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FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by newdays(f): 9:43am On Sep 26, 2025
She go soon discover say na two water dey for this life because from the look of things, that man is after the transferred wealth. Just hold your peace.
If that girl is truly your niece, my prayer is that, what killed the father will not kill the child, in Jesus name.Amen

MistyDense:
I know a lot of you will call me all sorts of unprintable names and would want to nameshame me.

My Elder brother died about nine months ago and his wife is about to Remarry.

They had been married for ten whole years, but unable to bear a child for 7years, until God blessed them with a beautiful and lovely baby Girl. We all celebrated and were joyous. A few weeks after childbirth, my brother became sick. What initially looked like an ulcer became something else, and he had to go under the knife. After the surgery, there were some Terrible complications, which resulted in his eventual demise. Most painful part was, he had just landed his dream job after five years of graduation. He was extremely depressed as a result of this joblessness until luck smiled at him. He was traveling round the world like he was going to his backyard. He was breezing in and out of Nigeria for official duties until the sickness struck.
Now it's been nine months, and she already made her intentions known to my family that she wants to Remarry. Meanwhile, the baby is just two and half years old.

As a woman, I understand how lonely and traumatized she is. I perfectly understand what she's going through but myself and my family feel it's too too early for this. We, her late husband's family didn't and have never interfered in her dealings. All my brother's properties are in her custody, the Businesses they co-owned are all in her care.

I thought she would have waited a bit much longer to do this, considering how much she seemingly loved her late husband. Meanwhile she's 38yrs old. Her parents have told her to wait for some time, but she wouldn't listen. But before making her intentions known to my family, we already suspected that she was seeing someone else, going by the way she was acting.

I'm now the next in command in my family after my elder Brother's death, but I'm also a woman and have limited powers. Even if I had all the powers, I still wouldn't be Able to stop her from doing what she wants. After All, she's older than me.

I'm really pissed now as she will be taking my niece to live with another man. She's marrying a man who already has two wives, making her the third.

What should I do?
RomanceRe: Beware Of Men That Love Football More Than Anything — Nigerian Lady Advises by newdays(f): 9:14am On Sep 26, 2025
Football is life, and you don't know what you re missing, till you fall in love with the game. Chelsea for life.
CelebritiesRe: I’m Searching For A Wife by newdays(f): 4:56am On Aug 23, 2024
HungerDey:
Good morning please check your email
bhappy644@yahoo.com
CelebritiesRe: I’m Searching For A Wife by newdays(f): 3:08am On Aug 22, 2024
If you re serious let's chat.
HungerDey:
Good day NL family, I’ve been a Nairalander since 2013. I only created a new moniker for this purpose.

No jokes I’m searching for a wife.
I know NL is not a dating site and i also know there are some wonderful women here.

Please Jennyclay and her likes should avoid this post.

I’m looking for a dark skinned curvy women with succulent boobs.

Must have a minimum of O level.
Have something going on for her.
Must be fluent in English.
Not a divorcee.
I don’t mind a single mom.
Should be family oriented.
Tribe is not a barrier.
I beg above all just get character and fine cos I’m very particular about how my kids will look.

Please pm me if interested or have a sister that maybe interested.
FamilyRe: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by newdays(f): 5:51pm On Nov 11, 2022
[quote author=newdays post=118311311]You re very wrong my dear
FamilyRe: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by newdays(f): 5:49pm On Nov 11, 2022
You re very wrong my dear
Saintmary:
You're not female
FamilyRe: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by newdays(f): 3:11pm On Nov 11, 2022
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know..
Stop thinking that you field will be greener elsewhere.
Remain the good wife that you are and
Just learn to forgive him in advance.
RomanceRe: Let's Know The State With The Highest Number Of Nairalanders by newdays(f): 9:09pm On Nov 04, 2022
Delta state
TravelRe: When You Move To A New Place, What Is That First Thing You Look For?? by newdays(f): 1:52pm On Sep 17, 2022
First thing is where to tie rope. Where to spread my clothes after washing.
RomanceRe: Lady Sets On Fire The Cheap Wig Her Boyfriend Purchased For Her (Photos, Video) by newdays(f): 1:27pm On Sep 17, 2022
Ladies that push men to spend beyond their means. With this kind of lady in your life, you can't save anything and your old age is threatened.
BusinessRe: Which Of This Business Is Preferable by newdays(f): 3:35am On Jul 26, 2022
Fast Food Restaurant
RomanceRe: What Is Your Favorite Bible Verse? by newdays(f): 2:41am On Jul 26, 2022
I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. Philippians 4:13
Business To BusinessRe: Bitter Kola Storage Is Now On For Interested Partners!!! by newdays(f): 9:38am On Jun 08, 2022
bhappy644@yahoo.com
Business To BusinessRe: Bitter Kola Storage Is Now On For Interested Partners!!! by newdays(f): 9:30am On Jun 08, 2022
My email is bhappy644@yahoo.com
Business To BusinessRe: Bitter Kola Storage Is Now On For Interested Partners!!! by newdays(f): 9:27am On Jun 08, 2022
I m interested
FamilyRe: Please Recommend A Good Product Of Chest Freezer For Me To Buy by newdays(f): 11:29pm On Dec 21, 2021
Model please...
Jesuisbelle:
Buy Haier Thermocool. Mine freezes within 35mins and takes 3 days to defrost after turning it off.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Finally Got A Job Through A Nairalander After Months Of Job Hunting. by newdays(f): 5:44pm On Mar 20, 2021
Ghostty:
Hello guys
Good morning to you all.

Remember this thread I created sometime last year?

https://www.nairaland.com/5448693/accept-job-offer-continue-job

Well as God would have it, a Nairalander whose moniker is very popular on here(Wouldn't mention for obvious reasons) reached out to me and asked me to send my CV to his email address for review.

At first, I was reluctant and didn't want to send the CV considering he's always not serious with his posts and also a troll here or so I thought. But on a second thought I decided to give it a try. Few days later, he sent an email requesting that I meet him at a particular address the following day on the Island here in Lagos.

The following day I got to the address, it was actually an office complex with the company occupying about 6 floors in the entire building. I met with the Nairalander, we discussed at length and in the end he asked me when I would love to resume.

I later got to know he is the General Manager, Group Learning and Human Resources for the Company(A Privately owned Oil Firm) after resumption.

Fams, today I'm gainfully employed with a pay four times bigger than what the Chinese company had earlier offered me in my previous thread.

I want to use this medium to thank Seun Osewa and most especially God for sending an helper my way when I thought all hopes was lost. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

PS: Some Nairalanders are super rich and connected guys, believe me. Learn to respect people's opinion on here as you may not know who you're dealing with. For those who are still searching for jobs, please do not stop believing as your breakthrough is closer than you know. Thank you.



Modified:

I know you would most likely see this Sir. May God continually bless you, guide and protect you. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart, God bless you. Amen!
Amen
@ ghostty congratulations and i pray that , tomorrow you will also be of help to others in Jesus name . Amen
SportsRe: How To Become A Millonaire Through Betting by newdays(f): 12:58am On Mar 11, 2021
InfernoNig:
Betting be like Wiley Wiley. Nothing sure pass.

You pick o1.5 - them go play 1-0 or 0-1
You pick home win or away win - either the opposite or them draw.
You pick - only one team go score all the goals.
You pick o2.5 - them go play 2-0
You pick u3.5 - na that day you go see 24-0 for score line.
Even if you pick all players to wear boot enter field - one person go carry slippers show.

My advice. Pick games you are confident about, don't accumulate too much games and start small, like 2-5odd with a reasonable amount and rollover. Peace
Thanks
HealthRe: Lady Uses Her Pant As Face-Mask In A South African Supermarket (Pics) by newdays(f): 8:54pm On Feb 28, 2021
There's always an alternative
EventsRe: Couple Holds Wedding Reception At A Backyard With 7 Guests In Port Harcourt by newdays(f): 1:22am On Dec 27, 2020
I see love, wisdom and understanding. Congrats
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Lovelies, Gather Here by newdays(f): 3:00pm On Oct 18, 2020
October 25
RomanceRe: 95 More Days Till Christmas- Make A Christmas Wish by newdays(f): 2:37am On Sep 22, 2020
True love

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