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me,myself:
- i understand all that apart from this, so what if im havin a really wonderful life and attractin a great mate wont make it lose its focus but add to its richness, then i wont attract the great mate, because my life wont lose focus? please explain.

i dont think so!!

hmmm man, i dont see any Wahala in tellin a gurl wat u feel 4 her,

luvlymoi:
niice!!! u dey try o!!! how did u kn all that?

hmmm, well u thing been happening around the globe!!

1- YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT KNOW YOUR SOUL MATE RIGHT AWAY: - When you do meet you soul mate, you will not know him or her by the fanfare and the rush of hormones, you will only know him or her by a very gentle tug on your heart. Instead of looking for the fanfare, look for that gentle tug and build a friendship without expectation of something more. In time, as the relationship blossoms, when both of you reveal your true selves, you will know.
2- RELATIONSHIP RARELY LOOKS LIKE ROMANTIC MOVIES OR BOOKS: - imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after.
3- IT TAKES YEARS TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE: - the gift of being human is our complexity. Is it possible to know someone in a week, a mouth, a few dates? Can you reveal all of your complexity in that short amount of time? How long does it take someone to truly know you?
4- GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS COMPLETELY WORTH THE EFFORT: - there is nothing like being in a great relationship. There is nothing like being seen and known by the one you love, and seeing and loving back. What ever you need to go get there, do it.
5- IN SPITE OF LOTS OF BAD RELATIONSHIPS, A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS POSSIBLE: - it doesn’t matter if you have been “unlucky in love”. All that matters is that you take the steps necessary to build a great relationship. It us essential these be different steps then the ones you have taken in the past.
6- A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A LIVING BEING – IT NEEDS LOVE CARING, SPACE, ETC: - people tend to either ignore or smother relationship. In the first case they ignore their partner, thinking that a relationship, once established, will always be there. In the second case they spend every moment with their partner, give and expect undivided attention. If you had a pet, how would it survive under such conditions?
7- YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS THE WAY YOUR PARENTS DID THEIRS: - regardless of the models and world view of the previous generations, your life still belongs to you. Choose how you do your relationships, instead of blindly doing or thinking something just because it comes naturally.
8- YOU CAN ONLY HAVE A GRAET RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DON”T NEED ONE: - when your life is so wonderful that having a relationship looses is focus is when you will attract the right mate. This is not the same as forcing yourself not to think about relationship or shutting down out of disappointment

hmmm, well she's

Kaduna LOOOL,

hey gurl Nairaland is just cool an maturity, just take a look an hv fun!!

hmmm, well is nice ambition u know wish u that

LOOOL@baby4u

hmmm i guess is not that long@beyunce, well thnx for ur respon

hmmm i guess is not that long@beyunce, well thnx for ur respon

Real fact of life, this is a must read, A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife Open a package. "What food might this contain?" The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap. Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning. "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it." The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The pig sympathized, but said, "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured, you are in my prayers." The mouse turned to the cow and said "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in
the house!" The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose." So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap alone. That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever. Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient. But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with the farmer around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. The farmer's wife did not get well; she died. So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had
the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them. The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness. So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you, remember -- when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another. SEND THIS TO EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER HELPED YOU OUT AND LET THEM KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE. REMEMBER: EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER PERSONS TAPESTRY; OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON. One of the best things to hold onto in this world is a friend,

hmmmm why did he change ur name gurl, someone is asking to be his second wife, will u?

expect wat u dont expect anything might come out gurl,

i think u should listin to new ans papers for more detials,

hmmmm Bisanke i guess u into this system.

ok i will@Tx

thnx@k2 i will see wat i can do about it,

basically, i am always very careful when choosing my friends. infact, i don't have a particular friend that i am close with. i don't want to be attached to any friend.

remy_jims:
really?what time is it?i hope it will be worthwhile sha, free stuffs

hmmmm nice question bosy,

hmmm see u didi who no like awoof, this matter of something good u know so why awoof? enn, i dont blem bosy u know

we been in our 3-4 yrs now, we planning to gate marriage and she tould me she's epilepsy dont really know at to do now,

IAH:
Nothing wrong in buying gifts for the one you love. Just make sure it's reciprocal i.e. not only you doing the giving giving all the time!

LoL man, is true in other way but why do u said that ma?

diddy4:
please, be aware of scammers and 419ers oooo. you don't want to cry later. before u invest with anyone in any area, make sure it is genuine and not a scam. shine your eyes man.

that's true oooo my brother just take it easy,

ok luvlymoi, i guess so too u know, cos some gurls dont want to be touch and wat is in mens mind is not wat is in gurls, maybe u just want to feel her by maybe kiss or feel her natural skin they will thing 4rm that u just going into the natural issue, which is not in ur mind,

ok@busta

ok Gwaine i will see wat i can do about this lil issue,

hmmmmm Damsal well i dont thing i hv somethin to said about ur issue, u just want me to accept that im just crazy to hv sex with, touchin her is defferent and sex too so u see gurl,