Battlefield2:
Good evening
I'm in deep pains right now, I bought a Redmi 12c for #81700 on Monday morning, Getting home, a friend of mine fell in love with the phone immediately and told me he wants it,I told him to go and get it himself.
He persuaded me and told me to sell mine for him that he will give me 2k on top, I sold the phone to him at 83k.
I had an extra 7k at hand making the money with me 90k...I wanted to go for something bigger than the Redmi 12c so I intended to up my budget to 110k.....Now where do I find an extra 20k

I don't know the type of spirit that entered me,I said I can do it with BETKING, I funded 10k from my Opay to betking in the hope of playing just 3odds and getting my 20k extra but Betking really fvcked me up.....I lost the bet....I funded another 10k and lost again
Long story short.....All my 90k is gone

I'm now on my bed thinking about my life,feeling dejected and depressed

I'm the most stupid guy on earth.....I'm sure I am
Now I am back to square one because of my greedness
Learn from my story
Gambling Ruins!

Nlfpmod
Take to front page
Let people learn from my story
Gambling isn't the way to riches

Been there, done that. You will be amazed how 90k can leave your account in minutes cause the more you lose the more you addicted

Sorry my friend. Learn from this phase. I will see if i can buy a used iPhone 12 and bring to Naija for you by September.

kunkelhanspeter:

When your mom and dad have left the earth who else do you make the money for?

HAHA. I make money to have peace of mind. Travel. Buy stuffs. I love technology too.

I could go on and on about what i would use money for and we would fall asleep.

And then do you know something? I will still get p***sy cause those women you are busy struggling everyday (working 9 to 5 every day) to impress with your failing Naira will still find a way to come around cause they know i have funds.

But i will ignore them. I will instead focus on those top tier women with a good family background so my kid(s) will still be sorted in life incase something happens to me (Though i will still have a trust fund before i bring any child to this world).

So you see life doesnt revolve around only women my friend.

MrBrownJay1:


the above state of mind is so narrow minded... you guys are so focussed on your little broke man views that you cant understand that some men have different desires than you, and therefore if someone spend on biatches what would solve ALL YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE, you automatically see it as wrong. the life of regret is only for those who AINT GOT IT, and wish they had what the ogas at the top have. these people dont regret spending millions on top oloshoes out there (aka actresses, supermodels etc)

HERE IS A CLUE: just because you aint got it, doesnt mean everyone has to live like you do. i am never gonna give millions to an olosho, but i certainly understand why some do. you think the biatches that Dangote and Adenuga fukc are street oloshoes that receive 10k per night?!

You are still pumped up. Again, relax.

About the broke man views you suggested above, i think its insensitive to brag about wealth online especially since, maybe, 80% on this forum are in Nigeria and you know what's going on in that country these days. . So if you think I am writing from A Broke Man view then its alright.

Over here though its 50-50 when we go on dates. You meet a girl that even wants to pay if she's into you and then s e x is not a big deal (Not just white girls, even our kind cause I assume you are black?)

So if the guy I quoted above is advising Nigerian men not to break the bank in the endless pursuit for s e x then he has a point don't you think? I mean what's even the minimum wage in that country these days? Remember not everyone has the kind of wealth of the Dangotes and Adenugas

Then finally, you talked about how Men are of different sizes financially. Mate did you read when I said Women are already sorted in life?

Its Men that need to struggle to create wealth. That's the punishment. Those women will always have helpers.

Adachizzy:

If the women around you are hoes, say it. Don't come here to display your foolishness.
Osi tell that nigga😂😂
Kpele, dear.
You need help.

You are still contradicting yourself and it isn't even funny cause this is not my fight. I feel bad texting you on this app. Its not even my fight.

My fight as a Man is to make money & get in shape. I am doing that well and i cant fail on this cause society will show me no respect.

Then later i will have to face a difficult task of finding a virgin to become the mother of my unborn child in my late 30s. I hope i win cause most women of these our times are a disgrace.

The OP has said his experience. I did too. There are countless threads of women cheating while in relationships and even marriage so this is no longer about me, Ada.

What you need to do for me is to make sure if you dating right now, focus on your nigga alone. No man is going to take you serious if he knows you are renting your precious V a gina up and down.

Be safe, i wish you well.

kunkelhanspeter:

We make money to impress woman
Having so many girlfriends or still cheat on your babe because you can afford it.
Just imagine having so much money without any woman by your side .

You make money to impress woman. Not yourself. But woman.

Not your dad and mom that labored to bring you up.

Its woman that you make money to impress. Infact i have seen it all on Nairaland

Adachizzy:

Isn't that what you girls like to do though? Find a boyfriend who will be providing your romantic needs while you rent your V a gina to other bad boys outside. Some girls even go do gang bangs.

Who made this general degrading statement? What do you mean by “Isn't that what you girls like to do?”
Are you crazy? You just come on NL to make conflicting statements, forgetting you have that gender, with and around you.

My response to your idiotic self is based on this senseless comment of yours.
You just open mouth waa, I pity you.

You are really senseless.

Who made a conflicting statement? Are you sure this Adachizzy fool knows the definition of words shes using

I was replying to your earlier comment when you said this:

"personalize it to the women with and around you...don’t talk when your brain is disconnected."

This is absolute jargons cause the OP has faced this and i have too from far away Nigeria so anything about personalization is out of the window.

Madam you better tell the nigga you are dating right now the truth that you are still f ucking your ex and some of your male friends

MrBrownJay1:


just because you are BROKE, doesnt mean everyone gotta follow your BROKE self.... as much as toto is toto you best wake up and understand that some of these biatches get top dollars.

you think the billionaires of Nigeria and/or ogas at the top fukc the same yeye oloshoes you do? you think Nollywood babes fukc for 10K? everything get levels... oloshoes included. you think that all these oloshoes out there thanking their big god for their new cars/house are holy somehow!? what "you" call life saving for some, is chicken change for others. educate yourself!

Relax you are taking it personal now

Everyone knows women are always sorted in life. Its men that have to suffer. Women will always get help from every corner. Women are in money. Men are bankrolling these women.

We know. We know. Its evident.

BobbieZion is only advising men to be more intentional with their money so they wont live a life of regrets, and these women will never be satisfied.

Again, calm down bro.

Adachizzy:

Because the girls you been with rented their punanis to other guys whilst you were with them doesnt mean every other lady's like that. When next you're making such outrageous statement, personalize it to the women with and around you...don’t talk when your brain is disconnected.

You see that there's nothing in that brain of yours. Absolutely nothing.

We are both in the same thread of a man complaining how a girl is cheating on her boyfriend with him yet you are talking about personalizing it to the women with and around me.

The girl in the said topic, is she also with and around me too? MUMU

Imagine. For someone that has two hands and two legs and parents?

All the girls i dated in the past when i actually believed in relationships back then were always scared to ask me for money cause i wont even give you the room for it.

Ofcourse i could chip in and do one or two things for you but that's on my own discretion and timing.

Maybe cause i know the type of girls i date.

OP if shes stressing you too much borrow money from LAPO

Adachizzy:
OP, jokes apart, you can never have a happy marriage. Your head and mind is so messed up hence you can never believe anything a woman tells you, now or later. I pity whoever you’ll be with, now or later.
I hope you don’t have a woman too, cos if you do, you are no different from the girl you’re banging.
Also, going down with someone you just entered her room and mistakenly touched, you are so cheap!

You see a typical Nigerian women. They will never take accountability. Always moaning and crying.

OP is revealing what he experienced head on. A Girl who is selling her man fake love while banging a friend. Hows his head messed up? This is reality. He experienced it. Its seen. Not imagined. Reality.

Isn't that what you girls like to do though? Find a boyfriend who will be providing your romantic needs while you rent your V a gina to other bad boys outside. Some girls even go do gang bangs.

In the end you girls always win because there will always be a simp to kneel and ask for your hand in marriage. While you act like an innocent damsel and say Yes.

Person wey guys don release sperm for her head

The Guy no gree. The Guy noe text you. The Guy noe call you. The guy has moved on.

Mama sey she wasnt heartbroken

Georgejeez:


Please throw more light on the bolded

Bro the thing off me when i read that

FROGMAN101:


PLEASE ADD ONE TO MAKE IT SIX 🙏

HAHA Werey

Angelfrost:


As at today, the Middle Class of the 90s and early 2000s is GONE!!!

Do you know what it means for a nation to lose its middle class?!! Can you begin to imagine the impact it will have on small and medium scale businesses?!!

This nation is heading to a very dangerous place!!!

The nation is already in a dangerous place.

Angelfrost:


Over 90 percent of Nigerians will never abide by these words!

This is just the problem... Nigerians will never learn to cut their coats to the material available.

I'm still shocked that young couples still bear several children today even when they clearly lack the resources to raise them... So, who are they birthing those innocent kids for?! Is there a welfare system in place?!

A couple squatting in a semi-completed building belonging to a relative just had their third child... The older ones barely eat, and are always dressed in rags.


So, it's really terrible that our economy is in tatters... Still, the main problem is that most Nigerians are financially irresponsible!

Even as a young child growing up back then, I have always struggled to understand why most Nigerians spend so frivolously and unwisely!

"Dont try to understand it, just feel it" - Tenet

Jokes aside, You should be looking to leave Nigeria or just find a way to make more money and live among the rich people.

That's the only way to escape the madness going on around you.

A country with zero welfare for its people. Sometimes i cringe but understand why the poor will keep getting poor and rich getting rich.

Its conditioning

Even in working countries like USA & UK theres high inflation and etc. Not to talk of a s h i t h o l e Nigeria. Yet some Nigerians will never have sense even after they know that this Government noe send anybody papa.

Sirchiboy:
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As long as the one that created me who has lived for billions of years does not go hungry.
I, my kids and my generation will never go hungry.

In the end nobody cares. That's you and your children problems. The world has moved on from things like this.

Goodluck in your quest to become rich and take care of your family.

I wish you well.

Phillipson02:


She vanished for more than a week now . I feel so depressed ever since .

I noticed shes been off.

Have you tried reaching her personally?

Phillipson02:
not really

Then what happened. We deserve to know.

bisqit:
anytime i walk on the street, i see men smoking, drinking, betting. I enter supermarket, restaurant, i see women on duty

Was Your Dad also a drinker, smoker, and gambler or he went to buy milk and didn't return?

NOTE: I am not insulting you before you give me feminine energy.

Just asking based on your logic.

irumole1975:


It’ll be good if American girls are like you. They judge you based on what phone you use. It’s 2023, and they still believe that iPhone is a symbol of riches

I thought people said the apple hype is only with Nigerian girls

However i feel its low to judge someone based on the phone they use. Samsung for Android also make excellent phones.

I use a high-end apple device (14 ish) and i just love the iPhone cause it works. Very easy to use too and every app on it is almost premium-made.

My second device is an iPhone SE and its still very fast. A 2020 phone for that matter.

I think Apple has sold a premium type of ish culture is why people are just tagging along. I am sure the company will love this type of publicity.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


Even me, who is running various kinds of business and also an employer of labour, won't think of marriage now if I was unmarried talk less of civil servants earning peanuts as salaries.

Since my wife refused relocating with me back to Nigeria, I was unhappy at first but right now I really appreciate her for that (My queen was Smarter than me from day one). But naija favoured me tho.

How are people with family couping. In Abj here they are selling fuel for 700 per litre and every stuff is now sold above the roof.

Even my side chicks are now billing me anyhow. I think, I should become celibate this period, by depositing my d*ck in the bank, because as far as it is dangling in between my legs, I will definitely fornicate. I have already learnt and mastered the skill of urinating with my nose. So having no d*ck for now won't be a problem.

My d*ck love women so much that i got an erection last weekend watching an ugly drawing of a naked woman done by my 4 years old nephew.

My d*ck is a SIMP.

You be really MUMUONBAIL

Men always put yourself first.

Angelfrost:


I quit doing that over 8 years ago...! Any account linked to a card will never have savings there! Never!

That's why, if you steal my card, I go just dey laugh you!

Yes bri.

Sad thing is the elderly ones don't understand the risk involved. We need to enlighten them.

You see that putting a lot of money in an ATM linked bank account.

In this Nigeria it cant be me

FROGMAN101:
See how Keke Palmer’s husband is getting roasted by American women cause he said he's angry his wife wore that dress out and was slugging with Usher.

Simps will never learn. I am always happy when they get burnt.

Any man who tries to deny female nature will find out one day hahahahahah

Nigga impregnated a wannabe thot and did think shes only for him? LOL

Now Keke is successful which is good. Shes rich.

What that dead guy should be doing is making a lot of money for himself, take care of his kid and always see Keke as a stranger. Have good sex with her, be her friend, have fun with her all you like but she's always a stranger. Shes not for only you. She can always leave you. Your genuine love should be for your kids only.

MEN, WOMEN ARE NOT FOR ONLY YOU. THEY bleeped SOMEONE ELSE BEFORE YOU MET THEM.

Simps as usual deserve whatever they get

Smartguyboy:


That the reason why guys cry or commit suicide after breakup, no one cry or commit suicide for love ❤️ they do because of the money they spent .

You are right cause i would never even want to take back anything i buy for someone. I dont know how.

So for my kind its better not to make the mistake of doing so you don't have regrets in this life that we only live once.

I think the fair game is the only woman you can give funds or buy stuffs for is the one carrying your child. At least you know you are doing it for the child.

However its always best to settle with a rich or independent woman. Very important.

Cloudflare:
A foolish guy asked me if it is right to take back gifts you gave to your ex. I said he is asking the wrong question. The right question is, should you give expensive gifts to a girl you are neither married or related to? No!!. Who appointed you as Santa Claus?

Prevention is better than cure. Don’t do it! There is nothing wrong in buying your wife even a diamond studded phone. But why be so stupid as to buy a girlfriend a phone? Phone that she will use to call her new boyfriend if she dumps you? And if you have the audacity to complain, she can even block you with the phone you bought. Dear guys, Be wise. Not nice!!!

Wont lie with all my red pill knowledge i almost bought a girl a phone out of pity. Not really love cause i know it doesnt exist. Just pity cause she was bored and needed it for her side business.

Our short relationship ended cause i caught her cheating and i did a rough estimation of everything i spent on her and e noe reach 6k.

Now imagine i got her a phone or did stupid stuffs for her like renting a place for her (I almost did due to lack of funds). I would have been a mess.

How i moved on easily from the relationship months now is what i still don't get

Thank God that period i wanted to do it i was very very broke. Apparently God was looking out for me.

4ward4:
They will just kill you and keep you stagnant for nothing. proper feeding of yourself and your wife a week ,cost nothing less than 10k. Imagine adding extra 4 grown up adults. Baby expenses is skyrocketing.
Saddly people never appreciate in the nearest future, you like house all of them. Tomorrow your brokenness will be discussed in the open.
Little wonder the Rich have nothing to do with the Poor, not even when it comes to marriage.

This last part. God bless you for Telling people the truth. Men are not even valued or respected if you dont have money.

A lot of People are ingrates! Only few really appreciate.

If you go broke inheriting responsibility that aint yours, na you go cry last last.

tensazangetsu20:


Bros it's even dangerous to live amongst Nigerians if you are somewhat doing well. They will think you are a thief or a ritualist

Never trust the average Nigerian. Keep your wins to yourself.

And you see poor people? not talking about broke people cause this hell hole is not easy to make money legally.

I mean poor people that know the way things are bad in this country, and haven't made anything for themselves but make poor choices and habits in life that keep them poor and still choose to bring in kids to inconvenience the people around them,

PLEASE RUN FROM THEM.

Best thing you can get from opposite sex is respect.

Men need to stop looking for love. It doesn't work with females. They are the real masters of Red Pill. I love women so much cause they know what they are doing

tensazangetsu20:


Rice is 700

I see a fool above talking about Tinubu. You see some Nigerians will never get sense.

I read somewhere that Nigerians have embraced Poverty so much that if you do good to a typical Nigerian these days, he/she will think you have sinister motives.

tensazangetsu20:


You can never lose betting against Nigeria

HAHAHA MY NIGGA