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Curing Mastitis in Woman especially breastfeeding Mothers

Depending on what you want, some mothers run away from this issue, so they refused to breastfeed their baby.

So they take medication to stop the milk from being produce and they went straight to using Baby Formula for their Babies.

Mastitis is very common in breast feeding mothers, the problem might be from infection. but what really happen is that we have been bitten by our child. This will make the breast tissue to swell.

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what causes mastitis in breast

Infections

Curing Mastitis in Breast Feeding Mothers


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/curing-mastitis-in-woman-especially-breastfeeding-mothers.html


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Correcting a Child Bullying other Children

Hey writer, where are we going? LOL

This is a big task to talk about especially from parents to guidance to teachers to foster parents.

It is a topic that call for attention.

If your child bully other children, the child’s actions are really inappropriate.

Turn the table around, would you have wanted your child’s bully near your child?



How to correct a bullying child.

First an apology may have been made but as a mom, I wouldn’t want your child near my child. If your child hasn’t apologised.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/correcting-a-child-bullying-other-children.html


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Do Men have monthly moody cycles like women?

I bet our ladies are asking them self this questions and begging to know the answer.

The answer is YES.

The unfortunate reality is that Male Psychology and Physiology is not that closely observed, studied and openly researched on.

There is this misconception that a lot of “female issues” are not exactly (surprise! Surprise!) “exclusive to women”.

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Andropause is male menopause. Men has his mood swings monthly too.

Also, Hormones unbalance in men will also cause mood swing, depression or other symptoms, similar to women’s PMS or Menopause in women.

Mood swing can also be as a result of Money. if men don’t have money, they have a bad mood.

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How to help Men with Mood swing



https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/do-men-have-monthly-moody-cycles-like-women.html


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Can my kid go for Halloween Horror Night

Your kid must have been disturbing about the Halloween and you must make a choice as a parent.

You cannot hold your kids forever and moreover, you need to let your kid have some freedom and learn some independence.

Depending on the age of the kid in question.



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There are rules do you to give your kids


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/can-my-kid-go-for-halloween-horror-night.html

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Menstrual Pain Reliever for a teen

There is a first time of doing things, this post/article is for a first timer (teen).

What not to do during Menstruation

During menses, don’t drink any cold drinks.


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/menstrual-pain-reliever-for-a-teen-first-timer.html


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Advise to Parents that want their Child to be their Failed dream Career

This is a big one for me and you. Our parents are the Mr and Mrs know it all.

Some parents can tell you what to eat and what not to eat, where to go and where not to go. This and that.

Should we blame the parents? That would be a capital No.

Some are just being protective, while some parents just don’t want you to take a wrong decision.

Little did they know that they are becoming the pain in the Axx.

As a parent, you need to let go of the grip, loose it a bit or else you might loose your child. Not to death, but there may be an everlasting gap between you and your Child.

Because you wanted to be a doctor and your parents doesn’t have money to sponsored you or you are less privileged at that doesn’t make it a mandatory for your child to be.

The fact that you are running a Family Business doesn’t make your child a business person.

Children are born with their own Inspiration and aspirations. We are to guide them and not to cage them.

How to be a better parents in choosing a career for your child.

How to guide your child in career choice.

Question your child about it to see how much is a dream and how much is well thought out.

Success starts with a dream don’t get onto him for being at the first step.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/advise-to-parents-that-want-their-child-to-be-their-failed-dream-career.html


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Stopping your Child from Acting like the Boss of the House

Sometimes our kids like to act like our boss.

Some kids get bossy.

It’s not their fault, it is your fault as a parent. When you over pamper a child, this is one of the result it produce.



You turn to the slave and they be the one to command you.

Well , here is a solution for you.

Let go off the power struggle .

There are no bosses in a parent Child relationship.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/stopping-your-child-from-acting-like-the-boss.html

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Communicating with toddlers and newborn

Who is a Toddler

A Toddler is a baby whose age is between 1 – 3.

Child a newborn is an infant or baby that is less than a year old.

When do we start communicating with a toddler or a child.

Communication starts at the 3rd month of a baby. Toddlers are much easier to communicate with.

No one can ”talk” to our babies to know what exactly they want.

It’s jus a process for you to learn to read signs , their cries as every baby is different..



A Toddler will learn to understand what we said to them as we talk and teach them and response accordingly over time with gesture , actions or some noise.



Read it all via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/communicating-with-toddlers-and-newborn.html


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Would you go for adoption or fostering of a Child?

There are times as a parent that we need o make a decision.

In this case, it’s fostering of a Child or adoption of a child.

Please note that this is just an opinion and not to influence, the final decision is yours to make.

Fostering is the raising and upbringing of a child that is not yours.

You are not the one that give birth to the child you are fostering.



Neither is the child you are fostering bearing your Name.

Fostering is helping another people to raise up their Child.

While

Adoption of a child is when you get a legal backings to own a Child that is not yours.

Going to Court, informing the Government that you want the child to be yours forever, bearing your name and that you have the resources and capabilities to raise up the child.

Reasons for Fostering and Adoption of a Child.

Finish reading via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/would-you-go-for-adoption-or-fostering-of-a-child.html



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At what Age should a Kid stop Opening birthday Present in from of Guest

 

This might sound ridiculous but it is a big issue for some parents.

But we got you Covered.

So much time would be spent opening presents when they all just want to have fun.

But If your child hasn’t had many parties with school friends, you would wanted your child to have the play time with everyone instead.



Some Parents are a Believer of thank you cards so everyone will know how much their gift was appreciated with a personal note.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/at-what-age-should-a-kid-stop-opening-birthday-present-in-from-of-guest.html


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Raising emotionally mature children

To raise emotionally mature children, we must communicate effectively with them as a good example.

That means noticing if we are rolling our eyes, sighing or tutting to show displeasure. Be mindful not to make passive-aggressive comments or act like there is no issue.

We must be clear and not expect children to know what we are thinking or what we want and instead ask directly.



Asking Directly for what you need might include:

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/raising-emotionally-mature-children.html

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Is it Safe to use Sleeping Medicine for Babies

As a parent why would you be so concerned about using a sleeping medicine for your baby?

There are some things that are designed by nature and you can’t cheat it.

Using sleeping medicine for your baby would do the following



It will mess up their natural sleep hormones



Finish reading via

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/is-it-safe-to-use-sleeping-medicine-for-babies.html





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The Most Important lesson a child should learn

We failed at times as a parent because we failed to tell our child one or two things about life.

Well, you haven’t fail as a parent until you fail to raise a good, God fearing children who are self dependent and have respects for others etc.

Below tips would help you a great deal.

1. Nothing in life is free, and if you think youre owed something you haven’t earned you need to self reflect

2.Love and Happiness: Have to be happy no matter what happen.

3. confidence , Morals

Finish reading via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/the-most-important-lesson-a-child-should-learn.html

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Top 5 ways to keep your home happy, healthy and functioning!

1. Set routines / schedules:

This means everything has a place and there’s an order to when and how things get done . The easiest way to have an organized calm morning is to start the night before – ( chores, place for back pack snacks, papers to sign etc.)

Let the kids have a snack or change clothes after school before starting homework – allow them to talk about their day – ask questions ( open ended ) this is where you find out a lot. If they answers with one word keep asking in different ways.

2. Have family time and individual time:

This means when you are together as a family that’s it. No phones or t.v you can use the something happy and something crappy method to start conversation. Everyone is present and connected .

You can even do the family date nights as well where you try cooking new foods together, watch a new genre of movie , read a book together.

Individual time – married couples need a date night schedule at least two per month where you date your spouse- ( could be a walk , movie night , dinner – doesn’t have to cost anything) no kids and no talk about work or joint life – this is time to get to know your spouse again –
If you’re single – you need time alone too – plan a yoga girls night in or something that gets you away from kids and work.

Finish it via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/5-ways-to-keep-your-home-happy-healthy-and-functioning.html


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Self Care tips for Parents

Many parents are after the perfect look of their sons and daughters while neglecting their own looks.

Because you are a parents doesn’t make you less a human.

Some mothers especially looks rough, they nearly forget how time pass, they forget how beautiful they are when single.

No wonder your husband’s always have a side chick or extra marital affairs.



Well, this is a topic we would like to talk about in details..

Tips for parents.

You can put on a face mask while your kid are in the bath tub…

Pluck the eyebrows/ rip off the mustache when you feel uglier than usual, retouch the hair when feeling greasy, shave your legs at least twice a week, whiten my teeth with charcoal every couple weeks.

Prioritise how to take care of yourself on a deeper level.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/self-care-tips-for-parents.html



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Meeting your Daughters Boyfriend

This is a big thing for some parents.Africans especially Nigerians don’t ever wanted to meet their daughters boyfriend.

Is it possible for your daughter not to have a boyfriend?

Hiding your daughter in close doors with heavy armor Tank and the rest would not stop them from being bad.



What you got to do is to guide them right.

If you want to meet your daughters boyfriend have fun with it! This is a beautiful, nerve wracking, rewarding, empowering, and usually messy, part of parenting.

Make sure to have intentional and pointed conversations with the boys who want to date them.

Basically have this same conversation with your daughter first. Then with the boy.

Read it all via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/meeting-your-daughters-boyfriend.html

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A child not wanting to go to school, any help?

There is a stage in a child that they don’t want to go to school.

In Africa, Especially NIGERIA. Parents would beat the hell out of the child that refuses to go school without investigation.

Well, that’s a bad parenting. We need to wise up And grew up our child in a proper way using the techniques below.



Ask if someone is bullying your child

African parents don’t ask questions, there may be some groups abusing your child either in school or on the way home. Bullying will make the child inferior and would affect the mental health of the child.

Sexual Harassment

Finish it via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/child-not-wanting-to-go-to-school-any-help.html

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Handling a Child that lie

This is a big issue for parents, it really get you mad or angry if your child start to lie.

If or when you child lie, bigger part of it is your fault as a parent. How is it your fault?

Children tell lies if they have been honest before and by being honest they still got punished.

Sometimes, we parents can’t tell if our child is telling lies or truth,so we beat or punished them even when they are telling the truth. Kids / children are smarter than you.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/handling-a-child-that-lie.html

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Supporting Grief and Loss in Children

Grief is an inevitable part of life. But that doesn’t make it easier to face it.

It gets exceptionally rough on children to come to terms with losses because they don’t know what to make of it.

These memories will keep bugging them their entire life if not handled properly.

If we deal with it in a healthy way, then it becomes personal growth. But, if not, then children can go in a downward spiral from where it is difficult to come back.

So here is how you can help them cope with the loss of a loved one and the sorrow that comes with it.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/supporting-grief-and-loss-in-children.html

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kids asking annoying questions, what to do

As parents we shouldn’t be trying to silence our children’s curiosity because it’s annoying and you’re worried about what other people might think about your parenting.

I personally don’t see any issue with a kid asking these kinds of questions.

He’s thinking for himself and not just following orders blindly without question. I see that as a good thing.



Gentle parenting relies on natural consequences.

If they refuse to put on their rain coat they get wet.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/kids-asking-annoying-questions-what-to-do.html


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Caught your child masturbating? What to do

Parenting or should I say bringing young ones into grownups or adulthood is a big task.

Many parents have failed this task, even though it is not simple as it may look.

As a parent, you came in from work and saw your child masturbating, what will you do?

There is nothing to worry about, you need to ask yourself some questions and below might help you in addressing the issue.



Age of the child:

How old is the child in question ? Is the child old enough to practice such an act. Kids love to explore and experiment a lot.

You know you can’t beat your child anymore, what if it’s a child below 12 years old, how would you handle such child.

You can tell the child what the child is doing is not right for his age. You can find one or too scope to deviate the mind of the child from such act. If the child is not up to 12 years old and the child is practicing masturbation.

Environmental Factors

Finish the reading via https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/caught-your-child-masturbating-what-to-do.html

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Older kids not wanting to play with their younger kids, way out

We all passed through this stage in Life whether we agree or not and it is happening again between our kids.

This issue has been discord / distance between adults because in one stage of their life from kids to adult, they reached a stage they don’t want to play together again. They grew up with it and it still remain like that unsolved.

Some people mistakenly call this adulthood. Is this what adult Life is all about? We grew apart from the people we love and we try to create ties with the people we barely know.

What a sick Life.

How do we solve this problem?

How can we make older kids to play with their younger kids?


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/older-kids-not-wanting-to-play-with-their-younger-kids-way-out.html

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What Age can you send your kids errands

So many parents are always eager to send their kids an errand either to buy something for them or do something for them.

Sending kids on errand mostly ease the stress on their parents.



At what age can you send your kids errands?

Age is not really a factor nowadays because the world is not what it used to be anymore.

But rather consider the following factors before sending your kids an errand.

How safe is your city and area

Security is a major challenges throughout the world these days. We have kidnappers ever where, ritualism everywhere and other stuff.

Is your area safe for you to send your kids errands?


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/what-age-can-you-send-your-kids-errands.html


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Best way to stop a child from Bed-wetting

Bed wetting is a big issue for children and it give their parents a lot of concern because

The ammonia from the urine might spoilt the bed

It would be a disgrace to the parents and the kid if the kid went out to stay with a neighbor or family.

When it’s not corrected as a child, it would be a big problem to correct as adult.

Below might help you as a parent to stop your child from bed-wetting



How to stop bed-wetting

Don’t give heavy food to your child at late night because digesting the food will require a lot of water and lead to a lot of water excretion.

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/best-way-to-stop-a-child-from-bed-wetting.html

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Solution to falling hair after giving birth

We are here again at it on parenting blog where we help parents from across the globe.



You might experience loosing your hair few months after giving birth, there is nothing to worry about, we got you covered.

When you loose your hair after giving birth, this is because of falling estrogen level.

How do you manage estrogen level after giving birth?

You can increase it back to norm by eating good and balance meal.

Taking your vitamins as supplement to help you quickly recover.

How do you manage your falling hair

Solution to falling hair after birth

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/solution-to-falling-hair-after-giving-birth.html

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Organic herb for easy Baby DeliveryMany woman are already pregnant and dont know which leavea might help them in their baby delivery.




Organic herb for easy baby delivery, ParentingOrganic herb for easy baby delivery, ParentingWell, i have a simple solution for you.I dont know if you have heard about Corchorus olitorius


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/organic-herb-for-easy-baby-delivery.html

To get pregnant is not as easy as some people may think.

While it is easy for some people, it might be a lot of hard work for others.

How to get Pregnant Using Organic Herb, Parenting

This post is about the herbs to use to get pregnant.

While this post is for pregnancy seekers all around the world.

To have intercourse with a woman, make sure its not her safe period.

Make sure its a day or two after her monthly visit.

Look for .....


Finish it via

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/how-to-get-pregnant-using-organic-herb.html

Have you been worried on what to give your child after you stop breastfeeding that would not reduce the child’s immunity or you have been looking for food to help your child with immunity grwoth?

Best Food for a child’s Strong Immunity, Parenting

This article is for you.

Do not forget that you will breastfeed your child for a minimum of one year after which you will start introducing the child to foods which are rich in prebiotics etc.

Prebiotics food you can introduce to your child are not limited to the followings


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/best-food-for-a-childs-strong-immunity.html

Tips to finding affordable Diaper

Whether you say diaper or pampers, it doesn’t matter much, what matters is that it’s your baby that would use it.

Looking at the cost of things these days, some parents can’t afford a regular diaper.

Tips to finding affordable Diaper, Parenting

We know how important a diaper is for a baby and we know they would be needing much. How many diapers would you use will depends on the age of your child.

Finish the article via
https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/tips-to-finding-affordable-diaper.html

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When is the right time for a child to shave themselve
There is no particular age a child should start shaving themselve because all child are not the same.

Some child are hairy while others are not

Some child are more careful while others are not

Some child are smarter than the others.

What ever Category you should should fall in will determine when tge child would start shaving

The age your child would start shaving also depends on how hygienic the child and it also depends on you parents

Have the parent teach the child how to handle razor?

Have you thought your child the safety of the razor?

If you as a parent can not answer the above question, i think you can introduce the child to electric methos of shaving using battery or rechargeable clipper to be on a safer side .

When is the right time for a child to Shave themselve, Parenting
When should a boy start shaving down there?
A boy can start shaving if he meets the above criteria.

If the boy is hairy ,etc. Read the above

But overal, at the age of 10. A boy can start shaving

Should a ten year old shave pubic hair?
If the ten year old has hair in the pubic, the answer is yes

And for hygiene purpose .. Yea

What happens when you shave your mustache too early

Should a 13 year old shave his mustache
The world is going weird,wha mustache would a 13 year old possibly have?

How often should a 14 year old shave
As often as the hair os growing

Should a 14 year old shave pubic hair
For hygiene purpose . Yea

When should a girl start shaving under arm
A girl can start shaving under arm at the age of 10. Provided she meets the above criteria

What age should a girl start shaving under
At the age of 12

When should a girl start shaving her leg
A girl can start shaving her leg at the age of 8

Can a ten year old use hair removal cream
No. The cream is made of chemicals .

Unless its organic

Why does my 4 year old have pubic hair
The world is ending


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what should a child of four be able to do?
A four years old chils in Nigeria should be in Nursery one, if things are going normal with the child or with the parent.

There are situation where the child would be a faster learner or the parents are so much in a hurry to see their child in higher classes. In this such cases, the child might already be in primary 1 (Basic 1) .

And in cases where the child is a Special child that needed attention, the child might not be in Nursery 1 as expected. Dont worry if your child is here. We would have drop more update on this.

Fimish the article via

https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/what-should-a-child-of-four-be-able-to-do.html

when is the right time to go for antenatal
There is no right time for Antenatal and there is no wrong time for antenatal but for your own Safety and the Safety of your Unborn Baby, it is better to go for Antenatal as early as 2 month of Age (8 weeks).

What are antenatal classes?
Antenatal Classes are you attend when you are pregnant. It is strictly for Pregnant woman, ladies and mothers.

What do they do in Antenatal Classes?
Antenatal classes are a madium or oppprtunity for pregnant women to excercise themself and to be active.

Some pregnant woman are always slow and sluggish in doing their normal daily activities and running of theor homes and Family.

Antenatal classes also teach pregnant woman what to eat and what not to eat.

Antenatal classes enables the doctor to check the pregnant woman’s healtg and that of the baby.

By going to Antenatal classes, the pregnant woman would recieve the necessary injections and do the necessary test recommended by the doctor.

Cost of Registering for Antenatal
Cost of Antenatal varies from Region to region and from places to places.

In Nigeria here, it is from 10, 000 upward.


https://www.parents.com.ng/parenting/when-is-the-right-time-to-go-for-antenatal.html