Na ur fault. Stop blaming your sister for what you can stamp your feet on the ground and blatantly refuse for.
Jozilinn: I use to say No. My complaints is the fact that they enter the room without asking for permission to take what they want,I stated that someone entered the room without any information carried pot then saw where we hid our onions and took two. If it's just me saying no why won't I tell them No. Is there water in the fridge?No next thing immediately I turn to do something they'll enter and go straight to the fridge and say they want to check by themselves. I no go fit lie for you now,my sister don too give them privileges walai. E no dey funny again.
WHY 3XACTLY ARE YOU COMPLAINING FOR SOMETHING YOU CAN OUTRIGHTLY REJECT BY SAYING NO?
Jozilinn: There is something bothering me and even as I'm typing this there is no auta of happiness in me. My elder sister has made it an habit of giving out things to neighbors and sometimes it makes it hard for me especially when I am in need of that particular thing. They'll borrow big pot for a whole 2 weeks sometimes when we want to cook there'll be no big pot to use and when you go to their house to knock they'll say they are using it.
To the extent that if I collect that thing they'll come back at night to collect it back. This morning she was complaining that a neighbor wanted to carry pot and saw the onions we hid and took two. Now here's the most annoying part they'll mention the amount of things they want like four pure water,three onions,three Maggi even the gas doesn't last us to a month. And these are paying Ajo and doing pledges in various groups.
I know one that is doing Ajo of 50k to get 500k the time I was working in my former job and I was earning 45k she will say I should do her card now,or small data because I sell data but I don't do it anymore because no profit. I will tell her I don't have she's earning if not mistaken 200k and she's buying wigs and perfumes and skin care and hair care products but immediately they pay her she is broke but has money to spend on herself.
I don't want to sound rude but they're making me feel bad,and I don't want it to be like I'm getting frustrated or anything but it is not right. I couldn't even boil water this morning because the kettle wasn't in our room. I have told her it's her fault because she has also been complaining about the fact that they don't knock our room and my cousin sister said I should leave her because there was a time she refused to give someone block from the fridge saying she cannot force it out and my sister started shouting that the should give the person.
Her friend who was inside the room with us angrily went to the fridge and forced it out to give to the man and said she is two sided and doesn't know what's doing her. Can you imagine that one of our neighbors went to the market bought onions and grinded everything while coming to borrow onions from us every day morning, afternoon and evening.
We're contributing to buy this things because where we stay food stuff are very expensive,I was even complaining to someone that when I wasn't paid salary it was hard for me to feed because if I go to someone for credit especially one lady at my house she'll frown face and this is someone I buy something from in a regular. Sometimes she'll say that thing is not available but she'll sell to someone else in my presence.
The one wey pain me pass na egg she collected the egg from me and said it's remaining only two and she wants to go and buy new one so she can't give me credit.
So you can see why I'm very angry with everything that's going on I don't want to fight anyone because I don't want to bring myself so low I don't care what they'll say but it is getting out of hand and inconvening me
Leaving the policeman alone in your car is actually risky. Except of course you have another recording device inside the ride.. The policeman fit drop exhibit inside the car in your absence ..
Make he go sell the car,use the money go do him own personal hustle nah.. make property no turn liability for him head..
Sonnobax15: As una buy am the car so,hope say una go still help am fuel am?
E get some gifts wey you go receive wey go later turn out to be problem for you
Instead of empowering him,una go carry luxury put for him hand . How do you expect him to fuel and do other maintenances on the car if he doesn't have any other sources of livelihood
You have been cohabiting with someone for 8 months and she no ge pregnant yet your moniker is PURE SPERM..What is pure about your sperm pls?
PureSperm: Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.
Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.
The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.
Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?
The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.
Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?
Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.
guest1234: I Finally Chose to Walk Away from My Marriage
After deep reflection and repeated attempts to make things work, I have decided to step away from my marriage for the sake of my peace, safety, and well-being.
For a long time, I have endured constant physical and emotional abuse from my wife. During disagreements, she often resorts to violence, slapping, hitting, and using hurtful words. On several occasions, she has even threatened me with sharp objects such as knives and scissors. Unfortunately, today, she carried out that threat and stabbed me in the neck. By the grace of God, it wasn’t fatal, but it was the final straw that made me realize I cannot continue living in fear.
Throughout our marriage, I have done my best to provide for our home and ensure we lacked nothing. Despite my efforts, I have never received her support, emotionally, mentally, or otherwise. I have never raised my hand against her, yet that restraint has often been taken for weakness, giving her the boldness to abuse me repeatedly.
My family, having witnessed much of what I’ve gone through, has now asked her to leave and packed her belongings. She has quarreled with nearly every member of my family and remains in conflict with them.
This decision to end the marriage is not out of anger but self-preservation. I am choosing to prioritize my mental, emotional, and physical health. I have nothing to hide and no intention to tarnish her image; I am only speaking the truth about my experience.
From this point forward, I am focused on healing, rebuilding, and finding peace again.
SOMETIMES, THE PICTURE IS CLEARLY BEFORE OUR EYES BUT WE CHOOSE TO TURN A BLIND EYE TO IT.
What if d stab had gone wrong? Would you have had the time to type all these story?
Na God save you sha .. It took you too long to do the right thing .
Vikto17: Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...
My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger... we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want... please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks
You are obviously marrying for the wrong reasons if you are mostly concerned about her looks and not her personality.
Wetin woman suppose dey do .na him u dey do so...
I pity that beautiful soul who is getting married to you .
She let it slide cos she is also guilty of your crime.. even though it was an innocent one..
Sonnobax15: Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa
I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around
She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.
Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts
Nna2025: Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.
I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)
I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.
My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger..
Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.
YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE
OR HAVE YOU NOT BEEN LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS AS A HUSBAND ALL THIS WHILE??
IF YES... THEN THERE IS MORE TO MEET THE EYE THAN YOU THINK..
Nna2025: Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.
I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)
I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.
My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.
IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.
YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE.
Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
10mobile: Have you received the cash or seen anyone who did?
I believe that this little article will help you to think better: Another Blow On Igbo-Yoruba Rivalry. Our immaturity in this country is out of this world, and it's the main reason we are suffering so much. So, please, STOP this. Thanks.
is your awakedigest AT gmail still workingg? if yes, kindly reply your messages. sent you mails that are yet to be replied..
Lalami3232: Just try to standout in your nieche and thank me later. My advice is to go for cyber security, mobile app development or Data science. Those are the biggest boys at the moment. Forget web development, even a mumu can build websites.l
Lalami3232: Just try to standout in your nieche and thank me later. My advice is to go for cyber security, mobile app development or Data science. Those are the biggest boys at the moment. Forget web development, even a mumu can build websites.l
Family › Re: Over Borrowing By Neighbors by nathpope(m): 8:57pm On Oct 31
. But I no really send her papa 
. Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent?