Jehovah made the rainbow as a covenant between Him and the earth. Yet some unscrupulous devil incarnated bodies are trying to change the concept of the rainbow in today's world.

I remember growing up seeing the (picture of a) rainbow and feel excited at the wonder it exhibits. But seeing the picture of a rainbow today....may God help us.

Genesis 9:13-16 In-Context
13 I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth. 14 Whenever I bring clouds over the earth and the rainbow appears in the clouds, 15 I will remember my covenant between me and you and all living creatures of every kind.

Talk to your niece.
Try to understand why she does the things she is doing.
You already did well by not telling on her with her parents or other older ones to avoid embarrassing her.

You would be surprise with the revelation that would ensue from what you get to hear from her of she pours her heart to you.

She sure needs help.. You might be the one to help her stop or overcome all these instead of one psycho or perv who would pry on her shortcomings out there.

Receive wisdom..

questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

Inadvertently, this aboki just opened doors of blessing for the Eluu p dude..

And God shall use the foolishness of the foolish to profound the wise..

For God has chosen the foolish of the world to shame the wise, and he has chosen the weak of the world to shame the mighty.
1 Corithians 1:27

Subsidy sounds nice..

melonsgroup:
Please I need a romantic name to call my husband.

1 wear black.. The other wear blue.
Black cloth beat blue cloth blue black..
I hope its not what I am thinking.
IYKYK.

Adebisi0070:
Good Day N'Ls..
Finally, I fixed the bike I bought last week. Driving my okada today and I was able to raise about 3k!

While riding under the hot sun, I was flagged down by this tall well looking, fair guy.. He told me his location and we agreed for transfer, he's to pay me 200 naira.

While on trans, he told me we should branch an eatery, he needs to get something for himself.

Baba went inside after I packed the bike, came out with 3 meatpile.

All of a sudden, He gave me 1meat-pie! Claiming he loves the way I drive.

We got to our destination, immediately a boy of about 10years+ came to him and whispered something to him, immediately he became uncomfortable.

He asked me to give him 2k cash that he'll transfer it to me with my okada money and that it's a matter of life and death.

I gave this guy and he ran into a compound, though he told me he'll be back in right now.

I'm still there and is more than an hour and bros is no where to be found.

I'm at home now thinking about my loss of 2500, this life sha..

Person use meatpie collect 2k+ for your hand..
Must be an expensive meatpie..

Look at it from this angle: it will give you small repose..
You paid 2k to learn a hardknock lesson..

MaDaRa01:

no be my fault... country hard aswear, at that moment i was only thinking of taking adv of the situation. I will go back tomorrow to the woman

Just maakke sure you go with the balqnce money. Other2ise dd woman nor go take am easy with you..

I AM SURE MOST OF THOSE WHO WOULD TELL YOU TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND ARE EITHER UNMARRIED OR BITTERED IN THEIR OWN MARRIAGE (BUT STILL IN IT).

LIKE SOMEONE RIGHTLY SAID, "If he's someone you can smell any whiff of potential in, keep pushing and encouraging him......Most men like yours, you disengage from them and within a year, you'd be regretting why and how you lost out at the "almost" hour.

HOW WAS HE TREATING YOU AND THE FAMILY BEFORE HE LOST HIS JOB?
IF HE GETS A NEW JOB TODAY, HOW DO YOU THINK HE WOULD BEHAVE? WOULD YOU STILL PLAN ON LEAVING HIM AS YOU INTEND TO?
ARE YOU SURE THERE IS NOT ONE JOHNNY IN THE CORNER SOMEWHERE PUTTING SOME CUNNING IDEAS IN YOUR HEAD?

EVERY MAN NEEDS A WOMAN WHO WOULD NOT ONLY SUPPORT HIM IN HIS DOWN TIME, BUT ALSO ENCOURAGE HIM TO BE HIS BETTER SELF.

DON'T LET SOME PEOPLE WHO DO NOT VALUE WHAT YOU HAVE MAKE YOU LOSE IT.
DO YOU THINK IT IS EASY TO DO A MAN'S JOB WITH RAISING A CHILD? SEEK OUT THE ADVICE OF A SINGLE MOTHER TO REALLY KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO DO A 2-MAN JOB.

MY SISTER, PLS THINK IT WELL BEFORE YOU TAKE A DRASTIC STEP.

AGAIN, IF YOU CAN SMELL A WHIFF OF POTENTIAL IN YOUR MAN, STICK WITH HIM, KEEP PUSHING AND ENCOURAGING HIM.
WHEN HE GETS OUT OF THAT HOLE, HE WILL APPRECIATE YOU THE MORE...

NO LISTEN TO BITTERED SOULS...

all4zionlover:
What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.

He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.

Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.

The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?

Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

Britishcoins:

I am AS and both girls are AA. that has always been my first question to them

EVERYBODY IS AA NOWADAYS, ITS BEST YOU GO AND CONFIRM YOURSELVES..NOT ONLY BY HEARSAY..

Britishcoins:
All I need is someone I can build my business with.. Or a woman who has her own vision that I will support... Should I marry hard working woman I don't love or marry a beautiful woman that is not too good in businesses?

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THE WAY I SEE IT, WHAT YOU REALLY NEED IS WHAT IS EMBOLDEN UP THERE.
THE WAY YOU DESCRIBED BOTH OF THEM, JUDITH IS A CINDERELLA KIND OF LADY THAT LIVES IN A FANTASY WORLD.
WHILE IFEOMA UNDERSTANDS THAT LIFE COMES IN 2 PHASES.

YOU ARE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT JUDITH'S BEAUTY AND NOT HER SENSE OF ENTERPRISE.
I WONDER WHAT WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN BOTH OF YOU IF/SHOULD LIFE SHOW YOU BOTH ANOTHER PHASE THAT SHE IS NOT FAMILIAR WITH.

THE GREATEST GIFT A MAN CAN GIVE HIMSELF AND HIS CHILDREN IS TO MARRY SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GOOD MOTHER TO HIS KIDS ...NOT JUST A GOOD WIFE TO HIM. A GOOD MOTHER WOULD SURELY MAKE A GOOD WIFE. EXCEPT THE MAN FAILS TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND

YOU TEND TO MAKE A VERY BAD MISTAKE WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELF ALONE IN THE CASE AND NOT PUT YOUR KIDS INTO CONSIDERATION. YOUR KIDS ARE YOUR FUTURE.
YOU TEND TO MAKE A WISE DECISION IF/WHEN YOU TRY TO LOOK AT THE PICTURE OF THE WHOLE SCENARIO FROM AN OUTSIDER POINT OF VIEW AND NOT FROM YOUR OWN POINT OF VIEW.

WHEN YOU WATCH A FOOTBALL MATCH, IT IS HE WHO WATCHES FROM THE STANDS THAT HAVE A CLEARER VIEW OF WHAT IS GOING ON ON THE PITCH....AND NOT THE PLAYERS ON THE FIELD OF PLAY.
APPLY THIS TO YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE AND WATCH THINGS GET CLEARER TO YOU.

I WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR ENDEAVOURS.

"...I didn’t recant any sit at home order. ..." I WONDER WHAT THS GUY IS REALLY FEELING LIKE...

IMAGINE IF THIS GUY WAS MADE THE PRESIDENT OF ANY COUNTRY...HE WON'T BE DIFFERENT FROM THE IDI AMINS AND CO...

WE SEE IT IN MOVIES.... D END IS NEAR.
MAN WILL DESTROY HIMSELF..

I WAS EXPECTING HIM TO SHOW UP IN COURT WITH A BANDAGED NECK (AS THEY ALWAYS DO).....

hugelyendowed:
This has been on my cousin's body since December last year. It scratches him. It's located on his ribs/stomach region.

Initially they felt it's traditional stuff but after series of treatments with herbal and traditional procedures, no show.

He had to go to hospital and Even did blood culture. Yet it still scratches him and has refused to go.

Please any reasonable contributions on how to cure this permanently will be appreciated. Thanks. He will be reading.

Note: The two Labs he did at a hospital and at a lab centre all show that he is HIV Negative. So that one is ruled out totally. He is not even promiscuous.

Allergy is another suspect. He doesn't even rub creams.

First drink a blood cleanser for a couple of days to cleanse the impurities in the blood. Then buy the followings:

Skipem antifungal cream.... Apply to d surface regularly. Very effective.
Loratyn 10 tabs... Use according to prescription.
Predilin tabs..... Use according to prescription..


Thank me later

What if the colleague is a "Young" co worker?
Would he have done the same thing?

The fact that he brought it out to the whole world doesnt mean anything. Na dis naija we follow dey

What does he stand to gain by doing that? Worldly validation?
Then what next?

What one values, one keeps closely safe.
Not open it to the whole world.

PHIPEX:
It's same reason why they consider gay legal but polygamy is illegal.

Chicken, goat and cow can be killed but a cat can not be kicked.

Very weird society, a case of the Animal farm mentality.

Misplaced priorities

emitheo:


Very helpful my brother. I appreciate.
I have also gotten an herbal remedy that was recommended to me by a good friend saying its a very potent cure. I will give it a shot.

Whats the name of the herbal remedy? What is required?

abobote:
I was hoping to see the photos of the the two girls, so I can compare them, but with that her nails, she can't make a good wife. Meanwhile I have copied the number to try my luck

Na club girl nah... Wat do u expect

Abiboss:
Good day Nairalanders.

I am a fresh graduate, but I don't want to work under someone. Would like you all to share your business ideas/plans, if you get 400k now what will you do with it?

He who must earn, must first learn.
Learning is not limit3d to the 4 walls of the school alone.

To be serv3d, you must first serve to know the nitty gritty of your hustle.
Practical lesson are the basis of ALL KNOWLEDGE...not just theory.

Nobody know it all..

My 2 kobo..

For bringing this the FP

The MODs are not to blame is a novel by Ola Rotimi.

The MODs must be Crazy is a comedy series of films starring the Namibian San farmer and actor Nǃxau ǂToma.

Lalami3232:


Programing is very vast, so make I tell you my field (web, desktop and mobile development).
Start with HTML, move to CSS, run inside JavaScript life, flirt with Python and possibly impregnate it, then turn Oracle/Mongo/MySQL to your baby mama .

I love the way you broke it down. Tnx.

Do you have links that one can surf?
I know there are millions of them online... But there is a reason why one way leads directly to a destination while some other ways pass thru
Bends and turns..

Lalami3232:


Say whatever you wish to say here, sir/ma. Your answer to your question may help others

Ok...as a beginner, can you pls suggest the coirse or programming to start with?

As kids, we started counting from 1,2,3..
What isnthe 1,2,3 of programming?

Lalami3232:
I discovered alot of things but make I share just few with una.

1. Nairaland na the most bitter forum worldwide
2. This forum can pollute your mind if you no dey mentally strong. Most of us wey dey plan to marry very soon don dey get rethink because of wetin we dey read and see here everyday
3. This platform get 99% hypocrites. Dem go call you simp for here but dem go do worse offline. Dem go say dem be feminist for here but dem go dey loyal pass primary one student wey just start school when dem see small money.
4. Impossibility is a thing of the mind
5. Believe 99% of what you see/read here, at your own peril
6. Software development is the new oil.
7. Tomorrow is so unpredictable, na only today na sure
8. I no fit emphasize number 6 enough, but abeg make we all try give a shot at software development. I'm a testimony of this!!! Go online, learn web or mobile development and thank me later. If you're good, you won't work in 9ja but abroad. Imagine say dem dey pay you $2K for a start and you dey your house.
9. Read number 6 again......
10. Number 9


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ***** "

Kindly share you email. Lets talk pls.

I ONCE SAID IT THAT A TIME WILL COME WHEN USERNAMES AND PASSWORDS OF ACCOUNTS WILL BE INCLUDED IN WILLS.

THE LADY KAT3NA IS SEEING INTO THE FUTURE ALREADY..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
The music industry is now nonsense
People without talent just going into the studio to dish out dog shit

I can't be dragging my weed and be listening to all this kind of Nigeria trash song.....when I light up my weed the music i vibe to are
post malone( the music wizard)
J cole
The weekend
Imagine dragons
Jesse jags
Sia
Burna boy
2face
Katty pery
Passenger
Bruno Mars
Justin bieber
WizKid( Balogun the big boy)
Avicii( rest in peace)
Twenty one pilot
The Chainsmokers
Dig the kid
Cold play
Khalid
Maroon 5
Calum scot
John legend
Selena Gomez
Ellie Goulding
Christiana aquilera
A great big world
Rita ora
Clean bandit
Dua lipa
Martin garixx
Major Lazer
The night
Edsheeran
Taylor swift
One direction
Lewis capaldi
Sam smith
Ariana Grande
Kehlani
Billie eilish
Camilo Cabello..
Normani
James Arthur

U are carried bro.
D. O. D. O 2u.

Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.

But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.

As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.

To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.

Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?

Even if they advise you with all the RED flags, u wil stil go ahead to marry her. Its very obvious she sees you as a SIMP. If u are one of those who STANDS THEIR GROUNDS, she would try all these sh*ts with u..

Carry ur cross bro.

Loreettaa:
Tomorrow, one simp will marry this, and say "I'm lucky to have her."

Words on marble

Medicine after death..
Bunch of incompetent aides. Abike Dabiri alone cannot remember all the cases on her table..
Nigeria has a long way to go..

Machidon:



Please what type of skill can one learn to fetch him money. I mean a skill that's not over crowded in the labour market.

If you very good with eye to hand cordination, learn barbing... With that you can make some money that you can use to sponsor urself in school even while in school.

What i woukd only advise you is to BE CREATIVE IN YOUR ENDEAVOUR..
FIND A NICHE WHERE OTHERS ARE NOT EXPLORING IN IT YET...OR VERY FEW ARE EXPLORING IT... and build on it.

Every skill and endeavour has this.. And i5 comes with experience at d job.

May God kead u aright.

4realsexy:
The cure is cheap. You know this red leave that grows by bush side. Sometimes they can be purple. Get it and give her the juice

Those are used for new born babies..
Well, it can be used too though..
Nature has a way of proving its powers thru seemingly little things..

My Nairaland family,
Please help me for my daughter's case. We have done a lot, biopsy and six months constant medication and all yielded no results. All manner of traditional medicine have been prescribed. It has spread all over her body. I am emotionally drained. House please help me.

I feel so sad reading this and trying to imagine the struggles and pain you are going thru as a mum and your little girl too.

I used to have a skin rash on my feet.. Itchy and spreading over time until someone gave me some drugs and antifungal cream to use and it was miraculous.
I have forgotten the dosage... So be sure to ask from the pharmacy.

Buy and use
1. Loratyn-10 (Loratadine tab).

2. Predilin (Prednisolone tab)

3. Skipem antifungal cream.

I used the above and it worked well for me.
I hope your girl gets well soon.

Lets see the result as it goes for others who could be in the same boat.

D guy too dey watch telemundo n zee world.

Openyamind111:





Asking your partner to marry you should be an agreement between two of you and not a public thing (my take).what if everything you plan don’t work you will make yourself look a big fool in present of everyone.. listen how I did mine.. after good knacking for better hotel room where there’s no camera.. I did as if I wanted to do something in the toilet and came back with the ring and she accepted.. with that I saved myself from any form of disgrace.. we are Africans we have our way of doings.. I wish you best of luck bro..