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bigfrancis21: Your post was hidden because
1) you wrote a whole lengthy post and didn't write it in English which is not allowed on nairaland. Nobody knows what you wrote. It could carry provoking, dangerous or threatening information against the security of nairaland and its owner, moderators and members.

2) You also derailed the topic of the thread by writing in spanish in an English-language thread.
The auto spam bot was designed to automatically detect and hide non-English posts on nairaland and I'm surprised your post went unnoticed.

You made your point in your earlier posts which I never hid and will never hide. Everybody is entitled to their opinions. I only hid all spanish posts. Please write in English fully next time.

My post was directed to someone who wrote something in Spanish and he was demanding I reply in Spanish and that was exactly what I did. Now, tell me something about auto spam which I don't know. Maybe you think some of us here are clueless when it comes to computer.

django1: It was bigfrancis that hid your post, he's a igbo supremacist that can't stand being called out or disgraced. He was very sure you were lying until you put them to shame by responding and he couldn't bear other people seeing his shame so he had to hide your post.

He's a bigot and I truly wonder why he's a moderator on this forum/section.

I am not going to call him a fool because calling someone a fool is bad and its really a strong word to use.
I will like to let him know I am also a Nigerian, my Dad is an Igbo man. I have lived in Nigeria for many years before leaving the country for my Maternal Home Equatorial Guinea and then was lucky to travel the world, that exposed me not to reason like him.

He should grow up and learn to accept his fault.

macof: they trying to hid something from the public

I dislike people who hide or shy away from the truth. When you try to educate some of our
Nigerian brothers, they keep running to the wrong direction, that's myopic.
They better don't hide my post again.
It's very unprofessional

django1: Bia Francis, did you hide that post from network master?

Now, what exactly are you celebrating? The number of igbos living in EG or that the Igbo there have not forgotten their tongue? Because from all indication EG didn't make Igbo an official language.

Anyway, you ‘peeps' insecurity goes beyond this issue.

I don't know who hide my post but that should not repeat its self again.

I don't know who this moderator is but I would like to ask you not to block any of my post again, as long as its not insulting to anyone and not a strong language or else you will know why I am called Network master.

I posted something in Spanish in reply to one of the comment regarding if I am truly an Ecuatoguineano and you had to block my comment, I am so sad at your action, I consider it rude and disrespecting.

Tomorrow, someone will come here and call South Africans xenophobic.

Don Xavi: Equatorial Guinea which was formerly known as SANTA ISABEL with its capital Malabo (also formerly known as Fernando Póo) is comprised of the ethnic groups which include FANG, BUBI, COMBE, NDOWE, BISIO, and ANNOBON. The Fang being the largest ethnic group are from the main land, known as Rio-Muni, followed by the Bubi who are the original inhabitants of Malabo the capital city. Malabo is one of Equatorial Guinea Islands. (Bioko Island)


The Fang ethnic group is spread as far as Cameroon and Gabon. Although there was an extremely large presence of Nigerians during the colonial epoch who were imported through Calabar port by the Spaniards and used as peons and laborers working in cocoa farms until they gained their independence from Spain in 1968. Yet, after independence they kept on bringing more Nigerians till around 1979.


The crop of Nigerians now found in Equatorial Guinea are just contemporary businessmen and women who travel to and fro Nigeria doing their business. The above six mentioned ethnic groups are the only ethnic groups there are in Equatorial Guinea. All those sites you posted are just peddling lies. Igbo is not officially nor remotely recognized as an Equatorial Guinea ethnic Language. I’m gobsmacked how this untrue information made FP on NL. Na wa 4 the mods. oo! Que mentira diabolica!

Brother, you just said it all.

WHO POST THIS RUBBISH THIS IS A BIG LIE.

I LIVE HERE IN EQUATORIAL GUINEA AND I AM ALSO A CITIZEN HERE (MATERNAL HOME).
IGBO NOR ANY NIGERIAN LANGUAGE IS NOT SEEN OR RECOGNIZE AS AN ETHNIC LANGUAGE HERE.

THEY DON'T EVEN LIKE FORIEGNERS LET ALONE ACCEPTING YOUR LANGUAGE.

PLEASE MAKE YOUR RESEARCH WELL BEFORE YOU POST NONSENSE HERE AGAIN.

190: Ehen move all your belongings from your house into her place since na belongings be the issue

Note that dear, i am tryign to let u knw how serious it is. She moved all her things out. If really want to give me a chance she would have just taken a brake and not take all her things with her. Don't u get it?

Enoquin: This technology/social media era has really released inhibitions.
There comes a time when one decides not to get distracted any longer, the only problem is there is no particular age when one decides that's why you see old men still behave like young men.

Pls OP that last statement is merely one of reflection. The thing to be understood is this, just as you hit on other women, other men hit on your woman. Although this is almost the same thing it is not because why the onus lies on the woman not to give in, it lies on the man not to ask in the first place.

Imagine that anger and betrayal you would feel, if you saw flirty chats on her laptop. Your mind would have put up many crazy scenarios and there will be this itch to look up her phone too to know how many more hidden mysteries abide there. That is the same way she feels. She is thinking how many unclad pics you might have seen and how far you have truly gone.

You are in luck though, most women cannot stay angry too long at the ones they 'love' or better still are fond of. So, it's not closing your accounts on all social media that matters, it is having those accounts and not doing 'kurukere' that matters.

Give her some time like 3 days but in those 3 days send her messages. Not long mushy messages but short ones. For example, you can send 'Babe, I am so sorry' in the morning. 'Have you had lunch? Love you' in the afternoon. 'Miss you. My day was boring. Goodnight' and bla bla...
(, forgive me I am not romantic, so insert your lovey dovey words)

Don't let anyone tell you different, for a relationship to succeed, one person alternatively has to play the fool. Resentment only comes in, when only one person plays the fool all the time.

Many thanks dear.

Ken_Jak: In this case,you dont have to lie at all,you have to be completely sincere. Go to her parents to explain everything and if possible,meet with the lady to explain and if compulsory/needed,you can swear for her.

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I am so scared and even ashame to meet her mum, i don't want them to know i have problems with her, not yet.
I am hoping she wouldn't tell them. She promised she is just going to brief them we have problems and won't tell it in details.

Her parents trust and love me. I am just so sorry for my evil act, i pray she have a change of mind.

I will go straight to the point.

By the end of this month we are scheduled to get married ( Court Wedding ).
Two days ago i left my laptop with my lady to do some of her personal work
and i forgot i didn't sign-out of Facebook and Skype.

Unfortunately for me, she went through my messages and chats.
She found out i have been having some online stupid flirts with some ladies.

These ladies are far away from us in different countries. Some i have meet before and never had
anything with them. One was my ex-girlfriend in South Africa and we still communicate till date
even though we both know their is nothing more between us, but we just remained friends online.

One is in the-same country with us but i have never had anything with her but from my chats with her
i have been trying to convince her to fall for my evil mind.

My girl read every single messages on my Facebook and choose to save them all.

She has called off the wedding plan for December and has moved all her belongings out of my house yesterday b4 i arrived from work.

I am so much in love with her and still want to marry her. I have pleaded with her for forgiveness but she wouldn't listen.

She said she has lost all the trust she has for me. I have closed down my Facebook account this morning.

My dear Nairalanders, I am so confused and don't know what else to say or do.

How long does it take a lady to forgive a man in such cases? can i ever win back her trust? will she ever come back to me?
My sister is her good friend and she has spoken to my lady but she told my sister, it will take her sometime but she didn't
assure her anything.

Please people, what else can i say or do to get back my lady. NOTE: I never slept with these ladies, except my ex girlfriend whom
she knows about and that was two years ago. Please advice, you can aLl call me all the hard names like she has been doing since yesterday but
all i want is to get my lady back.

And where is Karen?