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MISTAKES GIRLS MAKE THAT RUIN
RELATIONSHIPS
If the perfect boyfriend really did exist, every girl
has her own idea of what he would be like. But
the average guy is, well, just a guy. And often
times, girls make these common mistakes while
in a relationship with the “perfect” guy for them,
but end up losing him. Here’s a list of mistakes
that you want to avoid when you’re considering
a long-term relationship with that special
someone.

1. Trying to change your partner.

Sure, it would be absolutely amazing if he
changed that one little thing, and you would be
so happy, right?
Wrong.
Because what might be little to you, is actually
quite big to him. This will make your guy feel
like you don’t love him for who he is, and trying
to change him will only create a certain level of
resentment and maybe even raise some
concerns that he may not be able to fulfill all
your desires, and you’ll only love the person you
want him to be.

2. Thinking you’re not “good enough” for him.

We’re all human. And humans are not perfect,
and we probably will never be. But that’s the
beauty of life. Could you imagine how hard it
would be to maintain perfection your WHOLE
life? No matter how amazing you think your
boyfriend is, you should always feel that you are
just as amazing.
Put it like this: He wouldn’t be with you, or fight
with you to make it work, if you weren’t up to
par. Love is a very important part of any strong
relationship, and in order to love someone, you
must also love yourself.

3. Assuming he knows how you feel without
telling him.

Guys are not mind-readers. They won’t
automatically know how you’re feeling inside if
you don’t make even the slightest effort to
inform them. OK, so you don’t want to have to
verbally tell your guy that he did something
wrong, or that you’re sad about something else
that happened in your life.
That’s completely understandable.
But when you expect him to just know and get
mad at him for not understanding you, that’s
where the tension begins. Guys don’t enjoy
feeling helpless and confused. And if he has to
struggle to get you to communicate with him
clearly, he will eventually give up and look for
someone that is honest and straightforward.

4. “He’s my boyfriend. It’s his job to make me
happy.”

A good boyfriend should be doing everything in
his power to make you the happiest girl in the
world. However, you should not rely on anyone
else to supply you with happiness. At the end of
the day, it’s a choice that you make and not
something that can be given to you in exchange
for love.
Sometimes, you have to sit back and figure out
exactly what’s bothering you, and instead of
blaming your guy, try to share these feelings
with him. Give him a chance to help you cope
with these issues, because he probably won’t be
able to fix them (at least not all of them,
anyway.)
But if he’s supportive and wants to be with you
and cares about your happiness, this is usually
enough motivation for you to say, “Hey, I have a
good guy. Why should I worry about the things
that I can’t control?” You’d be surprised how
strong a relationship can be when you focus on
the positive aspects.

5. Believing that he just doesn’t want to talk
about anything.

It’s a known fact that women love to talk. But
believe it or not, guys are actually even more
sensitive than women! However, most guys
won’t just open up to anyone, even if you’ve
been in a relationship for a long time.
The mood, the environment, the situation —
things just have to be right.
He will talk to you about almost everything as
long as you understand how to make each other
comfortable enough to trust and communicate
on that level of intimacy. Yes, it sounds like a
lot of work, but relationships are all about
learning, understanding and appreciating the
efforts that you two make to create that special
bond.

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Regards.

CTL are not serious, all there customer care numbers are okay

So no one has idea about this CTL thing

Mod pls help! By moving to fp

egift: Here is my entry, what do you think? Thank you guys.

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I look at mirror once in two days or maybe am going to VIP, but believe it or not, girls look mirror almost every hour, they will certainly take mirror to hell fire

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Why are you asking such questions Do you want to marry from these people " women– Susan ( Teri Hatcher ), Lynette
( Felicity Huffman ), Bree ( Marcia Cross )
and Gabrielle ( Eva Longoria )"

Pls ppl say something

When is CTL coming to Lagos? Or is it already functioning? Pls give
me some clues because DSTV is way too
expensive

4llerbuntu: try reading the thread.

If you can't give me a direct answer, why don't you directly shun my post You're asking me to read a thread that was opened since 2011

When is CTL coming to Lagos? Pls give me some clues because DSTV is way too expensive

Please can anyone give me clues about CTL, its functioning in lagos

http://www1.zippyshare.com/v/73855236/file.html try it

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I believe this story with all my life, perfect example is some few weeks back, @ phase 6 transekulu Enugu, SARS came to a bee parlour and arrested everybody that was eating chicken n drinking beer, not even one person escaped, each of them bailed their self with about 10k each, i nearly cried when I'm sure 99% of people arrested were So innocent... There reasons were that some arm robbers snatched a car... Why on earth will such thing happen For those of you who don't believe, in Nigeria anything can happen, we are the main founder of corruption.. Imagine a nation where governors are more powerful than president,, governors doz whatever they like, steals anything and any amount they deemed necessary for their selfish interest, why can't the forces be so corrupt as well, when a head is bad what happens to the body All that the inmate had said is so true, I remember when my bros came from Spain prison, I wish I could also go to their prison because of how fresh he is.... Nigeria is so blessed n so rich, my only regret is why we got our independent! Simple

OMO IBO: Good stuff!

But how did CCECC get a job of this magnitude though??

Where was Julius Berger??

They got it because of rail way things, so no qualms

A real relationship must have simple fights,
trust, faith, tears, and genuine laughter.
Jealous, Communication, patience, weird/stupid
unnecessary arguments; no hiding secrets, true
love and most importantly there must be
forgiveness on both sides.
No one is perfect on earth, we all make
mistakes in our relationships but the best
solution is to accept your mistakes and say
SORRY to your loved one. It’s a small word
but it means a lot. Many of us find it so hard to
say it out yet it costs nothing, but it only eases
the tension between lovers. Say it from deep
inside your heart. Don’t fake it please but just
mean it always.
And if he/she is the one in wrong never get
tired of forgiving him/her depending on what
they have done. If you get to think of moving on
because you’re pissed, my dear think of where
you’re going, the time you will take to find & fit
in a new relationship, The imperfectness you
will find with that new lover might be
incomparable to the one you dumped, then you
will start regretting and wishing you never
dumped her/him.
Think about it my dear friends having it in
minds that WE HAVE GOT NO ANGELS ON
EARTH. We’re the ones to transform our
BFs/GFs to be like angels
So be proud of the one you have got and fight
all the challenges that are trying to tear you
apart. Right now you may be seeing your guy/
girl as a fake person but some dude/girl is
somewhere seeing him as a handsome king/
beautiful queen.
They’re wishing and praying you fall apart for
them to replace you.
THINK ABOUT IT
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Waziri Ahmed Ebenezer Concordis
(WAEC)
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Usman Maduka Emmanuel (UME)
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(GOAT)
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Nigerian(JONATHAN)
ADD YOURS........keep it rolling

[quote author=Capt. JH Miller]everybody is condeming and mentioning the woes. Which I do not deny but common people!


Lemmi I ask a sincere question?
Hopefully I get sincere answers.

How many of us woke up today and put nigeria and our leaders in prayer? How many of us dedicated today to fast? Dosent matter what you believe in might not believe in a higher enitity, maybe go over dowins theory book.. Just something any effort!?

Its no secrete we are in a sorry state in this country, but if we do not stand for ourselves who do we expect to do that for us?[/quote]You mean we should pray for our leaders to die or change

[quote author=Capt. JH Miller]everybody is condeming and mentioning the woes. Which I do not deny but common people!


Lemmi I ask a sincere question?
Hopefully I get sincere answers.

How many of us woke up today and put nigeria and our leaders in prayer? How many of us dedicated today to fast? Dosent matter what you believe in might not believe in a higher enitity, maybe go over dowins theory book.. Just something any effort!?

Its no secrete we are in a sorry state in this country, but if we do not stand for ourselves who do we expect to do that for us?[/quote]

[size=21pt]nonsense!!! celebrate what Corruption or embezzlement [/size]

Can someone help me ask GEJ where is the money he's gotten from fuel subsidy fund Sophisticated looters!!!

Popowaa: U keep flaunting cash to attract a woman and u expect the woman not be after ur cash?Not all girls are relationship for cash,if u dont want to be in a cash relationship stop using cash as a bait to attract girls

Then what else could attract a Nigerian Girl .... People deceiving people! Get a life!

Boll2010: bitch u be trending on twitter with the #SaveAsoul......u need to get injected with some sweetener......cuz ur whole life v been so bitter,fat Pig aint feel no pity to yo'sorry as!s, go continue rockn dos old 80's wear!.......u come here n spew trash! Ur life will do well if uv been on da'street suckn di!cks n givn ur man some rimjobs......atleast dat wld save a DOLLAR for yo'nasty lifestyle.....binsh y u mad.......I gez u hate life so much u rant a lot on nairaland if u hate u life so bad y dnt u kill ursef.......fat bitc!he's claimin charmin,u gonna stay trippin ur whole fuckin life.......freaks! Badbitc!he's wannabe y don't u hookup juicy J in da'50grand twerkin challenge loolks u would do anythn to get da'bucks......old bitc!he's lookin for fun.......am tru wit yo'as!s.....hop on next di!ck SUCKER......I knw u wld b so dumb in tryna quote....done n dusted!!!
U need to get a mojo to get ur life back on track!!

Never argue with an idiott!, They will drag
you to their level and beat u with
experience.

Leave d frustrated old woman, she's got nothing important to do than stay online all day.... Knock it off!

Truckpusher: Why are you always talking trash?

Leave the aristo babe who just decided to settle down with the man who's managing her.... Lazy old woman who spend all her time online...

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Is that your mammy's stage name?[/quote]You & ur man are pig in making, because he's still strafing dat ur smelling pusssy!!!

You need a cognitive therapy