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14. Your Role Models Are Totally Strange And Bad! If you want to be a great woman tomorrow, start now to emulate great women- study their foot parts, their lifestyle, their ways and try to inculcate their lifestyle into yours. Stop looking up to music stars and fake celebrity ladies, etc as your only role model in life. What happened to looking up to women like- Great women in Nigeria numerous to mention or international women like Hilary Clinton, Michele Obama, etc?
Stop gluing your eyes on fashion TV, Fashion One, Big Brother TV Show, E! etc, and start now to build interest in economy issues, current affairs, economy and business news, watch more of CNN, National Geographic channel, Channels TV, ESPN, Discovery World, Animal Planet, Aljazeera TV, Super Sports, etc, these are what men love to see women do cos only a handful of women show interest in these, and those few women are those ones that end up being great women in future. Movie Magic, Africa Magic will only inculcate bad habit, poor manner and laziness in you, please wake up before you end up single for life, which I pray not.

13. You Are a Liability – in as much as we know that the present economy of Nigeria and the world in general is harsh, men and society in general careless about how you react to this situation, how do I mean? Read on.
You are from a poor family background, and you have no job or you are earning below 150,000naira a month but you want to wear designer clothes, shoes, jewelry, perfume and also carry Prada and Gucci hand bags. You want to use the most expensive gadgets- mobile phones, pads, etc. you are from a poor family background, or average family, etc is not a justifiable reason for you to be depending on men for virtually everything you need in life. Show yourself some respect.
And don’t think you can split your exorbitant expenses amongst different men, by dating different men so that you won’t be demanding from that one you truly love amongst them, so that he will be convinced that you are a good girl who doesn’t demand fallacy! A man knows when his woman is sleeping around with other men to meet her needs, most men only decide to keep mute for reasons, don’t get it twisted, but hardly will they marry you- that’s why you see a lot of pretty ladies complain; “after giving him my love, my body, my heart, and did everything for him, etc, he paid me back with heartbreak, God will punish him, blah, blah, blah” says who? Of course you don’t expect a man in his rightful senses to marry an unrepentant LovePeddler, do you? Would you welcome your own brother bringing home a playgirl as his would-be wife, be honest please?
There are zillions of decent and honorable things you can do as a single lady to at least meet your own financial needs without sleeping around with men or depending on one man to supply all your needs. Finally, cut your skirt according to your length. You are from a poor family, your parents earn below 450,000naira a month, but you want to look like Rihanna, wear the same clothe she wears, you want to live a similar life Beyonce, Genevieve and Tiwa Savage lives, and you want to dine in the costliest hotels and restaurants, and you are jobless or earning below 300,000naira a month. Now tell me sincerely, how is it possible to achieve this foolish goal without patronizing immoral lifestyle to meet the insatiable demands?

11. You Package Yourself Wrongly – in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

12. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing – definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

9. You Move Around In Groups – often times, you miss the advance of a good decent man when you move in group, be wise. Again, men don’t always fancy ladies that move around in group because most ladies can only be reasonable when you separate them from their group of friends.

10. You Give Everything Out During Dating – As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
For instance, everywhere you go today, you hear majority of single ladies crying that they won’t be a cook for their husbands, that their husband must know how to cook and must be participating equally in cooking and home-keeping, that they cannot marry a man who cannot cook or keep the home clean and all of that, but these single ladies are doing these things happily for their boyfriends and perceived fiancés without complain, but they keep complaining that they won’t do it when they finally marry, and the single men are hearing all these.
Now, a particular single man has three to four girlfriends who comes and cook, clean the house for him happily, and they also supply him with constant sex even when he doesn’t ask, and he is aware that once he marries any of them, she would stop or reduce the rate at which she cooks for him and would want him to be participating in the cooking, say; 60-40% of the time, and he knows too that if he marries any of them, she would start to deny him sex whenever she deems fit in the name of ‘I’m not in the mood’ or ‘I’m exhausted at work or business’ etc, but she was never tired to do any of the aforementioned things while dating the man, so tell me sincerely, how do we expect single men of today to still desire to marry like their fathers and forefathers desired to marry, with all these shabby scenarios surrounding our today ladies?

7. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating – because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

8. Your Friends Run Your Life – how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

5. Cut Down Your Participation in social network sites – if possible, close your facebook and twitter accounts because they may be doing you more harm than good, but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35yrs plus and still single and searching. If you cannot maintain a sizeable number of vital friends and family members as friends on your facebook, twitter, etc accounts, then you need to close the account and focus with your offline life. No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful lady, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousand friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi, etc?

6. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

3. Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage. How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothe in town, the latest mobile phone and pad to the detriment of her woman worth? How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle? How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his right senses to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewelry, perfume, etc? Of course, majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but wouldn’t want to propose marriage to such a lady even if she is earning the money herself because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible serious-minded single men. Only men that are out to catch fun will be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.

4. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off – if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

1. Many ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a Nigerian man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache

Nice one

Pakistan is ranked 15th most powerful military in the world according to Global Firepower, a website that ranks military strengths of various countries as per their set criteria. Its bit of disappointment as i was looking forward to seeing Pakistan in the top 10, since we have invested so much over the years in making sure our Armed Forces is top notch. However i was satisfied later on, when i read that the criteria didn’t included Nuclear capability.

Lets have a look at the criteria of these rankings.

The user should note that nuclear capability is not taken into account. This listing is purely a “numbers game” meant to spark debate and including such game-changers as nuclear weapons would clearly defeat the purpose of such an experiment. In any case, most any nation going to war would more than likely refrain from using such destructive warfare being that since the atomic bombs dropped in 1945, no nation has utilized this form of warfare for at least 60+ years despite there being a good amount of conflicts since then and more nuclear powers at play in the world. If there is a World War 3, it will most likely still be of the conventional sort.

The comparisons here are for consideration in a “straight-up” war based solely on a nation’s capabilities from land, sea and through the air with other statistics covering the logistical and financial aspects of waging such a campaign. Statistic sources and years are stated whenever possible. Some statistics may be estimated if concrete numbers are not available.

Rankings According to Global Firepower;

1. USA
2. China
3. Russia
4. India
5. UK
6. France
7. Germany
8. Brazil
9. Japan
10. Turkey
11. Israel
12. South Korea
13. Italy
14. Indonesia
15. Pakistan
16. Taiwan
17. Egypt
18. Iran
19. Mexico
20. North Korea
21. Sweden
22. Greece
23. Canada
24. Saudi Arabia
25. Ukraine
26. Australia
27. Spain
28. Thailand
29. Denmark
30. Poland

There are no major surprises in this list, Turkey is the most powerful Muslim Country, followed by Indonesia and Pakistan. The rankings would surely be much different if Nuclear capability is included. Israel and Pakistan will surely enter the top 10. Lets have a look at Pakistan stats:

PERSONNEL
Total Population: 172,800,048 [2008]
Population Available: 82,747,782 [2008]
Fit for Military Service: 63,822,970 [2008]
Reaching Military Age Annually: 3,998,981 [2008]
Active Military Personnel: 650,000 [2008]
Active Military Reserve: 528,000 [2008]
Active Paramilitary Units: 302,000 [2008]

ARMY
Total Land-Based Weapons: 3,919
Tanks: 2,461 [2004]
Armored Personnel Carriers: 1,146 [2004]
Towed Artillery: 3,952 [2001]
Self-Propelled Guns: 260 [2004]
Multiple Rocket Launch Systems: 52 [2004]
Mortars: 2,350 [2004]
Anti-Tank Guided Weapons: 12,329 [2004]
Anti-Aircraft Weapons: 1,900 [2004]

* You can see the Data is quiet old.

AIR FORCE
Total Aircraft: 710 [2004]
Helicopters: 198 [2003]
Serviceable Airports: 146 [2007]

* Pakistan toal number of Aircrafts have surely increased since 2004.

NAVY
Total Navy Ships: 33
Merchant Marine Strength: 14 [2008]
Major Ports and Harbors: 2
Aircraft Carriers: 0 [2008]
Destroyers: 0 [2008]
Submarines: 11 [2004]
Frigates: 9 [2008]
Patrol & Coastal Craft: 8 [2008]
Mine Warfare Craft: 3 [2008]
Amphibious Craft: 0 [2008]

Sources:

US Library of Congress; Central Intelligence Agency – Last Updated: 2/12/2009

Bob Marley is talking to me now. I love this quote.

Caracta: Lol...
190, pls don't derail this thread.
And i'm angry with you. It's not funny.

Now i see, from your words, i can tell you are falling
for this Acidosis and 190, you better be careful.

She is just not into you, i have experienced that before.
I just let her go, it take two...

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You dey play tennis, d tennis com roll enta rd, motor com jam u, ur skeleton com outside cari bat and say, roll me that bat, O sssii kpako kpako.

you all the fish wey dey river 9ja shout are we safe...

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jamp: My fellow NL, Could it be said that buying and selling on a sunday is a sin since the Bible said remember the sabbath day and keep it holy.

If is a sin that means almost everybody is committing the sin cos we buy fuel on sunday or enter taxi to visit friends/relations on sunday.

Let's reason together on this

Mind you, the sabbath day is not on sunday it is on saturday which is the last day of the week.
Wish you watch the Anchor of Truth and you will understand how the sunday became a holy day to we christains.

This is not taken in 9ja. The police man their is a South African police, Check the uniform.

Mynd_44: Whatever a woman does to a man does not deserve a beating unless of course she attacks him first. If she does not slap you or pull a gun on you why beat her up? It is senseless and cowardice.

If as Vivian says the moan always insult him, why can't he insult her back? Why mist you beat her up for insulting you.

Does it also mean if his mother insults him he will beat her? Lepa be practical here.

If a woman insults you in public and you beat her up, you will go to jail for assault. No excuse that he insults you will save you. But if she hits you first, then you have a sensible defence

My friend, i do not support the act of beating women, that is wrong. At the other hand, its of a man's nature not to talk like women, so you don't expect a man to start talking rubbish with his wife, definitely its going to be a lost battle cos' women are better at that. It takes a real man to control that situation if not, men have always been known to respond physically. I will still advice that women should know when to stop when the man plead for them to stop.

nbright: Poster... out of curiosity... na where the girl from?.. (her state of origin)

na owerri babe. i hope sey she no dey here, dis one wey u dey ask.

xynerise: Today . With this thread

lies get level

xynerise: Poster swear say u no dey lie? . "Show me your girl(friend) and I will tell u who u are"

Funny you, i lie but not to my girl friend. I can lie when it comes to big things but actually, i can't remember when last i lied.

goofie: have u talked to her about being a writer? she has a writers imagination

lol... She is actually a smart girl because she used to be one top of the students during my secondary school days.
Well, I have not told her to be a writer but she always tell me how she is a good planner and how she can make a good wife.
I guess she is a good planner cos' she even gave me an estimate of how much our wedding will cost even when i have not asked her to
marry me. The other day she claim she is very creative just because she painted different colors on her nails to march her dress.

nbright: THis is super story... a life of strife and sorrow ooooo

My brother I am really in trouble with her lies.

I had to break up with her because her stories were too sweet to be true or was too sweet for my liking. I hate it when a lady lies to me. Especially when I really want to settle down with her. I actually don’t know what to believe anymore, I don’t know if I did the right thing by taking a break from the relationship, I hope you guys can help me out here.
I don’t know what she is trying to prove but she told me one of her numerous too sweet stories; she said she was still a virgin two months after her pregnancy.
I asked her if she is the second virgin Marry she said no, that the S.P.E.R.M of her boyfriend mistakenly dropped into her honey pot during their romance MouthAction.x because he was actually playing with his rod at the door step of her honey pot and suddenly he dropped the hot cum not knowing that some of the proteins had swarmed into her.
Apparently, the father of her baby did not penetrate her when she got pregnant. It was after two months she realized she was pregnant and she couldn’t believe it.
The doctor then advised her to allow the father of her baby to deflower her because she is already pregnant and the v.a.g.i.n.a needs to be widened, that was when she then got deflowered by the father of her baby.

I had to break up with her because her stories were too sweet to be true or was too sweet for my liking. I hate it when a lady lies to me. Especially when I really want to settle down with her. I actually don’t know what to believe anymore, I don’t know if I did the right thing by taking a break from the relationship, I hope you guys can help me out here.
I don’t know what she is trying to prove but she told me one of her numerous too sweet stories; she said she was still a virgin two months after her pregnancy.
I asked her if she is the second virgin Marry she said no, that the S.P.E.R.M of her boyfriend mistakenly dropped into her honey pot during their romance MouthAction.x because he was actually playing with his rod at the door step of her honey pot and suddenly he dropped the hot cum not knowing that some of the proteins had swarmed into her.
Apparently, the father of her baby did not penetrate her when she got pregnant. It was after two months she realized she was pregnant and she couldn’t believe it.
The doctor then advised her to allow the father of her baby to deflower her because she is already pregnant and the v.a.g.i.n.a needs to be widened, that was when she then got deflowered by the father of her baby.

Told her she is not sucking my young-man well, she got angry and stopped.
After pleading for a hot one at night she refused, i kept talking and she finally gave in
but refuse to move on bed. I told her she is just a waste of S.P.E.R.M. she said yes i called for
it, that next time i should learn to accept when a lady says no.

~Bluetooth:
Fraud is an ibo thing. . . .I'm not surprised !

Bush PIG!! That is why you remain miserable and hopeless.
I pity the people associating with a foolll like you.
I don't know you but i can tell the kind of person you are.
I advice you change your useless life style by first erasing
that tribalism and racist behavior, then change the way you reason
because your dirty mind and thoughts directs your way of life and it
will lead you to no good place. Don't miss the good things of life
by being stupiddd. UNCIVILIZED IDIOTTT!!! Sorry i called names but u deserve worst.

The world is bad today because of racist, tribalism and religion freaks like you.

~Bluetooth:
Fraud is an ibo thing. . . .I'm not surprised !

Bush PIG!! T

50calibre: Yes Nigerians are happy to see others happy except for people like you who derive joy in people's misery just to console yourself of yours.

I bet you didn't see how people cheered when Obama kissed his wife at a basketball game, you are calling nigerians. Who are you a Bangladeshi?

You misunderstood him my dear, kissing your partner in public shouldn't be seen as a big deal. It's normal and should
be done when ever you feel like, just to show affection and appreciation and not to send message to the public.
Kissing your wife in public doesn't guarantee happiness in the family, that's what he meant by the word " NIGERIANS".

From your story, i can tell you are just scared of settling down.
There is always that tension when you think of spending the rest of your
life with someone.
The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know.
Now, how to solve this issue: what are those things that scares you on settling down with her?
What are the good qualities in her and the bad ones, draw your scale.
She should be the one worried of you not loving her as much as she does.
I hate it when we men sometimes feel we always have the final decision and making it look as if
we are God's gift to women. I do not blame you, i blame the society for making ladies believe
they have limited choice when it comes to settling down with a man.

Some of us are really searching for a lady that will love us that much and here you are playing with her feelings
after 5 yrs. OK, dump her and start searching for a better woman.