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mekaboy: [b] Op i was on skype with a female friend of mine. she was telling me there is this guy that wants to marry her, they have known each other for less than one .

they guy says he wants to get married by easter next year and she shld make up her mind.

she has met him im person 2 times she visited nigeria. and she is coming soon to stay in nigeria for service .

she said she thinks the whole thing is moving too fast what do i think?

i told her to get to know each other better. she told me, she likes the guy but she is not inlove.

when i asked her why she likes the guy, she said he is matured, financially stable and most of all he is very "GOD FEARING", she can trust him not to.cheat on her.

the guy called her, and she had to call me back latter after 2hrs.

i asked her what they were discussing. she said that the ( GOD FEARING MAN ) was asking her, what she is wearing now, i wish you were here now, tell me what you will do to me if you were here.

i laughed so hard i nearly fell.off the chair. [/b]

Now you see this creatures called women are often confused. How could a God fearing man be asking her what she is wearing?
Really, this creatures need to come up with a different phrase. I do not agree with that word they often use (God fearing)

Ask the lady beside you what they meant by "God fearing" lol...
I just did. You can't believe the funny long definition, girls are funny really.

I thought i have meet the love of my life. We go out together and do enjoy each others company.
She is this gorgeous, wonder and charming lady with a great sense of humor,
she is almost outstanding in every place you take her to, I will say she
is often the prettiest lady in any crowd.

She often call me during the lunch period with her s*xy voice ( Hello swty, could you pls join me in your house for some hot steamy s3x now?)
I actually don't think twice when i hear her speak in that romantic low tune that melts my heart and same time makes the heart beats 10x faster.
She drives straight to my house and i give it to her just the way she likes it as if was the first time, we both dress up and back to our separate working place.

Not until she told me she is done with me that her boyfrnd is coming back from Abroad. I felt so bad and used.
She even had the gut to ask me for a break up s3x which i happily gave it to her and gave her my best hoping that will win her back.
Least i 4get, she has asked me for a break up s3x 3 times even after having her boyfrnd back.

Oh yeah! i felt used but it was fun when i finally accepted my fate with her. I still ask her for some more break-up s3x but she only give it
to me when she wants. Don't blame me the lady is a goddess, you need to see her wicked shaped figured body, with a pretty smiles that makes you cry and smile.
You feel like a king walking with her and she can boost the ego of any real man.

k2039: HAVING GOD'S CORE VALUES IMPRINTED ON ONE'S CONSCIENCE(EG INTEGRITY,HONESTY,LOVE AND SO ON).

Ok, meaning God fearing is a complete package of all those good qualities.

If you ask a Nigerian girl the kind of man she would like to have;
one of the words you will hear from her is: " HE MUST BE GOD FEARING"

That makes me wonder if their is anyone on earth that is not God fearing?
Even the Devil is God fearing.

Please people, are their no other phrase or words to use rather than "GOD FEARING"?

What actually is this God fearing? Holy Born again Christian?

Anambra people are so local, all they know is just trade. How could your husband support such bull?
What is wrong calling them by their names, shouldn't they be the one to call you Aunt?
Some people in 9ja are still behind or let me say they are just not civilized.

The two longest relationship i have ever been in were ladies older than me
by two years.

THE LADIES IN THE HOUSE ARE SILENT ON THIS MATTER.
THEY ARE ALL GUILTY. YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED,
YET, YOU ARE MAKING LIFE A LIVING HELL FOR YOUR MAN
WITH YOUR HEAVY UP-CLASS MARRIAGE DEMAND, WHY WON'T THE
GUYS DELAY THE MARRIAGE? POSTPONE IT?
AND EVEN FIND A LADY IS THAT IS WILLING TO BE SUPPORTIVE?
MARRIAGE IS A LIFE TIME THING, ITS GOD'S OWN INSTITUTION
BOTH OF YOU HAVE TO GROW IN, THEREFORE, YOU BUT GOT TO BE PREPARED AND
NOT WASTE ALL THE MONEY YOU HAVE TO IMPRESS PEOPLE WHO CARELESS
ABOUT YOU.

I asked her if we can just do the white wedding and get over the wedding story.
She shouted NOOOO!!!! The traditional wedding is very important oo, we must do all the
weddings and i should not forget about the ASO-EBI and the gifts for the guest.

I just felt like crying, wonder why some of our 9ja ladies are not understanding
and can't just get over this marriage show ups. The earlier the start reasoning with
their men on how to make the wedding a low key one, the better. Else, ladies will still
be struggling to find husband. She is just chasing me away really.

That boy friend of yours won't make a good husband.
He is so possessive, controlling and dominant.
For you OP, you have already made up your mind to
be naughty in your new school.
I wonder the age different between you guys.

We might nt b sure of d ones 2 tek home 2 our mother's but we KNOW d one's dat r under~qualified 4 marriage..
1]OVERSKILLS: Dis 1 is all ova town in 2much make~up & skimpy clothes.She dey every 'red carpet' & clubs feel empty w/out her on friday nites.
2]RUNS GAL: Her annual salary is 2.5M but she lives in a very furnished apartment in Maitama or Lekki & drives a high profile tear~rubber vehicle.We go just chop ur money,then vamoose!
3]SPIRO: Dis one don taaaay 4 house.She don dey enta voicemail so she decide 2 dey use church cover up.Dat fasting & prayer no b issue; wia u dey wen ur mates dey marry?
4]SPOILT BRAT: Her papa hold small 'change' so she no fit do house work.We knw dem! High maintenance; no productivity.U fit get gifts on una wedding day but afta dat,her papa go free ur LIABILITY!!
5]DAMAGED GOODS: Dem don break dis 1 hrt taya so if u tok abt love 2 her,she go provoke! Abeg,na me break ur alredi broken hrt? Mek una folow me ask her o..
6]NO SEX TILL AFTER MARRIAGE: U dey mek sense but hw come ur frnds wey soji dey marry b4 u? We guys dey like test engine b4 we buy moto o.Give am small,then hoard d tin(winks).
7]STALKER: "Swtie,wia r u?","hu r u wit?","u r alwez hanging out wit d boiz".. Abeg find superglue,seal ur mouth or u go taaaay 4 house.
8]SEND ME RECHARGE CARD: Give urself brain,allow d guy use him mind.. We dnt respect moochers & panhandlers ok!
9]FAKE BONE: Fake hair,fake eyelashes,fake breasts,fake nails,6inches heels,5layers of make~up.. Weeeetin?? Wia d original come dey naw?
10]CAN'T TAKE SHIT FROM A MAN: Na ur own bad pass? Wen time reach u go beg 4d shit.Shebi u don dey near menopause? Dey dia,ur papa go soön begin charge u 4 house rent!!!
SHE WHO HAS EARS,LET HER HEAR!

I refuse to believe that a man can get married when ever he wants as most men claim.
An African man is single because he is not financially ready and does not want to settle for less.
If a man really loves you and he is financially stable he wouldn't think twice to go on his knees
for a proposal.

So, those guys claiming they can get married when ever they want are big liars unless they want
to settle for anything less their real choice of woman and i believe they all got choice and wouldn't just want to marry any girl.
Beside, the Nigeria of today, every real lady would want to have an appropriate wedding which a broke ass man
can not afford let alone take good care of such classic lady. This is just some of the reasons most men a single, yet, claiming to be
searching.

Hey man, i can strongly say, you have been cheating on your wife and you
are looking for every slightest opportunity to stay away from her just to have fun out their
and when you come back you find her irritating hoping she can just fly away and give you all the time to
do what you have been doing (CHEATING).

Yes, she might be over exaggerating but must of the things she said are true
and that you know very well.
Learn to love and respect her, learn to tolerate her and listen to her, do not be
over ego-centered or pompous like she said. Stop feeling like you are God sent to her.

Learn to accept fault, pamper her and learn to apologize to her, she doesn't need much from you
believe me. She just want to be loved and respected, she want to be seen as someone special to you,
please let her know she is special. Be a real man to love and cherish what God have given to you.

I don't care about your excuses, I am a man and i know what a man can do when he is kinda tired of the
old expired woman in the house, remember she wasn't like that when you guys meet. Just treat her like a babe, cos' women most
times could be annoying that's for sure but as a real man you got to learn to be tolerance and understanding
and not always trying to be seen as the boss. RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL.

MOGUL.O:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know i actually wanted to advice you but when i checked your profile
i realized you are a joker, so i am not taking you serious.
You lack proper sense of humor.

Nigeria babes are not even the most beautiful in Africa let alone the world.
Have you ever visited Namibia? Boswana? South Africa? Ethipia? I am out of here.

If i slap you ehh. Leave the innocent girl alone to leave her life.
But is you are ready to marry her tomorrow you can go ahead, do not waste your time
and her youth stage, else that will be seen as abuse.

A friend sent me this, please read.

I miss d days when we went to school,lined up & D headmistress & teachers inspect our nails & uniform & den we match to our classrooms, U Remember na?? •
D days of Nasco Biscuit,Trebor, Iced Colored water tied in nylon we called it "lolly" • D days of Go rangers, spider man was our favourite cartoons •
D days of limca soft drinks & choco milo advert on black and white tv Nd̶̲̥̅̊ sunday rendevous by1:30pm • when we say 'leke leke give me white finger' •
Those days when eleganza pen was d best •
D days wen we used to drink water from d tap even suck out d water if its not coming out •
D days when NTA will show rainbow color for 30 mins then national anthem before they resume program @ 4pm •
D days were basket sandals,simbi nd Bata sandals were d best •
Days wen we all sing sandalili sandalili songs, dstv has come no more old fun I'm really proud to have experienced all this.
If u r nt smiling it means u were nt born in my generation. feel like crying for this generation, honestly...

Some ladies are funny. I have been there before, she even planned our marriage and told me how much it will
cost and how she want to marriage to be.
She asked me to proposed to her on her birthday in front of her friends, that was hilarious.
Well, i am the man of my own will, i didn't pay attention to all that and we broke up.

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2buff: Sweeping thing under a rug and not logically resolving conflicts is not the way forward in a long term thing.
As you said, "you once dated a lady", so youre not dating her again.

You cant be a pushover and think you are doing good.
Sometimes even if you are too tired to fight say "we will talk about this tomorrow evening " or something so it is clear that you have not rolled over and taken it up the arse from her YET AGAIN.

Trust me if i had the chance i would have married her, one thing lead to the other when i left her country so we lost it.
Saying I AM SORRY was the best thing that happened to her and me, she finally learnt how to apologies because it was a habit i taught her.
We became more closer as ever cos' we just know how to solve our problems by saying I AM SORRY YOU ARE RIGHT. Beside, like i did state in the write-up she always end up saying I AM SORRY to me after i might have said mine and she does confess it was her fault. So, saying I AM SORRY YOU ARE RIGHT is no big deal, its just a way of showing maturity and solving problems, it does work for me not only in my relationship also around my environment and the people i meet day to day, I often use the word YOU ARE RIGHT.

2goodbobo: Why would i say am sorry to my girlfriend when she is the one at fault? Trust me you are only spoiling her the more. Love should not be a one sided thing. Both parties should be able to apologize to each other depending on who's at fault. You are just spoiling her and she will always in turn see you as a weakman!

Most times, saying I am sorry does not make you a weak man, it just shows you are wiser and superior, deep down in her she knows the
fact, its just their crazy way of life.
They are built to love and pamper and a lady with right sense won't abuse that privilege and yet, will still respect you.

Some ladies and their ego problem, especially when they are really pretty.
Writing from experience I ones dated this pretty sweet lady who is ego driven, though, she also have some special part of her
that most girls lack. Believe me it wasn't easy, but as a man if you truly love your girl
that shouldn't be a problem. A real man should learn to make her lady happy by telling her what she wants to hear
and i know that's kinda silly but it works for me. Learn to say "OK I AM SORRY" and move on.

I do tell my girl i am sorry even when i know i am not wrong, i know she just want to hear that and thats silly of her.
It doesn't kill to make the lady special. She ends up telling me she is sorry after i might have said mine first and we end up
having a make up intimacy.

Let me tell you a story friends. We humans like to be right especially women. I ones had this neighbor in South Africa, whose wife
came crying to me and my girl friend about how wrong and bad the husband is to her, she complained and talk all her stories while i listen
and after her too many stories i just told her "U ARE RIGHT" [/b]and she was happy and left.

The husband came later that evening to complain and after his stories i told him [b]"YOU ARE RIGHT" and he was happy that i supported him.
My girl friend was angry about my judgment and started shouting at me why i have to tell her frnd she is right and said same to her husband.
I looked at her, pleaded and also told her [b]"YOU ARE RIGHT" [/b]and she was happy, that was how i solved the whole problem.

Life has taught me that its all about the favour of God.
Enjoy while it last.
Life has taught me to take life easy.
life has taught me that human beings will always be human beings.
Life is nothing, aftera-all we will all die, what a shame.

The FG will be stupids enough to even listen to this rubbish.
Unless the FG want to start compensating every region for all the killings
done around the country.

I actually don't understand the Muslims, do they have commandment like 10 commandment of the Christians?
If so, what good those the commandment teaches? I believe, thou shall not kill should be in their commandment?

She just doesn't care about you and your long love stories,
she needed action. She was expecting you to take her home after
every and spank the hell out of her.

Just don't understand why most African babes can't stand by their men unconditional
especially our over sense 9ja babes.

Keep digging her, if possible party. She is a bad girl and she is loving the naughty fun.
Don't mind this people with their spiritual talk