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tosyne007:
i disagree!!! maybe cos u r still a teenager sha. i agree guys feel thesame way but it's more common wit ladies cos ladies are naturally larger in quantity than guys hence the fight amongst ladies to get one. guess it's the law of nature. though the onus is on us (guys) to make our babes feel secure and LOVED.

u really wanna know. i bet u dont

huh you disagree lolz you don't know me I'm not the jealous type before I give my heart to guy it means I trust him It is very difficult for me to get jealous

obojo:
He might have

lolz and you must be his help mate

greateros:
1John4:1
1thessalonians 5:21
Acts 17:11
1Peter 3:15 [yet the pastors will not give u genuine explanation for what they do]
1Conrinthians 3:13

These verses should clear you.

Damn! to think am not a christian and yet i know the bible more than lots of them so called Christians!

hmm thank you very much and for your last statement hmm careful It is said that people who Know about Jesus and refuse to harken would be tormented double folds in hell

@pastor A good Samaritan has shown me

SouthChi:
Good for you! and No to the proposal.

lolz what are you feeling like now? I didn't propose it was a question . I already have 3 husbands my goal is to have 100

The most useless security agaevcy in Nigeria is the Nigerian police force,nothing good can come out of them;very corrupt and evil. See people that ought to protect lives of Nigerians under the influence of a higher spirit and at the end of the day, they go about killing innocent citizens just because of [size=20pt]twenty Naira[/size] from ig to the last constable they are all the same, corrupt!

huh Nigerian police #20? are you dreaming? they gave upgraded o its a big crime to show them twenty Naira its from [size=25pt]#50[/size] upward they no longer accept twenty Naira gone are the days when they do so. I remeber how they nearly smashed the head of a taxi driver for giving them 20 box

tosyne007:
u neva can tell!!! (wen d right guy would come along). lol

btw, did u say teenager? wont i be sued for child abuse?

u sound matured for a teenager though

lolz at your first statement and never mind my friend 17 just got married last month joke apart
and lolz thanks for the compliment that's what people say except haters sha

Ujujoan:
Haba. How can you equate this with cheating in a relationship? He didn't just cheat on his wife, he had a fling on their honeymoon!

I tell you, 1% of the male population will forgive a woman if she does something like this, and that will prolly be because she is feeding and housing him!

That's cold . . . and please don't tell me he 'repented'!

If indeed he did repent, then he should have been willing to deal with the baggage, instead of transferring it to his wife!

anyways that's how you see it but I still think she should give him a second chance , this is not about if tables were turned so lets forget it for now

Ujujoan:
First of all, if a man says he did it 'twice', then he prolly did it 10x!

Secondly, how can you not see the selfishness in his actions? If cheating on his wife was such a grave mistake then how come he did it again? They a mistake done twice is now a habit!

Okay, what was he expecting from his confession Forgiveness Would he forgive her if the tables were turned I don't ask for forgiveness for what I cannot forgive myself!

If he felt that badly he should have carried the guilt in his heart and lived with it for the rest of his life . . . That will be his PENANCE. Not unloading the whole baggage on his unsuspecting wife who now has to live with it and battle with the 'forgiveness', while he feels liberated from his 'confession'!

Please don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to discourage the poster from forgiving. But let's not count his confession as a point!

Ujo before ever he thought of confessing it means he has already repented off his bad deeds and how do you know he won't forgive her if the tables were turned? at least I have a friend who couldn't leave his cheating girlfriend he was always ready to forgive her and it became annoying , Its obvious he has realised himself I think its only fair that she gives him another chance

tosyne007:
quite insightful. are u married?

lolz I'm not married still a teenager BTW why did you ask ? do you want to marry me? just curious lolz

dotman:
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i av quoted it oo, hope it reflects this time

lolz lolz lolz no It hasn't what are you doing? why cant it come up?  are you using a pc? did you do what i told you to?  seems like you are using the ''insert quote'' that's over the reply box I told you to use the one on the right of my post  still waiting you just have to get it right lolz

dotman:
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well have tried,

i dont think any man still wakes up to do mid nyt calls, i wld die if my sleep is interupted, not to now talk of waking up to make a call. i am sure wen he is more settled he wld b able to balance d equation, jst pray it wldnt b too late by den

lol well do your friend and favour and tell him to try and balance the equation he should not let his work come between him and his baby and BTW are you using a pc? if you are then you must have seen the ''insert quote'' option in the right top of my post right? so why doesn't it have my front colour? I'm not leaving until you quote me with my front colour lolz

dotman:
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i hope i got the colour? i am not covering for him, no reminders for the night calls, nd d weekend calls except for special occasions. although she complained to me that dey dnt talk as much as she wld like nd d nyt calls r shorter than wht she wld av wanted. Lagos has a way of dealing with u, u jst av to keep finding a way to deal with u, mayb thats his own way of dealing with it.

lolz you didn't get the colour again just like I anticipated  there's an ''insert quote''  option at the right top of any post at the reply page all you have to do is click it ''which ever one you want to quote 
lolz how would he put reminder na when the night call is free? he would be awake by 11:00pm waiting for 12:30 am  either way he's allowing his job to take his attention off his girl and its not right ''women love and need attention '' not want but NEED

GaussS:
A TIMER!!!! wonders shall never cease. True how would she know if he truly loves her or just fulfilling all righteousness of being in a relationship. That's not being spontaneous or romantic at all.

dotman:
well maybe he is a very organised nd timely person, nd from what i av seen about him, he is. so if he is on time to pick her up for a movie, mayb d same rule applies