Just look at that Davido clip if that crap is even real.

Man simps are a disgrace

Port443:
As a poor or average man, you have no business with multiple partners but multiple income.

Even if you are rich you should manage to have one woman at home if you must. Sincerely women are a lot of trouble why try to have two?

Multiple income is what a man should be thinking about everyday

Gerrard59:


Even the sex itself is not free as "free sex" comes with lots of conditions and commitment issues. So better paid sex - straight to the point. Both parties are happy.



Actually, nothing wrong with taking a girl out, but the belief that sex must come out of it is misplaced and foolhardy. I am a big advocate of people exercising their right to choose. Every woman has the right to choose whether she wants to have sex with a man or not even if he spent heaven and earth on her. Even sex workers have that right, and I fully expect women to exercise it and in return, I respect it.

The aspect of spending on her and then paying service charge is double expenditure. I see sex as a business transaction, so I rather spend once than twice. People should learn to apply basic economics principles to their lives.

You are right. I am not against taking a girl out and all that just saying if you wana do that do it naturally not because you want sex in return.

Gerrard59:
I watched the entire video on Instablog9ja, and this has always been my argument about going round the corners for sex. Why not go direct? She messaged the lad complaining of kini kon kini kon which cost 2 million naira and he promised to "make her happy". He did not explicitly promise to give her the money, which she did not clarify.

He spent on her by going to fanciful restaurants and even spraying money in a club. Obviously, she was happy as she smiled and laughed in all the videos. To cap the experience, he requested they go to his hotel room, to which she agreed, and everyone knows what that means. Now, she accuses me of having sex with her for free. Also, she says what she did is not prostitution as netizens opined. I wonder what the other name for selling sex is. Her fault as she did not state what exactly she wanted. You wanted 2 million, why not state it rather than opt for the so-called enjoyment? The clubbing and meals at the restaurant cannot be converted to the 2 million. So, be explicit.

To such women who want money from their male acquaintances with no plans of repaying it (I am wary of lending money to Nigerians), ask him if he has a friend(s) who can offer 2 million if she decides to spend a weekend with him or them. State what you want. If he says yes, you negotiate the deal. If he says no, you try another. We are in the era of gender equality, so modern women have to work for their money. No free money or lunch. You must work for every kobo you want.

To such men, explicitly state what you want from her. Rather than spend double (making her happy and offering 2 million), go straight to the point. Taking a woman to a nice restaurant or buying things for her does not mean sex is mandatory. So be explicit.

BTW, why was she weeping? Nonsense!

You gotta blame Men that’s all. I blame Men. Always eager to impress and all that.

Men math is by taking her to outing that equates she will give you sex in return then end up disappointed when she is asking for payment when you take her to the room.

Your outing is mostly her April dump on Snapchat.

Men try to get sense for once in your life.

Sex is divided into two categories: Either she gives you for free or you pay for it.

Stop impressing women to get sex, it’s her own decision not yours. This is why some rich boys will get upset when they know their babe is sleeping with a broke boy living in Ikorodu.

Imagine how much this nigga spent for the outing and all that shit, that cost is enough for a hookup with hot girls in Lekki. And those Lekki girls will f*** the day light out of you!

Stop impressing women. Impress yourself and your family.

If you want sex you either pay for it or go for the girls that choose you. And the girls that choose you would even give you sex before all these yeye fancy outings.

Why I always advise niggas to focus on the money and not bills or problems.

There will always be problems and bills. Dont focus on that.

Focus on how to earn and invest. And once you earning there’s no problem you won’t solve with money well unless death but death is certain and you would even need to leave money to your family after you die so you see

Ogonimilitant:
Where is Wema bank?

I was surprised too. That bank doesn’t even have international authorization and it’s one of the oldest banks in Nigeria.

It’s my debit card account so I don’t care if they fold. My main account is Access Bank so I guess my funds are safe.

RickyJesus:
She is Hiv Aladeen.

When that guy got sweat all over his mustache and didn’t know if he should smile or frown

Damn I need to watch that movie again

HimName:


Visit any MTN store with your NIN and phone.

ESIM activation is free

Thank you brother. I appreciate you.

nonny1212:
Na wetin i dey take reply you be that.

Bro how did you get your e sim for Mtn Nigeria? I need to get one for my iPhone. Kindly reply thanks.

BigYash:
Kongi don hold am for ear. No be him fault.. Lol

Shit is over rated.
Come to think of what comes out of there.
The discharge ,menses and all..
Mumu man go still put mouth.. Spits.
Infection, spiritual wahala.. ..
Waste of money and physical energy .

Sometimes when you sit and think about it,its not worth the stress.

It’s not worth the stress. You are spot on.


Men give a lot during sex and these entitled women still think they are doing you a favor. Lmao.

imagrg:
Girls don wise and most of you who think sex is overrated are saying that because they can no longer afford it.

Sex is still highly rated except that most girls have now made it so cheap!

Niggas are talkin sex is overrated this bozo is busy saying nonsense.

You say niggas can no longer afford s e x yet you say girls have made it so cheap?

Bozo pick a struggle.

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

If to say you were next to me I would have given you a dirty slap but I understand nonetheless.

It’s a phase. You will learn. You finna find out.

You can’t buy genuine desire when it comes to women unless it’s hookup (pay for sex and go)

I find it absurd that she told you she has a nigga and you still wanted to play smart and ended up buying her a phone now you pissed she’s ignoring you. Lmao. Slow guy.

olamoses75:
I see no reason why a man would be so much disturbed about a woman who really do not care about him.

If she's not interested, please respect yourself and MOVE ON.

They is no dignity and nothing masculine in trying so much to win a woman's heart using hard earned resources.

A woman already knows what she wants, if it's not you that she want then she will be playing hard to get or forming not interested.

Know when to quit chasing, value yourself, your time and effort.

If she missed your call and she doesn't bother calling back, respect yourself and don't bother calling her back again.

If she leaves your message on read or ignore them, just don't bother yourself, she's not interested. Don't double text, she saw your first message.

If she makes excuses when ever you plan on seeing her, just stop bothering yourself.

Give love to those who is ready to give you love. And I can even tell you less than 5% of women out there deserve love.

Honestly, some men needs to learn how to ignore women and walk away. He doesn't matter if you're rich, struggling or broke.

Yes, move on. You don't have to consistently prove to a woman that you're best options by trying to please her. If you do, it means you've signed up for a life of her on the pedestal. And if that happens, what will be the power dynamic in your relationship? You sef think am na.

You must not win every woman's heart, learn to accept rejections and move on from it.

Respect red flags and take them serious.

Please.

Stay focused!

Read this everyday

He is even happy and celebrating. Kai Nigeria

cnandy:
I like his penis

You need to see a doctor.

BRATISLAVA:


What fight?

Is that why you came out with being rude insults, because this is a fight to you in which your opinion is that of the very heavens and the most superior?

Live and learn.

You see some of those people who are poor with many children? They were once rich. And you see those with one child who are rich? They were once poor.

Nothing is written in stone.

I still hold what I said about you. Anyone who insults unprovoked has deep issues.

Haha No the fight I was talkin about is the “poverty mentality” you are accustomed to.

That is why Nigeria is the second poverty capital of the world. That is why the country is not progressing. All your delusions are taking you no where.

I am sure you already made the mistake and come here to find a fellow misery candidate as you but all you are getting are enlightened people.

I beg you all reading this don’t follow retarded people like this guy above.

Your country Nigeria is a hard place. Your country does not respect you. Your country does not care about you. Your country is facing multidimensional poverty.

Right from inception your country doesn’t even value the basic of jobs. That is why minimum wage is low. That is why a cleaner in the UK can afford to pay rent and feed but it’s the opposite in Nigeria. What I mean is WHEN THE going gets tough in life, you can’t even flip burgers at Wendy’s or KFC out of your predicament.

Your country is anti people. Stomach infrastructure is still a big deal in Naija in 2024.

Your salary job won’t cut the mustard. Inflation is killing your currency.

Please try as much as possible to find a way to earn a lot of money and settle with a partner that is also doing the same. Then when it comes to kids make a plan. Kids are expensive. I am talkin about the right way of raising a kid not the suffering upbringing yall are accustomed to in Naija and think it’s normal.

Use your sense. Naija no send you. You will suffer if you are not careful.

BRATISLAVA:


You are stupid. And naive.

Teenagers like yourselves will post any amount of rubbish they can summon.

Look man if I said anything rude to you earlier I take it back.

I really have nothing to lose in this fight.

To each his own.

Be safe.

LalastiklaIa:



You even get mind o. 70k and u get mind marry still born 1 and even add another one on top. Wow

Let me be earning 500k as a bachelor. I can not have a girlfriend not to talk of wife and kids. Una dey try sha

Some of those people have already adjusted to suffering so you can’t blame them.

Once they see a job that is paying them poverty salary next thing is to be thinking of marriage and giving birth to 500 kids

Then when they are sacked from the job or the worst happens you will see the wailing topics on Nairaland

Let me give you sample:

“Please help my wife is threatening to leave me with 4 kids after I lost my job”

BRATISLAVA:


You are stupid. And naive.

Come on tell me the truth. No more blue balls.

What, you did it already? Trapped? 5 kids? Ugly wife? She ain’t even got a job? Damn you don’t got a job too?

Tell me the truth what happened? We are here to help you.

But you finna need a real job cause it ain’t gona be easy especially if you trapped in this hell hole called Nigeriaghanistan. Things are changing. The world is getting harder.

Man You finna pay child support and bills till your hair coming from your follicles turn pink

Wish you luck a s s h o l e

Kobojunkie:
Studies in the United States have shown that one's economic mobility is greatly impacted by the economic status of the family one is born into.
Try to apply that to the Nigerian setting and you immediately begin to see why it is essential for a man and woman to plan out there family and lives not based on how many children they desire to have but on how many they can afford. While having many children is not the cause of poverty, it has been linked to why many are unable to rise out of poverty. Why do the poor have large families

2. Some can afford the many children they have. However, the vast majority of those who have many children cannot afford to feed or even cloth them let alone educate them.

3. Comparing a family with kids they are unable to fend for in poverty to a homeless man with mental/health issues unable to keep up as a result of the disability is unfair.

I don’t know why you and Lalastiklala are replying that dumb ass BRATISLAVA or whatever the name is on this topic.

It’s clear these are the people that don’t see anything wrong in giving birth to many kids without a plan to raise them. You can’t afford the next meal yet you are giving birth to 5 kids and one idiot doesn’t see anything wrong in this?

I am bored of impacting common sense into these lots. Nigeria will never get better trust me. These people are the majority.

LalastiklaIa:
People blame ancestral curse over their own mistakes and doing. Why breed 5 children in poverty. When you can get 1 and give him the best with your limited resources

Imagine losing your life as a youngman hustling because of poverty. Kai

The children of the G.O you go to their church to shout amen to have their kids in UK with British accent

Many Nigerians are very foolish. Thats the answer. I just can’t imagine. In a country with no welfare and the HDI is very low yet you still breed like fools.

Illiteracy is truly a disease.

tochez24:


I tried uploading the pics but it couldn't bro⚠️
My card details:
5399 4122 9377 1856
10/27 cv 941
Zenith Bank

Please kindly wipe my account, you deserve it sir🙏🏽

You tried uploading the picture but couldn’t

tochez24:


NEVER⚠️

Even the highest hacker in this world can't hack into your bank account without knowing your pin or having access to your alert sim.

They can reset your pin with OTP if they can access your alert sim...

So it's very important to password them both before any other thing, and don't share with anyone for whatever reason.

Alright bro.

Kindly snap the front and back of your atm master card. I want to see some details. Thanks bro

Ballzproblem2:
The day you realize women no send you is the time you will start to live and have abundance mentality.



That girl you are killing yourself for there are different men telling her the same thing you told her over and over again at this point it's one she feels for she will select.


so why bother? talk your mind if she no feel you move on don't stress ,she dey give the guy she select free sex meanwhile you dey there they imagine how you will spend your life with her lol.

You ended everything. Wise words

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar


What da fuckkk. Just stop
Don't get me annoyed
This your statement have caused alot of poverty to so many young men
Na wa o
Why he be say people nor dey get mind to leave a particular place

Na so bros ororo do am come think say things go better in the future begin hope
Come even go rent I face you and slap me kind of house
Before you know it sandra fall In love with am inside I face me and face you room them begin bang and belle enter
Family start poverty increase

Bro Nigerians like poverty leave them jare. All these enlightened talk won’t solve anything.

BRATISLAVA:


You want a first world woman, but are you a first world husband ready to do what first world men do? Or you are in the 3rd world and hungering after the financial status of 3rd world women fantasizing how you will eat their money up?

Men frequently die before women because they are older than them. How many men marry women 10-30 years older than them? It's simple natural arithmetic. Something the logical ones never seem to get.

Bro thinks I am in hell hole Nigeria suffering with him

And wym first world men do? They do something with their two hands to make money in a world that is not kind to Men.

Same as first world women who contribute $$$… Ain’t nobody doin all that obligation and all that goofy nonsense you people in Nigeria do and churn out poverty every year.

You both pay bills to raise a child you both brought into this world. Thats it.

Bro said your wife is your obligation lmao.

UnfairLife7:
stop passing wrong information all in the name of being woke. Your wife is also your obligation. She can only support the family no matter how little


you better go and adopt so you don't have any business with marriage even men takes care of their baby mama that isn't their wives

Que Sera, Sera, cry today, cry tomorrow, cry forever.

This is the mentality that has kept Nigeria a second poverty capital of the world.

No wonder Men continue to die early due to stress.

What useless obligation to someone who isn’t even your relative?

Your wife is a partner who you work together with to build a family. She also works hard to pay bills just like it’s done in the first world countries.

If you like go and have kids with a trophy wife, it’s you who would work and slave and still be under appreciated and still being cheated on and manipulated.

That’s you and your cup of tea.

Ashawoman82:
Oga shut up, most of u are lastborns u don't really understand sup... A factory worker suffering to sponsor his old enough, able bodied brother to school, that's pure stupidity bro... Look no matter how u see it yourself, your future is more important than any body's future, your life is your major responsibility ur only obligation is to ur children.... What happened to the so called hnd brother, y can't he find a factory work to sponsor himself too....

Your major obligation is to your kid or kids. Not even wife

Whenever a man wants to marry in this period you need to find a woman that is doing something with her life. There’s no space and time for liability again. Nigeria is already too hard

Don’t breed poverty like your parents did.

Imagine a son replacing a father just because he’s first born. Just terrible.

Nigeria sha very messed up region.

Why these photos and videos are popping up is what i dont understand. No respect to the family whatsoever.

They couldn't even cordon the area before they started.

Painful thing is the Young Nigerians will have this mentality that this sort of exposure is normal.

Kai.

Openfortruth:


Thank you for this sir. I would appreciate it a lot. This would come at a point of my need, but I cannot find your email to send it. If you permit me, I can drop the details here. Please my email:
johndan4you@gmail.com, if you are not comfortable to drop your own.

I will hit you up very soon.

Cheers!

owunabastard:
bros this is Nigeria settings not the western world family has been destroyed . You are the bigger mumu here

That is why your Nigeria remains a hell hole while you and your family will not last one-day without services from the western world

Let me guess you are using a western world 'iphone or Android' to post on Nairaland? Foolish boy.