“There’s a common misconception that people think that women get immediately wet just as men can almost immediately get hard,” says Wendy Strgar, author of Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy. “Even after a woman starts getting wet, that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s ready for penetration. Women’s arousal starts in the brain, which is why men should consider ‘setting the mood’ far in advance of se*ual play.”

So how do you ensure that she has the best experience in the bedroom and that her body reaps the full benefits? Here, women share the real things that get them wet:
1. Talk To Her

Communication is the arguably one of the most important foundations of a relationship, and that extends to more than just friendly banter and debates. Many studies and recent research indicate that having an open, healthy conversation about your s*x life — both out of and in the bedroom — will benefit both you and your partner in the long run. Feeling comfortable enough to talk dirty and express how you like it (and where you like it) shows your girlfriend how committed you are to a healthy s*xual dialogue. Lucy, a 28-year-old in London, says when her and her boyfriend are really going at it, she loves when he whispers into her ear something he enjoys doing or taunts her. It instantly makes her more turned on.
2. Don’t Be Afraid Of Her Body

“So many guys start by touching me and when I make any sort of noise, they push harder or stop and try to have s*x right away, and it’s a big turn off,” says Chicago-based 29-year-old, Rebecca. “I wish men would take more time to listen and learn how to touch me down there instead of rushing it to get to s*x.” It’s estimated that most men — sorry to break it to you — have no idea how to handlethe female clitoris, even though it should be the first priority during touching, oral and vag!na! s*x. Next time you’re starting to venture South, ask your girl to show you exactly what she likes, ask questions and be receptive to feedback. She’ll thank you — many times over.
3. Make Eye Contact

Though simply looking lovingly into her eyes isn’t going to make her instantly get wet, the lesson here is making intimacy a priority in your relationship and your s*x life. “Sometimes while we’re having s*x, my boyfriend will stop, kiss me really hard and look me directly into the eyes as he continues,” 27-year-old Nicole from Boston says. “There’s something so intense when he does it and it makes me want to pull him even deeper inside of me.” While this is an easy feat in missionary, consider adding this layer of connection while doing it doggy by asking her to look at you and kissing her with intensely. This shows her how much you’re invested in not only getting each other off, but making sure you’re working as a team and your passion is strong.
4. Don’t Be Quiet

Just like you enjoy hearing her moans and groans during s*x, your girlfriend gets turned on when you respond to her movements and techniques too. “It drives me crazy when a guy is quiet in bed! Especially when I’m working hard to make sure he’s happy,” Kayla, 25, from Miami says. “When I do hear a guy really getting into it, it makes me turned on and more into giving him what he wants.” Though you might be conditioned to keep it quiet (thanks to early days of masturbating in your childhood bedroom) it’s actually counterproductive to getting your girl excited. You don’t need to scream, but respond to what she’s doing.
5. Change Up The Speed

Often what makes s*x exciting is not knowing what to expect. “I like monotonous 10-minute s*x” — said no one ever. When you’re having s*x with someone over a long period of time, it’s not only important to vary positions, but speed too. Kristin, a 31-year-old from Los Angeles says that her boyfriend consistently gets her wet by keeping her guessing: “He’ll start off slow and then really go deep and intense, then back to slow,” she described. “I never know how it’ll go or how we’ll switch positions or speed, it keeps me invested and turned on.”

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Men and women think differently about s*x. Here are five s*x secrets your wife may not tell you.

s*x secret #1 — Help without being asked

Husbands, you need to understand something: getting in the mood starts outside the bedroom. It can often begin at the kitchen sink when you say you’re going to do the dishes tonight. It can occur when you remember to take out the garbage before she has to nag you to do it. Nothing is more sexy to an exhausted new mother than watching her thoughtful husband change the diapers. It’s one of the least known mysteries about women.

s*x secret #2 — Make it romantic

Men think about s*x long before they’re married, whereas women imagine marriage as a loving closeness. Women tend to think more romantically — candles, soft music, a warm embrace, loving words. Men tend to think more sexually. Women generally like s*x because it makes them feel a closer connection to their husband. Men like s*x because it’s … s*x. Women want the loving experience; men need the physical affection.

s*x secret #3 — Make her feel beautiful

Most men are very visual. They are attracted to the female form. Most women generally would prefer to be intimate in the dark, mostly because they don’t feel good about their own body.

A negligee or nightie is fun to receive as a gift every now and then, but if those are the only kinds of clothing she ever receives from you, she’s going to get annoyed. She’ll often be more thrilled with a new outfit she can actually wear out in public and brag to her friends that you gave her. She wants to be able to talk to her girlfriends about how thoughtful you are.

s*x secret #4 — Be understanding, not demanding

Men often (but not always) enjoy s*x more than women. It’s a sad, frustrating fact. For women, it takes a lot more physical and mental work to enjoy s*x. Physically, it can be painful. Emotionally, women have to think about getting pregnant before and after every single time. A woman’s entire life can be altered, and she knows it. A woman has to consider birth control measures every single day (especially if she is on “the pill”), a fact that might even make her feel resentful about intimacy.

There will be times when she would rather sleep, and so she offers it to you as a loving gift. Accept the gift and don’t be offended if that’s all that happens. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. But don’t be greedy about it; the more often it’s unenjoyable for her, the more likely it is that she will never want s*x. It then becomes a chore to her. Women want s*x to be a special occasion, but if you demand it every day, it can become a task she dreads. Pace yourself.

s*x secret #5 — Tell her what you like about her body

OK, so what if she’s had so many pregnancies that her figure now looks a little more ghoulish than girlish? Tell her what you love about her body, and be sincere. Remember that neither one of you is perfect.

Women often complain that all men want is one thing and that their evaluation of a woman is based entirely on physical attributes. Be careful in your praise of her external gifts to include some of her inner qualities so she knows it is the whole person you love.

You know when you watch some commercial on TV with a catchy jingle and then you can’t get that song out of your head all day? If the power of suggestion can affect us that much from a source we really don’t care about, think about how much it would affect us if it came from a source we really did care about. When your sweetheart hears you complain about what a terrible cook she is or how you wish her hair looked, then she begins to believe it. The opposite is true too; when she hears what a thoughtful wife she is, or caring mother, then she becomes those.

She wants to believe that you will keep pursuing her even after you’ve won her. She wants to feel like she’s worth it to you. She wants to feel safe with you and know that you’ll never leave.

s*xual intimacy should be a beautiful expression of love, not a power play. Showing kindness and trust during the day can enhance what happens at night.

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1. When he comes up behind you when you’re doing your makeup/washing your hands/picking out socks and puts his arms around your waist and kisses your neck. This is never not hot.

2. When the cat sits on him and he pets her and she purrs. Even though he claims to hate your cat/all cats, he obviously is in love with your cat.

3. When you come home and you just want to die and he’s cleaned the entire apartment top to bottom. So you can die in a clean apartment.

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4. When he goes down on you and doesn’t expect any other sexual activity afterward.Ideally, he just goes to the kitchen to fetch you some Pellegrino and a light snack.

5. When you wake up and he’s already making coffee. Bleep yeah.

6. When he pulls your legs onto his lap when you’re watching TV. Foot relief and sensual leg caressing.

7. When you’re waiting in line somewhere and he starts massaging your shoulders while you’re bored. Impromptu shoulder massages are literally always at least a little arousing.

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8. When he decides what your plans will be.All you have to do is put on clothes and follow him somewhere. Not having to make decisions = hot.

9. When he brags about you to your friends/family. Oooh, I love when you tell everyone about my promotion for me.

10. When he pulls you over to his side of the bed in the morning. He’s not even really awake, it’s just a reflex. A sexy reflex.

11. When he touches your knee under the table at a boring event. Not so boring anymore.

12. When he kisses anywhere that’s not your mouth sweetly. Also, when he kisses you on the mouth hard.

13. When he becomes friends with your dad (or mom, or sibling). “I just sent your dad a hilarious YouTube video,” is music to your ears.

14. When you come home drunk and he’s already making you a grilled cheese in his pajamas. He’s not wearing pants, but also, grilled cheese!

15. When he finally embraces your vibrator.Men, the vibrator is not your enemy. The vibrator is your friend.

16. When he makes across-the-room eye contact at a party. Even if you’ve been together forever it feels like you’re about to start an illicit affair to the soundtrack of Beyoncé’s “Partition.”

17. When he wears a tailored suit or tux.Rawr.

18. When he carries your suitcase and his, no questions asked. Nothing satisfies quite like your man walking beside you with three bags while you gaze at him over your iced coffee.

19. OK, this:

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Arguments with your partner are just a part of sharing your life with another person and no two people can get along perfectly all the time. What happens after a fight and how you both deal with the aftermath, is probably more important than the argument itself. You can’t stay mad at each other forever, but when you are still seething with anger at some of the things that have been said, calming down can be hard to do, but that is exactly what you must do. The only way you will get things resolved and return the relationship to an even keel, is to get your anger back under control, so here are ten tips that will help you calm down again after an argument with your partner.

1. Go for a walk

Rather than sit giving each other the evil eye, the best way to diffuse the situation is to be apart for a short while. A walk in the fresh air will give you a chance to get your own thoughts together and let you both calm down a bit. Fresh air and a bit of exercise will soon clear your head and help you cool down.

2. Breathe deeply and count to ten

Taking deep breaths will get more oxygen flowing to your brain and that will help you to focus more clearly, and counting to ten slowly will slow down the rapid thoughts that are likely to be racing around your mind. This is a good way to give yourself a chance to let the anger subside enough to be able to think more clearly.

3. Listen to some gentle music

Put on some soothing music and you will soon begin to feel your heartbeat slowing and your pulse returning to normal. Music has amazing, mood changing effects, and you will find it hard to stay angry when you are listening to some lovely, gentle music. If it’s a piece of music that you know you like, you will also find that it takes your mind off whatever it was you were fighting about.

4. Give your shoulders a shake

When people get angry, their muscles tense up, especially around the neck and the shoulders. To relieve that tension, let your hands drop to your sides and shake your arms and your shoulders. It will help to loosen up the muscles, help you breathe better, and it will help to calm you down.

5. Cuddle your pet

Pets have long been known for their ability to calm people down and reduce stress, and it’s a fact that people who own pets do suffer less with stress related illnesses. If you are having trouble calming down after a fight with your partner, try giving your pet dog or cat a cuddle. The unconditional love that a pet gives you will soon take your mind off the argument and calm you down.

6. Try some aromatherapy

Right after an argument would be the perfect time to get your diffuser out. Essential oils like lavender and vanilla are ideal to calm you down and de-stress you after an argument. The benefits of aromatherapy are not just a myth; it has been scientifically proven that certain scents do have a calming effect on the mind.

7. Work out

If you are really angry at your partner, one way you can work out your aggression, without taking it out on your partner, is to hit the gym, and hit it hard! A good work out gives you the chance to take your anger out on some equipment and let off some steam. Once you have finished working out, you might even be ready to talk to your partner again!

8. Have a hot bath

A hot bath or shower is another great way to relax and calm down. It relaxes your muscles, eases the stress, and it also gives you a chance to be alone and gather your thoughts. Sometimes, all you need to do to calm down after a fight is to get away from your partner and relax on your own, and a bath is the perfect way to do both.

9. Talk to a friend

Talking to a friend can be a way to calm down, but you do have to be careful that you don’t take your anger out on your friend. You should also avoid giving too much away about your fight with your partner, especially if it has been a very personal one. Having said that, a chat with an understanding friend can be very useful and it’s a good way to get things back in

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Right from our very first kiss, we have to learn the art of good kissing ourselves and, as men rarely give you any feedback on your kissing technique, it’s almost impossible to know if you are driving man wild or leaving him cold. The only clue you will probably get is if he doesn’t come back for more. It’s also a fact that men don’t enjoy kissing as much as women do and they see it as only a necessary precursor to what is to come. So, if you want to make your man want the kissing to last longer, read these ten tips on how to be the best kisser ever.

1. Kip your lips kissable

Bad breath and dry, chapped lips aren’t very appealing at all, so take good care of your lips and keep them soft and kissable at all times. Exfoliate and moisturise your lips regularly and that will keep them soft and hydrated; also, clean your teeth twice a day and use a mouthwash to keep your breath fresh. Keep a pack of mints handy too, to freshen up after eating a strongly flavoured meal.

2. Slowly does it

Don’t rush kissing; it should be a gentle, intimate moment for both of you to enjoy. Take your time and enjoy everything about it; the closeness of your partner, the love that you share and the passion of the moment. Don’t let him rush you either; he will enjoy the kissing more, if he gives you a chance to make it longer.

3. Try a little teasing

Another tip on how to be the best kisser is to try and keep kissing interesting and use a little teasing. You can make things last longer and leave him longing for more, if in the middle of a kiss you pull back slightly and look deep into his eyes. Tease him by leaving your lips just within kissing distance, and stroke his hair or his face, gently. He’ll soon pull you back for more.

4. Kiss in private

Neither of you will feel totally relaxed kissing in a public place, so choose your moments for kissing carefully and make it a private moment. Apart from anything else, it can be really embarrassing for other people if you get carried away and the kiss becomes a really passionate one. The real magic happens when you are alone.

5. Don’t forget to use your hands

Next tip on how to be the best kisser is to remember to use your hands while kissing. Don’t leave your hands hanging limply at your side, that’s going to be a sure turnoff for him. Move your hands around his body, slowly and gently, and stroke his face, run your fingers through his hair or hold him tightly to you. Keep your hands on the move and it will make it a much more pleasurable experience for your partner.

6. Kiss him in other places too

There’s more to good kissing than just planting on his lips. Don’t forget to kiss his face too, his neck and his shoulders. Every person has their own favourite place to be kissed, so experiment and gauge your partner’s reaction until you find where his hot spots are. Try kissing his jawline. For some reason, a lot of guys really like that.

7. Take him by surprise

Another good tip on how to be the best kisser is to take your man by surprise occasionally. He’ll love it, if he was only expecting a gentle peck on the cheek and gets a big passionate kiss instead. Varying the tempo and taking him by surprise will make kissing even more exciting and enjoyable for both of you. Even kissing can become boring, if it’s always the same, so vary your techniques and keep things interesting.

8. Let him know what is good for you

Don’t forget that men aren’t issued with kissing manuals at school either, so you will have to let him know what works for you and what does not. If your partner knows that what he is doing is working, then it will be a big turn in for him too. Be gentle with him when he gets it wrong though, you don’t want to instantly deflate him!

9. Whisper in his ear and breathe on his skin

Next great tip on how to be the best kisser is to occasionally whisper in his ear and breathe on his skin. Whispering sweet nothings into his ear will make the moment even more special for him and breathing gently on his skin will get him going too. A brief break from the kissing to tell him you love him or, how much you want him, is guaranteed to keep the passion in his kiss.

10. Know when it’s time to stop

The art of kissing is not only about knowing when to kiss, how to kiss and where to kiss, it’s also knowing when to stop. Even if you feel like you want to keep on kissing forever, he can get too much of a good thing! The best kisses are the ones that break off, right at the peak of the kiss, and leave him wanting for some more.

How to be the best kisser? What are your tips?

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Authority of National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) released hard-to-rectify mistakes during registration and how to avoid them during registration:

1. Registration by proxy: affected PCM can not register at camp because the biometrics is not his/hers.

2. Mixed up registration: some cyber cafe operators have the habit of registering more than one persons at a time in one computer by opening 2 or more tabs on the same browser. This causes mix-up in the PCMs information which is hard to rectify. We advise you to sit with the person registering you and make sure he doesn’t register another person at same time he registers u. When you want go somewhere before he finishes with u, tell him to log you out before he starts with somebody.

3. Don’t allow cafe operator to use his email address for you. If you don’t have email, let him create one for you and make sure he gives you the details…email address and the password. Keep them safe because you need them.

4. For married women, make sure you go with your marital documents, choose married online and upload them during registration. In the column to input your spouse surname, make sure you put the correct surname you are using after marriage.

5. For sick person, make sure you indicate it and the type of sickness, also provide all other details and upload medical report .

6. For millitary and SSS, make sure you indicate and provide all other relevant info and upload the required documents.

7. If you are a foreign trained graduate, make sure you read the registration requirements at nysc.gov.ng and upload all required documents. Try to log into your account time to time for information asking you to update some of your documents. Failure to do so may lead you not mobilised eventually.

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This behaviour can irk people, especially those who are single. That’s why you should save some ‘we’ things for your private space. Here’s a list…

As we grow older, our group of friends gets divided into two categories — couples and those who are single. For those who are single, it may be tough initially to accept that their friends will no more be available all the time. There are chances of them feeling neglected. So, it’s important for couples to check their behaviour in the company of friends. Here are certain things you should never do.

1. ‘baby’ talk
It’s okay to call your lover ‘baby’, but don’t treat him/her like one in public. Do not fuss over each other unnecessarily. You don’t have to constantly remind your partner to eat, drink or sleep.

2. Joined at the hip
As a couple, you may feel the need to be together all the time. But if a friend invites you for a movie, never say, ‘I’ll have to ask my girlfriend/boyfriend if I can come’. Why this sudden change in behaviour? Being in a relationship or marriage doesn’t mean forgetting old friends.

3. Matchmaking
Never criticise your friends’ single status just because you are in a relationship. And don’t try to fix them up with ‘potential’ partners. If they want help, they’ll tell you. Otherwise, just let them be.

4. ‘We’ in every conversation
Most couples do this even before they’re married. It’s okay if you are talking about something that you did together. But why should you insist on saying ‘we’, when ‘me’, ‘he’ or ‘she’ is more appropriate? There are times when you have to speak as an individual.

5. PDA can be avoided
When in love, you may find it difficult to keep your hands off each other. Public display of affection ( PDA) is not wrong, but there is a time and place for everything. Getting touchy-feely in front of your friends may make them feel awkward.

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But there’s more to it than that those offenses; there are many things couples frequently do that they don’t cop to as easily. But don’t worry. We’ve got them covered. Here’s a few of those things all couples do that seem a little wacky but really are completely normal.

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1. You pull each other’s finger.

Don’t act like you don’t do it. Couples may not enjoy each other’s bodily functions, but we learn to deal with them and make the best of a bad (and smelly) situation.

2. You’re not afraid to see each other at your worst.

Hair askew and mascara running from last night’s festivities? Not a problem. Unshaven and no energy to brush your teeth? No big deal. Doesn’t phase you in the slightest anymore.

3. You do sexy dances for each other.

However, they are neither sexy, nor dances.

4. You inspect each other for random ailments…

and random body hairs.

5. You play childhood pranks on each other…

and they’re hilarious.

6. You secretly spy on your neighbors.

You don’t have cable and their lives are actually pretty interesting.

7. You use each other’s toothbrush.

*What* you use it for is a whole different issue.

8. You find free ways to entertain yourselves at home.

No, it’s not sex and yes, it sometimes lands you in the ER.

9. You laugh at each other when the other person falls down.

The circumstances surrounding the fall are irrelevant. You both agree that all falls are hilarious.

10. You find excuses to sleep in separate beds.

Especially if he snores. And it’s glo

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Don’t ever text him saying that you regret being with him. Don’t ever text him in anger. I don’t know what it is with guys, but literally everything you say to them makes their ego rise. If they know that they have angered you, they find some pleasure in that and I have no clue why. They always want to feel superior. And they feel superior when they can affect your emotions that much. You just have to pretend that you don’t care. You have to pretend that he is unaffecting you, even if he is! I know it’s a lot to ask for when I say to pretend to not care about him, but that’s the best way to make a guy angry. Wear him down. Make him think that what he does, doesn’t bother you at all.

#2 Don’t Ever Apologize To Him

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Unless you were the one that cheated or something, you have no reason to be sorry. If he cheated on you, don’t be sorry that he cheated on you. If he hurt you, don’t be sorry for being hurt. Whatever you do, do not apologize to him. He is the one at fault, not you, so why are you apologizing?! When you apologize, it’s going to be obvious to him that you were thinking about him. And while you were thinking about him, he probably wasn’t even giving one thought about you. Some people usually apologize to start a conversation. Girl, I know you miss him and all, but try your best not to talk to him. The best way to move on is to ignore him or leave him alone!

#3 Don’t Ever Ask Him To Hang Out

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Girl, you guys are broken up. There’s no need to hang out anymore. For one, it could be really awkward. It’s going to be weird being with him and not calling him babe or any of the nicknames that you would give him. It’s going to be weird not holding his hand. It’s going to be weird not being able to kiss him or hug him the same way you used to. Trust me, that’s going to hurt you inside. Also, the night might not end the way you expect to. He might take advantage of you and use you physically and then you guys could go back to being strangers. Is that what you want? No. You don’t want to be used then forgotten.

#4 Never Tell Him That You Love Him Still

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Again with the ego! Don’t let his rise. Guys are prideful and if they think that you feel a strong emotion for them, they are going to use it to their advantage. They will make you believe that they feel the same way when in reality, they probably don’t. You know, if he says he still loves you, he probably doesn’t. He’s probably just doing to physically use you and mentally hurt you. You don’t deserve his crap! Don’t fall for it.

#5 Never Tell Him You Miss Him

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Girl, you don’t miss him! He hurt you. He played you. He did something bad. There’s a reason you guys broke up. Don’t tell him that you miss him because you don’t! Once you tell him you miss him, his ego will rise and he’s going to think that you’re vulnerable and that he has you wrapped around his finger. He’s going to think that he is the coolest guy in the planet and he’s going to use that to his advantage. Most likely, he’ll tell you that he misses you too, but don’t fall for that! He may truly miss you, but there’s a reason you guys broke and he might do the same thing again. Or he could be lying to you and he doesn’t really miss you. He probably just wants to make you believe that he does so that he can feel better about himself.

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Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo and Neymar have been shortlisted for the 2015 Ballon d’Or. FIFA whittled down the 23 names to just three on Monday.

Four-time winner Messi is the heavy favourite to land the award for his heroics in Barcelona’s sensational treble run last term, while Ronaldo is looking to make it three in a row and draw level with his Argentine rival in terms of number of wins.

The Ballon d’Or ceremony would go down in Zurich on January 11, 2016.
Making his debut on the podium is Messi’s Barcelona teammate Neymar Jr, who netted 10 goals en route to Champions League glory, including a goal in the final, and has been in fabulous form this campaign.

The Brazil captain is currently the top scorer in La Liga with 14 goals and has been touted as the best player in the world on present form. READ FULL STORY HERE >> www.naijafold.com/2015/11/30/lionel-messi-cristiano-ronaldo-and-neymar-have-been-shortlisted-for-the-2015-ballon-dor/

Delta State Polytechnic, Ozoro (DSPZ) Higher National Diploma (HND) programmes admission list for their 2015/2016 academic session is out.

As at the time of this publication, Delta State Polytechnic, Ozoro HND admission list is not online.

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Beads are usually small round pieces of pierced glass, wood or metal strung together to serve as adornment for the waist, neck or ankle beads.

Waist Beads are common with females and they are an excellent tool for women to feel more feminine and beautiful.

These beautiful gemstone waist beads are hand made and customized. The tradition of wearing beads is an age long one, from time immemorial; it has been worn for varying reasons by the royalty, for body adornment, deification and decoration.

The wearing of beads on the waist was made popular by the Yorubas in Nigeria. Overtime the culture of the use of beads has been associated with both spiritual and material reasons.

In some parts of Africa, the beads are anointed in oils and the woman stands over a smoked pot and
commences to ‘smoke her self’.

This practice aids in sensory pleasure for the man. Some beads are adorned with bells, which is a signal to let the man know that the woman wants to engage in se*xual intercourse.

The Yorubas have a revered usage attached to the waist beads.

It is also worn as a form of birth control, as a way of
preventing obesity or also for their ‘healing’ and therapeutic powers.

They refer to the waist bead as ILEKE or
LAGIDIGBA is made of palm nut shells string together, while the ‘bebe’ which is also worn around the waist is made of glass. READ FULL POST AT >>> http://www.naijafold.com/2015/10/23/must-read-reasons-why-african-women-wear-waist-beads/

This state of mind has really pursued numerous delicate and genuine suitors away after the initially meeting in light of the fact that no one needs to be in a sentimental undertaking where they would be viewed as a fool!!! The following are things’ percentage most women do that can make gentlemen flee from them; you can make a gentleman’s feeling go cold when you do the following:

1) Bringing a friend along on a first date: I truly ask why a few women do this! Is it not simply immature and hard to bring a friend along when the fellow didn’t request for that? Who will pay the friend’s bill? On the off chance that I needed a party, I would have let you know so; in addition, it is a date…for two individuals to share a litlle bit of protection and know one another better!!! At the end of the day, the woman shouldn’t consider it to be a birthday gathering where everybody is welcomed! cool. Do
this and you have debilitated his feelings for you!!!

2) Telling a fellow that you are ‘hungry’: Especially, when you all are as yet becoming acquainted with one another, telling a gentleman on telephone or visit that you are hungry is simply one more method for demonstrating to him that you are a ‘hungry girl’!!! That grievance ought to be better taken care of by your dad and not the gentleman. That is to say, it is excessively a shabby demonstration! Stop it! He may wind up fleeing from you with the speed of light! No one needs a superfluous weight! Is it true that you are an indomie young lady?

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The U-20 Women National Team, Falconets, will begin their quest for a place at the 2016 FIFA U-20 Women’s World Cup against Liberia next month.

Liberia got past Sierra Leone for the right to face
Nigeria, who finished as runner-up at the last
tournament held in Canada.

Already, the Confederation of African Football has
appointed officials from Guinea to take charge of the first leg of the fixture, which will take place in
Monrovia on July 11.

Aissatou Inter Keita will be the Referee, with her
compatriots Fantagbe Kaba, Manty Keita and Isatou
Touray as Assistant Referee 1, Assistant Referee 2
and Reserve Referee respectively. Fatou Camara from Mali will be the Match Commissioner.

Powered by the pace, technical ability and precision
of Asisat Oshoala, the Falconets flew brilliantly all the way to the final in Canada in August last year, only losing to Germany by a lone goal. But Oshoala was adjudged the Most Valuable Player of the
Tournament, and with her seven goals, also won the
Top Scorer award.

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Messy hair, masculine outfits, playing
instruments are some of the things that
fire up the male juices. Don't think so?
Read these 12 things that men find
absolutely sexy in women (according to
the guys)

Women love to look beautiful and well
put together at all times, but guess what?
Your prim and proper demeanor isn't
exactly what draws the guys to you.

Messy hair, masculine outfits, playing
instruments are some of the things that
fire up the male juices.

Don't think so? Read these 12 things that
men find absolutely sexy in women
(according to the guys):

1. Casual stretching: Whether it's
right before you get out of bed or
when you're trying to get rid of
something, stretching is any guy's
kryptonite. There's something
very flattering about a woman
loosening up her muscles.

2. Sweat: You might think sweat is
gross, but women glistening with
sweat is immensely appealing.
Even if you're dripping and
disheveled, all men see is
glistening.

3. Jiggling: As unflattering as all
your jiggly bits might feel to you,
men really appreciate a body in
motion. Own it.

4. Women getting angry: There is
zero scientific explanation as to
why men love an angry woman.
It's not something that can be
understood. There's something
primal about a fighting woman
that sends neurons fighting in
dormant parts of their brain,
maybe? Who knows, let's move
on.

5. Messy, unkempt hair: There
might be a lot of effort that goes
into your hairstyle, but there's
something innately sexy about
looking like you don't give a
damn.

6. Shooting guns: This isn't about
pacifism or gun rights. Men love
things that are destructive and
loud. They love women. This is a
match made in heaven.

7. Flannel: A flannel shirt paired
with a tank top will make any
man lose his mind. But too much
flannel is a problem. If you dress
in all flannel, the magic is gone.

8. Baseball caps: Bonus points if
the woman under it is a sports
fan. This is a scientifically
adorable look on any woman.

Dressing like a man: What is going on
here? Not sure what this means, but we
bet a lot of guys felt it when Keira
Knightley dressed like a boy pirate in
Pirates of the Caribbean.

Seductive eating: Bananas aren't sexy.
Men eating bananas aren't sexy. Women
eating bananas? Suddenly sexy.

Instruments: It doesn't matter what
instrument a woman plays, but it makes
them 10 times hotter. Whether you're
rocking a rhythm on a washboard or
plucking out a song on a banjo, your
hotness level just skyrocketed.

Stripper poles: Why do men flock to
stripper poles? What is it about a woman
giving herself the spins that's attractive?
These aren't hypothetical questions; just
legitimately asking.

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Meeting new women is always a
challenge. Crowded bars and parties may
seem like great spots, but not only do you
have to compete with a lot of guys in
these places, but you also have to deal
with the fact that many women do not
like meeting men at bars and have a
natural resistance to men who approach
them in these settings.

In fact, many women see men who are on
the prowl at bars and parties as guys who
only want one-night stands. The key to
meeting new women is to approach them
in places where they can get a sense of
your personality and see that not only do
you have interests, but you also share
some of theirs. Here are 5 of the best
places to meet quality women.

1. Health Classes
Women like guys who take care of
themselves and stay in shape. Fitness
classes are not just for women, so to meet
women who also take care of their bodies
and minds, think about taking a fitness
class like yoga, kickboxing or CrossFit.
This is in a closed environment, and since
everyone is doing exactly the same
workout, it makes it a lot more
comfortable to socialize. Women tend to
regularly attend the same classes each
week, so this is a natural opportunity to
get to know them over time with no
pressure.

2. Special Interest Classes
Single women try to keep themselves
busy, and the ones who are always
learning and growing are very good to be
with. You may want to consider taking
special interest classes like dance
instruction, foreign languages, cooking,
art, massage therapy or Pilates. You may
find that special someone in classes like
these.

3. Libraries and Book Stores
There is always the possibility of meeting
a single woman between the bookcases.
Libraries and bookstores are some of the
hottest places to meet single women.
Places like Barnes & Nobles have places to
sit down and read, and you might be able
to get into good conversations with some
smart and attractive women.

4. Church
Many churches have weekly or monthly
activities outside of their regular program
for singles to become involved in. People
in places of worship probably have more
activities lined up than you could ever
imagine. Consider this a gold mine in
meeting single women with good values.

5. Art Galleries
You will find women at places like art
galleries to be better educated, have class
and confidence. If you do not know about
the artists or a particular piece, act with
confidence, find a woman who is familiar
with the exhibit and ask her to explain it
to you.

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After you meet a woman and date her,
you get to know her better. You probably
start feeling closer to her and may even
find yourself falling in love with her. But
her feelings may still remain a mystery to
you. You’re not even sure whether you’re
doing things right. How can you get her to
fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways
that you can make a woman fall in love
with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure
to be crazy about you.

1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster
than guys and are often found
complaining about how immature they
act. Impress her with the way you deal
with situations and your outlook on the
whole. Show her how responsible you are
about finances, or serious you are about
your career. And demonstrate your
ability to think clearly and rationally
when disagreements crop up or a conflict
of interests presents itself.
TIP: Women love it when a guy takes
interest in their likes, dislikes, interests,
family, childhood and so many other
areas. Talking to her about herself is the
best way to make her fall in love. ‘Tell Me
Honey…2000 Questions for Couples’ is a
best-selling book from Amazon that will
help you draw out a woman with
questions. This book has 2000 questions
across 75 categories including love,
romance, sex and relationships. Let her
reveal herself to you, one question at a
time and before you know it, she’ll be in
love with you! This ‘must-have’ book is
also available as an instant download
ebook.

2. Romance her
Make her feel good by keeping the
romance alive in the relationship. You
don’t have to spend a whole lot of money
doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman
alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts,
but you can also do things that don’t cost
a lot but can still enhance your
relationship. Write her little notes or send
her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell
her you’re thinking about her and can’t
wait to see her again. Be attentive and
make her feel cherished and truly special.

3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you.
Let her know that you have eyes only for
her and the rest of the world takes a
backseat. Let her sense your commitment
to her and your relationship. Being able
to trust someone and truly rely on him is
a very powerful feeling. So many people
profess deep feelings and then cheat on
their partners. Don’t just tell her but show
her that she can count on you. Women
need to feel secure and once that is
established, it takes the relationship to a
higher level.

4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you really treasure the
time you spend with her, irrespective of
what you’re doing together. And prove it!
For instance, if she suddenly tells you
she’d like to meet you because she’s
finishing work early and you had
something else lined up, cancel it for her.
That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the
exclusion of everything else, just that you
sometimes sacrifice something you care
about to be with her. If she begs you to
come see a movie and you had plans with
your buddies, do it for her and let her
know subtly that you did. She will surely
reward you! Women also love it if you do
some girly stuff with them like shopping
for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of
sacrificing your masculinity in the
process. It just makes you more of a man
in their eyes!

5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over the top always
telling her how good she looks or how
gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely
outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has
more effect when it is sincere, well timed
and often, out of the blue. While a
woman always loves hearing that she’s
looking good, you can’t keep telling her
that. It will lose its charm eventually. A
compliment is valued when there is a
surprise element to it. Telling her how
witty you find her, how her intelligence
turns you on, appreciating how
thoughtful and generous she can be, or
her gentle nature, all these are deeper
compliments, which, when paid sincerely,
make the recipient feel ten feet tall.

6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest ally. If she
enjoys your company and looks forward
to seeing you again, you’re rapidly
becoming an addiction, and that’s just
what you’re aiming for. It’s not about
making her laugh over your one-liners
and finding you hilarious. It’s more about
being on the same wavelength and
enjoying the other’s sense of humor too.
Or finding humor in similar situations or
having a favorite serial or sitcom, which
you talk about and cracks you up. Finding
the same joke funny, or sharing a smile,
draws you closer and makes you feel like
kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!

7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage. Find out just the
kind of touch that excites her, how she
loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for
sex or make her uncomfortable by coming
on too strong. Let her see the effect she
has on you, yet keep a strong rein on
your passions if she decides she wants to
call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and
ensure she understands that while your
desires for her are strong, you will
respect the limits she sets. Respect her and
her body and she will appreciate you
more for it. Women love it when they can
see how much they turn you on and yet
find you willing to take it slow for their
sake. Also, when you make love to her,
don’t always kiss her or caress her as a
lead up to having sex. Do it just to make
her feel special and because you want to
convey that to her, and she will adore you
for it.

8. Give her space
Don’t be possessive and make her account
to you regarding her whereabouts. Let
her know you trust her. Don’t expect her
to spend all her free time with you. Let
her have her own life too. Often when in
a relationship, people make the mistake
of spending every waking moment that
they can manage together, and in the
process, alienate themselves from friends
and even lose their identity. Let her be
her own person.

9. Thoughtful
You remember little things she told you,
and remind her of it at opportune
moments. It may be that she once
mentioned she loves having chicken soup
when she’s got a cold, and you land up
with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or
she’s told you how she adores a particular
entrée at a popular restaurant and the
next time you go there, you order it and
surprise her. It makes her feel like you
genuinely listen to her and take the
trouble to act on it and make her happy.

10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should
give her the message, there’s a lot to be
said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her
how important she is to you. You might
want to think about when you’re first
going to tell her those three words. If it’s
too early in the relationship, she might be
skeptical that you could feel so deeply so
soon. And thereafter, it’s not just choosing
the right moment, but making every
moment count. You don’t have to wait
only till you’re kissing her, or in bed.
Saying it when it’s least expected makes it
all the more precious. She might be
telling you something and the feeling just
overwhelms you – tell her at that instant.
She won’t mind being interrupted mid-
sentence.

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