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Food / Re: Zizi’s Kitchen. by Naturalista(f): 10:29am On Aug 26, 2021
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Ur location? Lagos
Food / Re: Zizi’s Kitchen. by Naturalista(f): 10:18am On Aug 26, 2021
Lagos
Food / Zizi’s Kitchen. by Naturalista(f): 11:57pm On Aug 25, 2021
Order for your delicious meals.

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Agriculture / Re: What Is The Name Of This Root And It’s Uses? by Naturalista(f): 6:42pm On May 23, 2021
It’s not,this one is white inside.Tumeric isn’t this big.I bought it when I travelled to Cotonou but the language barrier didn’t allow me and the seller to communicate effectively.
Agriculture / What Is The Name Of This Root And It’s Uses? by Naturalista(f): 6:31pm On May 23, 2021
Hello all.Please what is the name of this root and it’s uses.I would like to know.Thanks in advance

Health / Re: Fibroid : Natural Ways Of Shrinking Fibroid Group by Naturalista(f): 3:22pm On Aug 21, 2020
Hi, Please send to obiageo@gmail.com. Thanks
Romance / Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Naturalista(f): 5:03pm On May 15, 2020
Sorry to say, but you are a narcissist. Unfortunately narcissists never change.Only age or maybe a life threatening incident or illness may make you change.And of course God Himself.Asides these, you will always be the way you are.
Business / Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by Naturalista(f): 12:21pm On Sep 18, 2019
Hello all

Fashion / Re: My Online Thriftstore! by Naturalista(f): 11:27am On Nov 22, 2018
Twaci:
it will be delivered to you, once payment is made.
My sister Na wah o , you did not even drop a phone number where we can further communicate.All you keep on saying is it will be delivered once payment is made.Abi is this how you do business.Is it on naira land I will make payment? You asked for my location and I told you. I am not understanding o.

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Fashion / Re: My Online Thriftstore! by Naturalista(f): 11:23pm On Nov 21, 2018
Twaci:
Can be delivered to you once payment is made. Apologies for the late reply sad

What's your location?
Lagos,Mafoluku
Fashion / Re: My Online Thriftstore! by Naturalista(f): 7:07am On Nov 17, 2018
Twaci:
Simple halter flower dress

Size: 8-10

Price: 1,500

How do I get this?
Career / Re: Travelling To Canada And Starting A Pure Water Business In Nigeria. by Naturalista(f): 6:09pm On Jun 02, 2018
cluewebhost:
Nothing is Guaranteed

I love this .
Business / Re: FCMB Depositors Lose Over N600m To Fraudulent Staff by Naturalista(f): 7:55pm On May 23, 2018
I know one of their ex staff who committed sucide because of a loan gone bad.He was a guarantor for a customer and the person absconded.He took his life before EFCC could get to him.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Is The Funniest/weirdest Name You've Ever Heard? by Naturalista(f): 6:32pm On Apr 27, 2018
Foundation

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Travel / Re: Travel To The North For The First Time. Advise by Naturalista(f): 6:18pm On Apr 03, 2018
partnerbiz4:
But some peeps get time shaa.

Pesin dey complain say time no dey, pesin dey here they calculate how to waka about.


Nawao...


You no well grin
Politics / Re: Lagos Land Use Act: A Declaration Of War Against Lagosians Especially The Poor by Naturalista(f): 10:09pm On Mar 12, 2018
three:
Sadly its the actual indigenous Lagosians (and some South Westerners) I pity.

By the time the immigrants from Ondo and Osun finish with them they may begin to understand that they are the trees in the quote below who thought the handle of the axe was one of them.

In the last elections many who were not bothered about voting suddenly jumped up 'slapped their buttocks' and ran to the polling booth because they heard that one 'foreign' tribe was supporting one candidate.


"The forest was shrinking, but the trees kept voting for the axe because its handle was made of wood and they thought it was one of them. - Anonymous"

By the time they do you what they did to the aboriginal Indians in America, collect your ancestral land in downtown Lagos and share plots in compensation in Badagry, maybe that time una eye go clear.



This is deep

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Business / Re: If You Are Into Nylon Recycling . Branch Here, by Naturalista(f): 3:55pm On Feb 14, 2018
Do you also buy pure water nylons?
Business / Re: If You Are Into Nylon Recycling . Branch Here, by Naturalista(f): 3:54pm On Feb 14, 2018
Ok,will get back to you.
Business / Re: If You Are Into Nylon Recycling . Branch Here, by Naturalista(f): 11:12am On Feb 14, 2018
Where are you based?
Business / Re: 0000 by Naturalista(f): 12:20pm On Feb 01, 2018
Chudy144,pls can you call me 08032022347 or can you drop your number,I'll call you.Very urgent pls.Thanks
Business / Re: Srap Business Thread Lets Meet Here by Naturalista(f): 5:27pm On Jan 31, 2018
I have scrap pet bottles for sale .Contact me if needed.
Adverts / Plastic Pet Bottles by Naturalista(f): 1:05pm On Jan 31, 2018
I have plastic pet bottles available for sale per ton.Serious and interested buyers should call 08029554160 Thanks.
Business / Re: Please Who Has Pure Water Sachets For Sale In Large Quantities? by Naturalista(f): 10:59pm On Jan 28, 2018
Do you still need it?
Religion / Re: Happy International Day Of The Bible: Share Your Favorite Bible Quote by Naturalista(f): 9:48am On Nov 12, 2017
Philippians 4:13.

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Romance / Re: Why Everyone MUST get married by Naturalista(f): 5:21pm On Oct 28, 2017
dasparrow:
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I hate to break it to you but not everyone will or must marry. Marriage is a CHOICE. Some people do better with a spouse and some people do better on their own. Let me tell you why marriage isn't for everyone.

1. Some people don't like sex. Their dislike for sex might come as a result of suffering from a past traumatic experience such as rape or other forms of sexual abuse. Forget counseling. Once a person has been sexually abused especially in childhood, it affects them even in adulthood. Sex abuse survivors struggle to trust others with their bodies and genitals after experiencing sexual abuse. So what should such people do? Go and marry and stay miserable while their spouse traumatizes them further each time the spouse demands for sex? I don't know about you but that is a crappy way to live. Many people don't mind love, hugging and mild kissing but not everyone likes the idea of having to deal with genital secretions like sperm or vaginal fluids. Not everyone wants to have someone disturbing their genitals. Such people can still enjoy intimate relationships without the sex and the sexually transmitted diseases and sometimes unplanned pregnancies that come with marriage.

2. Not everyone can have sex, literally. I know you may not know this but there are some illnesses that make having sex impossible. When you get a chance google the following medical conditions:

A) Vestibulodynia
B) Vaginismus
C) Vulvodynia
D) Peyronie's disease

Let me just stop at the above 4 illnesses. So, patients suffering from any of the above illnesses and can't have sex should do what? Go and kill themselves? I know of someone who suffers from vaginismus. The lady's condition makes having sex excruciatingly painful and practically impossible. The lady, knowing her condition and lacking the necessary funds to seek specialist treatment in Europe or North America has decided to remain single. Has she committed a crime? I know the bloody Nigerian society will judge her for not being married not knowing her case is more complicated than they can ever imagine.

3. People with mental issues. So since you feel everyone should get married, I guess people who are mentally challenged or suffer from a mental disorder should also get married?

4. People with violent tendencies. So, people with violent tendencies should also get married so that they can beat their spouses to a pulp everyday and raise traumatized children? Do you know why domestic violence is so prevalent in the Nigerian society? Because Nigerians are only concerned about forcing every Tom, Donald, Harry and Jane to get married. Nigerians don't care about creating healthy and happy families because if they did, they won't go about expecting every soul to get married.

Let me tell you, there are many lonely married people out there. It is not advisable to expect your spouse to be your cure to loneliness. That is asking too much. If you stay productive by working, helping out by volunteering in your community, being an active member in any of your church's many departments, traveling worldwide and meeting new people, learning a new culture or language, gardening, writing books, taking care of the elderly etc, you can never be lonely. There is so much to do to keep a person busy.

I will never want to depend on just one person, a so-called spouse for sole companionship because human beings can disappoint you at any time. If the person decides to pack up and leave you today because you are too emotionally needy and clingy, what will you do then? It pays to be emotionally independent and stop depending on mere mortals for your happiness. This is why many Nigerian relationships feel like prison. Nigerians demand too much from their spouses!

As for the Nigerian society, screw them! Why should anyone sacrifice their own happiness all to please society? A society that cannot even boast of providing uninterrupted electricity, access to good affordable healthcare, world-class universities, first class infrastructure, decent affordable accommodation and basic amenities to its citizens? I will never bend backward to please any bloody Nigerian society because I have only one life to live.

And stop lying about Americans and Europeans discriminating against single people. I was born in western Europe, grew up there for a while, lived in USA for over 13 years. Never did I witness discrimination based on marital status from any westerner! The discrimination only came from nosy Nigerians who can't seem to mind their own business. The good news however is, when you live overseas, its very easy to avoid Nigerians like the plague that they are and live your life as you see fit. The average American and European under 50 can honestly care less if you are married or not. They are intelligent enough to know not to dictate to other people how they should live their lives.

At the end of the day, let those who wish to marry do so and those who don't want to should be allowed to live their lives as they see fit. Thank God, some of us do not have to live in Nigeria. If the pressure from bloody Nigerian family members become too much, cut them off! Just change your phone number and have your peace. Avoid Nigerians and their toxic meddlesome obnoxious character and live long abroad. Adopt children or have your own, marriage or no marriage. Who cares? After all, my own father who married my mother - the first wife - and 2 other women did nothing for his children. He left the entire parental and financial responsibility for his wives. Is that not selfish? Those of you who cannot even afford to take care of yourselves yet go and marry and bring innocent children you can hardly fend for into this wicked world, are you not selfish? Those of you who have children because you plan to become a burden on your children in old age, are you not selfish? Children should not be born so that they become your retirement package. This is why some people now abandon their aging parents in the village and flee abroad. Una think say una get sense!

Marry if you wish but no son of Adam or daughter of Eve can force anyone into doing anything they are not quite ready for. Let the worse happen!

Epic response.Two thumbs up!!

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Fashion / Makeup And Bead Training. by Naturalista(f): 4:07am On Sep 14, 2017
Makeup and bead training.

Autos / Venza 2011 Or Rav4 2012 by Naturalista(f): 11:12am On Aug 19, 2017
Auto gurus in the house I am actually torn between the two.Which one should I go for considering engine performance,durability,speed etc.
Food / Re: Man Finds Fish While Excavating A Residential Area In Bayelsa. Photo by Naturalista(f): 6:44pm On Aug 15, 2017
Fashion / Home Service For Pedicure And Manicure by Naturalista(f): 8:43am On Aug 03, 2017
Do you want to have your nails done at home?I offer pedicure and manicure services right at your door step.
Get it done at your own convenience in the comfort of your home.Call or whatsapp 08032022347.
Fashion / Re: New Herbal Shampoo And Conditioner For Your Hair. by Naturalista(f): 8:54am On Jun 02, 2017
Where are you based?
Business / Re: Just Arrived by Naturalista(f): 2:53pm On May 07, 2017
Do you have rug/ carpet cleaners?If you do,I am very interested.

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