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South Africa has scored Rwanda

South African game is still goaless. Nigeria need more goals.

Gooooooooooooal.

Oshimen makes it 1-0 to Nigeria

I won't watch the Nigerian game. I'll be watching South Africa and Rwanda cos that game is more important to us.

If Rwanda can hold them to a draw like Zimbabwe did and we defeat Benin with a 2 goal margin, we'll qualify.

pocohantas:
Nazgul, wetin inspire this writeup?

Nothing o.

I. Just say make I motivate my fellow men cos we don too suffer for una hand. 😩

V9er:
By optimize your profile do you mean add projects and the likes?

Yes and more.

Just open chatgtp and give it a prompt to optimize your upwork profile as a Microsoft 365 administrator.

It would bring out an overview, writeup and skills. Give it another prompt to tailor it to be client friendly then copy it and paste it on your profile along with the skill tags.

This demolition, Trade Fair demolition, Landmark beach resort and others I can't remember is yet another proof that our government is very quick to destroy wealth it cannot build.

Business owners would take loans, get approvals, build their livelihoods—only for bulldozers to erase years of sweat in minutes.

Same leaders who cannot provide stable electricity, working refineries, safe roads, or functioning schools suddenly discover efficiency when it comes to demolishing people’s investments.

This is not governance. This is vandalism with government backing.

A nation cannot prosper by punishing enterprises. You can’t grow an economy by frustrating those who try to build it.

If the government invested half the energy it puts into demolition into infrastructure and jobs, Nigeria would be unrecognizable today.

The truth? They are quick to destroy what ordinary Nigerians build because they have built nothing themselves.

V9er:
Good day boss, how work na?
Wanted to ask if upwork is now hiring Nigerians, or if you know any company that is. Na from person Dey Dey get job.
Thanks boss

Microsoft outsourced their MS365 to upwork to manage cos they were trying to cut cost. So Upwork hires and pays contract staffs for those roles

The thing is Upwork as a company isn't hiring Nigerians anymore, but you can still get MS365 gigs on upwork through clients.

Just optimize your profile, purchase connects and apply. The good thing about this niche is that it's not over crowded so you might just get lucky and land a job.

6. The girl who has slept with many men Here's what most men don't like to admit. History matters - the more partners she's had, the harder it is for her to bond deeply...why? Because everytime she gave herself casually, she trained her heart to detach - she taught herself how to move on quickly, so when you come along and think you're special and think you'll be the one she'll finally commit to....bro you're not the exception.

You're just another chapter in the same book. Yes it might feel exciting in the beginning, she's adventurous, passionate, you both connect very well... But over time that excitement turns into emptiness for her. If intimacy was cheap for her, loyalty would be expensive for you. Sadly most men would hang on believing they can change her, they think they'll be the man who finally makes her settle down. Unfortunately, they fail 9 times out of 10.


7. The girl who doesn't love you She clearly doesn't love you. She just likes the attention you give her, the gifts, the company, the safety net...but not you. And when a woman isn't emotionally invested, she isn't morally anchored. That's the part most men miss - without real love, there's no deep respect, without respect, boundaries become optional. Cheating stops feeling wrong and starts feeling justified.

Here's how it plays out in real life. She enjoys what you bring, but she's still hungry for a feeling she doesn't get with you, so she leaves the door open. This is why you see a girl dump a guy who trained her fron year 1-finals in the university.

This is because she has outsourced her emotions to other men, secret conversations, private meetups. And while you're busy proving yourself, someone else won't have to.

Note this: The more you fight to get her, the more you'll fight to keep her, and while you're fighting, she'll be exploring. If love isn't there - cheating wouldn't be a question of if. It would be a question of when and with whom.

Stop auditioning and trying to prove yourself to her. If she doesn't choose you clearly and freely, walk away early. Real love isn't complicated


Finally, this thread isn't about hating women as some people might feel. It's about protecting men. Cos the wrong woman can cost you years of your life. She can drain your confidence, wreck you financially and steal your focus. But the right woman....she multiplies everything. So stop chasing the wrong ones, stop making excuses for red flags. Protect your peace, protect your mental health, protect your future.

It's no longer new of how men these days are tasting the bitter pill of marital betrayal. The most recent is the one who went to the UK as a dependant with his wife only for her to try to get rid of him the moment she got to the UK. Sadly, both were deported. Sadly most of these men ignored the glaring red flags in the relationship and went on to marry the women in question.

Without wasting much time blabbing, I've put together a list of 7 red flags you must not ignore if you want to have a Happy marriage. (note some of them are from my personal experiences)

1. The materialistic woman. This one is easy to spot but hardly ever admits that she's materialistic. The materialistic woman doesn't love you, she loves what you can provide. Her loyalty is tied to your lifestyle, your wallet, your ability to keep her entertained with things. At first it feels harmless, you buy her gifts, she's excited, you take her out, she's smiling...but brother watch her closely, notice how her mood changes when you don't spend. Notice how she suddenly becomes too busy when you don't fund her wants.

Here's the hard truth. If her love is tied to money, she'll leave you the moment another man flashes something bigger. And don't think for a second that you can out give her appittie. That appittie is endless. If she loves what you give more than who you are, she'll never truly love you.


2. The woman still on dating apps Imagine this, you meet her, you click, things are going well; but weeks - even months into the relationship, she's still on Tinder, still swiping, still just looking. Now ask yourself this, if she truly wanted you why is she still shopping, why is she still entertaining strangers?

The answer is simple, because she's keeping her options open. And if she's keeping her options open, her loyalty was never sealed. Don't let her excuse it with oh it's just for fun or I don't even use it that much. Bro, the moment she leaves that door open, it's only a matter of time before someone walks through it.

If she's still swiping, she's still searching and if she's still searching, you were never enough for her in the first place. Unfortunately most men ignore it, they tell themselves it's not serious. But ignoring the red flag doesn't turn it green. It just makes the betrayal hit harder when it comes.


3. The secretive woman. Pay attention bro. If her phone has become her second boyfriend, she's already slipping away. She never leaves her phone lying around, screen always facing downwards, notifications always silenced. She guards it like a vault. When you ask...who's texting you, she's says oh nobody, you're being paranoid. You walk into the room, she quickly swips out of an app.

When she smiles at her phone more than she smiles at you, that's not innocence that's secrecy. And here's the truth. Secrecy is the soil where cheating grows - loyalty doesn't need hiding. If she can't show you what's on her phone, it's because she doesn't want you to see what's inside her life. If her phone is a mystery, so is her loyalty.

Unfortunately most men don't trust their gut. They confuse secrecy with privacy. Privacy is healthy but secrecy is betrayal in disguise. They know something's off, but they let her words calm them down. You're being childish she says. Bro, your gut is your oldest defensive system. If it whispers, listen.


4. The girl who is still cool with her ex. If she's still friends with her ex, who do you think she runs to when you upset her, who do you think still has emotional access to her? She'll say oh we're just friends - it's nothing. But let me tell you, if she respects you, she cuts off the past, if she doesn't love you she keeps it alive. And when things get rocky she already has a backup plan.

And if she's still looking back bro, she's not fully moving forward with you. If her past is still alive, your future with her is already dead. Sadly, most men feel staying silent makes them look confident - they think ignoring it is being secure. Silence is permission and permission leads to betrayal.

5. The girl who only has male friends. Be careful here. If every single one of her friends is a man, you're not dating in peace - you're dating in competition. She'll tell you oh they're just like brothers to me. But you and I both know the truth - most men don't hang around women for brotherhood. They're waiting....waiting for her guard to drop, waiting for a fight between you two, waiting for an opening.

And the more she entertains these friendships, the more blurred the bond between you two become. He's just a friend has been the last line before cheating more times than I can count. Sadly most men these days are too afraid to set standards, they think it makes them insecure; bro standards don't make you weak. They protect you. If she can't respect them, she doesn't respect you.

To be honest, I still find it difficult to understand Tinubu’s reason for pardoning that woman. It’s not as if she’s a public figure with a large following whose support could somehow influence the 2027 elections. So what exactly motivated that decision?

In most countries, when the death penalty is lifted, it’s usually replaced with life imprisonment or a long-term sentence. That approach ensures the person still pays for their crime while offering a chance at repentance. But to grant a full pardon, wiping the slate clean, feels deeply unfair, especially to the family of the man who was murdered.

I feel that this decision doesn’t send a message of justice or reform. Instead, it feels like a disregard for the pain of the victim’s loved ones and the rule of law itself. Mercy is noble, yes, but it must be balanced with accountability. In this case, it’s hard not to see the pardon as a step in the wrong direction.

Very soon just like Ebube Agwu, they too would start attacking the same civilians they were mobilized to protect and allow kidnappers and herdsmen to roam freely in the bushes.

Honestly, it feels like if a coup happened in Nigeria right now, a lot of people would probably celebrate it.

Manfromlasvegas:
This idiotic nwabali error will most likely cost us our world cup place.

That error is so damning. It changes the complexion of the entire group and the match against Benin. We now need to beat them by at least two goals to even have a chance for a play off spot if South Africa wins.


Oh, why are we so blessed.

We're out of play offs. Cos even if we win our last game we'll be on 17 points. This is the current 2nd placed teams standing. And only the top 4 teams qualify for the playoffs.

Lukuluku69:
No! If we beat them 2-0, it will reduce their GD and increase ours and since we are on same points (assuming we beat them) we will be on Top, but South Africa must NOT win.

You're right. If we beat them 2-0 it would cancel their +5 goals. They'll be on +3 while we'll be on +5.

But like you said. South Africa must not win.

osothermal:
we need to beat them atleast 2 to 3 goals and hope SA lose or draw.

Just 2. If we defeat them 2-0, we'll both be on +5 goals. So it would come down to head to head. Which would favour us cos we lost 2-1 to them in their home and defeated them 2-0 in our home.

As it stands, Nigeria has to defeat Benin at least 2-0 and pray that Rwanda should draw with South Africa.

South Africa has been shown a red card in stoppage time. Still 0-0

It's all over

osothermal:
Benin are winning

Yea they just scored

iamokrazy:
Now hope is on Rwanda to beat South Africa x match ooo and Nigeria beat benin or Rwanda to play draw with South Africa

Benin currently has +5 goals while Nigeria has +3 goals.

We'll need to beat being at least 2-0 in the final game and hope that South Africa looses or Draws to Rwanda. Before we can stand a chance.

Update.

Benin has Scored Rwanda.

So as it stands Benin are topping the group with 17 points.

We're at point where we need goals cos it might come down to goal difference at the end. Yet we're conceding useless goals.

Bilton24Seven:
[that game is useless to South Africa, they're not playing to win

You're clearly not watching it.

One of their attempts on goal just hit the woodwork. They're just not lucky.

Update...

South Africa is still playing a goaless draw with Zimbabwe

Bilton24Seven:
South Africa Team are playing for draw, due to Eritrea exclusion in the tournament, all points against bottom team will be erased...only hope for Naija is to win all game and South Africa did not win their last game
2ndly, manage to reach playoff...from there to win playoff final

Play offs is already out of our our reach. Cos even if we win our remaining matches we'll be on 17 points and only 1-4 second placed teams would qualify for the play offs. Currently the 4th team is on 18 points.

So our only hope is to top the group.

Gooooooooooooal.

Adams makes it 2-0 to Nigeria.