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Aura2: why will a sane woman tell you she has slept with 10 guys? under what circumstance, liquor or org@smic stupor?
you said you will manage 3 and im telling you that you are not in a position to say which number to manage because there is no way you will know her mileage. *pvssy aint got odometers*.
you will only be deceiving yourself in the long run trust me.

Now that you are talking sensibly, am glad..
secondly, don't judge things by the few u have seen.. because u can't tell a guy how many dudes u slept with doesn't mean no 1 else can..
I once dated a lady and I asked her to be 100% honest with me, then she told me she had slept with 5men.. and I dated her then for 4months b4 we broke up.. so don't just speak with d little u know abt life.. but I could c u r now calming down.. am happy for that
hope we can be friends?

Aura2: ouch!! now Mr, everybody in life believe we have choices but how realistic is your choice? like you said somewhere up there, that you will marry a woman who has only 3 partners in a life time, that is not only absurd but s:lly and unrealistic, i know you are struggling into adulthood, but here some news flash;

so long as a girl is not a virgin, there is no instrument, device or machine that can determine how many people she slept with, so how exactly can you ascertain your number "3"? it is still what she says you will believe and trust me, in the real world, they paint it pretty well.

men (boys) like you don't even know what virginity looks like or what to look out for let alone a low mileage, it takes an in depth knowledge of anatomy to be able to put realistic clues together that im sure you have not got, please don't rely on the slacking theorem flying around amongst teenagers, most women who have had children are still tighter and sweeter than some single gals especially if they do kegel exercise, now, how much of that do you know?

you see son, you will know better when you grow up. making a choice of a woman by he sexual canopy is the biggest mistake a man will make, men already know that, i cant say for boys.

Now that you have specified that u r a female, I will hold myself from insulting u.. but I don't think you can read probably miss I know it all.. I said if a gal should tell me not me finding out.. cos only a fool will want to find out how many guys u slept with but I rephrase myself.."if she tells me she has already slept with more than 10guys.. if she tells me, I repeat if she tells me.. and I never said it must only be 3.. I said manageably three.. Mrs mature have u heard.. next time if you want to go on an argument with me, try using wisdom..not because u r a gal u have d right to stat barking like a dog
btw, sorry for that last statement though!!

Too long!! but based on d topic, there is nothing like perfect in a relationship! When I find a partner that suits my compatibility, then d next thing is marriage!! there would be fights, there would be arguments, disagreements but d ability to work out those issue in d shortest period of time brings about d compatibility..if that makes us perfect then so it is!!!

Chimezie198: Most girls on nairaland fine while some resemble wetin person no knw... U come see one babe here wey fine wella.
U come dey toast am till she finally say make una meet offline. As una don fix venue... She come dey come from afar sotey u come sight am, u mistakenly look am for her legs come see say one of her legs fit contain two tubers of yam.
Wetin u go do? U go toast on dey go?

** no mind me say i use pigin engrish dey type oo! Cuz where i come from we no dey speak nor hear Engrish for morning.

@bolded, lol... so na only morning u no dey speak English..
@topic, there are two things involved!
1. it depends if d yam ripe, if d yam ripe wella, u go finish d toasting kon take am go ur hauz, go fry yam..abi na...
2. if d yam no ripe yet!! finish d toasting then take her go house go tie am down for one tree 4 ur house and wait for it to ripe...

Nb: the topic is so stupid so I implore you to give silly answer...

Because they know that only fools believe they are ugly!! no 1 is ugly unless he or she sees him/herself as ugly... beauty they say is in d eye of d beholder.
some fools like I said might say u r ugly but they keep on smiling cos they know the beauty they have can never be possessed by those fools calling them ugly like U, I mean u @op..
for even opening a stupid post like this, u deserve a slap...

Aura2: A man who holds the opinion of a boy is still a boy, Maturity is of the mind, Age is mere numbers.
you may be 26 but you are 9yrs younger in wisdom, you don't struggle to get there but experience guides you.

NB: I dont give a fvck how you feel cos i dont fvcking know you.

Are you sensible at all? pls let's clarify something here!! why would a girl of 20yrs be telling me she has slept with over 10guys..does that show intelligence.. and u r here talking maturity.. I don't care if u think am a kid but u saying crap abt me that is what I won't accept.. if u like fvck around like a dog all you want, you would surely see who will marry you. that is sure but I said as for me, I won't so why is ur blood boiling over that... pls don't ever quote me again.. u talk of maturity and u think saying it here shows that u r mature right?.. idi0t saying shitt

critique101: Stop talking anyhow. Whenever you open your mouth and give someone an advice that is contrary to what is written in the bible, God will judge for that.

To divorce is a sin except in the case of [unfaithfulness. If a man divorces for another reason and remarries, in God's eyes, sex with the new wife is adultery. Stop taking God 4 granted.
If you have to copy western culture, copy only positive things.

A word is enuf for the wise

You spoke of unfaithfulness.. a woman that could lie to her spouse till the wedding night.. that woman is d biggest unfaithful human on earth.. why will u lie abt ur virginity.. is it not absurd to say d least!! I know divorce is actually not acceptable in d bible but is fornication acceptable too.. let's face facts here and talk wit sincere mind.. will u still trust ur husband if he tells u he was once a thief b4 he married u and he was d one who killed ur parents.. will u still trust that kind of a man.. will you!! this word trust once lost will be so difficult to gain back..
Gals pls don't lie to ur partner abt ur virginity.. if you don't wanna have sex again just tell him if he can cope, he will.. if he can't, then look for another man.. don't ever lie abt ur virginity..

Aura2: He spoke like a boy, i warned about his likes

I spoke like a boy!! okay thanks but I have truly said what I don't like if u like call me a boy or not!! I would have really abused u for calling me a boy but I know am not and I also c u as a girl so u r thinking from a girl's point of view.. this is a faceless forum so u have d right to say whatever u like but u don't really know me!! cos ur view differs from mine doesn't mean am a boy..correct that notion in case of next time!!"

khia: But how many girls have you been with?

I don't need to tell u how many gals I have slept with but just know that am not d type of man that jump from one woman to anoda.. being a man doesn't give u d right to sleep with every gal u see.. dignity and respect matters a lot.. I won't say much.. thanks though!!!

Another stupid rant from our lovely PdP folks..
if APC is trying to islamize Nigeria, Y hasn't it started with Lagos.. Y hasn't fashola turn Lagos to only Muslim hood no Christians..
this ppl don't think b4 talking trash!! instead of this stupid PDP members to b working hard so that at d end of the day their job will speak for them instead they keep on talking trash each day.. they will soon be wiped out that is for sure..

skydeep: Ya, it hurts badly no doubt, but divorce is not an option. No one is perfect remember? Even you

@bolded, Gbam.. if gals know this, then y lie.. did I tell u I haven't done stuffs myself.. my dear divorce is an option in fact I know myself I can't marry someone like that.. that is y there is courtship, I will know u well and we would have had sex no matter what!!

The daughters look like those Fulani beggars u see on the road in Nigeria while going to work!! though they both resemble majid but that resemblance with d Fulani beggars is very much visible..

skydeep: So if you meet a girl few days ago, you expect her to start telling you she was rap'ed in the past? Let me not be sentimental sha . Some girls are serial liars

@bolded, some gals lie a lot.. I can't marry a gal I don't trust during courtship.. Honesty matters a lot in a relationship.. it is this honesty that brings about trust.. if we were dating and ur words are always twisting.. I ask you this and u say this today, 2moa you say something else.. be counting ur days or better still break up with me if u can't handle heartbreak, I can..
we all lie but there are something's we are not meant to lie abt in a relationship.. if u were raped, good. just tell me, no big deal but telling me lies that u r a virgin till marriage breaks whatever trust I have and nothing else can bring it back so I will send her packing not to cause more harm...

Tell their parents.. I hate abortion no matter what.. I pity stupid fellows of nowadays.. there is condom and many other ways to prevent pregnancy.. pregnancy comes, the next thing is abortion....
!! Guy abeg tell their parents Now.. I mean Now now as u r seeing this.. just run and go tell their parents!! Now now now!!
Don't listen to d f**ls telling u abortion is not murder.. abortion is 100% murder... Go and tell their parents pls and pls.. kids are d best thing to happen to a family.. I love kids and let them b born no matter wat!!

Must you celebrate valentine!! valentine sucks, sorry to say!!

skydeep: Exactly my point. A girl may decide to stay without sex in a relationship due to the number of times guys have taken advantage of her. She decides to try a sexless affair. Respect that guys!

Let me tell u though I don't understand dis word called Love but I know love comes with intelligence.. if u r not sharp in love, u will get played and dumped!! A gal should be able to decipher a man that is ready to stay and a man that just wants chop and go..
OK for instance, I am 26, working class and I c u sky deep.. I liked u, asked u out and we started dating.. within 3months or even 2months of dating, I should be able to read u if I want to marry u or not and likewise u should have read me that I am here to stay or not.. love comes with intelligence.. u can't be telling me within just 3years in university u have dated 10guys already!! .. that only shows u r not sharp and u make yourself get played!! fine if u tell me u r a virgin and u don't wanna have sex till we are married fyn but u have had sex b4 u r now telling me because guys have taken advantage of u, u will then starve me sex....tofiaka
Fall in love with brains..

skydeep: Exactly my point. A girl may decide to stay without sex in a relationship due to the number of times guys have taken advantage of her. She decides to try a sexless affair. Respect that guys!

Let me tell u though I don't understand dis word called Love but I know love comes with intelligence.. if u r not sharp in love, u will get played and dumped!! A gal should be able to decipher a man that is ready to stay and a man that just wants chop and go..
OK for instance, I am 26, working class and I c u sky deep.. I liked u, asked u out and we started dating.. within 3months or even 2months of dating, I should be able to read u if I want to marry u or not and likewise u should have read me that I am here to stay or not.. love comes with intelligence.. u can't be telling me within just 3years in university u have dated 10guys already!! .. that only shows u r not sharp and u make yourself get played!! fine if u tell me u r a virgin and u don't wanna have sex till we are married fyn but u have had sex b4 u r now telling me because guys have taken advantage of u, u will then starve me sex....tofiaka
Fall in love with brains..

skydeep: A girl cannot lie to you she is a virgin if you had not told her you can't marry a non-virgin. Well, some girls are just so daft not to know that the man will find out

why will I tell a gal I won't marry a non-virgin.. am I a virgin myself that I will tell her I can't marry a virgin.. 1st I ask u sky deep, have u had sex b4 if u say yes OK I will still date u.. am only after your behaviour
. but still don't tell me u have had sex with more Dan 5guys.. I swear I can't date that kind of gal.. u telling I have had sex with 10guys.. that will make me piss off.. just go, I can't date u but may just 3guys.. still manageable.. if a gal starts having sex with 10 or more than 10 guys that means she is not focused and sharp..
So on d topic, gals don't lie to ur partner that u r a virgin if u r not!!

skydeep: Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Look at them blabbing like its a piece of cake to send a woman packing just because you found out she is not a virgin. How many of you are ready to forfeit the expenses you made at your wedding and the dowry you paid?

Probably, she lied to you because you made it known to her that you so much cherish virginity. I guess she doesn't want to lose you so she had to lie to you.
Pathetic!

Why lie? did I tell u I won't marry u because u r not a virgin.. B4 i marry any gal, I tell her she truth about me though not all but I also expect her to tell me she is not a virgin oo. I will understand if she gives me reasonable explanation( all these b4 wedding) but if she still lied till we are married then I later found out that she is not a virgin on wedding night..
I won't talk much, just lie down and open ur butt, I f**cked d hell out of you that night then d next morning, I call ur parents to come carry u.. forget abt d money I spent during wedding, there is more in d bank.. all I don't just like is for my partner to lie to me.. lie to me or test me during relationship u r gone!!

skydeep: Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Look at them blabbing like its a piece of cake to send a woman packing just because you found out she is not a virgin. How many of you are ready to forfeit the expenses you made at your wedding and the dowry you paid?

Probably, she lied to you because you made it known to her that you so much cherish virginity. I guess she doesn't want to lose you so she had to lie to you.
Pathetic!

Why lie? did I tell u I won't marry u because u r not a virgin.. B4 i marry any gal, I tell her she truth about me though not all but I also expect her to tell me she is not a virgin oo. I will understand if she gives me reasonable explanation( all these b4 wedding) but if she still lied till we are married then I later found out that she is not a virgin on wedding night..
I won't talk much, just lie down and open ur butt, I f**cked d hell out of you that night then d next morning, I call ur parents to come carry u.. forget abt d money I spent during wedding, there is more in d bank.. all I don't just like is for my partner to lie to me.. lie to me or test me during relationship u r gone!!

Crap
* Crap = Rubbish!!!..
I still remember then when Stella was first accused of the BMW
scandal, they all denied it and later started twisting words.. if it was
all a lie then why didn't they hold their stand that they never bought
any BMW car from d onset.. this woman is corrupt and a big fat liar!! if
only she could be punished to serve as lesson to all other thieves and
corrupt politicians like her which I know is mainly all.
Nigerians need to stand for what is right and stop all the tribal rants
and name calling.. Nigeria is one and it shall remain like that!!!!

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chidyhels: Be yourself.

If I say touch her now, she fit shout rape. If I say no touch am now she fit dey see you as jonsing Guy.

Bottom line, be yourself and follow her body language. She better know as I be now than you pretending throughout the relationship.

Gbam!! just follow this... gals give signals, don't rush It, she came at her own will and she already knows d action will take place so don't rush it.. just watch out for d signals and if u r not understanding d signals, snap her and pm me d pictures I will tell u exactly wat it means...

You never asked for her permission and u came here posting her picture..
wat kind of advice are u even looking for with that ur k-leg writing.. better go c a doctor b4 u kill urself..
if u don't trust her why don't u make her get another bf like me that will trust her as far as am getting that ......

Wrote something silly and had to wipe it off, go to d next comment...

Dhurmynick: Jaybee, congrats on being the first mod to ban me.

Hahahaha!! Don't beat him up oo.. na ur boy o!!

Refuse her sex for 3weeks... no better punishment than this...

15ways but I will be happy in 10minutes.. if I do all this 15tins will I even be through in d next 1hr talk less of 10mins..

I want to tell u what to do but tell me are u telling the truth or all these are lies!! if u can't say it here, PM me..don't let anyone know!!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Keep forming badest there[/quote]it is not abt baddest.. it is class!! Get that!!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Na your type dey fall hand[/quote]I don't need to start talking now!! I hate love so y will I have silly crush but let's wait and c.. no be NL we dey!! when d time comes sha