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With all the corruption in this government, we don't see those writers who write strong worded articles writing anything.

How many times have we see articles about corruption in this government on nairaland home page..

We told them, those articles were not because the writers hate corruption it was due to self induced hate for GEJ and to give buhari's government media support by calling others corrupt.

Medley:
countess times, I have seen, heard and listened to people, especially ladies say they were used and dumped. but what they wouldn't tell is what preceded the breakup. it was either after the two partner had knowledge of each other, sometimes almost immediately, other times sharp guys will give the breakup sometime, looking for the perfect excuse.

I once met a lady and she said it's a no sex relationship or nothing( I am sure naysayers will say she is getting it elsewhere, forget that, we still have sincere ladies that will be ok with one guy and not be promiscuous), I enjoyed the relationship why it lasted, though I travelled very far from where she stayed and the long distance relationship wasn't working.

She has greater qualities that far outweigh sex - that made her self-worth soar. When you can't tell a guy same, it's either you can't do without sex or you have nothing to offer in the relationship. A guy will stay with you if he has seen far greater attribute that will stand the test of time and he will surely want to grow old with you (though it's hard to find one that would be sincere about a no sex relationship - good things don't come easy and it's worth waiting for).

I hardly hear a lady talk of a guy that dumped her when she has not had sex with him.

So why can't sex be left out in relationship, so that no one will cry out that she has been used and dumped, though, I am yet to see a guy say he was used and dumped by a lady. The only thing that was used and dumped is the sex offered. i think that anyone that sees a future with you wouldn't back out when no sex is your condition.

Any day, any time, i believe in the power of a no sex relationship, no one will cry foul, and hardly is anyone hurt.

You are absolutely right.
Those who don't agree, do so because it doesn't justify their weakness.

I mean weakness in sexual discipline.

I watched magnus Abe say the other day that elections were not being held in Rivers.

Question is how did he became a senator.

what's the difference between the other one and this one. same interior, same power, same respect.

she don drive that one finish abi?

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

These types of testing you listed here in particular and any other type at large makes no real sense (no insult intended toward your person). This is so because any girl that has intentions of retaining you as her final bus stop, from the inception of meeting you, would put up maximum pretentious regalia to outsmart you with such tests.

Why testing someone when you can know their attributes? I mean, attitude - which represent passing or failing of a temporary test can be faked. Whereas attribute - which is the main thing to look out for - is innate.

Any highly sensitive and analytical mind don't need more than few times of physical and oral correspondences to know another's attributes.

Sorry, you didn't contradict the @op. don't be narrow with how you define testing.

JERRY1925:
Hmmm no matter how great the person his... Once he or she is not aware den... They cant pretend... Its a very little test.
The first girl i did such to.. Had no idea.. I do almst all the calling, texting nd so on... Shes actually a student and i understand.. So i hardly complain.. As she always dnt have credit... So one faithful day.. I sent her credit... Without her knowin i was d one.. Tru ATM... I did not call her for some days hoping she will call... Nd she did not call too... So i knew she really dnt hav m in mind.. Despite wat she tells me... I was not dating her.. But she confessed to like me.. So dat made m discover it was not really tru... So i femove evry idea of her.

I've done this before and it worked.

Seun:
Yes, I believe it's a sin.

How do you define sin. and do you believe in the consequences of sin?

Sexytemi:
To All Ladies Out There, I Say Please Have A Side Boyfriend!

After reading toke makinwa's book "on becoming" I'm of the idea that if toke had had a back up plan, a guy she could count on if her boyfriend at that time maje(later ex husband) was in his usual act of cheating then maybe he would have taken her serious and respected her more..

I've been there where I gave my all into a relationship and was very loyal to my guy and yet after 5yrs of dating he decided I wasn't good enough for him, and left me stranded, it wasn't funny because I saw the signs but like every other girl in love, I ignored the signs and also ignored guys that would or might have made me more happier than he ever made me.

A friend of mine started dating a guy, and she got to realize he was cheating on her, and not only was he cheating but with a girl so young, when my friend confronted him, this guy practically lied and denied everything even he knew my friend saw all the evidences he still blamed her, and she asked me what she did wrong, all she ever did was love and give him all of her, she ignored all guys because of this guy yet he threw her love to the dogs.

Then another of my friend met up with a guy and ohh she fell for his charm, this my friend has had a fair share in the heart break department, her heart has been broken not once, twice and not even thrice. when she chatted me up and said"babe I've met a guy and he loves me with his all, babe he wants to marry me and babe thank God for me" I got to admit I was happy for her and in fact I thank God on her behalf and used her case as a testimony of good things to happen, I tap into her good luck and believe someday I'd also meet a guy who would love me as much as her guy did, little did I know the guy was nothing short of bastard, a guy who makes ladies curse other guys, a guy who is a disgrace to other guys...this guy impregnated my friend and made her father chase her out of the house, with nowhere to go she moved in with him and got to know who he really was, this guy still went after girls, cheats on my friend even in her condition, lodge in different hotels with different girls, and whenever she confronts him he denies it to her face, and in my friend's voice"babe, I'm so scared of him, he lies so much that when he greets me good morning I go out to make sure its really morning", and I'm sure we all know its wrong for a pregnant lady to think, but oh my friend is always thinking and sad all because she fell in love with an ahole and was loyal.

And this makes me wonder is it wrong for ladies to be loyal in their relationships?, is it a bad thing to fall in love and give you her all?, is it a crime for ladies to do all just to please their guys?, and why can't guys just be faithful to their ladies?. and my answers to these questions is just for ladies to have side boyfriends, with a side boyfriends you won't have the fear of the main guy waking up one day and leaving you for another girl, you won't have the heart attack of thinking of what your boyfriend is doing at the moment, and you won't be so involved in the life of your boyfriend for him to tell you you are choking him or think less of you.

Anyone who truly follows Godly principles of relationship and marriage will not have issues like this. QED.

God's yoke is easy and his burden light. Matthew 11: 30

xvbill:
190e or bmw 1997.
In naija and also depending on ur area the 190e would likely be more reliable and easy to access (parts) more than the bmw. But which of the bmw are u talking about. The e30 i guess. But the bmws (both e30 and e36 325i) are more powerful in HP than the benz 190e. The bmw are more performance oreintated.
So in short. If u need performance over reliability and eay access of parts go for that bmw. And vice versa.
But for me the bmw will be cool, cus its not like it is always unreliable, it just needs a caring owner to take good care of it. (Like hashim and his papasmurf bmw e30.)

Thanks Bros

xvbill:
Before I start with the list, you should know that these cars are my own personal opinion, and tunung is not widely done in naija but its still done by some petrolheads. So for those of us in that "petrolhead" category.
If u consider going into to the car tuning world, here is a list of cars to consider.

8. Vw golf mk1 and mk2
Never underestimate this bad german, its light, cheap, parts are very available. Price range 200k-300k

7. Audi tt. Mk1
Very nimble, solid engine to begin with 160hp RWD . audi parts are not so widely in available in my place (Abj) maybe its in lagos. Price range ?

6. Mercedes benz 190E 2.6
This one was used by our elders and even if u asked them about the performance of the car they will tell u its a beast. Go for the 2.6 litre straight six version. The chasis is very good. This car was overengineered. U can get one from. 190k- 260k. Parts are very available

5.Older mustangs. 1990s
Not too common on the roads but if u like most car guys and you like visiting junk yard, mechanic garages you can find one lying around. If in good condition, especially the v8s, its a nice platform to work with. price range depends on the car condition. What I do know is, its never gonna be above 400k.

4.Mercedes benz clk
If am not mistaking, I mean that Benz a guy named sultan (drift king) owns. And if u are used to abj stunts there is also a white one owned by top sports team. A v6 engine that produces around 231hp. (According to owner) i don't really know the exact year and model but pls any one that knows the car better should help me describe it better.
As far as I know they are mostly AT. Price 270k-400k.

3. BMW e36.
Haha no much to say, u all know what this machine is, with different variants i4s and i6s. But the best deal to go for is a coupe 325. That's what most drifters use in abj. If u watch the stunts @ wuye, idu u should notice that. And what more. They sound incredible with straight pipes. HP 102 to 193hp depending on variant. The 325 produces 192 hp @ 5200rpm and 250Nm @ 4k rpm.
manual trannys are miles better than the autos. Price 200k- 350k

2. Nissan S13 and S14
So much love and support from car community, but i think maybe your average nissan mechanic doesnt know the "SX" Nissan. Not so common on our roads but u might one day stumble across one and if its for sale and you dont buy it, u may end up regreting. (Just a car guy thing). Its very cheap and I found one in gwags for 170k. It was a 180sx S13 1.8ltr turbocharged. both s13 and s14 use light i4 engines with huge power output due to force induction systems. For instant a 200sx produces 200hp from an 2.0ltr i4 which is good for hooning around, and burning rubber. My problem is these cars are rare in naija.

1. BMW e30.
Respect your elders. Since 1983, this devil was a star. With so much love in the car community, tuning an e30 would not be difficult due to fact that there is so much forums and information about this car on the web, so much tutorial videos and how to, DIY and everything that can even make u mental about the e30.
With so much variants to choose, I recommend the coupe 325i . its very cheap with 250k u can get yourself one. But be fast if u want a clean one. Because dark night motorsports and superbike Nigeria collects them and influenced it on our car guys. Every one now wants an e30. Prices will ramp up and I can bet it. Get one now. Its gonna be a bit difficult to get the coupe, then u might want to go for the sedan but still a 325i sedan

Bros I like that 190e. I'd like to get a really good one.

Do you think I can get it for that price and how much do you think will be able to make it worth a ride.

I was aso considering bmw 1997 model. I just need a guidance and other opinion on it.

“President Buhari has been a monumental failure and the north shouldn’t support him in 2019 if it wants to retain power. Anti-corruption has always been the hallmark of northerners in government, but this government is the most corrupt in the history of Nigeria.



What on earth made this man say such.

“All northern leaders, from Tarka to Aminu Kano and Sardauna, are not nepotistic, but the Buhari administration is the most nepotistic that has ever been since independence.


Is this man trying to lie again. something that is in the blood. mcheew..


“So, the north is justified culturally, politically and morally to replace Buhari in 2019 if it chooses to do so.


CHUKLES...

The north has been categorical when it wants power, it also didn’t hesitate when to let it go. And when it wanted it back, it said so categorically. Now, it must show clearly that it wants to retain power by replacing Buhari.


... This man should know that other part of the country don't like this kind of statement. we have our own interpretation of it...who una be sef.

But why this attack on the much loved buhari? hummm.. love turn sour.


Hello, passingshot, dropshot, progressive01, omenka, ngeneukwenu, and not forgetting Fiizznation, What say you.

Was I just reading greek?

can I have the mic please....
Ngeneukwenu, what do you have to say about this.

Speaking to our correspondent on phone at the
weekend, spokesman for the Northern Elders’
Forum (NEF), Prof. Ango Abdullahi, pointed out
that the forum only supported the All
Progressives Congress (APC) in the 2015 election
because it fielded General Muhammadu Buhari as
its presidential candidate “who happens to be a
northerner.”

This is the only thing that interest me. Because I was telling people in Lagos that this change they were shouting about. Change in the north meant a northern president QED.

That was why GEJ was being bullied with boko haram and the media and the reason people were killed in 2011.

That is their standard. Marriage ceremony, the simpler it is the better and safer it is.

Unfortunately, some people will take it personal as if anything about the wedding and marriage is their business.

The best point for me in the story is that she married as a Virgin.

To me, that's the crown. Chastity is rare these days because of satanic influences everywhere.

I wish them the best of marriage.

Where is ngeneukwenu sef?

S/he will be soon sad about this. May God not let people go the way of ngeneukwenu.

niggi4life:
I have often said, stereotyping job interviews are indeed waste of time, what works for Mr A might not work for Mr B.
While you do your homework about the company, some companies will never disclose how much they pay their staff in any level. What will you do in that case?

I was called for an interview by Jagal Group sometime four years ago, after succeeding in their oral tests i was asked by the RM(Recruiting Manager) how much can we pay you? Honestly i wasn't expecting too much or too low, so i just said they should pay me about 300K per month.The lady looked at me with surprise, i was almost about to reduce it when she said, next time it's better you request we pay you based on the salary scale of your level, your monthly take home is about 420K with some added incentives.(Mind you she wasn't even a Nigerian o)

Exactly. I was almost saying the writer is not well informed before I saw your post..

I can even give him the name of my company and give him 6 months to find out salary details and use it as bases for his salary negotiations, if he won't get the shock of his life.

How many interviews has the writer gone to and how many firms has he worked for.

Interview stereotype is useless to me.

Many years back, when interviewing for my first job in Lagos, the last stage of the interview was with the GCO. He made it clear that he was not interested in any roles structured resume at that point, as most of them were embellished with outright falsehood or at best, half truths.

The man was interested in your side jobs, jobs that were out of your profession and training and how you you were able to pull it true.

People write from their limited perspective.

This writeup will only appeal to the bloodied noes bitter afonjas.

The world doesn't revolve around Tinubu and buhari. You guys should get it into your heads. Even if Tinubu leaves APC today, it wouldn't be enough to bring down the party.

Just like that morning program on TVC with Yori Folarin, where all they talk about is Buhari and Tinubu, with their dedicated callers who call in to align.

Had Tinubu been living in aso rock like mamman Daura, these bunch of people will not care if the country burns. They'll keep singing the praise of buhari and Tinubu.

cosade:
Bolded:

It's a well known fact that Segun Abraham was BAT's candidate in the primaries, so why would he direct Oke to join another party and not his candidate?

Because Oke was an option to align with and Mr Abraham does not have the clout to make impact with such move. We all knew Oke was the dark horse and he was almost getting it, until Rochas met with other governors and buhari to close ranks.

You people should stop twisting this thing. It was clear to all jare.

Had Oke won that election, those asking for evidence of Tinubu's anti party activities would have been gloating all over the place.

Just like the plateau state governor said, Tinubus's absence are the ondo rally was inconsequential. Indeed it was.

All those talking about Tinubus's contribution, my question is, was he the only one who contributed?

What about kwankwaso and others. It is the prerogative of the party to sanction Tinubu and if it's necessary, he should be sanctioned.

Tinubu has benefited the most by having is persons as VP and other positions.

The provab says.

Let the kite perch and let the eagle
perch too – If one says no to the other, let his
wing break .”.

Omatseye is only reacting this way because of Tinubu... "FG should do its job..."

Let's be honest, Omatseye is looking for ways to express disenchantment against the FG.

Had Tinubu been in the place of Mamman Daura, The Omatseye I know will not say this. He would even say the FG is doing everything right. He may even blame it on GEJ. Telling us it's effect of bad governance of past administrations.

Folks, the sentiments of this man is not pure. We know him.

Plz house, what are the charges for running Dom account and how much to open one.

Looks like the person doesn't need to be a born again christian sef.

Are instrumentalist not supposed to be workers in church?

MMM is becoming difficult because nigerians have bastardized the thing. People are trying to cheat while others are trying to milk the system.Those who do it know what i'm taking about.

The governor said the absolute truth.

Every sane person know that APC couldn't have won that election. Was it not the area where the retuning officer was putting on the cap of APC state chairman.

Let's be honest jare.

crackhouse:
That lady give that guy nothing less than 5yrs.
....was expecting to see a youngirl when I saw " kid sister"
Are u kidding me!!

5years? When I was thinking 10years. Remember she's on make up.

Love is a beautiful thing.
The guy married his aunty.

Lordsocrates:
how exactly will these favour them ? these sanators for the first tym after (joining the #dontTouchMyData protest) are trying to bring in transparency into the electoral system via the use of card reader, and you say it will favour them ?
they are already Senators, with enough money and man power to hijack ballot boxes, and mass thump their self to victory.

This move favours just politicians with grassroot support, who are will have people with verifiable votes, (not once hijacked and mass thumped printed in some forest)
let's always appreciate something good and worthwhile, not minding where its comming from. #peace

You know some people have been programmed to castigate the Senate for no reason whatsoever. The media have manipulated them not to objectively reason out things but to throw out all their frustrations on the legislature. They don't see wastage in the executive, they see it in the legislature. Etc.