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Eaglesence:
Hi. I am a lady in my 40s. Graduate, Working class. Need a good friend who is a graduate also and a good Christian.. Loving and outgoing. Pls NO jokers or players.

My pin D3CBC4CA

Inanna:
Just look at the dirty, hungry looking, poverty stricken, shît eating, brain dead atrocity that thinks it has the right to post its dumb opinion. Just imagine the foul atrocity that he just spilled. If His sisters or daughters ever go through the trauma of rape, would he open that vile hole on his face to say such nonsense? When I say that this a generation of perverse and hopeless men, he's a perfect example. He has just proven that men of his kind are nothing but randy and immoral dogs with no self control at all.
Rape is never a woman's fault. Whether a women is totally naked or dressed like an Eskimo, some useless sons of darkness would still want to have their way with her. Men should learn how to control their urges for goodness' sake.

sexybbstar:
If this man happens to be my husband... Baba cannot collect pass 20 to 40k.... He won't even be able to climb me without my permission. I hate cheating husbands

Don't quote me o

RadicallyBlunt:
What if he doesn't love her.

You ladies call every affection love. Most of you end up loving up to 5-6 guys in ur lifetime and end up marrying only one and may not even see anyone

Every date doesn't mean love and not every man you come across in love's name will marry you. Sometimes you just wanna have fun..you want someone matured enough to have your fantasies with instead of using cucumber.

by "you" I mean plural for ladies generally...not personally you

I would just advice her to have fun maturely with him simple. Both of them are adults.

Lawlahdey:
Sure. If you love him

shinarlaura:
You know what u want but personally, I can never ever do that.

Rorachy:
I'm not in Uyo.

nzeobi:
old kids rochas and ffk should just man up and engage in a physical combat instead of quarrelling like women.

Rorachy:
Why?

Nov6:
Well speaking about age, am certainly not within the ages you specified,am just in my early 30's,born Nov6th. Speaking about maturity it all depends on what the said relationship has got to offer,
i am an INTROVERT kinda guy,i keep to myself alot,
i don't mingle in things that yields no positive result.
Kinda skeptical alittle bit tho,you don't have a profile picture,
and that makes me wonder.
Hope to hear from you again,tho.

luli4life:
24thAug.

Drkul:
June 19

cruzita:
even my glasses waka leave my eyes because this thing too long.what happened to summary

Drop ur number and get added to this exciting group where u find fellow girls with range of experiences and willing to share..

Rorachy:
I don't forget easily, I can quote what a person said to me in the last 5 years..
Its actually helping me in my school.

XXXwhistleblowe:
I don't know if this happens to me alone or there are people out there who experience this too. I have observed that I hold on to memorize of my pasts that often makes me nostalgic. Sometime I wish I could go back to that time and experience those feelings again. This feeling weighs me down and doesn't let me enjoy the present moment with the people I'm with.

Another phase of this problem is I hardly forget wrongs and most of the things people say to me so it makes me hold grudges even when I don't want to. But its hard because my brain keeps reminding me and its like I'm living that experience all over. So I get angry and the other person who doesn't understand. Does not know why I'm making the fuss. This is affecting me a lot as I have become too emotional and sentimental.

I can't even keep a girlfriend because of this grudge thing. If she lies to me once without knowing. My brain filters her out as dishonest and I start losing feelings. Especially when people contradict themselves, my brain remembers everything.
There was a time I was in church and my pastor insulted fela as being an agent of the devil. My brain recorded it. The I guess after a year or so the same pastor praised fela as an icon. Everyone else has forgotten but it kept conflicting itself in my head.

If anybody here can help me, I'll appreciate the advice and tips. I feel too Much and its wrecking me...

This thread seems to be the most reliable and consistent thread.
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30yrs
Single and looking for a serious relationship that will turn to a marriage as time goes on.
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I'm an Accountant
Please I need a lady/woman with good Sense of humor and good morals.

bola4dprec:
Add 08960506294

siamia:
Special shout out to u, my dear. Lots of muahhh.....lol
Have a wonderful weekend.

Amarabae:
Broke guys always crying when they spend little money on a girl.
Whats #3500? Is it a big thing to spend on a date with a girl?
And he even opened a thread for it?
Grow up pls.

Shadrackmadu:
each time she finish bathing. is it normal; i need your advice

Ever8054:
the boy is not happy with his dad or what?...in 1,2,3 pics he was angry and started crying in the last pic...OP pls try and find out what's going on with the kid and report to us first thing 2morrow moni..thank you

Gentlewitch:
What if I am..?

Benita27:
The mistake most of you make when a girl visits your house is the assumption that if you don't make a move she'd assume you're impotent. If she isn't dating you or your relationship with her hasn't been defined, stay on your lane when she visits. We don't all reason with our pussy!.

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?