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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by teblu(m): 5:24pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020:Truth is, he will never change. If you keep him, he is only going to keep causing you emotional stress. And never you attempt to advice the lady to abort, he impregnated her so whatever decision should be from him and the lady. You are even lucky that you're the one making the money cos if it were the other way round, he would have kicked you out since or worst still, would bring another woman into the house with you still around. So my advice, I wanna say run for your life but it's your house, so better kick him out asap. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: You are stupid. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by DOM7: 5:36pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Beautiful and sincerely said! But in all of this narration you can see Jesus is absent in it all.Your success without Jesus is more trouble, your marriage with Jesus is more trouble, your singleness or speration without Jesus is more trouble,the space in you, the emptiness and the frustration you are going through only the size of Jesus can feel it. Love Jesus then there's nobody you cannot love, pray for your husband emotion,his sexuality,extravangancy. Read the power of a praying wife by Omartian. You need spiritual advice not emotional advice dear sister.how i wish we can talk. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 5:43pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:No, you are actually.... Learn how to control your emotions. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Pemich(f): 5:47pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
[color=#990000][/color][quote author=VeryWickedGoat post=118281101] 1. You be worwor mgbeke 2. Thought you women claim to be good advisers? 3. You need a big prick to calm you down this period DM me.[/quote Verywickedgoat, am watching you with one of my eye open |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by newdays(f): 5:49pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
You re very wrong my dear Saintmary: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by newdays(f): 5:51pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
[quote author=newdays post=118311311]You re very wrong my dear |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Bernice4ozodo(f): 5:53pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
EbukaTheDrugLor:he wanted sex and more kids but the wife refused because she wants to gain admission into the university I believe the man should be more understanding and besides the man was already having unprotected sex,as a result of he needs more sex and kids he got a girl pregnant and still told the wife to convince the girl to go for an abortion.. Omo this should be enough reasons na. Thank God she is financially independent.. Abeg |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by EbukaTheDrugLor: 5:58pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Bernice4ozodo:Total deprivation is wrong at all levels. The preeq has a mind of its own and can be shameless if deprived of basic needs. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 6:03pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
KanuSE: The children are already suffering from lack of fatherly care.Wont they survive if he was dead. I see exactly no difference between a deadbeat dad and a dead one bro! For her own sanity she gats to move on ,build her little family with or without him bro! I be guyman,I no go fit allow my sister dey with this kind husband.As long as she is ready to quit I will support her, ESPECIALLY when she is financially buoyant and industrious. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by JoeOdion(m): 6:08pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
I will never ever understand married people bringing marital issues to Nairaland for under 16's to deliberate on. Issues of marriage are things for adults and married people to deliberate on. You should seek them out around you and it is certainly not on nairaland you find them..Please read more about marriage, learn from teachers on the topic and above all ask God to lead you on how to go. Forget these grown kids you'd have to ask help from here. It won't help you. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MadarasBlade(m): 6:09pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
KanuSE:thanks for the insult, and yes I'll advise her to do the same . |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Munzy14(m): 6:21pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14:Nobody knows the truth.. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Ficeo(m): 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020: It's so unfortunate. Have you prayed to God about this? |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by PlayMaker14: 6:25pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Munzy14: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by DollarSigns(m): 6:29pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020:An uneducated woman is indeed a poison But a proud and uneducated one is a sniper itself Not taking sides, but your post is drenched with pride, lack of manners; your ideas sound naive Indeed your hubby must have realized that you’re indeed a local bomb |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Cde1: 6:30pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Is he a broke man |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by b1olat: 6:38pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Sorry dear for the emotional torture you are currently undergoing. Both of you are suffering from youthful exuberance. Your husband will come normal, the only snag is him impregnating another lady but don't join hand in proferring solutions, allow him to "bury his dead" he has a bragging right already (the children), evicting him is not a good idea also, had it been he built the house in the first place, what would you have done? Are you blaming God for broaden your horizon more than his own? Pray to God to touch his heart. Your husband is your husband, there ain't better men out there anymore, it's all bits and pieces!! God will lead you through as you take the next step. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Manleo12: 6:39pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids. ................................. Your problems started with your husband, when he said, he want more babies, and you refused it at that moment by saying later. Madam check yourself and fix your marriage. The man is the haed of the family no matter what.. now he is about to have child outside. He love you. That is why he did not hid it from you. Think twice and fix your family. I rest my case. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Loskipeter: 6:42pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Your story is so inspiring and touching.please don't listen to does evil guys advice.always follow your heart.if you feel like talking to someone ,just dm |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by 08064978510(m): 6:46pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
What if he decides to go away with the children, have u thought of that |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by 08064978510(m): 6:47pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
What if he decides to go with the children, have you thought about that and hope you know that you can't get a single guy again, you would have to break another woman's home too unless you don't want to have anything to do with a man again, madam forgive ur husband and pray alot, this is just ur marriage going through it tough time, you will both come out strong if you apply wisdom, and even if u would make any decision do not make one when you re angry.... Your husband needs you now... Marriage is for better for worse... Life2020: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by wagzy37: 6:56pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
fxexperts: Agree to what exactly? She bought him, but who is coming here and wailing? Not the man. It's no mistake, but if there's anyone here, she's the fool and you are just typing with your emotions all over the place. The man will go and camp in his new baby mama's house while the wife will still be wailing, talking to whomever and their dog how he was a deadbeat. Besides, the man apparently doesn't have as much as the wife. He can sue for the children and get child support from the woman - or better still, file for divorce and they equally split their assets. Who will lose? Have some logical sense here.. I know your emotions are running wild. Women should allow men lead. She had been the one coming up with different things throughout the marriage and not allowing the man lead. If I got a dollar for the number of "I" I read, I would become a millionaire. Lastly, you ladies are just funny. The man wanted more babies, you said no.. But you can decide to have a baby even if the man says he doesn't want any ba? Nonsense! You calling the man names just shows how it hurts you and her. The more painful thing is, y'all know deep-down that you had a hand it it. If not, you won't feel that much pain. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by somez(m): 6:57pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Take this advice Helpout12345: |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Exceed15: 7:04pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Dear sister becareful what you throw away and say is not good . I know you still love him. Kindly forgive and give him a chance to adjust. Beside, you are good wife . |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Mindlog: 7:05pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
08064978510: On what grounds would he take away the children, as per the court granted him sole custody and their mother, denied visitations? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Nobody: 7:16pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: Oh so now I'm the emotional one? Who insulted who first? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Kingcalls: 7:20pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: No b only pained full...na pained empty ... empty skull thinks she has an opinion 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Kingcalls: 7:22pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Mindlog: Thats cos what women did in past centuries made men lock up...if they are given the chance, they will use nuclear weapons... women are never logical, they make decisions based on emotions...thats y they are prone to mistakes and are always regretting |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Dimaya: 7:29pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
You need wise counsel. Your first problem is deciding whose counsel to follow and whose to discard? You need counsel of elders in your families or church. There's a lot of emotional and dangerous advice you've been given so far. Most of them are not wrong, they're just incomplete. They assume that kicking your husband out of the home solves your problems. Newsflash! It doesn't. You've just successfully poured petrol into your burning house. Since you both have children together, unless you kill your husband, you're stuck with him for the rest of both your lives. Here's my take: We judge decisions by the long term consequences. You should be able to look back 50 years from now at your decisions today and be confident you made the right choices. 1. Short term impact: If you end your marriage today, what becomes of you? Do you honestly believe that there are better men outside who will accept your twin daughters as theirs? Do you think the men outside here are any better? They're not. 2. Long term impact: I pray God gives you long life, but what counsel will you give your daughters when their own marriages hits rocky times. Will you ask them to leave their husbands also. Do you want to have grandchildren whose fathers are uninvolved? Do you want to raise bastards in old age? A close relation left her husband 40years ago. Her three daughters today are all single mothers. The decades of bitterness from their mom bled into their own marriages and they blamed their husbands for their father's indiscretions. Do you want that kind of history? Also, what becomes of your twins if you fall Ill with a terminal disease? How will your daughters cope without both parents? 3. Alternatives available. Will you find a single, faithful man who wants to be stepfather to twin daughters. What if your daughters accuse him of molestation? Will you believe him? Even worse, what if your daughters tell their father your new boyfriend molested them? Can you guarantee that your soon-to-be ex husband won't kill your new boyfriend? 4. Men who sleep with only their wives don't exist. You've been sold a Disney fairytale. Wake up from your fantasy. I'm a physician and from my experience with married men- almost all of them have concubines. Married men are constantly chased by young girls for relationships and money. Very few men can resist the allures of a 21year old. My Take: Think about the impact your decisions will have on your family over the next 50 years. Your home is yours to save or wreck. Outsiders have seen the value in your husband and want to snatch him away. A husband is not useful for today. His use is for old age when your libidos have failed, and your daughters are married. You'll be foolish to set your house on fire. The man you're looking for doesn't exist. |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Mindlog: 7:31pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Kingcalls: Reason I asked you to list the names of women that led wars that disrupted humanity and huge loss of human lives ......list them. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 7:34pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020:wow black beauty, person wey get head no get cap,any decision you are going to make or step you're going to take make sure it doesn't affect your children |
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