nadisms:
My Experience shopping on Jumia online store

Terrible experience and I feel they are breeding thieves as agents.

On the 23rd of january 2023, I decided to purchase 2 IN 1 universal wireless microphone on Jumia. After, a serious search for my spec ,I finally settled for one with the hope that the seller would send the same specification

atobs4real:
Good news.
BAT remains the man that can rule us to a greater heights

Write for yourself, please

Jennifer663:


Contact me for your Academic Assignment, Articles, power point, proposals, research works and also with good Turnitin report.

This is mostly for the guys and experienced females out there, do you think it is appropriate for one's male friend to constantly get erections around the female friend and even go as far as showing her his erect dick.
Please if u av a different opinion about it...feel free to share it. Thanks

BravoDe:


It seems I know her, she is in part 1 right? and her real name is Chris Valerie onyekachukeu right?

HumblySearching:
Just date a lady that's made.

chukzyfcbb:

I can relate to this,I thought she was angelic but what happened thereafter we broke up.

She became the captain of the cum squad, no jokes!

Man could not believe his ears, Its wrong to stereotype but my perception on IMSU Chics theereafter.....

I get stories to type, but lemme read others own and smile . Coz my Mumu exp was with my first ever GF (she had my Mumu buttons neat), I liked her to bitssss.....

My heart haff turn stone cold

if you ask me what Love is, I dunno what it means anymore it's just a word

funmisticqueen:
Part 1- THE NARCISSIST.
Good day Nairalanders, I decided to start a series to help others in relationships to recognize red flags and seek help where necessary and also avoid placing themselves in such situations.

This series will be like an expose especially on some B personality types like narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths and psychopaths. The continuity of this series will be based on your feedback, so please share and comment, you may be helping someone.

Who is a narcissist? He/she is someone who has an excessive in or admiration of themselves simple. While everyone has some narcissistic Traits so that we have good self-esteem. It becomes pathological when you have narcissist qualities to high degrees and at the expense of others. These are the narcissists I am referring to. We’ll call tem Narcs for short.

Narcs are usually selfish, entitled (believe they are the best thing since sliced bread), grandiose (believe that they are bigger and greater than they are or someone they aren’t), arrogant, manipulative, shallow/superficial and most importantly lack empathy (do not consider other people's feelings). They constantly seek validation and have a need for continuous admiration by all to boost their self-esteem and ego because they can’t draw such from themselves. Any person, thing or environment that provides this ego boost in any form to the narcissist is termed “narcissist supply”. Status symbols like sports cars, wealth, beauty; a yes man or sidekick or arm candy, a beautiful lady in the midst of less pretty ones so that she stands out more and so on are prime examples of narc supply

Narcissism is a spectrum, but we will broadly classify them into two but keep in mind that they overlap. The overt narcissists and the covert narcissists. Overt narcissists are easier to spot. They are usually extroverts. Most CEOs and a certain president who called our country a shithole are prime examples. We all know that arrogant person who doesn’t care for other people’s feelings, or that high and mighty boss who doesn’t care or give you leave because your mother is ill. Or that bf/gf who always want to be the center of attraction, it has to be about them. When in a relationship with such a person they do anything to make themselves look good even belittling you and chipping away your self-esteem so that you want to be like them, it can go on for so long you don’t know what is real anymore. ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ANYONE!
Covert narcissists are harder to spot, they have narcissist traits but hide it. They are experts of victim mentality, blame shifting, sabotaging and passive aggression. When in a relationship with such a person, you will always feel bad and not know why, everything seems perfect on the outside but something nags you and you can’t pinpoint the problem. If you feel such you might be in a relationship with a covert narc. They will make you feel bad on your birthday, or show fake concern if you are overweight. Some spiritual leaders, marriage counselors and therapists are prime examples, when you got to them they throw it back at you and tell you the problem is your fault. A covert narc may apologize for wrong doing, and promise to change but will go back to old habits soon after.

Narcs are not capable of sustaining deep intimate relationships where give and take is involved. They take and take until the giver is half of themselves. The relationship becomes 11/2 = 1/2 instead of 1=1 and sadly Nigerian upbringing is producing a lot of male covert narcissists.

So the question is should one stay or leave a relationship with a narc? That is entirely up to the person. Narcissists cannot be completely changed because it is a personality disorder. But something can be done which we will address in part 2. Please ask questions and feel free to share personal examples or your ordeals with a narc.
Cc

Luchi147:



Thanks. I just downloaded it to my phone now.

Kings2rule:


Yes I have.

goldiam:
So much love for this lady no scandal and you can never see her exposing her boobs or ass always covered. Banky is truly the right person for her may God bless their union.

jaycpu:
Finally good news, I v a frend in lag, he went to agbami main branch in lagos there to inquire abt d payment, dat they wld begin payment frm 23rd, dats friday. We shld hope 4 dat.

No one has received payment even from d bank, the staff said they vnt start payment nationwide.

olrotimi:
These are the kinda threads that should make FP, not nonsense trending stories of wannabes.
Anyways, our FMoH is obviously handicapped in this situation, they weren't caught unawares because this issue had been on for the past 5 months. Instead they just quietly watched and prayed that it would go away.
Now they're telling us that C strain wasn't vaccinated against, like seriously? That's the best they could come up with after 5months?
There are zero contingency plans on ground in the hospitals as we speak.
This government reeks of incompetence from head-to-toe. And to think this is the minister it took all of 6 months to appoint, mehn, I give up!

patakioye:
If you are applying for this job, then be ready for dragnet test which will include some work related questions. All the best guys.

princejayboss:


Dam you got me cracked up, that I forgot the traffic light has shown for me to movie... Kai you get bad mouth

Katyusha:
The Grudge part 3.

Godjone:
Am not a happy man at all. I did not make the list.

Now. After heavily investing in this job and the stress of traveling up and down, this is how it ended. Now am confused, age is no longer on my side. Job not easy in the country. Waking up in the morning and just be hoping aimlessly and hopelessly with no succour in sight.

May i say a big congratulations to those who made it. I want to equally encourage them to be magnanimous in victory. Put us who couldn't make the list in ur prayers and those who got connection among you should remember us too. Show us some affection and support so we can climb the top too.

I am grieved somebody console me please!

BossNixanda:
With the present situation of things in Nigeria now, almost all ladies simply need an already made guy with everything they can imagine like house, cars, swag, six packs, pink lips and just keep naming it all.
Out of the list above I have none but a caring heart, ambition, potentials and the fear of God.

Does my type still have the chance of finding true love anymore in this Nigeria with the way ladies are now or would I just be hoping for just the ones that are desperate because their time is running out?

Joe171:
I saved hers as "one&only" and the other line as "Temi glow" because that's her Glo line
she saved mine as "evolym" which is my love spelt backwards, and "Indispensable"

kennygee:
What ever u do, don't buy an Itel phone. You will just cry.

legendte:
Is this news?