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[quote author=IamD18 post=94440529]It can only be a Ghanaian woman.

Other African women from Ghana and South Africa value Nigerian men so much and are not entitled like Nigerian women.

They are appreciative too and arguably the best set of women you'll wanna spend the rest of your life with.[/quote
Hey shut up, what do u know about Ghanaian-woman. Open mouth dey talk nonsense

Afam4eva:
I don't know if i'm the only one who has this.

But i always feel sick whenever i get into most cars. I always feel like throwing up and it has been a problem i've had right from childhood. I don't know what exactly causes it but it makes it difficult for me to travel by car because i get sick throughout the journey.

Has anybody experienced this?

Caused by fuel.

He is lucky if na me I no go talk. I for don dial 911 so he will go to Niger where there are saints

Singleness is sweet.

Dobson43:
The guy liked you

So make she go find the man. Baa

Zornes123:
I recall my dad telling my mom how an evil spirit held him in the bed and couldn’t let him move. The prayer that night wasn’t a funny one. Deep down I knew he only had sleep paralysis.
Well about mine. I saw a Jesus like figure talking to me and telling me to repent, out of fear I tried moving from my bed but this unknown force held me down for some seconds. When I was finally able to move i noticed I had tears in my eyes. This happened even before I knew of the term sleep paralysis. I always told my friends I saw Jesus back then. If it was sleep paralysis or Jesus I can’t even tell

No ot is Jesus. Believe me..

I dey crase to move to Nigeria

I am a mother I just cant finish this nonsense I am reading. I am so angry for this boy befriending this kind of girl

fairheart:
Contact ECE, register and follow instruction provided online. You'll mostly need a WAEC scratchcard and WAEC registration details.

My dear thank you

Please help me with advice. I am in community college in
USA and they are asking me for my high school transcript through Ece . I have my waec. How do I go about this?

AJOBI77:
We shall overcome this

with mouth

I am in America and almost a nurse. U guys better stay back. What kind of greed is this? I am even scared of going to work. I want to come and work money u cant be alive to eat. Concern ina

Crispels:
Lol. Not all black Americans are like that tho. I have great black American friends. The problem is: so many Nigerian immigrants come here “extremely hungry for success” and they end up achieving a lot within a short time - which sometimes lead to tension between immigrants from Africa and native black Americans. They believe we are taking their positions in America after our ancestors sold them during slave trade and that we didn’t experience the difficulties they experienced - slavery, fight for civil rights and stuff like that.

Many Nigerians abroad are also too loud as well - they tend to show off their landmark successes and some now have the mentality that “if an average Nigerian can come from a village in Nigeria to become an Engineer or a Millionaire(in dollars) in the US, then any native black American who is struggling to be somebody in life as an American is lazy and unserious”. The black Americans hear and see these things and they feel insulted that after we(not us but our ancestors tho) sold them to slavery, we still have the effrontery to come to America to ride them anyhow we like. They believe Nigerians thrive in America because they made it possible for us: they are the ones who fought for equality in the US and stuff like that.

That is why many black Americans feel weird when some statistics show that over 77% of black doctors in the US are Nigerians and that majority of the blacks being admitted to ivy League schools are Nigerians and Nigerian - Americans. They feel that we are reaping where we did not sow and many of our fellow Nigerians are also not humble enough about their successes. They blow their trumpets so loud that it invites envy from black Americans and even immigrants from other African countries.

About two months ago, I was in Washington DC when one of my professors(who is a White American) confessed to a diverse gathering of people that Nigerians are very smart, hard working and talented(I was the only Nigerian there). Immediately after my professor said it, one other African immigrant there began to feel uncomfortable and she had to say it publicly that “Nigerians have not done or achieved enough to earn the hype people have for them in America”. I just smiled and kept quiet. I’ve learned not to be too loud about myself in the US because when they see that you are moving faster than them, they may begin to see you as a threat and plot bad things toward you. Many Nigerians abroad also need to learn this - it’s better to be humble and not make noise about your achievements.


In the end, as a Nigerian in the US, I do not have any superiority or inferiority complex towards anyone - regardless of race,nationality, sex, orientation or social status. In fact, it saddens my heart when I see African immigrants and black Africans having misunderstandings. The reason being that: these black Americans are also our brothers and sisters if we want to be true to ourselves. All my black American friends have Nigerian DNA. In fact, some of them are over 87% Nigerians(according to the results of their ancestry/DNA test). So, I see no reason why we all(black Americans, Nigerians, Nigerian -Americans, all African immigrants) cannot love each other and support ourselves.

Many Nigerians and Nigerian -Americans need to be more humble about their phenomenal successes as well albeit people should not try to downplay the immense efforts, pains, sacrifices, hard work and drive that most Nigerians abroad pour into life to achieve great things.


[/b]Finally, we all should not dwell in the past. We cannot change what happened during the slave trade - it was an unfortunate incidence but that is now history. More so, we were not the ones that sold them into slavery and not all African immigrants have condescending opinions about black Americans. Majority of us love them and we see them as a part of us. African immigrants should see black Americans as their brothers and sisters, vice versa. We all need to work together and put our differences/biases aside. [b]

IN THE END, WE ARE ALL AFRICANS! ONE LOVE!!!

Ithis is so true. The friction between is is too much. Anyway I am planning to marry one black American guy . They can be crazy though but very loyal. If u see one going after u just learn him as school. They are nice. I love my guy

ojun50:
Op

We are more concern about Covid 19 increasing in Nigeria...later we will come back to discuss this after the borders have been open.

Thank you...

We all knw say Nigerian girls get problem both home and abroad

Really? Are u serious? Nigerian men are lucky because men go out to hunt the opposite specie. Look ! With my training as a Nigerian lady I have nt seen any black American man that likes me that doesnt want to settle down with me. But Nigerian men can piss u off. Yuck!

simplepee:
Really? . Black man anyday for ME, I even find 'fair' guys unattractive talk more of 'white'..Tall and dark is bae .

. My dear black men will show u pepper oh. Tall and dark go wear out oh. Dey no sabi marry. Look for white dude and enjoy love

Greystone:
In 10 yrs she'll be looking for husband up and down...blaming village people...disturbing Papa Oyedepo in Shiloh

I swear, I love gentle women. A peaceful woman is worth more than gold. Not like this one.

*1st to Comment oh

I dedicate this to all Nigerians...corona virus no go catch any of us ;Dssw

NB:
I don't support violence of any sort (yes, slapping na violence) by either gender.

Neither am i a fan of Public proposals.

This is fake abeg. Nigerian youths go and look for work

Similar experience with me. He comes home late. One day armed robbers followed him home..and the rest. Follows

etrange:
The fear of men is the beginning of wisdom!

If tomorrow the lady leaves, NL boys will gather here to call her all sorts of names for not being able to "keep a home". I pity women, honestly.

That is y some of us are relocating to USa. Sipping champagne. Niger men no know love. Come see love here. Na me just dey run

sLentlover7778:
Any lady wey tell you say.. I don't love you because of your money..my brother na set up ooo Japa...

U just dey crase. I just dey love my man without cash

In yankee here it is felony oh if u kill snake

Why do I enjoy being single?

I sorry though I dont follow ur full story. The best place for a woman to live is.in American. I suffered same abuse,.he almost killed me both spiritually and physically. He used to lock me inside the room physically after.fight and spiritually in dream. My dear abuse was too much After I left and now living my full life I yankee. Making my doe. I want to marry again. But na my binoculars go determine sha. One thing is.a lot of men dont go to church so not every one can marry Christians talkless of the one that is strong believer. Check his attitude and every other thing will follow

mayordy:
Good day people,

A month ago, I suddenly started feeling pain in my chest and dizzy eyes and numb palms and feet, I thought it was shortness of blood because I have been stressed for the past 6 months waking up out of bed getting into traffic to work and coming back in traffic late at night.

The chest pain feeling like my heart skipping a beat still didn’t go away, i couldn’t get a sound sleep every morning I wake up unrefreshed and tired through out the day

I checked my blood pressure one day at the pharmacy and it was abnormally high and I’m just 26 I went to the doctor and conducted PCV to check my blood count, malaria test and fasting sugar, all came out normal, he suspected angina so I also did an ECG which also came out normal, the doctor gave me paracetamol, vitamin B12 capsule and since then that is how I have been frequenting the hospital, each time the blood pressure still high.

Last week I was still at the doctor last Thursday and my BP was 148/96 at my age, yet the doctor doesn’t really tell me much he just keep prescribing the same sleeping pills and vitamin B12 and iron capsule.

Right now I presently can’t help myself to sleep, my day is always filled with fatigue, headache, dullness, I lose concentration at work, I can’t seem to get anything done because my eyes get heavy and my head be pounding me seriously. I don’t know what is going on I’m gradually losing the sharp young man I used to be.

Please, I don’t know if anybody has gone through a phase like this or if we have experienced doctors in the house please.

Please I need all the help I can get

Send me an email. I had the same problem last year but I am very fine now, but i will tell u what to do. Ur bp will disappear my dear. U will even sleep like a baby. But u have to work with me. I live outside the country

donbachi:
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...

Lies. I met one in yankee here and said ok let me try mbaise away from home. Bu Manu. Tufiakwa. The guy no bie am. Worst Niger guy I don jam. My sister run oh

MrBrownJay1:
If that's is the case then remove all the rubbish on your face/head and BE NATURAL

She no fit

No one should bring south wife or kids to Niger oh. We dey vex now

The wife she don born

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Anyways, sex is the only thing ladies offer in a relationship.

Then stay away from women make we hear words. Keep ur brokos

sirdouglas:
In as much as you are trying to be mean. I understand your point. For the record, I am not a boy. I will appreciate if you address me with more respect.

Marrying her will not be such a bad idea but we may not enjoy the marriage. Especially her. She has said it over time that she knows that I don't love her. In as much as that is not entirely true, it is not far from it. She doesn't fit my profile for a wife and that is why I have been trying to end the relationship.

If this is coming from a woman I will understand but coming from a guy makes me want to ask you how old you are. Sorry but that's so insensitive of you and immature.

I never meant ill for her and I have been as reasonable and honest I can be with the situation. Judging me won't solve the problem.
What about a girl that a guy rejected for good three times and told her that he doesn't like her for marriage and she is still insisting and keep coming back? It's a two way thingb ro and I am expecting you to be more reasonable with your replies.

First of all the thunder wey go fire u dey for T junction dey wait for the right time. For.even saying u will never marry from Anambra state. Na the girl.pursue u abi na u toasted.her. u are lucky.
If she is mu sister I for don use odieshi bring u back to Niger or keep u useless in abroad there. Idiot .

Find libido medications and add in her food

I am not surprised about this statement as it from rivers man. Useless things

Some girls wan hammer this pastor oh. Ma G be this