@ Tpia

It's just an observation, calm down

@ Onchedu

wow "technical couple"

I have a friend who curses and disrespects her husband so badly. I have tried talking to her and she always just plays it down saying, "he is not going anywhere".

It looks like she is right, because whenever I see them out in public, they look so normal. All of this is done behind closed doors and often in front of the kids. I just wonder how he feels as a man to have this happen on a regular basis.

I don't know. I think this a question for the men.

However, most of the callers that were male said they would take the average chick that rocked their world.

Would you prefer a SUPERFINE woman who took care of home, worked and didn't give you ANY problems, but was just not that good in bed or the average looking woman with the same qualities mentioned above, but this one rocked your world in bed?

This was a topic on the radio the other day because of the fact that Halle Berry is single again. The debate was on why she couldn't keep a man, even though she is so fine and seems to have a nice personality.  The callers seemed to think it must have to do with her sexual performance. They said pretty woman think all they have to do is lay down and not do too much.

hmn, interesting.

In terms of dating, do you care more about the way a woman makes you feel or what you two have in common together that will determine if you continue on with her. OR is it mainly the way she looks and carries herself?

@ area boy - I think that is a matter of opinion. People love differently.

You definition of love is not the same as someone else.

There is always one that you wish you had treated right, tried a little harder with, etc. Events happened and that person is no longer in you life. If you had it to do over again, what would you do differently? What lesson did you learn in hindsight?

I think it is worse for the person who has to deliver this news

How do you mentally prepare youself for this type of conversation? How do you deal with the emotional effect it will have on the other person?

I was prompted to ask this question from another topic on nairaland- https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-880.0.html

because when you are in love you dont always think with clear eyes. It often takes a person outside of the situation to advise you.

I'm not talking about getting their opinion about someone you are just kicking it with. But when you really decide that this is the one, do you seek the opinons of your friends to make your decision and if so, do their opinions even hold weight If you really love the person?

Meaning, you dated someone, it didn't work out and you broke up. Then, you tried to get back together after some time. Did it work at that point?

Have you ever broken up with someone and then got back together? Was it better or worse the second time around?

you think it's easy to send someone packing?

good for you aisha2

he is cheating now by the way,

he said he was faithfull up until that point and that she came begging and wanted to work it out, but he just wants her to feel the pain

@Tatase

easier said than done. Matters of the heart create strange behaviors in some.

@meekas

you didn't answer al the questions.

i've never cheated, but have been cheated on.

my co-worker just told me that his wife cheated on him and instead of leaving her, he started to stay out all night and neglect her as a form of punishment. is this form of revenge popular?

Do you feel guilty after you've cheated on your partner?

How do you come home after you've cheated and look your partner in the eye. Do you find yourself feeling guilty or doing special things for them to make up for the cheating?

@ 190 - Please elaborate on the outcome

1. What was the ultimatum?
2. Did they reject or accept it?
3. What was the outcome ?
4. Do you regret issuing the ultimatum?
5. Overall, was it worth it?

All,
I am not the person in question. just wanted opinions on the idea.

Or should you date around and gain other experiences first?

the guys here in my office say that men don't need closure, that only women do.

Do men need to have closure when a relationship ends? If things ended on a bad note, do they feel guilty and feel the need to apologize or clear things up to remove the guilt before they move on?

c'mon people. I know someone has done this. It was a very hot topic this morning