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Romance / Re: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by Newguyhere: 3:05pm On Jan 02, 2020
person wey you for just Bleep and dump undecided
Richnerd69:
I engaged a random lady some days ago when I and my cousin took his kids to the park. I'm single(tho I have a friend), so my bro told me to approach this lady; She was alone . She's quite beautiful, sounded smart and cool. We spent hours talking and hanging out that day . I appeared average wearing a white polo and a Jean, I noticed she was eying me from head to toe. She asked about my watch and she said it looked expensive , she asked about my job and if I had a ride... I was smiling , I told her I'm still searching for a job and I came with my brother in his car.

I recall asking her a few questions and one of the things I asked her was, "what she wanted in a man", could you believe she said she wanted a man that could establish her all round and provide her needs ; She doesn't want to suffer with any man.

My zeal died immediately, as I left that park , I deleted her number and vowed never to contact her. She sent me a Good morning message , I'm not going to respond.

I'm dodging this bullet.
Politics / Re: Merry Christmas To Our Troops In The Battlefields by Newguyhere: 2:25pm On Dec 25, 2019
guys wey join army dey try sha sad
I can't imagine willingly signing my own death certificate. sad

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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid On A Date With Dillish Mathews, Damilola Adegbite And Osas Ighodaro by Newguyhere: 12:28pm On Dec 21, 2019
chai, women sha cheesy just be rich and popular and their panties will drop.
These ones are obviously wet already. sad

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Properties / Re: RCCG Trinity Tower, Lagos In Pictures by Newguyhere: 11:17am On Dec 21, 2019
Where these people dey see money build all these structures sef
All these ritualist parading as pastors ehnn, I tire. undecided

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Romance / Re: Ladies:give One Name To The Guy Who Deflowered You by Newguyhere: 11:16am On Dec 21, 2019
nah ashawo deflower me oo grin
I no even remember her name again sef.

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Romance / I Will Pay You If You Can Do This. by Newguyhere: 11:01am On Dec 21, 2019
I need someone to help me install and configure OPEN VPN on my cent os 6.7 Vps.
I'm willing to pay.
Comment below if you can do this.
Thanks.
Romance / Re: Guys, At What Age Will Your Tie The Knot? by Newguyhere: 11:35pm On Dec 19, 2019
I swear I thought I was the only nairalander that noticed her ooo cheesy.
That girl nah no go area.
Nah only mumu guys wey no dey street smart fit marry her. grin
Designerdollars:
that lady is very toxic, don't even bother yourself.

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Romance / Re: Guys, At What Age Will Your Tie The Knot? by Newguyhere: 11:32pm On Dec 19, 2019
as in ehnn, that girl is very rude and poorly raised!! Only a big fool will consider marrying her.
CsRockefeller:


I would be stupid to try. I know her here quite well, something's are best not said. I'm surprised she's commenting on a thread like this.

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Politics / Re: Dele Momodu And Wife, Mobolaji Celebrate 27th Wedding Anniversary (Pictures) by Newguyhere: 1:06pm On Dec 19, 2019
fucking the same pekus for 27 years!!! shocked
That's longer than I have been alive!!.
Geez he tried oo cheesy

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Fashion / Re: The Fashion 'Fraud' Committed By Lagos Slay Queens (Photos) by Newguyhere: 11:18am On Dec 19, 2019
no be new thing guy.
If you dey carry olosho well you suppose know already.

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Romance / Re: If She Is Your Wife...give Her A Name by Newguyhere: 10:17am On Dec 19, 2019
Isabel cool
Romance / Re: I Compliment A Girl And She Sent Me Dis.... by Newguyhere: 8:08am On Dec 19, 2019
Never compliment a girl you are interested in. Neg her instead.

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Romance / Re: Only In Ashawo House Will You Hear These!! by Newguyhere: 9:43pm On Dec 18, 2019
op you forgot: "you too dey talk, abeg come f**k toto make I dey go house" grin

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Romance / Re: My Husband Has Ordered Me To Delete Whatsapp And Facebook Off My Phone! by Newguyhere: 4:00pm On Dec 18, 2019
because her knows you can't keep your legs shut.
Thats a wise man right there.

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Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Men Are Toxic by Newguyhere: 3:43pm On Dec 18, 2019
you need correct beating. sad
Because you were raised by incompetent parents doesn't mean you should start sharing pussy at such a young age.
You should be ashamed of yourself. sad
Riele:


For the question you asked and stupidly answered , the response is YES .

You sound immature tho .

You're toxic .

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Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Men Are Toxic by Newguyhere: 3:29pm On Dec 18, 2019
will you shut up!!
Do your parents know that you are here wasting your time opening threads about men?
Of course no!!
Shameless little slut. You're not even 16 yet and you're this ho**y.
If you kon grow finish unko undecided
Riele:


Your brain needs repair .

Either you have a tangible comment or get lost .

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Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Men Are Toxic by Newguyhere: 3:19pm On Dec 18, 2019
it's obvious your pussy is seriously itching you. Small pikin wey suppose dey read her books sad. But no, nah man matter you carry for head. sad

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Crime / Re: Missing Baby Not Exhumed From Sotitobire Church Akure - Ondo Police Give Updates by Newguyhere: 2:30pm On Dec 18, 2019
police Don collect money grin

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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Female Source Code. by Newguyhere: 9:33am On Dec 18, 2019
brilliant!!!! cheesy
ubunja:
What makes women tick at the most basic level.

FRIENDSHIP.
Let's say two Laws are passed: one banning sex between men and women; And another banning friendship between men and women. What will happen?

Riots and mayhem that's what.

Men and women will riot and burn the country. But it is important to understand which gender will riot against which law.

Women will riot against the banning of FRIENDSHIP between men and women. Men will riot against the banning of SEX.

Men can not live without Sex, Women can not live without Friendship with men.

Friendship with a man is the only relationship that a woman can have with a man that allows her to get money and stuff from him WITHOUT giving him sex. That's a secret hidden from men.

For women, a man's friendship is more important than a man's love. And more important than a man's dick. Because with male friends, a woman can get ANYTHING without giving back ANYTHING.

A woman's guy friends don't mind helping her move, checking her car, fixing her place, helping her out with money, keeping her safe etc - for FREE. If the woman gets all that from a BF she has to PAY with sex. But with guy friends it's free.

ATTENTION AND VALIDATION.
If all the men in Nigeria ignore all the women, and instead focus on 1 woman - every man adoring and worshiping her - that woman, receiving that infinite attention, will feel her need to have sex diminish to almost zero

There's a level of Attention and Validation that if a woman gets from men it cancels out her need for Sex. The female sex drive differs from the male sex drive in this aspect. While the male sex drive is a physical hunger like the hunger for food or the thirst for water, The female sex drive is VALIDATIONAL in nature.

The more important you make a woman feel the less she needs to impress you. (You're impressed already) And the less she needs to sleep with you to feel important (she's important already to you)

The more valued a woman feels the weaker her sex drive is because the less she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. And in the opposite way, the less valued a woman feels the stronger her sex drive is because the more she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. Or to feel valued.

A man can date a woman who seems to enjoy sex, But as soon as he marries her, give her comfort, security and peace of mind her pussy turn dry. Too many men are confused why the happier they make their women the less their women want sex. It's because these women are content and secure. And that has a chilling effect on their sex drive. It slows it down. To reignite the passion the men have to subtract the things that are making the women content and secure.

If your woman has lost interest in sex, bring in drama, uncertainty and confusion. Start acting funny. Have suspicious phone calls. Have female friends visit etc - Make your woman think she's about to be replaced. She'll stress, process a lot mentally and question her value to you, and in the process her legs will snap open. And pussy juices will flow.

THE SOURCE CODE.
Here are the codes to female sexuality:

When a woman gives the least amount of sex for the most amount of money It's about money

When a woman gives the most amount of sex for the least amount of money it's about Validation

Women who participate in 3sums and gangbangs don't speak too much about enjoying multiple dick but speak more about enjoying being THE CENTRE OF ATTENTION. Because it is about seeking Validation not seeking Pleasure. A woman can pleasure herself better than any man can and no man can pleasure a woman better than a intimacy gadget can. Strictly speaking a woman doesn't NEED a man for pleasure. So when a woman chases men for sex it has more to do with Validation than pleasure. She feels valuable when she's valuable to men.

Most girls who do gang bangs do them free. And the most hardened sluts will be offended if you offered them money for sex. I once related the story of a Bleep addicted slut who, after we offered her money, told us she can do it free if we go hardcore enough on her. I had told her we were about 7 guys. Shît is crazy.

SELF-ESTEEM.
A woman's sex drive is opposite her self-esteem.

The reason treating a woman like trash pays in sex is because it erodes a woman's self-esteem that she then seeks to replenish by opening her legs. The more worthless a woman feels on the inside the more she seeks worth through sex. The sex compensates for the inadequacies. It's the reason disrespectful men get a lot of sex from women. It's the same with men and money. The more worthless a man feels on the inside the more he seeks worth through money. The money compensates for the inadequacies. And a man with zero self-esteem will pay the most amount of money for the least amount of sex. Even paying for NO sex. And still feel good. A man's spending habits with women are opposite his self-esteem.

In women, things like sex addiction are more a symptom of deeper underlying issues than mere love of dick:
Let's say a boy and a girl are going through problems at home. They will both act out. But in different ways. The boy will turn to petty crime. While the girl will turn to sexual promiscuity.
Sex is how women deal with issues. Antisocial behavior is how men deal with issues. That's why in Society's eyes a man at his worst is a criminal. And a woman at her worst a whôré. And both whôré and criminal live side by side on the street because where there are prostitutes, criminals will be there. They understand each other because they're going through the same shît but expressing it differently.

The weaker a woman's self esteem is, the easier she becomes a slut. And Pîmps know low self-esteem women make the best prostitutes. While sexologists know the first step in treating female sexual addiction is raising the woman's self-esteem. Meanwhile to get the best sex from a woman you destroy her self-esteem. Everything with female sexuality hinges on Self-esteem. Everything with male spending habits on women hinges on Self-esteem.

When a woman loses her self-esteem - when she feels worthless on the inside - her Inner Self seeks to regenerate the lost Worth the quickest way it knows how: BY MAKING THE WOMAN OPEN HER LEGS. Because what's between her legs is the most wanted thing in the World guaranteed to generate the attention she needs to feel like a somebody.

The woman's Inner Self points to men's lust for the woman and says to her: "See, all these men want to fvck you. And you make them cum nicely. You're not totally worthless!"

As a young boy I remember two prostitutes from the neighborhood pub fighting and one shouting in vernacular, "ayisikho uthanda amadoda" (that's why you love men), and I remember the other throwing her ass in the air and defiantly shouting back, "Bayangithanda ngoba ngimnandi" (They love me because I'm sweet).
Everyone burst out laughing at the shamlessness of the reply. I never forgot that incident.

She loved men because men loved how sweet her pussy was.

CHASING VALIDATION.
Ever noticed this on Social Media?
A girl posts a picture, and she gets a hundred nice comments. Then an asshole of a guy comes online disses the picture calling the girl fat and ugly.
Then the magic happens: The girl ignores the 100 sweet comments and fixates on the 1 bitter comment. She engages the hater while the supporters look on feeling neglected.

It's a natural law.

We all fear rejection and a even 1 hater in a sea of supporters gets our Attention. We chase the Hater's approval wishing for him to be AGREEABLE. And as long as we're chasing the Hater's approval he has power over us.

If a woman meets 99 guys who compliment her but 1 guy spits in disgust, What will stress the woman that night?

The 99 compliments or the 1 spit?

That 1 spit of course:
"Why did that guy spit? Am I not pretty enough in his eyes? I will show him". Then over the following weeks the girl will dress and act TO IMPRESS THAT 1 GUY WHO SPIT. She then LIVES FOR HIS VALIDATION. And once the girl does that, as far as that guy is concerned, with that guy, the girl is dealing from a position of weakness. She's chasing that validation. And as long as she's chasing, that guy has tremendous power over her. Power even to fvck her.

There is no sweeter girl than a girl that's chasing your Approval and Validation. Its how you deal with women from a position of Power.

DEALING WITH WOMEN FROM A POSITION OF POWER.
A woman can size you up by your choice of words. There's a superior way of talking to women. And there's an inferior way of talking to women. Learn the difference:

Nice Guy: I know how to fvck.
Bad Boy: Do you know how to fvck?

Nice Guy: I feel so lucky to have you.
Bad Boy: You should feel lucky to have me.

See the difference?

Back in my 2go days (about 9 yrs ago), I had a very different approach to getting girls than most dudes. In the chatrooms most guys would post: "I want a girl who wants me to lick her and I'll do everything she wants".
But because I always opposed everyone, just for the hell of it, I would post: "I want a girl to suck me and do everything I want her to do".

I made everything about ME.

While just 1 or 2 girls responded, It was interesting dealing with those girls. They came to me with the mindset of PROVING themselves to me. The same mindset the majority of men came to women with. It was a power trip having a girl try to convince me of her sex skills all the while I'm trying hard to hide my thirst.

When you present yourself to a woman as someone ready to serve you lessen your value. You're chasing her validation. But when you present yourself as someone ready to be served you increase your value and have the woman chasing YOUR validation. It's a fun ride. The sex the woman will give you is sex to prove herself. The best sex a woman can give a man.

And it's not even that hard to set a woman on that road.

It's as simple as chatting with a 19 yr old girl and in an unimpressed tone, remark, "You're too young. What do you know!". And boom!!!! She wanna prove herself to you and show you she's grown.

It's as simple as chatting with an older woman in her 30s or 40s and remarking, "Is that pussy still good or you just saying these things?". And boom!!! She's telling herself, "I'll show this motherfvcker!"

Just like that you have women chase your Validation. Eager to PROVE something to you. While other men compete to prove themselves to women promising to fvck their brains out and lying about Dick sizes and the rounds of sex they can go, you have women doing the same to YOU.

The key here is to play on women's fears, envies and jealousies.

A younger woman envies the older woman for her Sex Skills and her greatest fear is never being taken seriously. The older woman envies the younger woman for her fresh body and her greatest fear is that she's past her time. A line that has delivered for me with teenage girls is: "I promise to fvck you like a grown woman!". Delivered in raw vernacular. It works wonders.

MAKE A GIRL WANT TO IMPRESS YOU.
Girls start having sex earlier than boys and go on to have sex with more people than boys ever will. You can benefit from this extensive experience if you approach the situation right.

Like this: Next time, instead of boasting of your own sexual abilities to a girl, boast about how you're so hard to impress that even women with amazing sexual abilities have a hard time pleasing you. Make it about YOU. Come across as someone very hard to please. Bring the girl to a position where SHE is the one boasting of her sexual abilities. Where SHE is the one making promises to blow your mind. Even then, raise the stakes by remarking how women who boast about their sexual prowess turn out to be so-so when the time for sex comes.

That's how the fun begins for you. For when she comes to you, that girl is bringing along her entire sexual repertoire and may God have mercy on your sceptical soul.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW
Family / Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Newguyhere: 10:00pm On Dec 17, 2019
upon say you Don marry, yansh still dey itch you to go taste outside prick bah undecided.
Your husband is a fool for marrying a supposedly "educated" lady like yourself. undecided.
Thats the usual excuse you guys use to start misbehaving. "I want to work"
work kee you dia.
Is taking care of the home and your kids not enough work undecided

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Romance / Re: My Observation About Most Nairaland Guys. by Newguyhere: 1:30pm On Dec 16, 2019
abeg, make I hear word.
Are you worth a $50 wine? It's funny how undesirable looking women past their prime can be so picky undecided
Las las you will end up with a total reck.
If a guy like me date you ehnn.
I go spend the money oo, cause I know say that's the only way to trap you;but the way I go exploit you sexually speaking ehnn.
Nah you go run! Shebi you like money abi grin
jackals:
Most of them are even broke ASF. One decided to take me out last week Sunday after consistent begging from his side. He started complain about how he's been meeting gold diggers in the past. he was trying to manipulate me. he took me to a place. The idiot couldn't afford to buy wine of #18,500 and claimed to be working o. In this age and time, you can't afford to spend 30k on a woman you want to impress, shame. Had to block the idiot before he waste my Time. and I conclude in my mind" no pussy for him"

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Romance / Re: 'I'm So Proud Of My Breast' Slay Queen Shares Her Erotic Breast On Instagramlive by Newguyhere: 8:01pm On Dec 14, 2019
mchew undecided
Education / Re: I Had 2.80 As CGPA Can I Still Have First Class? by Newguyhere: 6:57pm On Dec 14, 2019
Romance / Re: Many Guys Are In Trouble In Nigeria With Their Female Counterpart by Newguyhere: 1:44pm On Dec 14, 2019
Well said bro. I too have learned not to judge these girls; Cause if you hear some of them story ehnn, fear go catch you.
The economic situation of this country no just good at all.
Forward77:
You can say whatever you want.

Those girls will save you a lot of stress.
If you are not their customer, how were you able to slide into their affairs.

Not everyone was born with a silver spoon.
Annually, I and my colleagues visit forgotten corners of the world and reach out to people as much as we can.
If you hear their stories, see where they live or the kind of things they go through on a daily basis just to survive, you will weep for them.

Those girls you call names and embarrass are human beings like you and i.

90% of them never wished to engage in such; but the situation of things and poor conditions have dragged them into such.
I met one some time ago(very beautiful girl, 22 years old). I had to pay her for the time I spent with her so that i could hear her story.

It wasn’t one of those stories, but the girls mother was sick, her father is late and the family threw them out of their father’s house.

I insisted that i wanted to see her mother at the hospital. The next day, she took me there and if you see the condition of the woman will weep.

For just N145,000, the girl entered the street. I drove to the nearby ATM to withdraw 70k and paid for treatment to commence, the next i came an completed the money.

I’ll cut if off here.

But don’t make fun of another person’s hustle or judge them just because they sin differently from you.

If were a good person, you would have tried to help that girl stop that dirty job.

Jesus said: “whatever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto me”

Stay blessed

Romance / Re: Many Guys Are In Trouble In Nigeria With Their Female Counterpart by Newguyhere: 1:24pm On Dec 14, 2019
bro we live in a third world country, things are super hard.
What do you expect from these girls. undecided
Celebrities / Re: Mayorkun Slapped A Landmark Staff, Almost Beaten By Mob by Newguyhere: 8:21am On Dec 14, 2019
mayorkun has always been a very rude and uncultured motherfucker undecided
Small boy wey my chairman introduce to our kinfolk. The idiot was claiming star and snubbed the whole group. undecided
Las las we go still teach am sense undecided
Stupid boy.

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