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I am jaja. I am from opobo, rivers state. Graduate of Economics (B.Sc), university of port harcourt. I hv ICT as a skill. I am into HTML, DATABASE MGMT, DATA PROCESSING, DATA ENTRY, JAVA PROGRAMMING, GRAPHICS etc...
I work at WEBLOGIC ICT ACADEMY, Elekaiah port harcourt, rivers state.
I am dark, average height.
Fav colour is blue, white and black
fav food: palm oil rice.
Games: chess, monopoly, table tennis, soccer, football video game
Hobby: reading teaching browsing cooking

I am here to meet like minds. I love discussin and sharing ideas, new ideas, mind blowin ideas.
I luv identifyin wit frends esp d ones i cn visit like dse in ph and itz environz.

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Everybody lies.
Pls let us understand smetin, wen it cmes to sexual issues, by default ladiez are more reservd. D man's anatomy is designd to absorb any kind of shock (esp. emotional/psychological shock). Datz y u cn hardly see a man traumatizd wen it cmes to issues relatin to nudity, sex etc. A man doesnt care abt wat pple tinks abt his sexuality.
Buh our angels arent wired dat way (tho sme cn learn to absorb shock or cmes naturally). They are weak emotionally (up til nw my mumsy cn easily burst into tears wen hurt. Dats by d way). U dnt expect every girl to hapily tel u her, potential guy (if nt her guy yet) or a friend hw she bleepd and deflowerd. Der is dis tin frm d insyd dat makez dem uncomfortable telin u d actual story buh den dey cnt ignore d question. Dey must tel u smetin. Sme, near-truth odas, outright lie. Diz 'stories' are actually true to sme.

Itz nt always ryt to ask a lady abt her virginity. It is lyk d pharisees always askin Jesus questions to trap Him. U ask dse question wen d ground is set 4 marriage. She wil tell d truth (most will, if nt all). As for me, i dnt ask, i dnt bother. I am nt a virgin y bother abt her virginity... Dats partial. Buh smehw d topic cn slip in esp wen she brings it up buh majority hv told me d trut. One told me her cousin deflowrd her. Anoda told me her nebor, at a very tender age and dey hard tons of sex. Hw u start d conversation hs a great role to play wen such topics cme up. Always create dis impression dat no one is beta.
I am against gender war (for fun or not). I preach tolerance.

I hv taught adolescence b4 (jss3 to b precised) in 2 schs and i discovrd dat d guyz are very timid and shy at dat age buh d galz wer bold. Wen i giv sex education, d guyz close der ears (tho halfway - at least to hear a little, for sme) buh d galz wer starin in my eyes, smilin and askin suggestiv questions (nt all d galz wer comfortable anyway, buh most). So i wil say d galz cos at dat age d guyz hv no gud skills on women affair (we hv exceptional cases lyk kids hu grew up in slums). On d oda hand, older guys hv bin feedin stuffs in dis galz brain (at least 4 d galz hu care to listen). Buh after adolescence, d table turns - d guyz are badoos y d girlz bcome reserved (we stil hv exceptional cases). One more tin sme of my female students deliberately open der pants in class frm jss2 (very few of dem) to ss3 (wen i am teachin). I hv caught sme lookin at my egg plant region. Girlz are wild and adventurous wen growin up, so dey r likely to deflower first. Datz y it is advisable to pay particular attention to d girl child durin adolescence wateva she picks up at dat stage (good or bad) wil b stuckd wit her and wil hardly b changd.
Again, wen growin up my female frends wer d ones hu usually crush and suggested 'bad' stuffs wen we play (maybe hide-and-seek, drama etc). I wsnt perfect either buh i ws naive....
D galz deflower first.

Virginity is sufficient buh nt necessary.
Necessary in d sense dat, if u can wait til after marriage, fantastic. If u cnt, ur choice.
God is d ultimate judge.

I think u nid a CGI- Computer Generated Image training in addition to low level language.

free2ryhme:
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14 pages of waste filled with trash

U hv just made it 15

Pls cn smeone clarify wat hapens on nairaland. Do we bash for fun or we damn serrious.
We ought to live lyk bros and sis from one country. Personally, i hate gender wars. No one is indispensable.
Respect is reciprocal.

Same happend to me. Now she hs 5 kids. I visit d family tho... I hv bin tempted to remind her, buh she fit deny... After dey wil pretend as if konji disturbs men only. Aunty Gift i hpe u cme across dis on NL.

Funny

I nid a serious relationship. I am a software developer. I reside in port harcourt. From rivers state. Ave height, dark
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u nailed it... sme impatient ladiez no go agree oo

peacettw:
Gosh, this man disgusts me

den what?

beautiful232:
not 100% true,cause have been with an unemployed guy for two years ,and we were still good...so get that off..we still have FOOD women out there

and ur signature says, i quote, 'if its not money,dnt wanna hear it'. funny

poshestmina:
Dude is obviously very pained ...the ex wife really tried staying married to a wife beating,childish goat like this .Tufiakwa!

u talk lyk a below-average person. u hv started insulting him wen der is noting insultive in his post. He only set up a poll... 'share if u agree...' on a lighter note,
Hu trained you?

LordIsaac:
It will amaze you that the women complaining of "slavery" by men are having househelps...some even four!

most women always play d victim card. dey attribute most of der misfortunes to men while men disrespect ladies. i dnt understand d hatred. I pray both genders will appreciate themselves smeday

ellahzy:
How can a full grown man be blabbing like an idiot.
Insulting his wife everyday only makes him more stupid.

my dear d man hs done notin. he gave his opinion and asked anyone to share if d person likes... how does dat make him blab like an idiot? how does dat insult his wife? dat's his poll. Pls let's choose our words carefully. u look insultive. if u lyk insult me.

guarantees nothing tho... buh it looks cheap judging from d definition of cheap... 'smetin got easily'

Black is beautiful no doubt.
Are other skin tones are beautiful? Definitely! What I don't understand is why people just come to hijack threads on NL. Someone created a "black appreciation" thread, you came to start posting something else.
What stops you from creating your own thread? Afterall it's free.
Op, fire on!

you love this op die. nice one. if we all can be this caring.

TSOM:
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[b] Get a grip on yourself, pumpkin!

Eurocentric beauty standards are only as valid as the basis for accepting them.

You black women are mental slaves! You fix weavons and wear wigs by white women 'cause you want to look like them. Heck! Even my missy knows I prefer her long, curly natural hair to the silky straight weavons she fixes. You fix all of these things then you draw your eyebrows to be arched and add mascara so you'd achieve the exotic Asian looks. You copy foreign women way too much!


African men, on the other hand, have evolved. White men copy our haircuts. They even use hair products to achieve our natural jerrycurls. I have had white folks commend my naturally-curly full beard and laser-sharp hairline on Facebook.


African women imitate White women;
White men imitate African men.

Black women, emancipate yourselves from mental slavery and inferior beauty complexes. Stop blaming us men for your faults. We didn't ask you to fix weavons or tone your skins - you do it 'cause you have low self-esteems.

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well said broda! African women copy too much... even up to nudity.

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