₦airaland Forum

Biggiestep: I frowned at d fact that d wife thought she is married to only her husband nt knwin dat wen she came into d family she accepts all d members as family and is as well married to her husbands brother and should treat him as 1

Accepting doesn't mean suffering sorry, and we women also come from a family

Fawaz30: well she's not obligated to till she feels it, in my experience i'll say YOU AIN'T THE ONLY THAT'S TRYING TO BE THE ONLY ONE.

lol!

Dondav me too ho are you dear?

I think this is all about jealousy and every part should know their place. A sister will always love and care for her brother but I'm sorry she shouldn't be involve in couple's lifetime or issues except if her brother asks to. But sometimes some family in law thinks they've all rights to interfere in your life without any embarassement and I totally disagree on that, a couple should have its own space

Dondav: Lucky you!!! Mine took a weapon and forced me to say the damn words... Which I later said stuttering..

loooooooool

omar22: Do you know how many celebrities have slapped or punched a papparazzi in public we are talking from the young (Selena Gomez) to the old (Diana Ross)

It does not mean they are "Lady" a "Lady" has nothing to do with your wallet but with your behaviour and self control as as public person

virus_box: i ve asked ,,,but she says..is it necessary to say those words....but she never shows hate signal..always attracted..

Ok fine some persons are not like "romantic" or are shy to expose their care of their beloved but it does not mean they don't love. But now what kind pf things do you want her to show you since you've said she doesn't show off anything

Hi everyone, to my opinion she shouldn't have slapped her just because normally she should act like a "Lady" as a "role model" a public person, means she needs to have everything under control and capable to control herself

tellwisdom: Nayam, are you ready to kiss me or not??

My name is Nayah bro not Nayam then you should say hi first and then answer the question and then....

Hello Anita, I think it depends on how you lady will behave with the guy, not all guys are disrespectful. If you respect yourself, he will respect you and even though he's rude his behave might change if you proove to him you deserve it

Don't argue brothers, Cameroon is the best...

Poster maybe they see you but you don't know

Cameroon

Poster, whay don't you ask her ? are you afraid of the answer? better knowing now brother, even though it hurts it won't kill you

Well poster quite difficult but I think I would classify it as cheat, I would been hurt but I couldn't blame my BF because for some people a break means a split.

John Dumelo and Chris Attoh for sure...

Onila you'll never change right?

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@as if Ghana is the only African country that residents practices homosexuality.

Trust me, there are MILLIONS of homosexuals in Nigeria and not all of them are bold enough to publicly embrace their homosexuality.

I have seen Ugandans welcome their homosexual resident with blazing fire.

Hi sister, of course Ghana is not the only one they are homosexual everywhere but the thing is that you know in Africa this is still hidden and homosexual union is fiercely struggled in our Continent

DailyNews: @Nayah, its hard right, but its a hard truth, there are only few Nigerian men who stay faithful in marriage..but they do treat their wives right in terms of taking care of em..but handling girls & sex is one of their weak points, especially if he is rich or middle class...but the devout christians amongst them do try hard, not all...I pray daily not to end that way: a cheating husband when I marry cos with what d girls are doing in Nigeria, they seem to be pushing guys into being u unfaithful when they finally marry. I also forgot to add that most Nigerian men end up serial cheats out of VENGEANCE!

Wow, you're quite objective....

DailyNews: @Mrs. Chima, ok...I get it better now, thanks. Hardworking, unfaithful in marriage, love owning cute cars, houses, firms, etc. love their women to be loyal and submissive to them irrespective of who is the breadwinner. they love money, having too much money, maybe to acquire more things in life, viz. houses, cars, pretty women, companies nd investments. they love being on top. they are good in spending on their women or girlfriends. they like talking women down despite the fact that they like women. BRB....

Fro a guy towards his brothers this is quite rare to read this type of statement lol

Mrs Chima many thanks for helping me to make understand this is not a controversial ( like a lot) topic, this is really curiosity, normally I should meet some to have my own idea but they are few in my place.

Reality hi, actually in NL I'm never bored

jay bee: Ain't nothing wrong with wanting/embracing/loving the word Security

Security not laziness

Lol poster, do you think this is only Nigerian women? look my dear the majority of women or even guys would like to live comfortably, everyone one is ambitious ( the real sense of this word not the materialistic one) and you can't blame your GF to push you to to your best.

Now yes I totally agree, anyone should not expect all things from one side, I mean a couple means sharing, and sharing everything including spendings and you perfeclty right if you say some sisters are waiting all things from their men ( material) without making any effort. We're in 2012 women can work, go to school and bring some food as well at home. As for me, I couldn't pressuring my half just for material, I can and I have to support him in his project but I prefer working myself to have my own comfort first to be respected

Dosoq: Dear poster,i'l like 2 let u know dat u r lady of virtue,u av 2 see ur self as an asset,ppl av said it al,u nid 2 bliv in urself n work more on ur weaknesses,mak sure u'r a value 2 urself,n definately,u'l meet anoda value lik urs n u'l complement each oda,Girl,u r more valuable dan GOLD.

Beautiful message!

Poster, don't want to judge you but try to consider things over and over, do you think it will be "clear" or "acceptable" for your ex? what about their relation after that have you ever realized that?

Mrs.Chima:
Nayah

Aren't Cameroonian men hardworking, unpredictable, love to spoil on their women, funny, and fun?

lol yes especially for money, but the Notherner is different from the Southern Cameroonian Guy

onila: Nigerian men are the funniest men in the world. u can never get bored with a Nigerian men

Nigerian men are very proud(this has its pros and cons)

unpredictable

hardworking

when they have money-they will spoil you --u will become the symbol of his wealth

Onila, ok noted thanks sis