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Just keep on tending your vegetables. U go learn..

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

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BlindAngel:
She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.

It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry..
She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do..
She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about.

Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.[/quote]It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry..
She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do..
She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about.

Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel..

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

100%

Can you tell what their stand is on tithes?
Or their method or belief about tithing?
I wld like to learn?

Where is TANDI GUARANA??

Nairalander248:
Have responded to this already, it's called tactile mark. Made for the blind . They can feel it and tell you how much is it.

https://www.cbn.gov.ng/Currency/FeaturesCoins.asp

No be on those wrinkled and worn out naira notes we see here and there..

1.NONE.
2. NO ONE.
3. NOT ONE.

Validated:
Please, name 3 active and living politicians that Nigerians trust.

For me:
1. Peter Obi
2. Peter Obi
3. Peter Obi

Peter Obi is the only one with INTEGRITY. The rest are thieves and druglords.
Peter Obi has a business and a job, .any others are FULLTIME POLOOTICIANS.

Odewaleadesoye:
Grateful for Another Year of Growth and Opportunities! 🎉

Here's to embracing all that's ahead with open arms and a heart full of gratitude while celebrating Another Trip Around the Sun.

Dear Esteemed Nairaland Family, kindly celebrate with me!

Happy Birthday to Odewale Adesoye (A. K. A. Mr. Green Man)! 🎂🎈✨

If you are truly green, i wld advise u take a picture of you in your native attire on you. Green depicts nativity. Stop the European propaganda for once.

Happy Birthday btw..

vibemad007:
This is how to dress for your husband, even when you're nursing a baby

What exactly are you trying to achieve by dressing like this? Are you planning on having another baby in 9 months without even weaning this baby in your hands??

Jamaican dancehall artist Vybz Kartel's conviction for murder has been overturned.
The 48-year-old was given a life sentence in 2014 for the killing of Clive "Lizard" Williams on the Caribbean island.
His successful appeal, heard by the Privy Council in London, argued that a juror accused of trying to bribe others should have been thrown off his trial. Authorities in Jamaica will decide whether the case should be retried.

The musician, real name Adidja Palmer, is one of the country's most popular artists and has collaborated with performers such as Jay-Z and Rihanna. His 64-day trial was one of the longest in Jamaican history, and ended with Kartel being ordered to serve a minimum of 35 years in jail. This was later reduced to 32-and-a-half years.

The trial heard that victim Clive Williams and another man, Lamar Chow, were given two unlicensed firearms belonging to Kartel for safekeeping. When they failed to return them at an agreed time, prosecutors said, they were summoned to Kartel's house in August 2011.
Chow told the trial they were attacked and the last thing he saw was Clive Williams - who was never seen alive again - lying motionless on the ground. The house burned down days later and a body was never recovered.

Kartel and his co-accused Shawn Campbell, Kahira Jones and Andre St John had maintained their innocence since the original trial.

https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-68567858

christejames:
Sorry, the reply is not for you...

What i meant is It will serve great purpose if you explain how to use the cloves and not just tell him to buy cloves.

Werey shout "Jesus". Na Jesus send am to go do video??

What if the cleaner had died?
What would have been the fate of the lady?

May our good deed not bring us bad luck oh..

christejames:
Tell him to buy clove plant from all this Yoruba women in the market, it's just around one hundred naira...


That's what my bro used.

Buy clove and plant it or buy clove and start looking at it every morning?

Try dey explain better for good comprehension for those who might need your solution.

The South African police have detained six individuals linked to the high-profile murders of renowned rapper, Kiernan Forbes, popularly known as AKA, and his close associate, celebrity chef and entrepreneur Tebello “Tibz” Motshoane.

The tragic incident occurred on February 10, 2023, when the duo was fatally shot outside a popular Durban restaurant, just hours before AKA was scheduled to perform at a nearby club.

AKA, who initially gained fame as a member of the rap group ‘Entity’ before launching a successful solo career, was a celebrated figure in the South African music scene and beyond.

Over the years, he garnered numerous awards, earning accolades at both the Black Entertainment Television and MTV Europe Music Awards.

Source: https://www./2024/02/28/south-african-police-arrest-six-for-murder-of-rapper-aka/?

Imagine packing human beings like cow meat taken away to be processed when an ambulance is the ideal thing to use?
This country is "on God" mode..

Glimpsetv:
Pictures 1 and 2 show the injured and deceased being carried away by vans.

And you think taking him to a boarding school would be a good idea?
I cld sense you are trying to prevent the situation whereby your brother turns a (fe)male or starts doing female stuffs.

Boarding school is the haven of such practices you are trying to avoid.

Be wary..

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone. This festive season, I traveled to my family house and noticed something.

We rented out the 2 bedroom in our compound to this couple with a little girl around 4 year old I think.

Understand that my lil Bro (10) is the last born, so he stays with my Mom and 3 other of my sisters including the eldest. He is very close to our last sister (13), they do literally everything together.

So I noticed whenever our last sister plays with this our neighbour's kid, my lil Bro leaves whatever he's doing to join them. He grew up with the ladies in the house though cos My dad is late so I'm more like the father figure now. I don't live with them, the 2nd boy (17) lives with me and is in the university at my state of residence. This is a new estate we moved into and unlike our former estate where he goes out to play with his peers at the play ground, this one is very quiet and more like OYO (on your own).

Normally, there's a gaming console in the house and also a desktop computer, put them all in the house last year, he could make use of that whenever he's bored but he choose to play with the girls. My Mom doesn't have a problem with that but I don't want him to start behaving like a girl or something, so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Also looking out for the best way possible to handle this, need advice from mainly parents please.

Thanks.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

WHAT IS THE ESSENCE OF HER APOLOGISING AND DOING IT AGAIN IF YOU DO NOT NIP THE TIP IN THE MUD?

It's obvious you seem to be like a gentleman. But If you are the type that always wait for apology for every wrong done to you, you go either wait tire or would always be offended because las las na apology you go chop.

Try to make it uneasy for people to easily offend you. By that, you won't have to wait for any apology from anyone.

JASONjnr:
I believe, you must have had your answers while typing this and you don't need anyone's opinion on what to do.

On why he contacted you, nobody will reveal anything that will be close to his intentions.


So, why not fold your hands and see what he brings.

Lol @ your last paragraph..

eepeepook:
Name: Mark Surname: John.

Name: Tony Middle name: Excel Surname: Livingston.

Name: Jennifer Surname: Confidence.

Seriously, where are they from? I remember we give names from our dialects. Some people have English names but only as first names or preferred ones. Their ‘native names’ dominate all of their official documents. In the given examples, those English names and surnames are their official ones.

Fela said it all.. "Colo mentality"

FreeStuffsNG:
https://punchng.com/youre-wrong-aworis-are-lagos-first-settlers-lagos-monarch-counters-oba-of-benin/

This us what happens when a people do not know their history.. And the easiest way to preserve any knowledge of such history has also been scrapped from the schools.

badoh:
If she eventually recognise those unfortunate guys in the future and delete them codedly, people would mourn them and start cursing not knowing the evil they perpetrated in the past.

Spits on their graves...

CandidAdmin:
I don't know whether what I saw this morning falls under sex harrasment, but here is mine.

We got down from a public vehicle (me and my sister) and then tried to cross the road only for one grown up to hit my sister butt and claim it was an accident.

My sister overlooked it and the we crossed the road. As we were going up a bridge, we decided to stop and buy something only for the same man to do it again. He still said it was a mistake and walked away. The road is a big one ooo, and no car was passing by but the man decided to walk on the corner where no reasonable person will pass so that he would accomplish his mission.

My sister and I were really pissed off, even the traders attending to us were insulting him but he couldn't care less.

I couldn't do anything because my sister told me not to as per he his an old useless man. If not ehnn...

Share your experience

Dem don knack ur sista jazz... U no knw..

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

4 months and you are already planning wedding? That's super fast oh..
One (or both of you) is insecure.

Involve her family in matters like this..
Its not what you and her can face alone.

Padipadi:
Na IsrealDMW post all these?
Things dey happen o!

Me sef taya... If he come b woman nko?
He do series oh..

PuZZyNegro:
It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.

Gifts are symbolic you know.

Oversabi is what is worrying u my broda.
U saw "bread". Your inlaw saw "gift".

U shld av collected d "gift".

They might think the reason for your refusal was because you feel the gift was too small and not befitting for you to accept from them.

Do you think they would want to gift you another thing in the future?
With the fear of you rejecting it because it is not up to standard?

Anyhow, what is done is done.
There is sti time to correct the impression. But no matta how u clean a slate, d mark go stl dey..

As this isnt done in the kitchen, I'm patiently waiting for who will try to break this record....

sammycarz:
na wetin hunger dey cause

And lack of work..

Na d girl go still win d faceoff..
na d guy go fess taya...

MS247:
Egyptians know religion is a scam, infact some of the first churches in the world started in Egypt like Abu Saga


Even Jesus lived 80% of his life in Egypt.. from birth when they fled from king Herod to when he returned at 30s for evangelism

If i told you i av never thought of this knowledge from this point of view nko, wld you have agreed with me?

Thanks so much for this hidden open knowledge.

No wonder though not human, He had a very STRONG humanly background in knowledge.