₦airaland Forum

Emmacolinho:
I disagree to an extent.

Incubus/succubus spotted.

Mayng01:
Why two years? Too small na.

yes my dear, what mediocrity! isn't rape a felony which is above magistrate courts?? Y was it being handled in a magistrate court?

DeckXavier:
sorry, but this is bullshit.

Not my bullshit pls!

DeckXavier:
marry without children, haba. What's this abeg, what's the need for marriage??

really?? Yes u can marry without having kids. It's for companionship, for the love u share together, & d good sex is a plus my dear, u don't know anything. D first & soul reason should not be for children. My opinion though I will marry cause I want to be with that special someone for ever in love children is secondary .

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.

As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.

I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.

Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result.
From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.

My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.

Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments.
After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.

During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby.
I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.

I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler.
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

op re u marrying because of love or just to ve children? can't u just be married with no children & be happy in love with ur partner. Na was for African men o

yanabasee1:
You don't deserve a man......You have failed as a woman if you don't know how to handle a man without pouring him hot water.....


You deserve to live a lonely life.....

I don't deserve u Yana, u re a sick entitled, malignant, arrogant, proud & unremorseful manic. I pity any woman u re involved with now. U re a weak, lame, spinless, pale, pathetic fellow. *Spits.

FlordFlorez:
im really feeling for ur bf/hubby right now. The guy go don/will suffer.

Yes should learn abusive behavior from somewhere to come torment me, he will regret it.

Aizen123:
thanks

sell it all of, leave d village & cut of such satanic blood lines off. Raise a new blood line for urself, u re a man!

Foodqueen:
Leave the shop for them.

Whatever is not work for, never last for long. They will squander the money, and go poorer.

If they didn't tell u d date of the burial, don't ask just go there the day of the burial and act cool. Leave immediately after d burial.


Their life will never remain the same again.

Leave his birthright for who?? Unless there is a will, his mother is d first rightful claimant if such property, then him second. He Who sell if everything & cut off of those uncles family isn't family if it's toxic, can't be relied on on a rainy, cost u ur peace of mind, inconsistent, & drains u emotionally, & undermines u

Aizen123:
hmmm i have 4 uncle's and they have one heart o... whatever the elder brother does is what they will do

My dear op, enough of dis bs we accept as d norm & as love in disguise from toxic, selfish, unloving, nonbrotherhood, dubious & inconsiderate family members just because they re blood. Toxic, is toxic no matter Who is involved. Can u beat ur chest & say in d time a great distress these uncle's of urs that I am reading about here will come through for u?? Will they truthfully, & in love ve ur back in respect to ur bloodlines when there is a catch attached to it?? My dear as I can read, these uncle's of urs re bitter & desperate meaning they can harm u not regarding ur blood ties. U got to arise & get ur back urself by cutting of such parasitic, entiled, dubious, toxic & desperate relatives; blood isn't thicker than peace of mind. Love isn't binding them to u, rather it's what they stand to benefit from u, dubiously, entitlemently & in manipulation. U can't rely on them in case of sickness stories u now, they will not help wheel in in d wheelchair. Nor change ur diaper God forbid nor will they be at ur bedside in d hospital as a true kin, in love & in honor of ur blood ties. Cut them off completely, yes u can. raise ur family in love at d very base. Teach ur own Sims true kin, not competition, entitlement, indifference, arrogance & greed. Raise a new blood line & kinsmen for ur self. Buy a parcel of land somewhere, they bury there when u die do life insurance save d money for ur death expenses. & Shun such satanic kinsmen.

yanabasee1:
So, you rather prefer that she boils hot water and pour on him?


Rather,using a feminine strength and ability to weakens a man?

u re crazy, which feminine strength for a weak, lily-livered, entiled & violently disposed man??

yanabasee1:
Anty Feminist.....



She had the rights to slap him back or better still seek for a divorce if the man was manipulative.... Not damaging a man's body with hot water....


You folks always look for equality, right?

So, let her slap him back and let him also boil water and pour her....

Since she couldn't think of a better way to deal with him and more so....


By a good wife, I mean, a woman that knows ways of making a man gets to his knees.... with soft words and tenderness....


You lots have lost it.... A woman was created differently and in a way that they can get what they want from a man without a fight . ...

If a woman don't have such qualities.... the turn to insulting and nagging and pouring not water on a man....

So that he will beat her to death violently?? If it was a fellow man u re talking about here, would not bother. They re not matched even strength for strength pls. U re mad, u re an entiled & malignant Narcissistic beast. Can u imagine?? A woman who knows how to get am man on his knees kih u there! U see a violent & wayward man, & u re saying dis. May everything u put ur hand end in a tragic loss. May u be cheated, judged unjustly, riddicled, controlled selfishly & swindled. May no human see ur pain, rise in ur defense & feel compassion for u.

Kpokakpoka:
He shouldn't have slapped her....doesn't justify her actions too though.

It justifies a woman is biologically weak than a Man. I physical strength they re not evenly matched, so she has get even how best she seems fit. Moreover, it was d man that first crossed d line with her, just because he is & man & feel it will be business as usual.

yanabasee1:
The devil that used her ran off her immediately she committed the hideous crime......



God give us good wives please.... So that we'll not end up like this man or death like Miriam killed her husband....

But d devil did not use d man?? Ur definition of good wives is her ability to tolerate deep cutting emotional pains, disrespect, shame, blames total disregard, forceful sexual intercourse, inconsideration, lack of accountability from d Man concerning his behaviors, breech of trust, controlling behavior, & neglect really?

Bruno3000:
Thankfully me I can easily detect evil people. Its a gift. Do not envy me.

Go & abuse a woman, they u will detect ur own impending doom. Yeye de smell.

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

What re u saying?? So it was ok for d Man to conveniently lift his hand to slap her?? Re their strength biologically matched?? He deserved what he got, d lady did very well .

Earlystar698:
Great that fire service come early

God bless Ebonyi State

those horrible, rickety & archaic trucks for evacuating sewers on water works road is that what u call fire service truck?? that building will burn to ashes with no service rendered from d so called trucks.

ndidibabe:
Not all of them really. She is my 6th housemaid. I didn't notice this with the others..

Oloshi, obirin burukun, what I ur business with her personal life?? U ureself said it here that she is d best maid u ever had?? Y re u snooping through her messages?? Shouldn't she ve a life because she works for u agadi?? hypocrite

HotPoundedYam:
it's not a cause but most of you will one day have a taste of your own medicine. Your son will one day be accused of what you are trying to prove

please u re a demonic Narcissist, get away from me.

Jestin:
They are too diabolical especially in Nigeria .

like wise abroad. Trump, bush them Hilary bill Clinton's wife all of them not dey for powerful occult?? what do they do in such occultic gatherings in bohemian grooves??

EastGold:
Very possible!



Some of us do not attain or maintain power by dipping hands into evil.

how is that so. Did Jesus Christ instruct his followers not to part of d world as him & his kingdom is no part of dis world?? When they tried to make him king by force, didn't he run away from d group of people? Did him & his followers dabble into d politics of their days didn't apostle Paul resign from such & then joined true Christians??

HotPoundedYam:
it's not a cause but most of you will one day have a taste of your own medicine. Your son will one day be accused of what you are trying to prove

incubus was I talking to u??

bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

Glad u re marrying for love, not for children hence no child bearing. I am happy for u op. Do what suits u.

Kdon2:
He was a kid and a nobody then.

Don't say that! kid what?? Someone is jokingly but truly telling u who he is, & u re saying he was a kid. That's his personality today, he was no kid.

Tareq1105:
You must be pained by these structures.

Y pained mediocre??

HotPoundedYam:
Star of David

No be only Star of David! occultic pentagram sign of witchcraft & Satan worship is what u re calling star of David. Who made it King David's star a king appointed by d true God Yahweh himself to rep him??

tatatar:
We don't care if you're Satan,with this act you're forgiven.

Who is "we"?? Speak for urself pls. U will tell me if Satan d devil & his demons now wrecking havoc on d earth aren't d sons of d true God Yahweh who has been Banished from his presence

La click, la impotent or la disappear.

mamaafrik:
Olooshi sombori,instead of asking for investigation into the welfare of the Army he decided to cast cutlass on the victim soldiers.

All Executive,judiciary and Legislative tiers personnel should be made to submit an immediate family member into the Nigerian army and posted to warfront and see rapid difference in status quo of "i don't care" attitude.



Foreign custom auctioned( long grain) at #25000,#24000 (short grain), #21000(local) Naira per bag(50kg) .(discount exist if you are buying more than 10bags+ free delivery within Lagos)

>>Pork at 1,200 Naira per kilogram.

>>High quality Palm oil at:
10,500 per 25 litres.(free delivery within Lagos if you are buying more than Ten 25 litre kegs or more)

You come ,see what you are buying,pay,and transport it

*Note:All transportation is by pick up except you are buying in bulk at the stipulated quantity above for delivery*

I ve always said dis, that that buhari's son or daughter, burutai himself, all d senators & governor's including local government chairman ve there 2 of their children in d d army & each should be at d Frontlines & d second should be in d 2nd lines or 3rd.