₦airaland Forum

kpozite: well as long as it takes to know the person you are with. I think one can advice him/herself especially for them ladies listen not only to the words but also to the actions too and God helping you, you will know where your relationship is heading. But as for relationships for the sake of courtship someone once said and I quote ''10 countries are easier known than the heart of some men'' so you can date, court for as long as you like and at the end of the day hidden undesirable characters start manifesting when it is too late to reverse. So pray to God that you meet the right person and don't rely on your ability.

kpozite: well as long as it takes to know the person you are with. I think one can advice him/herself especially for them ladies listen not only to the words but also to the actions too and God helping you, you will know where your relationship is heading. But as for relationships for the sake of courtship someone once said and I quote ''10 countries are easier known than the heart of some men'' so you can date, court for as long as you like and at the end of the day hidden undesirable characters start manifesting when it is too late to reverse. So pray to God that you meet the right person and don't rely on your ability.

Gracious10: I honestly think this is an issue that should be sincerely addressed by the male and female folks respectively. In r/ships people tend to act being on the same page when they are directly opposite. My jaw drops when people have been in a r/ship for 10yrs, I wonder if its really love or r/ship of convince.
Most claim, the have to know their partner very well, that I agree but is it really necessary owing to the fact that most prolonged "am engaged" r/ships often ends in "am single again".

It's really worrisome that years, time spent and resources went down the drain. IMO, r/ships /engagements shouldn't last more than 2yrs without proper bearing. Am sure a man knows what he wants within this space of time, prolonging these things gives opening for unnecessary distractions. People tend to be more serious when they are committed than when a man keeps saying "we are just digging it" or we are learning ourselves, I wonder if it takes 10 yrs to carry over a course repeatedly cos to me, its carry over method. Meaning whenever the man makes up his mind, he considers to re-visiting what he doesn't understand and most times it takes that long to understand.

In conclusion, 2yrs and he's still booting, time to let go. As for him, he can't wait forever but for a lady, there's no time. It's not an act of desperation, its being able to manage your time and as well adore urself with respect and principles. While you wait for the right person, engage in meaningful things. There lots of ideas to be discovered, wealth to cultivate. The power of a woman is not on what a man can do for her but what she can do for herself. And who knows while u are busy adding to the world, Mr right who hates carry over may be at the corner praying to have you for life.

And to all the men, who haven't figured out themselves, its very terrible to get into a r/ship. Make sure you know what you want. No come dey waste other people time when you know you have no bearing. I don talk finish

190-the-clown:
[size=18pt]I Dont know why Nigerian girls are always giving their bf's problems [/size]

Omo Alata: Dad is dead so I won't be kneeling before him. Mum lives in Lagos (I don't) and even if I did, I would not be kneeling before that woman

sexkillz: [color=#000030]First of all, it is sexkillz. Secondly, it is rabid dog, and not rapid dog. Thirdly, you do not take a Jump in a river, you rather jump into a river. . .

Will you accept a guy getting you pregnant for his own selfish reasons, without thinking of the implications on you?
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k2039: So they are indirectly saying God created Gold for the devil.
Their is no biblical basis for what she did.
I think she is deranged and needs to be confined to a solitary place before she gets out of hand. Mtcheew

SMH

helpn hand@kay:
I'm a good girl with Godly believes and ideals buh I seem t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ have fallen in L♥√ع with a yahoo boy.he really loves me too and has promisd t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ stop in december.

kennz: As for me,i'll advice u cum arnd nd knw abt her bfor u conclude on avin her as a wife.
Ur uncle lukd at her as a gud girl nd frm wat u sed,she's a nice girl bt note dat we ladies chnge nd durin courtshp u mite see in her wat u dnt lik bt if u dnt knw ursrves well,den be sure u'll av prbs afta mariage
So cum dwn nd mit her.

freecocoa: A girl got a request on bbm and accepted it, she asked the dude how he got her pin and the dude seeing the girl's pic, decided she was ugly and that kinda infuriated him.

So he wrote "As you ugly like this you still dey form, even dey ask where i get your pin instead wey you go thank me for adding a monkey like you".


Can't really think of any said to me right now.