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See even if you are hungry and about to die pls never borrow money from any loan shark in Nigeria.

If you need a loan approach a cbn verified commercial bank. If they cant grant you a loan then ask someone.

Never borrow from Loan sharks. It can cost your life in the long run.

MrBrownJay1:
AGAIN: anyone who can afford it, should do what they please with their money, regardless of what broke people believe. all you broke people trying to tell successful people what they should do with their money is a waste of energy (just as foolish as coach potato men telling Messi/CR7 how to play football). you do what YOU desire with your pocket money, and let others do what they please with their fortune. how dare you come here and dictate what others should do with their money?!

you people dont understand what POWER means... POWER MEANS THAT YOU CAN WALK AROUND AND USE MONEY TO FUKC ANY BABE YOU DESIRE. THATS POWER!!!! and until you understand the adrenaline rush that such power brings, you people will continue talking arrant nonsense about what these successful men should do with their money (while you have none).

who cares if these men pay for these babes while other men fukc them for free. these men CANT fukc them for free and even if they could, they would still dash them top dollars, so that these biatches can LEAVE!!! y'all problem is that you aint got that much money, the day you will, i can bet my life that you will do worse than the Dangotes/otedolas/Adenugas. dey there dey lie to your own self. as if these people havent already invested in everything created on this earth to invest in.



bro its crazy how some people think... as if they are in the same league as these rich billionaires when it comes to how they treat their mistresses and oloshoes. they will be quick to tell rich men how to spend their money, as if these successful men dont already know exactly what to do with their money.

it is well known in the industry that the majority of these instagram "models" will all fukc for a price. the more followers they have, the higher the price. i personally know a lot of them back in Czech Rep who were working for an agency that would fly them around the world for billionaire to feast on them. these billionaire dont go down with dirty street corner oloshoes, they get flown top women from around the world. remember the two Canadian sisters (the Matharoos sisters) that were being passed around among the rich elites of Nigeria. you think these babes were charging 10k to fukc? these babes were broke yet flying private jets and flaunting on yachts in Nigeria, left right center....their mistake was trying to blackmail Otedola, if not they would still be in Nigeria making top dollars.

As I said earlier, you talk a-lot of nonsense. Watch how you cropped a line from what I said and went on about your usual jargons

Something I already discussed. Something already known. Women are sorted in life. What else do we not know?

I am even questioning if you are really a Man. After all, men know how difficult it is to attain wealth and will never mock another man for being broke. The same Dangote you are praising will probably think you are an a s s hole.

I don't see any other man that doesn't have what I have as broke or poor. I know life is a process. I know women get the advantage in life while men have to earn it.

Now lets say I even want to go in your level, why are you so pained the user is advising Nigerian men on what to do with their money? Why aren't you allowing a debate? Why the dictatorship?

If you think in your little world that Men should be allowed to do what they want with their funds as regards sex, why are you so pained someone else is advising the same Men not to be careless with their funds. You keep saying broke and poor. Relax.

Go outside, take some fresh air. Its a democratic world these days. People are allowed to have opinions. Heck the country you are in is practicing democracy. Follow the route.

This is my last response to you, little man.

poshestmina:
It shouldn't be a women bashing thread because narcissists are not only women.

They are the worst emotional manipulators on earth . they'll rather die than admit and take responsibility of their wrongs .
He'll cheat and would blame me for not giving him attention and his mental health blah blah .

Gaslighting . Playing the victim card.
Gets very aggressive when angry and of course Domestic violence.
He'd beat me up so bad and then force me to stay indoors so "I don't spoil his image".


The relationship ended with Nysc.
Started begging me and going for Therapies.

Only my brothers know what they said or did to him ,I didn't hear from him again till date.

Toxic souls and if you stick around them for a long time ,you become as toxic as them.
They'll drain you mentally , emotionally, spiritually and in every possible way if you let them.

Now,once I notice that attitude from anyone , even a female friend or colleague ,I cut them off immediately!!
Those people will make you feel mad and frustrated and that's how they derive their own happiness.

I know When he beat you up one evening like that so bad that there was a dark patch close to your eyes, and tried to make up, i know he looked into your eyes and asked - Do you still love me?

Tears rolled down your cheeks and you said - YES i still love you and still gave him the best s e x that evening.

You for continue to stay for the relationship till he beats you to stupor.

I know people will cry and moan and say its a mental thing but you should have never stayed with someone that beat and even cheat on you!

But women will be women.

kunkelhanspeter:
You will still work hard to marry and you will love to impress her too.
We can’t do without women unless you are a gay.

Niggaa working hard (Looking for money) is like a normal routine as a Man.

Like you wake up to brush your teeth, working hard means you get a better life, impress your family and have that freedom to do whatever you want.

I dont need to impress women. Thats your own calling in life and i respect you for that, I just find it hilarious considering you would still meeet women who just want you to ambitious but don't really care what you have in the bank cause they are from wealthy homes.

I agree when you say we will always need women. Especially if you want sex and kids but impressing them is so ass.

You are just positioning yourself for gold diggers.

MrBrownJay1:
these are broke men views, yes.
so you think dangote and the likes are bragging about their wealth?!?! whats important here is that, do you actually think that you fukc the same oloshoes as the Dangotes/otedolas/Adenugas etc? there is levels to this. expecting them to not splash on the top coochie (probably flown from switzerland or Colombia) is funny. bro, some top totos out in Nigeria are fukcing for upkeep of over a million Naira a month, with men that can afford it 100 times over. you cant sit here and now say this is a waste of money, just because you've never made half of that in your entire life.

everywhere you go around the world, it is the same game.... some will fukc women for free (even be taken care by women) while others with money will splurge 1000s of $$ on top babes out there. check these arabs that are spending upwards of 50K to shiit in women's mouth and have them fukc dogs and horses. it may be a waste of money to "you", but to these sexual deviant men, its money well spent (because they got it abundantly). you cannot use your little mind to judge a big man's pocket because everything you believe they can spend their money on (instead of oloshoes), they probably spend 1000times on it already (aka successful biz, cars , mansions, stocks, family, travels around the world etc etc).

Honestly man no disrespect but you talk a lot of nonsense.

I think you dont read and just write from an emotional POV

I already explained women are already sorted in life. This should summarize all your jargons about some men spending $$$ to get Vagina. We already know that.Some Men will buy private jets for pussy if possible. Infact you are not saying anything new from what we know.

Men's job is to work and toil. Women are in this life for enjoyment

The only thing I strongly supported was a poster advising Nigerian men (from a country that is the Second poverty capital of the world) not to break the bank for this sex thing. Utilize that money for something else.

You keep ranting about Dangote like everyone is Dangote. The irony is the same Dangote you talking about had Bea Lewis (Side chick) and a blog revealed one of her exes is just some random nigga who doesn't have the same money as Dangote so whats this premium tag you putting on Vagina? Some men get it for cheap. Some Men will break the bank for it. That's life.

Blaud is probably a Nigerian and mocking broke Men? Lol you are from the second poverty capital of the world and the capitalist are exploiting your nation everyday. Stop all these noise about wealth,

Baba wan break up and he wrote an article

You are already in her frame. Giving her free attention. She will get over you easily.

I wonder how you will sleep this night sef.

When they tell you people to learn female nature you will be running.

Be safe.

Solofresh2:
First of, delete the app from your phone and don't visit any betting site again. Start having the mindset that there are no shortcuts to success. The billionaires you see today didn't become a billionaire in a week or day. They started bit by bit till they get to that position.Work and save to a great level then think of investment.

I dont think that deleting APP will work cause i lost count how many times i deleted flashscore and sofascore apps but still ended up checking from safari

I know the OP will still try to bet again despite all the advice people will drop here

Just dont do it though.

Battlefield2:
Good evening
I'm in deep pains right now, I bought a Redmi 12c for #81700 on Monday morning, Getting home, a friend of mine fell in love with the phone immediately and told me he wants it,I told him to go and get it himself.
He persuaded me and told me to sell mine for him that he will give me 2k on top, I sold the phone to him at 83k.
I had an extra 7k at hand making the money with me 90k...I wanted to go for something bigger than the Redmi 12c so I intended to up my budget to 110k.....Now where do I find an extra 20k

I don't know the type of spirit that entered me,I said I can do it with BETKING, I funded 10k from my Opay to betking in the hope of playing just 3odds and getting my 20k extra but Betking really fvcked me up.....I lost the bet....I funded another 10k and lost again
Long story short.....All my 90k is gone

I'm now on my bed thinking about my life,feeling dejected and depressed

I'm the most stupid guy on earth.....I'm sure I am
Now I am back to square one because of my greedness
Learn from my story
Gambling Ruins!

Nlfpmod
Take to front page
Let people learn from my story
Gambling isn't the way to riches

Been there, done that. You will be amazed how 90k can leave your account in minutes cause the more you lose the more you addicted

Sorry my friend. Learn from this phase. I will see if i can buy a used iPhone 12 and bring to Naija for you by September.

kunkelhanspeter:
When your mom and dad have left the earth who else do you make the money for?

HAHA. I make money to have peace of mind. Travel. Buy stuffs. I love technology too.

I could go on and on about what i would use money for and we would fall asleep.

And then do you know something? I will still get p***sy cause those women you are busy struggling everyday (working 9 to 5 every day) to impress with your failing Naira will still find a way to come around cause they know i have funds.

But i will ignore them. I will instead focus on those top tier women with a good family background so my kid(s) will still be sorted in life incase something happens to me (Though i will still have a trust fund before i bring any child to this world).

So you see life doesnt revolve around only women my friend.

MrBrownJay1:
the above state of mind is so narrow minded... you guys are so focussed on your little broke man views that you cant understand that some men have different desires than you, and therefore if someone spend on biatches what would solve ALL YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE, you automatically see it as wrong. the life of regret is only for those who AINT GOT IT, and wish they had what the ogas at the top have. these people dont regret spending millions on top oloshoes out there (aka actresses, supermodels etc)

HERE IS A CLUE: just because you aint got it, doesnt mean everyone has to live like you do. i am never gonna give millions to an olosho, but i certainly understand why some do. you think the biatches that Dangote and Adenuga fukc are street oloshoes that receive 10k per night?!

You are still pumped up. Again, relax.

About the broke man views you suggested above, i think its insensitive to brag about wealth online especially since, maybe, 80% on this forum are in Nigeria and you know what's going on in that country these days. . So if you think I am writing from A Broke Man view then its alright.

Over here though its 50-50 when we go on dates. You meet a girl that even wants to pay if she's into you and then s e x is not a big deal (Not just white girls, even our kind cause I assume you are black?)

So if the guy I quoted above is advising Nigerian men not to break the bank in the endless pursuit for s e x then he has a point don't you think? I mean what's even the minimum wage in that country these days? Remember not everyone has the kind of wealth of the Dangotes and Adenugas

Then finally, you talked about how Men are of different sizes financially. Mate did you read when I said Women are already sorted in life?

Its Men that need to struggle to create wealth. That's the punishment. Those women will always have helpers.

Adachizzy:
If the women around you are hoes, say it. Don't come here to display your foolishness.
Osi tell that nigga😂😂
Kpele, dear.
You need help.

You are still contradicting yourself and it isn't even funny cause this is not my fight. I feel bad texting you on this app. Its not even my fight.

My fight as a Man is to make money & get in shape. I am doing that well and i cant fail on this cause society will show me no respect.

Then later i will have to face a difficult task of finding a virgin to become the mother of my unborn child in my late 30s. I hope i win cause most women of these our times are a disgrace.

The OP has said his experience. I did too. There are countless threads of women cheating while in relationships and even marriage so this is no longer about me, Ada.

What you need to do for me is to make sure if you dating right now, focus on your nigga alone. No man is going to take you serious if he knows you are renting your precious V a gina up and down.

Be safe, i wish you well.

kunkelhanspeter:
We make money to impress woman
Having so many girlfriends or still cheat on your babe because you can afford it.
Just imagine having so much money without any woman by your side .

You make money to impress woman. Not yourself. But woman.

Not your dad and mom that labored to bring you up.

Its woman that you make money to impress. Infact i have seen it all on Nairaland

Adachizzy:
Isn't that what you girls like to do though? Find a boyfriend who will be providing your romantic needs while you rent your V a gina to other bad boys outside. Some girls even go do gang bangs.

Who made this general degrading statement? What do you mean by “Isn't that what you girls like to do?”
Are you crazy? You just come on NL to make conflicting statements, forgetting you have that gender, with and around you.

My response to your idiotic self is based on this senseless comment of yours.
You just open mouth waa, I pity you.

You are really senseless.

Who made a conflicting statement? Are you sure this Adachizzy fool knows the definition of words shes using

I was replying to your earlier comment when you said this:

"personalize it to the women with and around you...don’t talk when your brain is disconnected."

This is absolute jargons cause the OP has faced this and i have too from far away Nigeria so anything about personalization is out of the window.

Madam you better tell the nigga you are dating right now the truth that you are still f ucking your ex and some of your male friends

MrBrownJay1:
just because you are BROKE, doesnt mean everyone gotta follow your BROKE self.... as much as toto is toto you best wake up and understand that some of these biatches get top dollars.

you think the billionaires of Nigeria and/or ogas at the top fukc the same yeye oloshoes you do? you think Nollywood babes fukc for 10K? everything get levels... oloshoes included. you think that all these oloshoes out there thanking their big god for their new cars/house are holy somehow!? what "you" call life saving for some, is chicken change for others. educate yourself!

Relax you are taking it personal now

Everyone knows women are always sorted in life. Its men that have to suffer. Women will always get help from every corner. Women are in money. Men are bankrolling these women.

We know. We know. Its evident.

BobbieZion is only advising men to be more intentional with their money so they wont live a life of regrets, and these women will never be satisfied.

Again, calm down bro.

Adachizzy:
Because the girls you been with rented their punanis to other guys whilst you were with them doesnt mean every other lady's like that. When next you're making such outrageous statement, personalize it to the women with and around you...don’t talk when your brain is disconnected.

You see that there's nothing in that brain of yours. Absolutely nothing.

We are both in the same thread of a man complaining how a girl is cheating on her boyfriend with him yet you are talking about personalizing it to the women with and around me.

The girl in the said topic, is she also with and around me too? MUMU

Imagine. For someone that has two hands and two legs and parents?

All the girls i dated in the past when i actually believed in relationships back then were always scared to ask me for money cause i wont even give you the room for it.

Ofcourse i could chip in and do one or two things for you but that's on my own discretion and timing.

Maybe cause i know the type of girls i date.

OP if shes stressing you too much borrow money from LAPO

Adachizzy:
OP, jokes apart, you can never have a happy marriage. Your head and mind is so messed up hence you can never believe anything a woman tells you, now or later. I pity whoever you’ll be with, now or later.
I hope you don’t have a woman too, cos if you do, you are no different from the girl you’re banging.
Also, going down with someone you just entered her room and mistakenly touched, you are so cheap!

You see a typical Nigerian women. They will never take accountability. Always moaning and crying.

OP is revealing what he experienced head on. A Girl who is selling her man fake love while banging a friend. Hows his head messed up? This is reality. He experienced it. Its seen. Not imagined. Reality.

Isn't that what you girls like to do though? Find a boyfriend who will be providing your romantic needs while you rent your V a gina to other bad boys outside. Some girls even go do gang bangs.

In the end you girls always win because there will always be a simp to kneel and ask for your hand in marriage. While you act like an innocent damsel and say Yes.

Person wey guys don release sperm for her head

The Guy no gree. The Guy noe text you. The Guy noe call you. The guy has moved on.

Mama sey she wasnt heartbroken

Georgejeez:
Please throw more light on the bolded

Bro the thing off me when i read that

FROGMAN101:
PLEASE ADD ONE TO MAKE IT SIX 🙏

HAHA Werey

Angelfrost:
As at today, the Middle Class of the 90s and early 2000s is GONE!!!

Do you know what it means for a nation to lose its middle class?!! Can you begin to imagine the impact it will have on small and medium scale businesses?!!

This nation is heading to a very dangerous place!!!

The nation is already in a dangerous place.

Angelfrost:
Over 90 percent of Nigerians will never abide by these words!

This is just the problem... Nigerians will never learn to cut their coats to the material available.

I'm still shocked that young couples still bear several children today even when they clearly lack the resources to raise them... So, who are they birthing those innocent kids for?! Is there a welfare system in place?!

A couple squatting in a semi-completed building belonging to a relative just had their third child... The older ones barely eat, and are always dressed in rags.


So, it's really terrible that our economy is in tatters... Still, the main problem is that most Nigerians are financially irresponsible!

Even as a young child growing up back then, I have always struggled to understand why most Nigerians spend so frivolously and unwisely!

"Dont try to understand it, just feel it" - Tenet

Jokes aside, You should be looking to leave Nigeria or just find a way to make more money and live among the rich people.

That's the only way to escape the madness going on around you.

A country with zero welfare for its people. Sometimes i cringe but understand why the poor will keep getting poor and rich getting rich.

Its conditioning

Even in working countries like USA & UK theres high inflation and etc. Not to talk of a s h i t h o l e Nigeria. Yet some Nigerians will never have sense even after they know that this Government noe send anybody papa.

Sirchiboy:
.
As long as the one that created me who has lived for billions of years does not go hungry.
I, my kids and my generation will never go hungry.

In the end nobody cares. That's you and your children problems. The world has moved on from things like this.

Goodluck in your quest to become rich and take care of your family.

I wish you well.

Phillipson02:
She vanished for more than a week now . I feel so depressed ever since .

I noticed shes been off.

Have you tried reaching her personally?

Phillipson02:
not really

Then what happened. We deserve to know.

bisqit:
anytime i walk on the street, i see men smoking, drinking, betting. I enter supermarket, restaurant, i see women on duty

Was Your Dad also a drinker, smoker, and gambler or he went to buy milk and didn't return?

NOTE: I am not insulting you before you give me feminine energy.

Just asking based on your logic.

irumole1975:
It’ll be good if American girls are like you. They judge you based on what phone you use. It’s 2023, and they still believe that iPhone is a symbol of riches

I thought people said the apple hype is only with Nigerian girls

However i feel its low to judge someone based on the phone they use. Samsung for Android also make excellent phones.

I use a high-end apple device (14 ish) and i just love the iPhone cause it works. Very easy to use too and every app on it is almost premium-made.

My second device is an iPhone SE and its still very fast. A 2020 phone for that matter.

I think Apple has sold a premium type of ish culture is why people are just tagging along. I am sure the company will love this type of publicity.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


Even me, who is running various kinds of business and also an employer of labour, won't think of marriage now if I was unmarried talk less of civil servants earning peanuts as salaries.

Since my wife refused relocating with me back to Nigeria, I was unhappy at first but right now I really appreciate her for that (My queen was Smarter than me from day one). But naija favoured me tho.

How are people with family couping. In Abj here they are selling fuel for 700 per litre and every stuff is now sold above the roof.

Even my side chicks are now billing me anyhow. I think, I should become celibate this period, by depositing my d*ck in the bank, because as far as it is dangling in between my legs, I will definitely fornicate. I have already learnt and mastered the skill of urinating with my nose. So having no d*ck for now won't be a problem.

My d*ck love women so much that i got an erection last weekend watching an ugly drawing of a naked woman done by my 4 years old nephew.

My d*ck is a SIMP.

You be really MUMUONBAIL

Men always put yourself first.

Angelfrost:
I quit doing that over 8 years ago...! Any account linked to a card will never have savings there! Never!

That's why, if you steal my card, I go just dey laugh you!

Yes bri.

Sad thing is the elderly ones don't understand the risk involved. We need to enlighten them.

You see that putting a lot of money in an ATM linked bank account.

In this Nigeria it cant be me

FROGMAN101:
See how Keke Palmer’s husband is getting roasted by American women cause he said he's angry his wife wore that dress out and was slugging with Usher.

Simps will never learn. I am always happy when they get burnt.

Any man who tries to deny female nature will find out one day hahahahahah

Nigga impregnated a wannabe thot and did think shes only for him? LOL

Now Keke is successful which is good. Shes rich.

What that dead guy should be doing is making a lot of money for himself, take care of his kid and always see Keke as a stranger. Have good sex with her, be her friend, have fun with her all you like but she's always a stranger. Shes not for only you. She can always leave you. Your genuine love should be for your kids only.

MEN, WOMEN ARE NOT FOR ONLY YOU. THEY bleeped SOMEONE ELSE BEFORE YOU MET THEM.

Simps as usual deserve whatever they get