According to this Twitter user, women in Imo state who were on their way to a rally for Rochas and Buhari, las weekend, got stuck in a flood.

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http://www.scandalnigeria.com/2018/09/05/imo-state-women-on-their-way-to-rochas-buhari-rally-get-stuck-in-flood/

The body of a Nigerian man was found dead in his home in South Africa, and the story surrounding his death is quite mysterious.

Chinedu Okibe, an Igbo father living in South Africa, was found half naked, lying face down, in his room. A video shared online by friends who went into his house to find his dead body shows the house in complete disarray, as though the house was invaded by an attacker.
But according to the voice in the video, they do not believe Chinedu was killed physically. They believe his death is spiritual.

According to Kamuche who shared the video, Chinedu was in debt and his creditor sent a spirit from a shrine to collect the debt, ending in his death. Kamuche also claims that shortly before his death, Chinedu called his pastor, known as Pastor Tony, crying, informing him that he is naked and begging him for prayers.

The audio of the call between Chinedu and Pastor Tony is reportedly being circulated on social media.



https://web.facebook.com/doris.ada/videos/2102732089801065/?t=0

Senate President Bukola Saraki is currently in a closed door meeting with former President Goodluck Jonathan in Abuja.

The meeting is believed to be "further consultations'' by Saraki for his presidential aspiration.

Saraki defected from APC to PDP on July 31st and has since indicated his interest to run for preisdent next year.

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There are so many things that happen when you turn 40! Turning 40 is a fabulous thing for every woman out there.Unfortunately, your health cannot always turn out to be magical as it was in your 20s.Your metabolism can slow down, and it also increases the risk of you contracting several diseases. It will turn out to be difficult to neglect any kind of symptoms that your body throws from time to time. Of course, this doesn't mean that you have to give in to the tantrums thrown while heading towards the middle age. But you can make some changes to your lifestyle as you grow older. Not all your activities can help you out as you grow old. Some habits can be too risky for you to continue as you age.

Here are some bad habits that women should avoid in their fourtys.

Bad habits that women should avoid in their 40s are:


1.Skip Strength Training: Cardio is something that you should do and continue to do by the time you hit 40s. We begin to lose muscle mass by the time we turn 30; and this rate becomes higher as we touch the 40s. Muscle mass plays a big role in metabolic rate and you shouldn't let this happen.

2.Give In To Sugar Cravings: Too much of sugar decreases the body's ability to process it. This can lead to insulin resistance as well as type 2 diabetes. You need to keep your sugar intake below 25 grams per day.

3.Put Off Mammograms: During your 30s, the risk of getting breast cancer is 1 in 228. When you turn 40, the risk becomes 1 in 69. It is recommended for 40 plus women to start their mammograms by the time they turn 40 and continue it once or twice in a year.

4.Let A Bad Mood Stay: When you turn 40, depression is more prevalent in women than in men. But only a less number of people seek medical help for this condition. So, if you're depressed over any issue, you must not let this mood continue for more than two weeks.

5.Stay Up Late: Not getting the recommended 7-8 hours of sleep at least after you hit 40s can highly cause an impact on your well-being. Sometimes, hormonal side effects, decrease in melatonin level, etc., can also affect the natural sleep cycle. This is one of the top bad habits that women must avoid at 40.

6.Skip Visits To The Gynaecologist: Skipping the visit to the gynaecologist altogether must be completely avoided. Pelvic or breast exams and other annual check-ups for any health issue are necessary.

7.Forget SPF: As you grow old, it is very important to protect your skin from damage. Applying a facial cream or moisturiser along with a sunscreen of a good SPF value is recommended.

8.Skip Eye Exams: After you hit 40s, you're more likely to experience eye problems. You need to go for eye exams to catch the early signs of vision problem.

9.Skip Giving Attention To Dental Care: Taking care of your teeth as you age can help avoid several health issues. It is necessary to keep gum-related disease and heart disease at a distance.

10.Stop Taking In Vitamins: During menopause, the decrease in oestrogen can lead to the loss of bone density. Hence, it is necessary to maintain a good bone density before hitting menopause. This will prevent the risk of osteoporosis. This is one of the top bad habits of women over 40, which they must take care of.

These are the bad habits that women should avoid in their fourtys.

http://www.scandalnigeria.com/2018/08/29/bad-habits-women-should-avoid-in-their-40s/

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President Buhari's chief of staff, Abba Kyari in this piece says 'Nigeria has reached a defining moment, failed elites have every reason to be terrified'.



According to him, 'we have come a long way. The old order is terrified and will employ all the old tricks and new to pretend that this is not the case, and that instead it is they who have the solutions, when all too often they have been the problem'.



See his full piece below...



In a world dominated by instant communication and unregulated social media, the politics of who shouts loudest is increasingly the voice that is most widely heard, often with little or no reference to the facts. This is a dangerous formula, especially in Nigeria, where so many prominent people in politics and business have built careers on grand but empty gestures, of saying with absolute conviction, and banks of paid-for praise singers in tow, exactly the opposite of what they mean.

A lot of countries are grappling with how to balance the tremendous positive opportunities new technologies can give, with how best to protect our most cherished freedoms – of speech, assembly and association. Freedom of speech does not allow us to shout ‘fire’ in a crowded market. Nor should it include the freedom anonymously to fuel division and provoke violence to mask personal ambitions and career failings.

There has been a lot of attention on the record of our administration. President Muhammadu Buhari made three, simple promises to Nigeria: to tackle insecurity; to promote economic diversification; and to challenge corruption. The answers are more complex, and it would be a mistake to look for easy solutions. But consider where Nigeria was in 2015: violent extremists threatening to establish a bloodthirsty criminal state inside our own borders; even oil, our one export industry, in atrophy; and a Wild West casino culture in government, where billion-dollar contracts went walking with impunity.

Salaries, allowances and pensions of public servants remained unpaid for years. Funds that should have gone to support our soldiers were diverted into the swamp of a doomed political campaign. Contractors, godfathers and politicians helped themselves to billions and as a result too many of those on the front line and those they should have had the means to protect were killed.

These were all problems that this administration inherited, in many cases from some of those now seeking to return to power. Take the economy. In the boom years for oil in 2000-15, almost nothing was saved and almost nothing invested. We did not even pay our cash calls to our partners.
So, when the oil price crashed in 2016, we had no spare capacity to boost production, we had no buffer to limit the shock and no emerging industries to take up the slack. As a result, there were difficult choices. But we chose to focus on agriculture and revive the fertilizer industry, which in turn helped provide millions of jobs in rural areas, take the pressure of our cities and bring down our food import bill. We also made it a priority for government to pay cash calls and to become a reliable partner in the one industry that generates exports.

On security, we called time on the licensed protection rackets in the Niger Delta and now have a sustainable peace. In east, the siren calls of doom have been silenced. Violent extremists fleeing Iraq and Syria may be attracted to Nigeria, but we have reduced their capacity to that of a terror group that looks to steal and even blow up our children. Age-old tensions between farmers and herders, fuelled by the irresponsible establishment of unregulated militias, is being brought under control and long-term strategies for sustainable livestock and agricultural policies are being implemented.

There was pain. The legacy of corruption and incompetence on the part of some of those then in office who now criticise us made that inevitable. They dismiss real achievements and cold, hard data in favour of orchestrated campaigns to fuel sectarian division and social upheaval. But look at other high population density oil producers like Iran or Venezuela and see the kind of fate from which we have been saved by the choices this government made. The cult of Nigerian exceptionalism, the idea that nothing happens anywhere else in the world like it does here, does not stand up. We are where we are because of how previous governments have managed Nigeria. This government, the first to be genuinely elected with a real mandate, is delivering for the many, the only basis to strengthen our common wealth.

People are impatient and suspicious of government. After all the years of failure, they have every reason to be. In 1950, when our population was just 25 million, a government Economic Survey noted that “power is expensive, and labour relatively inefficient; these factors are likely to limit severely the possibilities of any large expansion of manufacturing industries for some time to come.” As President Buhari said, “Where is the power?”
But where others talked and shared out contracts, we are delivering on infrastructure, the building blocks for sustainable economic growth. Finally, there is progress towards Mambila, a hydroelectric dam that will add 3,050MW to the national grid – more than 50 per cent of our current generating capacity – will transform not only the eastern Middle Belt but the rest of the country beyond. At the other end of the spectrum, a dozen solar farm projects will change local communities across the country.

Key transport arteries are being renewed after generations of neglect. Financing is now in place for the Second Niger Bridge, a critical economic asset and a symbol of national unity, and for the congested death traps also known as the Lagos-Ibadan and Abuja- Kano highways. Railways forgotten for decades are up and running, easing pressure from travellers and freight on our roads. Cosy cartels at our ports have been broken. Our telephone companies are no longer a law unto themselves. Banks can no longer make a fortune out of sitting on government funds – your money.

There are no quick fixes to our condition. Effecting real change is unglamorous, painstaking and difficult. It does not immediately grab headlines or always yield instant results. It does not help that vested interests, looking to hang on to undeserved privileges, throw road block in the way. There is a minority that does not want change. Of course, they cannot openly say so, and instead claim to be critics of the very progress we are making that they have tried to thwart, and concoct crude fantasies of communal violence for which they blame government. Or complain about the slow pace of government when they have fought tooth and nail to delay, distort or dilute change.

Transition is unsettling. It is in the nature of the journey that we do not fully appreciate the destination until we reach it. But the deliverables are already there, and stacking up. Just because we have every right to be cautious of what our governments tell us does not mean we need to believe all the disingenuous or ill-informed messages we receive on our phones, often from anonymous forces with an agenda.

Nigeria has reached a defining moment. We have come a long way. The old order is terrified and will employ all the old tricks and new to pretend that this is not the case, and that instead it is they who have the solutions, when all too often they have been the problem. The current buzz in the communications industry is that elections are won on emotions, not policies or track record. But let us look at the facts, and the alternative – of a return to tried, tested, failed. Let’s not be fooled by the packaging, no matter how slick the meme, the post, the advert, and instead look closely at what is inside.


Like Nigeria, government is not easy. But if we are to have better, more stable and prosperous future, we have no choice but to move forward.

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Phil Hazlewood is the AFP bureau chief in Nigeria, Benin, Togo & Ghana.

Trump reportedly called Buhari “lifeless”. Again, perhaps if Aso Rock was more forthcoming about the nature of his illness (and the medical prognosis) there’d be more understanding

https://mobile.twitter.com/philhazlewood/status/1034029782802092032

A generator repairer has been allegedly killed by a local security guard in the Ijebu Igbo area of Ogun State over an argument.

According to PUNCH Metro, 24-year-old Ayodeji Adesegun, aka Solution, had gone to seek payment for a debt owed him by a woman who produced Ponmo (cowhide) at the Odose Badejo area. He was alleged to have parked his motorcycle by the roadside where the woman spread some of her wares.

As he was leaving the area, Solution was allegedly confronted by the guard, who accused him of riding on the ponmo.

Following an argument between the pair, the victim was allegedly shot in the chest.

A source who spoke to a Punch's correspondent said the incident happened around 5.30pm on Friday.

He said, “The man was a generator repairer and he had a motorcycle. The woman who sells the ponmo owed him some money and he went to collect the money. He parked his motorcycle by the roadside where the woman put her wares.

“He was about leaving when the security man accused him of riding his motorcycle on the ponmo. There was an argument between them and the repairer was shot in the chest.

“There was confusion everywhere and people tried to mob the security man, but we stopped them. We called the police from the Ijebu Igbo division and their timely response saved the day. The policemen took the corpse away and they returned the following day to the area to make some arrests.”

The deceased’s wife, Mosunmola, who was in her mother’s house, said the victim was coming to visit her when he was killed. She said, “We have a child together already and I am four months pregnant. I was sick and he said he would come to see me and give me some money to go to a hospital. He was a few houses to my place when he was shot dead by the guard. I am so confused I don’t know what to do. Please help me to get justice.”

The ponmo seller had been arrested, while the suspect’s father was also apprehended after the security guard escaped. The duo are said to have atransferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, Eleweran.

Confirming the incident, the state Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi said: “The man that fired the shot is a local security guard. He just came out from nowhere and fired at the deceased, who was a member of the Odua People’s Congress. Nobody is ready to tell us what exactly led to the shooting.

“The state Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Iliyasu, has ordered that the SCIID should take over the case and ensure the arrest of the suspect.”


http://www.scandalnigeria.com/2018/08/28/ogun-guard-kills-generator-repairer-over-an-argument/

Separation is the worst outcome that you could expect from a relationship. If you are about to divorce your husband, and you realize that you still love him, you need to focus on the bigger picture and not base your decision only on impulse. You may still be in love with the man you married, but there must have been many other factors that led you to take this disastrous decision of separation. Thus, even if you feel vulnerable and think that your feelings might get the better of you.Here are some ways to deal with a divorce when you still love him.

Ways to deal with a divorce when you still love him are:

1.Think long term: When you divorce your husband, you take into consideration all aspects of your life that will get affected by it. You may love your husband now, but think about all other aspects that have contributed to the decision of divorce and estimate whether in the long run, keeping this marriage alive will in any way be fruitful, and most importantly, whether it will keep you happy and content. Remember that at the end of the day, you will want a happy and successful life and nothing else should come in its way. So even if the decision is difficult, if you find that in the long run, it is beneficial for you, go ahead with it and handling the divorce will become more bearable.

2.Seek your own happiness: If you worry about things like what people/society will say, or what your image will be like, remember that no one in this world has any time or energy to focus their attention on you and invest time to slander you – it might provide them with material for gossip, but in the end, it is your life and they have nothing to do with it. So even if you still love him, remember that by keeping the relationship alive, you are not doing anybody a favor. But you must consider whether you will end up happy or not. Thus, seek your own happiness and taking a decision will become easier.

3.Do not blame yourself: Stop blaming yourself for the divorce because ‘One hand can’t clap’. A divorce comes as a consequence of the actions and decisions of both the parties. Just because you still think that you love him, you should not be the one to step back thinking you are responsible.If in the future things go ugly, you will not be able to forgive yourself for not taking the right decision when you had an opportunity. Thus, instead of blaming yourself for the outcome, go ahead with the harsh decision of a divorce and move on with life.

4.Socialize: Spend time with your friends and family and your mind will remain occupied and you will not sit and think about your separation. Do not keep thinking about your divorce as you need to forget him and abandon all his thoughts and memories once and for all. This is indeed difficult but is also a necessity in order to lead a happy and enjoyable life. Stop thinking about the marriage that has ended by socializing more and you will be in a better position to handle it.

5.Pay attention to your child: After a divorce, you should pay attention to your child who now becomes an integral part of your life. Stop thinking about your ex-husband, and by focusing your attention on your child and his/her upbringing, you will be able to forget him more quickly.

Handling a divorce is never easy, but you must remember that you cannot worry or think about things that have passed because the past is gone and is irreversible. Instead, live life in the present and hope for all good things in the future, and it will give you strength to move over disasters like divorce.
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So what do You want us to do

From workouts to healthy diets, many of us make an effort to look after ourselves. However, we could be compromising our health on a daily basis without even knowing it. From carrying heavy handbags to wearing crippling heels, here are the 10 health mistakes most women make.

Can you break these bad habits?

Wearing heels

More and more of us are opting to wear heels on a daily basis, and this could be bad news for our health. High heels affect our posture, put pressure on joints, and can lead to a range of conditions including arthritis, hammer toes, back pain and tendon injuries – and that’s before you take into account any heel-related accidents! To minimise damage, limit your heels to 1.5 inches for daily wear, and wear insoles to help reduce the pressure on joints.

Carrying a heavy handbag

With the rising number of gadgets and accessories the majority of women haul around, many of us are carrying around several pounds of weight on our shoulders every day. As a result, lots of us are also putting our long term health at risk. While you may not feel the effects right now, lugging around a heavy handbag can lead to serious back problems and neck pain as well as poor posture. Don’t wait until the damage is done – do your health a favour and try clearing out all non-essential items and switching to a smaller bag.

Sleeping in makeup

Most of us have succumbed to the temptation to sleep in our post-party makeup at some point. However, leaving makeup on overnight – along with the dirt and oil that naturally accumulates on skin throughout the day –is a quick route to clogged pores, congested skin and spots. Sleeping with mascara and eye makeup on can also affect your health by causing eye irritation, bloodshot eyes or even infection.

Matching men drink for drink

From networking drinks to first dates and social events, there are many instances when women may feel compelled to keep up with the drinking habits of the opposite sex. However, women not only tend to weigh less than men but they have less body water to dilute the alcohol, which means they tend to get more drunk more quickly. To minimise the risks of alcohol on your health, try to keep within the recommended guidelines for alcohol consumption and alternate alcohol with soft drinks.

Wearing the wrong bra size

It is thought that more than 70 per cent of women are wearing the wrong bra size. However, wearing a badly fitted bra can not only affect the look of your clothes, but research suggests it can cause a range of health problems including back, neck and breast pain, breathing difficulties, poor posture, skin irritation, circulation problems and even irritable bowel syndrome. Rather than guessing your size, make sure you get measured to ensure you are getting the support you need.

Worrying and harboring regrets

Stress is damaging to both our physical and mental health, and women are twice as likely as men to suffer from stress-related disorders, as well as having higher rates of depression and anxiety. While it is thought there may be biological reasons for this, worrying about the future and dwelling on regrets can also add to our problems, with research suggesting that women are more than twice as likely as men to harbor regrets over lost loves and broken relationships.

Obsessing over appearance

While both genders suffer from body insecurity, many women tend to overly obsess over their idea of the “perfect” body. Research findings published in the journal Obstetrics & Gynecology found that 16 per cent of the normal or underweight women studied believed themselves to be overweight, while a study commissioned by Dove found that 90 per of women wanted to change at least one aspect of their appearance. Body insecurity not only affects our mental health, but it can also lead to physical damage caused by extreme diets, yo-yo dieting, eating disorders and cosmetic surgery.

Emotional eating

While comfort eating affects both genders, research has suggested that men are more likely to reinforce positive emotions with food, while women comfort eat when they’re sad. Women are also more likely to satisfy their cravings with sweet, high calorie foods. Rather than letting your waistline suffer next time you’re feeling blue, try distracting yourself from cravings by doing something you enjoy, or boost your endorphins and health with an uplifting workout.

Not getting enough sleep

Not only can lack of sleep make us look and feel at our worst, but insufficient shut-eye can also lead to increased accidents, calorie consumption and heart disease risk. Unluckily for women, statistics suggest that sleep problems affect more women than men, while a study by the University of Michigan found that women are more than twice as likely to give up sleep to care for others. Unfortunately, sleep has been found to affect women’s blood pressure and mood more than men’s, making it imperative that you do your best to get a good night’s sleep.

Putting yourself last

Not only are women more likely to compromise their sleeping habits to care for children and others, they are also prone to putting their own wants and needs at the bottom of a hectic to-do list of chores and obligations

To avoid running yourself into the ground, learn to sometimes say no to those requests and commitments that are less than essential, and make sure you set aside some “me” time each week to do something enjoyable just for you


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http://www.naijabroad.com/top-10-worst-female-health-habits/

[b]A marriage is a sacred bond between two people. When a couple is united in front of God, friends and family they become one forever. It is only after the marriage ceremony, a new adventure is born for the couple to experience.To everyone, the meaning of marriage is the unity of two people coming together. When this bond is created the couple share almost everything in a household. When there is a whole lot of sharing involved it strangely makes the marriage work.

Though it is mandatory for you to share somethings with your partner, it is also essential to draw the line when it comes to sharing in the relationship.Relationship experts state that when married couples share laughs, adventures, meals and their bodies, sharing that one cupboard, a common budget and sharing power in the marriage becomes dicey and difficult for both to adjust.

Unlike material things which leave you with options, there are times when you have to share one ‘understanding’ to make the situation and the environment comfortable and happy, and this is one of the hardest things to share in a marriage.Here are some hardest things to share in a marriage.[/b]

Hardest things to share in a marriage are:

1.That One Cupboard: Sharing one cupboard after marriage may seem like a romantic idea, but in reality it is the biggest mistake. Though this is a materialistic matter, sharing that one cupboard with your partner makes you feel like the other is invading your privacy and space. In situations like these, the couple have to figure out what makes them equally happy.

2.A Budget: Having one budget in a marriage is essentially the best way to live a happy and content life as a couple. But, for some partners, they prefer spending their hard earned money on things that they like. Therefore, this is one of the many hardest things to share in a marriage (only for few individuals).

3.Talk About Power: In a marriage, men are usually the ones with power and ego. However, there are some women who also love to hold that power and when two people of the same power come together in marriage, it becomes difficult for the couple to decide on one thing.

4.A Bed: It is only common sense for a married couple to share one bed. But, there are some partners who prefer to sleep alone. For these kind of people, sleeping on one bed becomes the hardest thing to share in a marriage.

5.Interests & Dreams: As humans in love, we all want to see the best for our partner, even if it means sacrificing our goals and dreams to make the other happy. Though this is sweet and considerate, it is indeed one of the most difficult things to share in marriage.

These are the hardest things to share in a marriage



http://www.naijabroad.com/hardest-things-share-marriage-2/

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Sometimes, men find it difficult to understand women and sometimes, women find men’s behaviour ridiculous.Though men and women are similar in many ways, they are different in certain ways. The way we think and behave may be different at times. This could make communication difficult at times.Men and women naturally tend to misunderstand each other as there are slight changes in our biological makeups. Moods, emotions and hormones- there are so many factors that drive human beings.Here are some reasons behind men and women misunderstand each other.

Reasons for men and women misunderstand each other are:

1.When Upset: Men would prefer to brood silently. So, they should be left alone. But women expect others to talk when they’re upset as they too prefer to talk instead of sitting silently.

2.Men Are Straightforward:  When they say ‘its fine’, its fine. But when a woman says its fine, it isn’t. Women expect men to find out the reason why something isn’t fine, but men never do that as they think women too give straightforward answers.

3.Men Seldom Come Up With Questions: Even after discussing a serious issue, men seldom have any questions to ask and this irks women because they seek clarity on every issue and so they tend to have many questions.

4.About Listening: Women complain that men seldom listen and men think that listening means silently sitting next to her when she is saying something. Well, the proof that you’re listening is, asking interesting questions while she is speaking.

5.Men Give Short Answers:  When you ask a man “how’s your day” he would just say “its fine” and walk away. But ask a woman and she prefers to sit and tell everything that happened in the day from the office gossip to the fight with her boss. So, basically women expect you to listen.

6.Men Assume, Women Clarify : Men just assume that you will tell them if there is anything wrong. Women hate this quality as women expect you to ask whether things are fine as women tend to clarify instead of assume.

7.Men Hate Repetitive Routine Questions: If you keep asking a man how’s your day, several times a day thinking that he will be happy to have someone care for his well being, you’re mistaken. He might get irritated to hear routine questions too many times. But women would love to have someone taking care of them and finding out how they’re feeling.

These are the reasons for men and women misunderstand each other.



http://www.naijabroad.com/reasons-men-women-misunderstand/


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Many women wonder why men want only ‘that’. And many men wonder why women come up with excuses like headache.Research reveals that women value love and care more than anything else; but men crave more for the physical act first. But wait, men are capable of love but they take time to develop it.Males and females are wired differently. They are different in certain aspects. Instead of misunderstanding each other, if men and women try to look into the roots and origins of human evolution, they will be able to enjoy their lives better.Here are some reasons behind men want only sex.


Reasons for men want only sex are:

1.Why Humans Need ‘That’: There is one hormone that is responsible for the desire to get into the bedroom- its testosterone. While men have it more, women have it nearly 19.9 times lesser than males.

2.Women Can Live Without ‘That’ For: Research reveals that men feel deprived if they don’t get enough of ‘THAT’ for 20 continuous days, while women can live without ‘THAT’ for one year.

3.Why Men Crave Multiple Partners: The law and financial resources don’t allow polygamy but many men have an innate desire to spread their seed far and wide.

4.Women Like Male Admirers While Men Love Girlfriends: Women would want to mate with the best man who can be a good father and therefore they look for the best male admirer around them while men are more concerned about which girlfriend allows them to do it.

5.Quantity Matters For Men While Quality Matters For Women: Men are bothered only about how many times they can get ‘that’ whereas women are bothered more about how much they can enjoy every single experience.

6.Men Need To Get Rid Of The Built Up Tension: This is a physical problem that males face. They have to ease the pressure inside them that testosterone creates. So, they may just seek an outlet sometimes without bothering much about love.

7.Men Develop Feelings After That Experience: Some men fall in love after physical intimacy happens whereas women first fall in love and only then, allow a man to touch them.

These are some reasons behind most of the men want that



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Men complain that women are a bit complicated. But if you carefully take a deeper look, you will understand what a girl wants. Of course, nobody on this planet can claim full knowledge when it comes to understanding women.You can start somewhere instead of wondering how to please her. You may go wrong once or twice but gradually you may figure out what pleases your girl and what irks her.Don’t worry even if you make a mistake. Simply say sorry and try other things which might impress her.Here are some things that a girl wants in relationship.


Things that a girl wants in relationship are:

1.Touch Her Waist: Be careful when you do this. If you are not emotionally close enough to her or if she is not in the right mood, this might back fire. But otherwise, she will surely like it.

2.Talk To Her (..IT Means…Let Her Talk!) : Talking to her doesn’t mean you do the talking. Be a good listener and listen to her chatter. It makes her feel good.

3.Tell All Your Secrets To Her: tell her some of your secrets….but tell her that you have told all of your secrets.

4.Offer Your Jacket: This action is a symbol of showing the ‘protector’ in you. Women would love to be taken care of.

5.Come Too Close, But Dont Kiss: This action will raise her expectation but when you back off without kissing, it will make her crave for a kiss. Manage the act well.

6.Hug Her From Behind: Women love to be hugged from behind sometimes. Try this when possible.

7.Hug Tight: Tight hugs give a high to loved ones. Don’t hesitate to convey your passion with a tight hug.

8.Make Her Laugh: Women love sense of humor. Occasionally, tell her a joke and make her laugh.

9.Take Her To Your Friend’s Party: This act shows that you would want to tell the world about your relationship.

10.Hang Out With Her Friends: Spend some time with her friends and treat them well. This will make her happy.

11.Pull Her Into Your Lap: Make her feel secure and loved in your company. Take her into your lap when she tells you sweet nothings.

12.Sleep In Her Lap: When she is in a good mood, sleep in her lap like a small baby. she might feel good when you get cozy with her.

13.Kiss Her Suddenly: Women like pleasant surprises and this move may work if she is totally in love with you.

14.Remind Her That She’s Beautiful: Sometimes, you might need to tell such lies too. But you will enjoy what follows after you praise her.

15.Keep Texting Her: Convey all your love through your texts. Sometimes, love-bombing helps overwhelm the other person with love.

16.Be With Her When She Feels Low: This is the most important factor that decides the future of your relationship. Be with her when she really wants you.

17.Grow A Beard And: Grow a beard and brush it against her shoulder when she is sleeping.Caution: If your beard is rough, sharp or unhygienic this move might backfire badly.

1[b]8.Propose Her:[/b] On a random day, when she least expects it, propose her and tell her that your life isn’t life unless you marry her.

19.Marry Her: Marriage is one of the most important things a girl wants. Marry her and keep her happy.


20.Cook For The Rest Of Your Life..: Now, start cooking for the rest of your life if you really love her.

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OP, Southwesterners cheat like dog, both their single n married male n female.

I disagree

There’s no sure way to predict what men or women will do, but scientific studies can narrow traits that are statistically more common in people who cheat and those who stay faithful.Here are some signs that he is never going to cheat.

Signs that he is never going to cheat are:

1.You bring home the same amount of money: A study showed that partners were less likely to cheat if they were in the same (or similar) income brackets. Men were more likely to cheat if they made a lot more money than their partner, and they were most likely to cheat if they made a lot less. So if you two have similar paychecks, you’ve got statistics on your side.

2.He’s from the southwest (Nigeria): According to this poll, southwesterners are just too well-mannered to cheat on their partners.

3.His friends are also faithful: People are more likely to cheat if their friends are also cheaters.If his friends are trustworthy, it’s likely he’s trustworthy too.

4.He feels loved and trusted: According to a study , most men don’t cheat because they’re not satisfied sexually. They cheat because they’re seeking emotional satisfaction.

5.He’s an extrovert: Extroverts are less likely to go along with the influence of others. Research shows that introverts are actually more likely to cheat because they’re more likely to agree to someone propositioning them. So even if he’s always out there meeting new people, you actually might be safer.

6.He just seems like the kind of guy who wouldn’t cheat: According to a real study that people spent time on, researchers found that you can trust your gut when it comes to guys who look like they’d cheat. If your gut is telling you “no,” then it’s a good idea to listen to that gut.

7.He comes from a big family: A survey from adult meet-up site Seeking Arrangements shows that cheaters are usually only children. Ask if he has a sister.

8.He has a hard time getting aroused: A study showed that men who are easily aroused are more likely to cheat.

These are the signs that we can know that he is going to cheat or not.


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Firstly, one should digest the fact that a marriage could be the best decision in one’s life or it could also go wrong.When it goes wrong, one need not sit and regret as no relationship is perfect on the planet. Our false expectations make us think that a marriage should be perfect without a single conflict.That is the reason why it is better to discuss about certain things nobody tells you about marriage. Once you know how to cut short your expectations, even the slightest joys that your marriage brings will start thrilling you.If you have been thinking that marriage is one everlasting romantic phase that lasts for a lifetime, then maybe it is time to be more practical and realise that there could also be some dull moments in the package too; but still it is worth it.Here are some things that nobody tells you about marriage.

Things that nobody tells you about marriage are:

1.Attraction Wanes: This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, one fine day, the attraction is sure to wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive if you rise above such things.

2.A Single Entity: The media has made us believe that two people should become a single entity after marriage. A Single Entity The media has made us believe that two people should become a single entity after marriage.

3.The Void Within: Most of us try to fill the void inside our hearts with our relationships or marriage.For us marriage is the ultimate relief and that is why we pin all our hopes on it but we tend to get disappointed when those hopes remain unfulfilled even after marriage. This is what no one tells you about marriage.

4.Hatred: It is impossible to love your partner during all times in life. At least once, you may hate your partner and the same applies to your partner, we are human beings.

5.The Child Enters: Some of us may think that a child can keep the parents glued even if they have disagreements. This could be far from truth.Things may worsen after children enter. But it all depends upon how wisely we handle the problems without creating much of a damage to anyone. This is one of the things no one tells you about marriage.

6.The Honeymoon Stage Ends: That sweet initial phase where both of you can’t even release the other from a hug will soon come to an end.At least, once in a lifetime, either one of you may wonder why you have married. But still, the marriage can go on.

7.Things May Worsen But: This is what nobody tells you about marriage. As time passes by, arguments may increase but it doesn’t mean that a marriage has to fail. It is natural to have disagreements and it is wise to solve them.

These are the things that nobody tells you about marriage.


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Falling in love is undeniably a wonderful feeling in itself. It is a feeling that, besides living you butterflies in your stomach and sweeping you off your feet, allows you to learn and explore life’s less travelled path- for not everyone has the benefit of falling in true love and sustaining it.There is lot in store for you in terms of experiencing a sublime feel-good feeling and learning subtle beauties of life. Let us go ahead and look at these awesome reasons to fall in love. Here are some fantastic reasons to fall in love.


Fantastic reasons to fall in love are:

1.You Suddenly Become More Responsible: This is one the most amazing things that happen when you fall in love. You suddenly become more responsible and mature. You take responsibility not just for yourself but for your partner as well. At the end of it, well, you definitely feel great about yourself.

2.The Feel Good Factor: Falling in love constantly makes you feel good about yourself because the feeling of love constantly releases dopamine in your brain- a feel good chemical that gives you a sublime feeling. If you don’t see any other reasons to fall in love, this has to be one reasons why you definitely should.

3.You Have Unflinching Support: When you are in love and your love is reciprocal, you feel that you can surmount any challenge, however daunting. You aren’t afraid to fall, for you are certain to circumvent life’s numerous challenges. Instead of just you trying to surmount the challenge, you have your partner with you- so that makes it two people.

4.You Become Smarter: Another lovely feeling is that you become way smarter. Research studies have shown that because of the learning that is involved while in a relationship, you actually end up becoming smarter.

5.You Make Effort To Look Good All The Time: This is another incredible benefit of falling in love. You make effort to look good all the time. This certainly allows you to feel more confident and good about yourself.

6.You Look Younger: Scientific research has indicated that people who are in a relationship tend to look younger because of oxytocin in the body. Oxytocin activates DHEA, an anti-ageing hormone in the body.

7.A Startling Fact About The Death Rate: According to a recent survey conducted by a leading Medical Research Institute in London, people in a relationship have an almost 30 percent less risk of dying young. This is because love promotes good cardiovascular health and also helps in better management of stress.


These are the fantastic reasons to fall in love.

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Gossiping is mostly considered a woman thing and men do not ‘approve’ of it. However, time and again, it has been proved that men are also equally involved in gossiping as women. The only difference may be the subjects but they are gossiping all the same. And we all do it without realising the good it does to us.Here are some health benefits of gossiping.

Here are some health benefits of gossip:

1.Strengthens bonds: When you have someone to share your emotion, you will find yourself to be far more emotionally balanced. At the same time, it is not easy to gossip with just about anybody. You will share those little secrets only with people
you are comfortable with and can rely upon. Every time you gossip, your bonding becomes stronger.

2.Stress reliever: The mind is a mixed bag with all kinds of information pouring in. At the same time, the stress in life has increased manifold. How does one get rid of all this stress? Try gossiping. When you indulge in this so called ‘futile’ act of gossiping, you will soon realise that your stress is reducing and a new energised you will be ready to take up a fresh round of activities.

3.Entertaining: Spending time with friends, sharing a cup of coffee, snacking and talking continuously can be one of the most entertaining ways to spend time. Who needs to go looking for other means of entertainment then? Needless to say that when well-entertained, the brain is well-relaxed and health benefits of gossip clearly stand out.

4.Lightens mood: Sitting in your workplace working from morning to evening can get quite tiring and heavy on the mind. How do you lighten the atmosphere around you and stay recharged all through the day. It is true that those tea and coffee breaks help but without gossip, those breaks will be incomplete. In fact, the effectiveness of the breaks lasts longer when paired up with gossiping because then you return to work in a lighter mood.

5.Informative: Not all gossip is useless talk. You may never know that some useful information comes out of such gossiping sessions. If you have been into such chit-chats with friends and family, you must have realised that there are a number of topics to discuss. In those series of discussions, quite a few things turn out to be informative.

These are the health benefits of gossiping

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its  is a part of human nature to hold a few secrets close to your heart. It is very rare to find a man or woman telling everything to another person. This is not necessarily a bad habit unless you have the tendency to hide things that can have a huge impact on your life or that of others around you.When it comes to couples, no matter how loving and caring they are towards each other, there will be a few things they will keep to himself or herself. Often these secrets which men hide from women or vice versa are harmless things that if exposed would only cause misunderstanding and fights.Here are some secrets that men hide from women.


Secrets that men hide from women are:

1.Tears belong to men too: Among secrets which men hide from women the most is their tears. Tears are not considered manly and so most men do not show their tears to their partners. You need to know that men too feel emotions like women.

2.Wild in bed: Secrets men keep from women include wild sexual fantasies. Many men like their women to be wild in bed, but would never divulge this fact because they fear how their women might react.

3.The green monster: Because of possessiveness, another among secrets which men hide from women is their feeling of jealousy. The green monster attacks them whenever you show more than normal affection for your ex or your male friends.

4.Money first: Another secret men keep from women is that their first priority is money. Many women do not like this since they feel they should come first. But, you should know that men want to earn money to take care of their women.

5.It’s not about you: Men like to do things for their women and it’s not about whether you can do it or not. Among secrets which men hide from women is their irritation when you insist on doing manly tasks yourself.

6.Lie for peace: A dirty message from colleague or an unexpected call from college love; most men have the habit of telling a few white lies to keep peace in the family. This is among secrets men keep from women. You need to understand why he lied before you start a fight about it.

7.He too wants to feel special: It’s not just the women who want to be special. Among secrets which men hide from women is their need to feel special in your life. If you treat them the same way you would treat another man, they would be hurt.

8.A little insecure: Insecurity is among secrets which men hide from women. They may feel insecure about your feelings towards them or about their own worth and attractiveness. It is your duty to encourage them and emphasis your love for them.

These are the secrets that men hide from women

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Hanan is one of the daughters of President Buhari and his wife Aisha. She had a photoshoot with makeup artist, Millie recently.
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Sexual abuse of children is a problem that has existed since time immemorial. Most people think that this is a social problem of modern times, but this is not true. It is incorrect to think that only girls are victims of sexual abuse. Boys are equally in danger of being victimized.

You, as a parent should always be alert to any possible signs of such abuse in your children. Here is a list of commonly seen signs and symptoms of sexual abuse in children.

Sleep Problems

Children who are being sexually abused usually suffer from sleep issues. These can include problems like insomnia, recurrent waking, erratic sleep schedules, nightmares etc.

Visible Physical Signs

Do not ignore any sudden bruises, injuries, sores, welts and cuts on your child’s body. Ask your child specifically about the cause of any such new and sudden injury. If you suspect that your child is being abused, you should not hesitate in checking his/her private parts for similar injuries as well.

Bed Wetting

If your child is potty trained and too old to be wetting his/her bed, you should be concerned if this problem arises. If your child starts soiling or wetting his/her nightclothes suddenly (for no apparent reason), he/she may be having some problems that you should look into.

Scared Of One Particular Person

Children who are being abused usually hate or are scared of the person who is the perpetrator of the crime. They may not want to be left alone with this person. Parents may also notice that the child does not make any eye or verbal contact with the victimizer.

Mood Swings

The child may start suffering on a psychological level as well because of sexual abuse. This may cause severe mood swings. He/she may throw tantrums, show extreme anger and violence at the smallest issues. Such children are also prone to becoming quiet and withdrawn suddenly for no reason



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Maintaining a perfect relationship is not as easy as starting it. It needs a combination of many qualities in both men and women. A man wishes for certain qualities in his woman when he starts thinking about having a life partner. Each man dreams of a magic combo of qualities in his wife.When it comes to selecting a life partner, some specific qualities will outweigh in assessing a woman. Most men are keen in opting for women who satisfies his concepts of a life partner. Remember, men are not looking for super models to share their life. Instead, they wish to be with women who have some basic qualities that are essential for building a strong relationship that last forever.Here are some qualities that men want in their wives.

Qualities that men want in their wives are:

1.Attractive: Men love attractive women. But the fact is that the concept of beauty for men varies. The first impression that a man gets when they see a woman has a great role in determining the strength of the bond between them.

2.Bold: A sensitive woman may be successful in capturing the sympathy and attention of a man. But, when it comes to married life, no man will prefer a sensitive wife. Men wish to marry women who are bold enough to stand with them in any situation.

3.Caring: Men are light-hearted creations and they crave for the care and attention of their partners. A woman who cares for her husband, parents and children will never have to worry about grabbing love from her husband.

4.Sensible: No man will prefer a woman who doesn’t care when he talks about his favourite sports or preferred car. Be sensible based on the situations that you face. Know your partner’s interests and give them enough space for enjoying what they love.

5.Friendly: Men wish to be with women who are friendly. Men love talking about anything under the sun and a moody woman may not make the perfect company. So, before complaining that your partner loves to be with his friend, think again.

6.Responsible: There are some men who hate holding responsibilities, while there are others who are strict about carrying out responsibilities. No matter what, all men want their wife to be responsible.

7.Sense Of Humour: Life will be boring and difficult if you are with a partner who is serious on even small things. Sense of humour is considered as one of the most important qualities a man wishes for in his partner.

8.Cooking: No need to be a big chef, but it is true that men love to marry women who love cooking. It is very true that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Get ready to satisfy his taste buds and no wonder if he surprises you with an unexpected gift.

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True love is something that all people search for, especially when they are young. It should be mentioned that men and women have different attitude to love. It is a well-known fact that boys love with their eyes and girls love with their ears. That means all the words we hear from our guys are very important to us and we take everything serious. Being trustful, women can easily fall in love and give their heart away to those men who don’t deserve their great affection. Don’t let your feelings and emotions prevail over your mind or finally you will get disappointed and frustrated. Consider the following reasons why you shouldn’t give your heart away so easily and you will manage to avoid big mistakes in your life.

Men Are Lustful


It’s not a secret that men are lustful and we can’t do anything with this. Due to this fact you shouldn’t trust them so quickly. Surely, I don’t want to say that all men are the same, but it is quite natural that most of them at first pay much attention to our face and body and only after that they fall in love with our personality. If you want to build a strong and long lasting relationship physical attraction will not be enough for you. So, you need to wait a bit before you give him your heart and open your soul.

Maybe You Just Try to Fill a Void


Perhaps you’ve just broken up with your ex or you suffer from some troubles in your life, in such case your new love will be nothing more but the way to get rid of your sadness and fill the emptiness in your heart. If you don’t get enough attention from a man and don’t feel his kindness that is a clear sign he is not the one you need. All your feelings to him are deceptive. You don’t love this boy. The only reason why you are with him is your desire to get some warmth and care from him.

Foundation is one of those things that will help you make your relationship happy and successful. Even to build a good house you need a foundation, so when it comes to love the one is extremely important. All lovers have to go through certain steps before they will become closer to each other. Everything starts from small talks, after you begin to trust your partner and discover numerous common things that both of you have. If you have passed these stages of your relationship successfully now you are ready to give him your heart and become a part of him

Decide What You Really Want


The first thing you should do when looking for a guy is to draw an image of your ideal and perfect man in your mind. It is necessary to know what qualities you expect to see in your boyfriend in order to realize your plans and make your dreams come true. So many girls often change their decision about the kind of man they want to find and such uncertainty generally results in choosing the wrong person. This is one of the greatest reasons you shouldn’t fall in love so easily and lose your mind. Make sure you set your goal and figure out which characteristics in a partner are the most valuable for you. If you are lucky to meet the one date for some time and then you can move to something more serious.

You Will Get Hurt

Unfortunately very often we can get attached to handsome guys just because of their appearance and as a result our heart may be broken and we stay alone. When you see that a boy doesn’t love you sincerely you’d better not rush into this relationship as it will never finish happily for you. Lots of women hope that real feelings will come with the time and they will be able to change the situation. But I think there is no need to begin love affair only because you want that and you are tired of being alone. If you meet a nice man and you like him, first of all you should find out if he has all the qualities that attract you in a partner.

At the beginning of a new relationship we are overwhelmed with excitement and positive emotions. When you meet a handsome guy who seems to be a good person you can fall in love quickly without revealing his flaws and negative qualities. Such carelessness may lead to undesirable consequences and your heart will be broken. To prevent this you should always control the situation and keep patience.



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The lens of our eye is normally transparent and it focuses the light to the retina by means of refraction phenomena, which infact allows a clear image to form. Cataracts are mainly caused due to the breakdown of proteins in the lens leading to a state of opaque spots due to the clump formation. The spots hinder light from being reflected to the retina and the vision becomes blurred. The intensity of the impaired vision is based upon the size and location of the cataracts in the lens.

CAUSES:

This condition is mainly caused due to ageing.
Various other researches say that it may be caused due to smoking and also due to continuous exposure to UV rays from the sun.
Another cause may be due to the lack of antioxidants like vitamin C and E, selenium and beta-carotene.
Diabetes.
Obesity.
Eye injury may also lead to this state.

SYMPTOMS:

Gradual blurring of vision without pain.
Sensitivity to sun rays and also to car headlights at night.
Seeing haloes around lights.
Changes in colour perception.

TREATMENTS:

Vitamin C – 1000mg twice a day. Reduce dose if diarrhoea develops.
Vitamin E – 500 IU a day with food. Refer your medical practitioner if you take in anticoagulant drugs.
Selenium – 400mcg a day. Higher doses i.e., more than 800mcg a day is toxic.
Bilberry – 80mg 3 times a day. It must be standardised to contain about 2.5% anthocyanosides. This may be included in nutritional eye formulas.
Ginkgo biloba – 1000mg twice a day. It must be standardised to contain at least 24% flavone glycosides.
Alpha-lipoic acid – 150mg a day in the morning with or without food.
Grape seed extract – 100mg twice a day. It must be standardised to contain 3% catechin polymers.
Flaxseed oil – 1tbsp a day with food in the morning.

OTHER REMEDIES:

Quit smoking.
Wear sunglasses when outdoors to protect against UV rays.
A lot of fruits and vegetables rich in antioxidants must be consumed.

Women want to be with men who are mature, who think from the head more than the heart and someone who can sweep her off her feet every now and then. Women want a man who will be there for her today, tomorrow and for the rest of her life, a man who can wipe her tears and draw a smile on her face. If you think you are that kind of a man to your woman, you need to do everything in your possession to make her yours forever.If you want to make your woman want you more, to love and care for you that much extra, then you need to put in a lot more effort in the relationship. Good things do not come easy in life. There are some ways in which you can make you woman want you more and forever.Here are some ways to make your woman want you more.

Ways to make Her want you more are:

1.Keep Up Your Promises: It is very important to keep up to your promises. Women adore men who keep up to their word. So, if you want to make your woman want you forever, this is what you need to do.

2.Little Things Matter: Little things matter in relationship, more than the expensive material things in life. No doubt, women love material things, but surprising her with a breakfast in bed is a little thing she will least expect from her man.

3.Speak From The Mind: Speak from the mind and then from the heart. This is one of the things you can do to make your woman want you more. Women love their man to be direct and more realistic.

4.Act Like A Man: This might sound strange, but many fail to act like a real man when in the presence of their woman. Keep this in mind if you like to make your woman want you forever. She will be undoubtedly pleased with her Alpha male.

5.Listen To Her Body Language: Listening to her body language is important in a relationship. It lets her know you respect her for the woman she is and in a way, it shows you are a true gentleman.

6.Tickle Her Funny Bone: This is one of the ways to get intimate with your lady. If you like your woman to want you forever, you need to turn up your romance switch.

7.Appreciate Her: Appreciate her, she will want you more. Appreciate her looks, the way she smells, her talent, anything to make her happier.

8.Take Up For Her: Not many men know this, a woman loves it when her man takes up for her now and again. She feels like she is walking on water when her man takes or stands up for her in a group or at any given situation.

9.Get Intimate: Intimacy draws you nearer to each other. It helps the emotional and physical being become one.

10.Show Her The Family Side: If you are unmarried, what better way to make her want you more. A woman, whether she is married or not, needs a man who is independent and can look after her, so be that man and prove it to her.

These are the ways to make your woman want you more.



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When you are suddenly around people who are all in relationships, you are forced to think that there is something missing from your life.Here are some reasons that having a boyfriend is boring.

Reasons behind having a boyfriend is boring are:[/I]

[b]1.You can not spice up your sex life: If you are with the same person for a very long time, you have tried almost everything physically with him. Any relationship initially is full of life; funky things in bed always excite couples who have recently gotten together. But over a period of time those things become redundant, and the spunk is lost. People get stuck in a comfort zone, which is convenient, but lacks fun. Just for the revival of that fun, it is important to be with different people.

2.You are not the master of your own plans: If you happen to be an obsessive person who enjoys making your own plans and hates succumbing to anyone else’s boring plans, you will hate having a boyfriend. Believe it or not, most couples tend to become dependent on each other for plans, and often unknowingly force each other to become a part of each others’ social circles and agendas. On the other hand, it is a great feeling to make your own plans with your own friends, and do things that you actually enjoy doing.

3.Sometimes one just has to have some girl time: Sometimes one doesn’t even want to shop, but just enjoy looking at things and checking out people and gossiping. It is very hard to find a guy who would appreciate these window shopping sprees and have fun with you. You need your girl gang for this. In fact, shopping trips with your boyfriend can turn out to be a total disaster sometimes, especially when they can’t comment properly on your choices or help you in any way.

4.Variety is the spice of life: Who would mind attention all the time, and not just from one person but from other men as well. It can be extremely boring to be with one person for a long time, and hence, can become frustrating. Remember Robin from ‘How I Met Your Mother’, all frustrated after she is engaged to Barney because she doesn’t get the kind of attention she used to get as a single woman? You must enjoy and bask in glory with all the attention you get.

5.Dealing with a jealous boyfriend is a hassle: One can see so many relationships around us which look pretty scary, because the man in the relationship is overpoweringly jealous. It can be really annoying to deal with the madness a relationship like that brings along with it. You become answerable to your boyfriend, and that can be unrespectable for some women.

6.Everybody enjoys space: No matter how social you are, everyone requires and even enjoys their alone time. Sometimes you just want to be with yourself, do your things, and have a nice relaxed day. A relationship can be like a full time job, where you are always expected to spend your free time with your boyfriend to make the relationship work. That often leaves no time for yourself.

7.You have to deal with identity crisis: Regular couples too are treated like one single entity. There is an amount of identity crisis one has to deal with when dating a person. Wouldn’t you hate being always referred to as someone’s girlfriend? Come on, there is more to life and definitely a lot more to you.

8.Men can be needy: Very often, men suffer from mommy issues. They always need somebody to take care of them. Occasionally, one would love to be caring, but if it becomes a lifetime duty, it is just bugging. He’s an adult after all, and not a child.

9.Long pointless conversations on the phone can be boring: Couples initially love to talk for hours and hours together on the phone, but once you are with a guy for a long time, there is not much left to talk, and one needs to leave things to talk about for meetings as well. Most relationships are dragged on these pointless conversations, which are not only a waste of time, but also not constructive in any manner. In fact, time saved from that can be spent on exciting things that you have been procrastinating on for a long time.

10.Forced friendships come along with a boyfriend: Often in a relationship, one befriends people who one is not really very fond of. Of course, no one wants to break their boyfriend’s heart by telling him that his friends don’t excite you in any way. These forced friendships make some outings really dreadful.

These are the reasons why having a boyfriend is boring.



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