₦airaland Forum

Ngozi123:
Don't bring Igbo into this, this is a Yoruba family, not an Igbo one.

Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] what the name of this movie[/color]

kristonium:
This girl no dey old again??

mgdimagaladima:
Lesson to all men

Don't marry someone because of her /his beauty but because of the Love u have for each other

eezeribe:
Her pussy has done a good job...

HARDDON:
Because the mind controls life and living. The intangible controls the tangible and the seen, unseen.

A single lady that really values the institution of marriage should rather work on her mind and almost every other thing shall fall in place.

It is only then also that these your list can stand.
Please be realistic. All men cheat


AREAS LADIES NEED MIND MENDING

1. WRONG Mind Set About Guys: " all men are dogs, cheats and unfaithful". You can't go into marriage with this consciousness lurking at the back of your mind. If you do, even if you meet a faithful guy, your thoughts would make a random sampling dog outa him.

The Bible is quite clear about that; " you shall have whatever you say." And " life and death are in the power of the tongue". Wonder how the mind is related to the tongue? well, "out of the abundance of the heart(mind), the mouth speaketh"

A lot of married ladies are actually responsible for their men cheating.
How can your Prince charming, the man you've waited and prayed to God for all your life be reduced to nothing but a dog in your mind? And you expect him not turn out as one?

adamasmag:
VERY TRUE

emelda86:
Imagine the prostitute Ashawo ten kobo...

God punish her don't ever take her back tell her you know what transpired between her & your cousin

Useless girl

PurplePatch:


What a world! He Killed his wife after just four months of martial life They were never in love.
These are the possible scenarios:

1. He wanted to pride himself as having a beautiful wife irrespective of her manners, but low and behold he couldn't stand the real her anymore.i

2. She never loved him but because He was capable of taking care of her materially, she agreed to marry him.

Moral of story: The first and foremost thing in marriage is good manners. Never! I repeat never ever marry your partner solely because of good looks. For the ladies, wealth is not a yardstick.

He who has ears, let him HEAR.

FrankFrenzy:
You're very right bro. Well prepared afang soup is heavenly. That though isn't enough to go for Akwa ibom, my woman who's from IMO also does it so good

Call07034780891:
Anambra guys likes properly home made food--- DJ Cuppy take note.

angelboy01:
I already did that. Thanks bro

handsomeclouds:
Lagoon is always nearby

IamAirforce1:
I pity any man wey trust woman

She's an adulterous woman, I hope God forgives her

CivilzedTyger:
Davido seems to be more into this relationship than the lady

pocohantas:
He was walking in the house, the floor is tiled. It was wet and slippery, so he slipped...he tried frantically to regain balance, but alas...he fell into his SIL's vagina.

Let's call it a domestic accident.

HungerBAD:
Self pity sob.

There comes a time when we just have to tell ourselves the truth, especially if it seems the world is conspiring against you.

Toke Makinwa, the biggest lie anybody can say, is to lie to themselves. Things are not working out well for you,and like a childhood friend of mine does,you are looking for scapegoats to put the blame on.
Shut up


In the last 3 years, your husband left you for another babe. Your 80 year old billionaire sugar daddy left you,as he did not want the publicity accompanying you. Even your toyboy just got married some weeks back.

You have even told us about your STDs and your fight with Fibroid.

Only you.

Somehow those you have fed are the cause right?maybe you just need to take some time out from displaying your many designer hand bags online, to displaying some common sense in private.

It is called sober reflection.

SoNature:
Male Vs Female

I think the females are more attractive than the guys when they are young. Firm boobs and a$$ make ladies to be ravishingly beautiful when they are young

But when they age, ladies become extremely ugly...the same features that once made them fine would now make them look so disgusting,
Keep deceiving ur sef.
but the male experiences just a little change in their physique, thus becoming finer than the females in the twilights of their lives

#MyOpinion

Lilian is beautiful

3free2:
I've been discussing with my family and they all agreed that though I've been naive, it's time to call my in-laws to order family to family.

I'm some how relieved after their show of support. I believe a solution will come after the planned meeting even if it means breaking up.

I thank you for your prompt response and I hope Nairaland last forever so people can continue to seek and get help in difficult times.

Fundamentalist:
Something similar almost happened to me, though I liked her but I chose reality over emotions . Roughly two months after meeting her , I introduced her to my mum who liked her and also went to her family. But during a meeting with her people , they were telling me I have to allow their daughter do a lot of things , that they know an average man would reject. I made them understand plainly that , its a man that run his home and I won't give into such conditions . This lady in question also made this demands but I stood my ground , she actually agreed at first to deceive me but later came and told me I have to change my mind or its over . I didn't waste time as I ended the relationship. She began looking for a way back for six months I don't take her calls nor read her SMS , she gave up . I can't be a puppet to my inlwas because I'm marrying their daughter .

The problem Mr op is that you gave them leeway for nine years , it won't be easy to erase that control you gave them , dont know your ideology though, but as a Muslim its very easy for me , I will marry another wife(s) and just watch how balance of power will shift. Most people who do such , do it to make a statement.

Begging your in-laws to leave you alone is a big mistake but doing something they themselves can't approach you will make them distance themselves from you and your family.

Though an introvert, but I'm not afraid to offend people when my line is crossed no matter who they are including my in-laws even family know their limit . This is not disrespect, its fact

3babes:
Thanks Bro... Was hoping things will improve and finally i will walk her to the alter

Ziggylady:
Useless animal!!!...You think you are in Nigeria where rapists,criminals and pedophiles walk free and are even supported by their fellow twisted-minded males on and offline while the victims gets blamed abi??..


Well the deportation is not even enough punishment,castration and tortue should have been added..

...Like i always say,90% of Nigerian male population will end up in jail in Civilised countries if they live by the attitude they portray here over there.
Gbam. True talk please are u a wizard or witch. Nigerian men need reorientation

Fatherofdragons:
na dem

Elder001:
yes..
I'm tired of seeing all these kinda topics
if a lady demands for money say no or tell her you don't have..
are they forcing the money from your pockets?

tell them you don't have money to give or no.. shikena

all these wailing are becoming childish.. there are independent ladies out there but you guys prefer broke dependent ladies and later y'all will start complaining on nairaland.

Elder001:
Only matured and sensible advice so far... the rest are childish talks