
Incisive Op thumbs up |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool by Nackzy: 12:00pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
Omo this match na Draw or |
Romance › Re: Check Out My New Year Pictures, Shey I Fine? (pics) by Nackzy: 9:13am On Jan 02, 2022 |
Why is it in front page |
Politics › Re: These Fulani Men Are No Bandits But Land Grabbers by Nackzy: 9:51am On Jan 01, 2022 |
They're all the same, only that they operate in different frequency |
Politics › Re: Northerners Are Religiously Attached To Bandits, Terrorists: Buratai by Nackzy: 9:50am On Jan 01, 2022 |
It is their major business |
Romance › Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Nackzy: 10:56am On Dec 30, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: "Cover Your Hubby's unclothedness, There's No Perfect Hubby"- Pst Adejumo: Video by Nackzy: 8:08am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Madam has seen it all |
Romance › Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Nackzy: 7:59am On Dec 30, 2021 |
GurlFriend: I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.
My Experience
I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'
My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.
That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.
So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.
I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.
He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?
Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.
I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.
After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.
Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?
That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.
Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.
What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.
I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men. Girl it's unfortunate you weren't lucky with your choice of man simple, Let's have a private conversation if you don't mind |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Your Transport Fare For Those Traveling For Christmas by Nackzy: 5:21pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Vickym1:
 17,500
Ọ ya pay for me  From where to where |
Politics › Re: Electoral Bill: Senators Dissolve Into Closed-door Session by Nackzy: 11:38am On Dec 22, 2021 |
Thunder Fire Buhari |
Celebrities › Re: Fan Offers His Girlfriend To Wizkid During Show by Nackzy: 11:38am On Dec 22, 2021 |
Foolish worthless Man, You can't Substitute Dignity and Prestige with Fame, Don't Sacrifice Deep Joy for Shallow Happiness |
Celebrities › Re: Chucks Chyke Buries His Father In Abia Amidst Tears (Photos) by Nackzy: 6:28am On Dec 21, 2021 |
This happened many weeks ago now haba nairaland with old news |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Meets Aliko Dangote At The Airport (Photos, Video) by Nackzy: 8:26pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Small money meets big money |
Politics › Re: Daura Emirate To Turban Buhari’s Son, Yusuf by Nackzy: 1:13pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Rubbish |
Business › Re: 8 Reasons The eNaira Could Fail In Nigeria by Nackzy: 1:12pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
The platform is faulty from the beginning |
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Bible Character Would You Pick For A Hangout And Why? by Nackzy: 12:24pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
My Current Church is the only true church on earth Surface, The Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.. |
Education › Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Nackzy: 10:32am On Dec 04, 2021 |
NovesaTillie: The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder  Honestly i don't know how you reason and where you come from, please check yourself, you're not Okay |
Politics › Re: DSS Spends ₦500Million On Nnamdi Kanu’s Court Appearance - Sahara Reporters by Nackzy: 3:33pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
They are really cashing out |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got A Job Interview by Nackzy: 12:08pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
tosyne55: Good morning Nlanders Pls does anyone know about this company: Dear Applicant, You are invited for an INTERVIEW with Rybid Position (B.D.S) Venue: 150b, Oba Ogunji Rd Ogba Lagos.
Hope it's not GNLD people lol OP Run oooooooooo |
Sports › Re: Tuchel Drops Christensen Over Contract Delay by Nackzy: 12:44pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Pls don't drop him ooo, injuries will set in in December and January |
Celebrities › Re: I Didn’t Know We Were Rich Until I Was 13, Davido Speaks On Billionaire Dad by Nackzy: 12:42pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Because they don't use to allow you mingle with poor children or people from the street |
Politics › Re: Endsars; Lai Mohammed Is A Hero, He Deserves The Highest National Honour by Nackzy: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
He is a hero in lying business |
Romance › Re: Gate Man Crashes His Boss' Car Into The Fence While He Was Away Wahala by Nackzy: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Wahala be like bicycle |
Politics › Re: Buhari, Ramaphosa Hold Talks Amid Omicron Variant Concerns by Nackzy: 12:39pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Like he understand wat Omicrion means |
Politics › Re: Kogi Shows Nigeria That Buhari’s Administration Is Winning The War On Graft by Nackzy: 12:38pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Story |
Crime › Re: [PHOTOS] How Man In Akwa Ibom Killed Wife, Lived With Corpse For Days Inside Hou by Nackzy: 12:37pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Man From the pit of Hell, how can you kill someone and stay in the room with the corpse |
Health › Re: COVID-19 Update For November 30 2021 In Nigeria by Nackzy: 12:36pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Omicrion |