₦airaland Forum

Pendo89 you're on point as usual! Jay bee and many brothers on here seem to spend to impress a lady or think it's complusory, well I wouldn't tell I would refuse a present but sincerly I prefer the man first!

jay bee:
How do i get creative without spending? I am really scratching my head her ya know


Wouldn't i have to spend some cash If i have to come visit you in France?
Wouldn't that be impressive as i'm leaving my domain to come woo you?

Admit it, excessive is not encouraged but a lil spending is the norm. What we ought to be talking about is what amount of spending would impress the ladies.

Money doesn't buy love, I told you if you want to offer me something for special occasions or because you want ( not so regularly) I'd accept it politely but if you show me off your money to make me fall in love or date me I'd definetely say NO, because you might not respect me then and thinking I'm there or you've done a lot for me and so on I don't really like it

jay bee:
Me me me me

Be creative!

Pendo89 what Basildon has said is his opinion, even though many of them would agree I know some Nigerians, and born out there completely different, the same problem as usual!: It's all about making good choice and take your time to select a good person

jay bee:
Why don't you just make my job easier by going ahead to tell me what a guy needs to do to have Nayah by his side
What makes Nayah weak?
We wanna learn

PS: We want specifics or case scenarios

lol Who wants to know what do you mean by "we want to know" lol

jay bee:
@Nayah
Can i impress you without spending 

lol Jay bee if you really want to impress me it's not jewels or whatever restaurant which will make me love you, sincerly

Adaeze003:
I personally love guys who are smart, honest, enthusiastic and comfortable in their own skin. That said paying for dates is all on him! I think that guys who flash their wallets for gals want s*x in return while gals that are over demanding feel like they deserve it <money for s*x>. It just depends on the girl.

I agree and from the lady's reaction then you'll see the type of relationship

Basildon1:
@ Pendo89, here's all i have to say , there's a deep culture of male/female bashing on this forum BUT so far so good, there does not seem to be a lot of females rallying to your side on this one. Does that not say something - the suspicious absence of female comments to support your viewpoint about impressing a girl WITHOUT spending. 

Baslibon the fact not all NL female didn't reply doesn't mean she's wrong, since each time people talking about Nigerian women as goldiggers and so on the same replies appear, it's just that this question has been viewed and reviewed so many times, as for me liabilities are shared as I told
My favorite kenyan Pendo lot of kisses anyway

Very interesting thread my dear, btw how are you?
As for topic I think this could make guys think about their messages they send when they spend money on women to impress them because then they compalin about gold digger and so on, I've always said here liabilites are shared

uplawal:
cousin to cousin is not dangerous,its fine and cool.

Not so sure because you're cousin is like your brother in my tribe and it's totally forbidden, I can't be with the nephew of my mother or father!!! and I've seen some genetic problem within some families with children with genetic diseases

maclatunji:
These kinds of things will always confuse human beings. You need God's recommendations on the matter. Nayah is surprised that it may be possible for cousins to legally marry in some states in America (Did I not tell you that your thoughts can be cute but not realistic)? Queen Victoria married her Cousin, Charles Darwin married his cousin. These people are from England which as part of Britain colonized the United States. Hence, traces of English culture and common law are plentiful in America.

Muslims are allowed to marry their cousins not uncles. Don't try that in Yoruba land though, societal pressure will kill that relationship and make all parties miserable- QED!

It's very dangerous in terms of genetics

TRACK:
i schooled in the eastern part of NIgeria. There, a friend told me that in her community in Ebonyi state half brother can marry half sister freely. In fact, she told me that her own half brother bethroted her.

@ op, few weeks ago, i saw on NTA where twin brothers married twin sisters. Both families are from eastern nigeria.
I do not think all these things are okay.

Me either, like Mobutu the former died President of ex Zaire ( DRC now) who married twin sisters too lol

Poster, it depends if she likes you or not, or if she's shy or not and waiting for your call

I've always been wondering how some people find the courage to do such things, seriously I use to be very tolerant but this is above all to me

Czar-Chris:
Now that's interesting(The bolded of course)
Well, there are girlfriends I have that I won't even want to mess with cos I like them too much for that so that they don't get boring to me easy. Cos any girl I mess, I easily get bored of not to talk of bleeping family its' unthinkable

lol

yeah otumfour in fact I've been to MISS GHANA France 2 weeks ago and I really enjoyed, and in my profile pic that was during the event, such a good and loving people ghanaians

heynew:
nobody should pray to be in such situation, but if unfortunately one finds himself in such drama it is still amndable

I really think that should be forbidden and punished by law

Good morning poster, that's the mystery of love I guess, a lot of people like their "contrary" some men do like difficult women too

Otumfour because Africa is a whole family, better spreding brotherhood than division, even though I know some people do like it , being good mood is much better isn't it?

Imanuelle:
YES OH!!! #TEAMDECEMBER!!

All the way! Capricorn and Sagittarius

yeah Floxy I'm on 28th and you?

DECEMBER!!! blessed month

MRbrownJAY:
ca va, et toi? pas trop froid a Paris en ce moment? mdr!

i hope "tradition" will help them care for the possible abnormal child that they may get then.

i remember a while back there was in the news a brother and sister Being Intimate in an elevator, CAUGHT ON TAPE. i mean, really?! in the whole wide world, the only person he thought to have s.ex with was HIS SISTER?!?! the fact that they could look at each other "like that" says a lot about t[b]heir dysfunctional upbringing.[/b]

Agree on that!
Oui je vais bien mais il ne fait pas froid aujourd'hui en plus il y a du soleil donc cool

MRbrownJAY:
if anyone knew the consequences and dangers of inbreeding, they wouldnt even contemplate such union.
i guess to each their own

Hey Brown jay how are you
Anyway people could know but because of traditions they let it be

^^that's what I see but anyway for me this could be as forbidden as for sl eep with "parents" I truly believe this is incest too

Ok that's a bit strange from the US because I wouldn't have thought they could accept this knd of union

slimyem:
if i was in Alabama,no biggies.
Around here,it is culturally and morally wrong.its Inbreeding.
Even if i am strongly in love with a family member,once i find out,i walk!

Hello sister the bold one is serious??

lol Dyt how are you? I'm just wondering if we can't find a solution or several one to consolidate our countries, and as Nigeria is a big country then this could be a start couldn't it?

Hello everyone, I've watched last week in France a documentary about marriage or dating between the same members of family, and this topic became a controversial one in the sense that some people seem to consider that dating oyur uncle or your cousin is quite normal because it's about love and love is above everything

Then, I know some society still doing this so I' d like to have your oinion about this, if you meet you cousin without knowing it for example and your familiy told you that you have same blood, what would you do in case your relationship is really strong and consolidate

Enjoy

olaadegoke:
Are you really expecting a good response from the war-torn Tribal Nairaland


comment allez-vous? quelle partie de la France es-tu? Je suis dans Ruen pour les vacances

Good morning, in fact I'm expecting a answer from Nigerians

lol Connoisseur! No I like watching topics I find interesting how are you anyway?

And how could Nigerians ( I mean together) make it seriously
Politically
Socially
And Economically speaking
According to you brothers and sisters, what are the main weaknesses of Nigeria and how could you handke them

Congratulations sister, even I prefer Miss Benue

That's what I feared, this age difference was too much and Ashton might want "fresh" young ladies anyway God help them