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catherine1998:
Because she is not a prostitute like your mother & those ugly ladies from your criminal state, Bastard

Awol1:
Just here to remind you all that Sinach is from Ebonyi state.

Ebonyi to the world.

Igbo Amaka abeg.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

festacman:
It is not just Kano. It is the same trend all over the country. Even here down South, there are more churches than hospitals. We need to change focus.

Fabulouzjoseph:
An evil man that sponsored and helped alot of people through his foundation apart from youtube videos and article do you have any solid proove that he is an evil man?

asanwafo:
Not why was u but why were u

Iamundisputed:
He is more than all of that... He is a genius with way sharper intellect and IQ than most doctors on earth. He reads wide and has been involved in health programmes with professionals and knows a lot more than your certificate bearing doctors and physicians... You keep quiet!

Fabulouzjoseph:
Come on must everybody agree with your ideas. people view things from different perspetives.

Fabulouzjoseph:
Come on must everybody agree with your ideas. people view things from different perspetives.

Fabulouzjoseph:
TRASH
BILL GATES IS ONE OF THE RICHEST MEN IN THE WORLD A MAN WHO IS RICHER THAN SOME COUNTRIES.
WHAT THEN DOES HE STAND TO GAIN FROM PEOPLE'S DEATH.

Iamundisputed:
Ignorant lot...

Just because Bill Gates saw the solution to the Covid-19 crisis, they're demonizing him. This is the difference between ordinary people and great people.

Erosion2020:
Looking at the boy head u find out that the author is still right, that head is position to carry load.
But what is wrong in using your head to carry load?

asanwafo:
Did u receive formal education at all

EcoBrick:
This is preposterous. So child marriage is still happening in the south as well??

GalaticHorde:
we muss see your yansh oh! For academic comparison

Fastestmanalive:
Before telling others to donate why doesn't he donate his property first

qwertyboss:
Please stick to that plot of land of a thing you will never regret it.
My opinion though

BlueMann:
But for real tho, what someone up there said is true...beating these guys won't solve anything. If you have problems, take it up in their offices. These ones sef are suffering what we are suffering

Xano:
Congratulations Boris Johnson and Carrie Symonds on the birth of your son.

Kindly, do not refer their child as coro baby.

blackpanda:
He must die

EVILFOREST:
Not Different from REDMI MI NOTE 10.
that has 108MegaPixel Camera

wahoom:
Dream is glimpse into happenings in the spiritual realm.

Dreams can come from 3 different sources;

1. Man
2.Demons
3.God.

Most times when you forget your dreams, it's a ploy from the enemies to make you ignorant of what is happening in the spiritual world.
It is the spiritual world that controls the physical, there's nothing that happens in the physical that is not concluded 8n the spiritual.

There are some people that are summoned to meetings and they go and commit havocs unconsciously and come back without even knowing they are witches, so sometimes, the devil steals our dream so we would not be privy to what is happening.

I have a friend that used to see herself swimming in a river, she thought it was normal until she eventually realised she belongs to the marine world after some years.

It's not normal to forget your dream.

Pray against dream thieves and also write your dreams anytime you wake up even at midnight.

I used to have that same issue too, so what I did was, once I wake I type the dream on my fone and save it.

Guess what Bro, I found out that nothing happens without me having an idea.
Most of my dream is like a prophecy and helps to guide me in some of the steps I take daily.

oyeb15:
Protest against lockdown is OK by me.but the level now has pass Pot and pan protest.Our government dont listen to protest.They only fear d sound of guns.

We need serious revolutionary leader than this man.Like Castro,like that Ghana man. We need weapons to fight not pots. Hunger has taken over.

We should clean this country at once of our age long tormentors from ward to federal level.

Orpe7:
If my neighbour tries it, I will report him for noise pollution and insanity

rrreer:
Anything that will remove bad governance is highly welcome. Sowore and Nnadi Kanu are two great and young leaders I respect so much...

crowniran:
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PUSSYHOE:
stupid question, he hug transformer! what's there about labour isn't it part of a woman's function?



everything about woman na exaggeration like say other female animal no get Toto.

Ironic:
D'fvq did I just read? Like, you'll send your kids on an errand, your wife will stop them and you won't do anything?

[s]Like, you don't flog your kids?
You fvckin claiming Western pattern of raising kids [/s]by being a simp to them all to be tagged a modern dad?
You gotta be a typical African dad asap!

Bruv, the first thing you need to do now is to make them to be scared of you. Very necessary at this point.

[s]Next time you send any of them message and he/she refuses because of your wife, flog the hell out of that one, if your wife tries to misbehave, flog her too with well-deserved uppercut and smackdown[/s]. If possible, stop eating her food because she's capable of doing something unexpected with what you eat.

They'll become scared of your recent behavior and adjust. Strict dads keep the best, calm and organized home.
[s]
What next? Your wife will try to manipulate them by using your new attitude towards them[/s]. Keep being strict towards them and still do your fatherly works towards them.

Trust me, you need to go very hard right now since your soft ways ain't working.

Mothers manipulations towards their kids against their dad can only function when they are tender, when they grow, they MUST know the truth and the mum will be at the loosing end.

If you don't have the mind to do what I've advised--Divorce your wife. You can't keep housing a demon who's quick to use your kids against you because she's closer to them.