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CrimeRe: Man Records Police Extortion In Ajah For Carrying Used Battery Without Receipt by nathpope(m): 5:33am On Apr 07
Leaving the policeman alone in your car is actually risky. Except of course you have another recording device inside the ride..
The policeman fit drop exhibit inside the car in your absence ..
FamilyRe: This Is The First Mistake We Made As Children by nathpope(m): 10:42am On Feb 17
What if that is ACTUALLY the right way to put on the slippers or shoeshuh
SportsRe: DR Congo Honours Michel Nkuka Mboladinga (Lumumba Vea) With Car Gift by nathpope(m): 10:10am On Jan 15
Make he go sell the car,use the money go do him own personal hustle nah.. make property no turn liability for him head..


Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
As una buy am the car so,hope say una go still help am fuel am? angry

E get some gifts wey you go receive wey go later turn out to be problem for you angry

Instead of empowering him,una go carry luxury put for him hand angry. How do you expect him to fuel and do other maintenances on the car if he doesn't have any other sources of livelihood angry

Honestly,I don tire for this continent angry
TravelRe: Top 10 Nationalities Deported From Canada (oct 31, 2025) by nathpope(m): 9:28pm On Jan 05
Passionate888:
Who can guess the ethnicity of most Nigerians deported?
And what exactly do you stand to gain by the ethnicity?
Won ni ki ekuru tan ninu awo, olobe like you still dey dust hand inside plate..
RomanceRe: How Should I Go About This? by nathpope(m): 1:15pm On Dec 10, 2025
You have been cohabiting with someone for 8 months and she no ge pregnant yet your moniker is PURE SPERM..What is pure about your sperm pls?


PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders, Please there's this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. There's this lady whom I met and have been dating for about 3 years now.

Though we've been doing alright all these while but suddenly she started having dreams concerning my family. Last night, she had a dream and she said inside the dream, my elder sister was berating her why she hasn't gotten pregnant for me all these while.

The truth of the matter is that we've only been cohabiting for 8 months and she hasn't for once missed her period.

Whenever we made love, I always noticed that she'd go the bathroom to pee and wash her private part. I have asked many elderly people around what that means and they keep telling me she doesn't want to get pregnant. Is that even possible at all?

The other disturbing part is that her mother is a traditional religious woman who worships the gods of her village and my woman also does the same. Recently I've been considering on how to marry her and have even been working towards it, and would be around March, next year.

Please, Nairalanders, what could be the problem. Should I go ahead with the whole relationship, considering how her family background is surrounded by the traditional religious practices of her family and how fetish she's. Could that also be the reason she has been finding it very difficult to take in?


Please mods, help me push this to the front page so that I can hear from others experiences and get a wider advise on how to go about this.
FamilyRe: I Finally Quit My Marriage. by nathpope(m): 6:16pm On Nov 13, 2025
guest1234:
I Finally Chose to Walk Away from My Marriage

After deep reflection and repeated attempts to make things work, I have decided to step away from my marriage for the sake of my peace, safety, and well-being.

For a long time, I have endured constant physical and emotional abuse from my wife. During disagreements, she often resorts to violence, slapping, hitting, and using hurtful words. On several occasions, she has even threatened me with sharp objects such as knives and scissors. Unfortunately, today, she carried out that threat and stabbed me in the neck. By the grace of God, it wasn’t fatal, but it was the final straw that made me realize I cannot continue living in fear.

Throughout our marriage, I have done my best to provide for our home and ensure we lacked nothing. Despite my efforts, I have never received her support, emotionally, mentally, or otherwise. I have never raised my hand against her, yet that restraint has often been taken for weakness, giving her the boldness to abuse me repeatedly.

My family, having witnessed much of what I’ve gone through, has now asked her to leave and packed her belongings. She has quarreled with nearly every member of my family and remains in conflict with them.

This decision to end the marriage is not out of anger but self-preservation. I am choosing to prioritize my mental, emotional, and physical health. I have nothing to hide and no intention to tarnish her image; I am only speaking the truth about my experience.

From this point forward, I am focused on healing, rebuilding, and finding peace again.
SOMETIMES, THE PICTURE IS CLEARLY BEFORE OUR EYES BUT WE CHOOSE TO TURN A BLIND EYE TO IT.

What if d stab had gone wrong? Would you have had the time to type all these story?

Na God save you sha .. It took you too long to do the right thing .

Congratulations on your life
RomanceRe: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by nathpope(m): 10:21pm On Nov 02, 2025
Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks
You are obviously marrying for the wrong reasons if you are mostly concerned about her looks and not her personality.

Wetin woman suppose dey do
.na him u dey do so...

I pity that beautiful soul who is getting married to you .
FamilyRe: Man Warms Hearts After Transforming His Parents’ Old Home Into A Beautiful One by nathpope(m): 10:25pm On Oct 17, 2025
This is commendable
PetsRe: Roscoe: Lewis Hamilton's Dog Passes Away At Age 12 by nathpope(m): 9:07pm On Sep 29, 2025
FamilyRe: What Does It Mean When Your Wife Saves Your Number On Her Like This? by nathpope(m): 8:51pm On Jul 28, 2025
She let it slide cos she is also guilty of your crime.. even though it was an innocent one..

Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day cheesy. But I no really send her papa angry

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing aroundtongue

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground undecided. Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? angry. She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts angry
CultureRe: Yoruba Obaship Stools Do Not Belong To Traditional Worshippers - Oluwo by nathpope(m): 7:57pm On Jul 23, 2025
Sheuns:
All these guys that want to eat their cakes and have it.

They call Obas alase ikeji orisha.

I guess that name was coined from Islam or Christianity.
Edumare bless you oh
FamilyRe: My Wife Caught Me With PEP, She Is Threatening A Divorce by nathpope(m): 7:57pm On May 30, 2025
Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger..

Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.

YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE

OR HAVE YOU NOT BEEN LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS AS A HUSBAND ALL THIS WHILE??

IF YES... THEN THERE IS MORE TO MEET THE EYE THAN YOU THINK..
FamilyRe: My Wife Caught Me With PEP, She Is Threatening A Divorce by nathpope(m): 7:56pm On May 30, 2025
Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.

YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
PetsRe: A MAN Was Mauled To Death By His Pet Lion by nathpope(m): 8:41pm On May 17, 2025
Sirach 12:13...
13 Who will pity a snake charmer bitten by a serpent, or any who go near wild beasts?

Should the RIP be Rest in peace or Rest in pieces...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Nice Vs Brest Game Holds Today At 8pm by nathpope(m): 8:34pm On May 17, 2025
Share for NICE
Like for BREST
CelebritiesRe: Nedu Didn't Tell Me To Say Anything About VeryDarkMan - Deeone by nathpope(m): 6:12am On Feb 15, 2025
Sirach 19 : 6-7
6 Avoid idle talk, and you will avoid a lot of trouble. 7 Never repeat what you hear, and you will have no regrets.

The Holy book has said it but they won't read their bible..
CelebritiesRe: Kassia Reacts To Zicsaloma’s Nose Surgery by nathpope(m): 3:16pm On Feb 11, 2025
eepeepook:
Leave insecurity to women. Lift weights and embrace your masculinity. Who’s raising these modern men?
Modern Mehn... NOT real Men..
RomanceRe: Onlyfans Star Azra Ay Vandan Arrested Over Plan To Sleep With 100 Men In A Day by nathpope(m): 3:04am On Jan 22, 2025
Jennyclay:
Her body, Her Life.

People should learn to mind their business undecided
Comments like this are part of what turned this world inside out..
RomanceRe: Dating A Guy Who Is Just NOT Funny by nathpope(m): 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2024
EmperorCaesar:
cheesy

Date a comedian with a lot of social media followers. Dump the guy for a girl that wants quality features in a guy
DOnt use the word "dump". Use "leave" instead..
PoliticsRe: Who Has Received This ₦25,000 From FG? by nathpope(m): 10:26am On Nov 01, 2024
10mobile:
Have you received the cash or seen anyone who did?

I believe that this little article will help you to think better: Another Blow On Igbo-Yoruba Rivalry. Our immaturity in this country is out of this world, and it's the main reason we are suffering so much. So, please, STOP this. Thanks.
is your awakedigest AT gmail still workingg? if yes, kindly reply your messages.
sent you mails that are yet to be replied..
CelebritiesRe: Happie Boys Are Not Looking Happy by nathpope(m): 8:00am On Oct 23, 2024
The other guy on locks has NEVER looked happie
CareerRe: Ladies And Guys In Tech Share How Much They Earn (photos/video) by nathpope(m): 3:52pm On Oct 16, 2024
Lalami3232:
Just try to standout in your nieche and thank me later.
My advice is to go for cyber security, mobile app development or Data science. Those are the biggest boys at the moment. Forget web development, even a mumu can build websites.l
..
CareerRe: Ladies And Guys In Tech Share How Much They Earn (photos/video) by nathpope(m): 3:52pm On Oct 16, 2024
Lalami3232:
Just try to standout in your nieche and thank me later.
My advice is to go for cyber security, mobile app development or Data science. Those are the biggest boys at the moment. Forget web development, even a mumu can build websites.l
EducationRe: Moment Students Pranked Their Lecturer & Walked Out Of His Class (video) by nathpope(m): 10:23am On Sep 01, 2024
ALL THE GUYS NI THIS CLASS DEY PLAY SPORTY.... TAKE IT TO THE BANK..


DatoDatuk:
Moment students pranked their lecturer and walked out of his class

His reactions is priceless. The students then presented him with a gift.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AMRVF7A6kTY
EducationRe: Moment Students Pranked Their Lecturer & Walked Out Of His Class (video) by nathpope(m): 10:22am On Sep 01, 2024
ALL THE GUYS NI THIS CLASS DEY PLAY SPORTY.... TAKE IT TO THE BANK..
RomanceRe: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by nathpope(m): 9:27pm On Aug 26, 2024
Just keep on tending your vegetables. U go learn..

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied
FamilyRe: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nathpope(m): 9:28am On Jul 19, 2024
BlindAngel:
She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.
It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry..
She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do..
She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about.

Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel
FamilyRe: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nathpope(m): 9:26am On Jul 19, 2024
She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.[/quote]It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry..
She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do..
She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about.

Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel..
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by nathpope(m): 2:34pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
100%
Christianity EtcRe: 7 Reasons Why I Respect The Jehovah’s Witnesses by nathpope(m): 6:18pm On May 26, 2024
Can you tell what their stand is on tithes?
Or their method or belief about tithing?
I wld like to learn?
FoodRe: THROWBACK: Which Of These Beverages/Carbonated Drinks Do You Know? by nathpope(m): 7:39pm On May 18, 2024
Where is TANDI GUARANA??
BusinessRe: What's The Meaning Of These Symbols On Naira Notes by nathpope(m): 9:29am On May 03, 2024
Nairalander248:
Have responded to this already, it's called tactile mark. Made for the blind cheesy. They can feel it and tell you how much is it.

https://www.cbn.gov.ng/Currency/FeaturesCoins.asp
No be on those wrinkled and worn out naira notes we see here and there..

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