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Munae:
Once it feels good, then it's not bad. In essence, it's not a rape.

Eh ya, if you let any random guy hear that one, them go rape you tire. If you like shout or say no, as long as your ponyor wet, na knack dem go just dey knack you dey go.

Munae:
Let me park here and wait for liars to come and commence duty.


On behalf my fellow ladies you want to accuse falsely, "ITS A LIE"

Preek stand, u say dem molest u. Mtchew.

If a lady become wet while being molested, it is not, I repeat, it is not molestation.

Just negodu this one

But if it's a girl that claim rape, you will come here and be insulting a men. Pray against spirit of misandry.

Lemme tell you if you dunno, men and boys can be and are also molested.

If them rub your ponyor, it will feel good and you will get wet. But that doesn't mean you wanted your ponyor rubbed in the first place, that is why rape is still rape even if preek stand or ponyor wet.

End time farmers.

& thats with all the boobs & vagis that the world has to offer.. They should have remained virgins instead of dabbling in this crap

SenorFax:
Read again, did he asked for house address?? The institution address preferably, and names to trace them with.

Institutions with Nigerian sponsor are easily assessed than others with racist sponsors.

We are in information age bro, flow with it.

Turbocharged:
Thus is just a covert attack on Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. If they have more than 3000 of such schools in Ukraine, the people heading them no get name and address, so we can see for ourselves?

You can see how you're trying to defend something you didn't even read.

SenorFax:
It will actually show that the information is true, plus who knows, it could be a big opportunity for Nigerians planning to migrate to Ukraine, so don't kill yourself, it's simple stuff.

So only when you know their house address that you'll believe it's true? Hian!

What opportunity does it provide Nigerians migrating to Ukraine please? Will they all go now to the sponsors house?

onuhabel1:
yea, u will continue "smh" in awe of how people are blessed by tithing

Aren't you still as hungry today as the day you started paying salary...sorry tithe to your pastor?

Your mates are out there working hard and getting income for themselves while you are paying money to pastor and waiting for God to double it for you. Is God a money doubler? You have been thoroughly brainwashed.

clifftop:
God catches you today for that Pastor Oyakilome you mentioned. Stop saying what you do not know and be careful .Do you know how much pastor oyakilomeh spent on the likes of Nath Basset, frank Edward,snachi,Tim praise......his music school brought them out trained them free and still sponsor their albums free before you know them

Are you aware that past oyakilome once gave Ekpoma 1billion naira built hostels for them

Sign of a brainwashed sheepie. What has happened to those devoted Christians that have spoken against the scams that some big churches and so called men of god run? Are they dead??

Its only people like you that have brainwashed to think that without paying tithe then you will be unsuccessful and unhappy in life.

Turbocharged:
Thus is just a covert attack on Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. If they have more than 3000 of such schools in Ukraine, the people heading them no get name and address, so we can see for ourselves?

So if they give you the sponsors address, you will travel to the country and visit the house to confirm for yourself? Chai...some Nigerians will not kill person.

Bonapart:
you know nothing about Christianity so shut up

One advice: stop mentioning the names of men of God to prove lame and cheap points

You and your entire family can turn to robot if you will.
Stop dragging another man's calling into it

We will all give account one day

Noooo, your man of god will give account for you and carry you to heaven. Is that not what you're paying him tithe for?

Do not think every Christian is like you, some of us worship God while you worship your men of god.

This topic was created in August, but it's just today its going to the front page

Some mods just don't have conscience o

Jiang:
Next2Bezee Why you so pained , In Nigeria every body is free to practice whatever religion he/she wishes, you can even worship your dick if you think it's a divine being & source of ur own miracles

Looks like it pained you more

bakila:
So you have intercourse without condom?

Can HIV be transmitted only through unprotected sex?

Some dudes will now slide into her DM and take number for their turn to collect HIV.

ReinaFarine:
Sugar, if that's what you say, then I'm both a feminist and a masculinist. I'm neither striving for female or male supremacy. The fact I concentrate on is the Equal right for BOTH of the sexes...

And please, dear, push out the prejudice. Read calmly not as an argumentative statement but as an informative one.

I said: If you ask ME out on the first date, you pay for it. Male, female, relationship wise, business wise, as long as you're the one reaching out to me, then you pay for it.

I said: If you're ewrning more than me in a relationship, especially when the percentage difference is about 250% and above, AND you suggest the date venue that is higher than my price range, since we are already in a relationship where I can't keep asking you to go for my standard all the time, It doesn't have to be 50-50 considering, my income and the fact that you suggested that venue. I never said it is expected you pay the bill. I added, when i suggest venues, I can pay 100% of the bill because i suggested it looking at my pocket.

I won't ask out a dude just because he looks bangable. I either saw him in his element and his persona, comportment and intellect os apealing to me. When it is a physical thing, it is called hook up. Not a date.

I might be mistaken, that's why i ask you out for a you and I time. If your views and goals resonate with mine, or it is different in a healthy competitive way, then we can progress to a relationship if you feel thesame way.

When i approach feminism, i pictute two things.
If I am in the same position as this person, having the same influence, character and wordly possession as so and so, how will I want to be treated by well, someone like this version of me.

Two, If I were a lesbian, how will I handle my partner or want to be handled by my partner.

I keep repeating if an action is accepted or rejected by anybody or the society solely on the basis of Gender, it is sexist.

Please, note that, it is not a generalisation of feminism. This is one of the most silly aspect of the while movement, but Nigerian guys tend to capitalise on this aspect to make a charade of the feminist and his/her opinions.

Feminism must come to stay in every region in Nigeria. Although the North has a long way to go especially in educating the girl child, giving her a voice in the decisions relating to societal building, Saying no to proxy-consensual marriage involving the Female Minor and other complicated matters tied up in their religious and traditional beliefs, Every other region has a part of their culture that demeans the woman to be nothing more than a breeding tool and probably a good house keeper.

This discussion are not the point of this thread. The OP is focusing on Dates. And that is why every opinion of mine tends towards what it was created for. I don't make it an habit of derailing or changing subjects to suit my personal ideas.

Thank you.

You claim to be an Egalitarian (support equal rights for both genders) but you have not in any in your posts, advocated for men's rights and opportunities.

I cannot take your post as an informative one when you twist the definition of feminism to include all genders. Also I'm waiting for you to show me where i was prejudiced.

First you are not a Queen.

Business outings - It is professional to offer to foot or share the bill whether or not you were invited.

Non Business outings - Your partner would respect you more if you offer to share or foot the bill, that's a fact. It is the same way BFs appreciate GFs who go out of their way to get them gifts and take them out especially when the reverse in the norm today. If you only expect to receive, you are no different from the millions of immature Nigerian girls.

Your 250% salary disparity example is just too ambiguos to even be addressed and corrected so I'll leave it at that. If you don't expect outing meals to be split 50 - 50, then you should not expect house chores and kitchen duty to be split 50 - 50 either.

Mind you, if a dude asks you out, it also is because he saw something he liked. It could just be your butt, it doesn't change anything. So the point you made there is irrelevant. No one would ask another out if they don't find anything about the other appealing.

Your view of feminism is funny. You are not willing to split bills 50 - 50 but you expect your guy to be the one to take you out and foot the bill 100% That shows the kind of feminist you are...a modern day one that gets the movement wrong.

Your view is the same with a lot of Nigerian girls who feel self entitled because they have a Vigina but complain because guys only value them for their Vagina.

Feminism should include splitting date bills 50 - 50 or it is not feminism animore, its selfishness.

ReinaFarine:
Who defined this for you.
It[b] is as dumb as saying the fight against racism is only for the black.[/b].. It is a fight against stereptypic discrimination based of race. The fact that the blacks where the most affected by this doesn't make it a fight just for them.

The fact that women are most affected by sexism doesn't make it theirs alone.

Please read.

It's called FEMinism because it's a rights movement for women. Even the definition you screened says so...a theory or movement that argues that legal and social restrictions on FEMALES be removed...

At least be honest with your definitions. Masculism is the rights movement for men and boys.

Most modern day feminists do not want equal rights and responsibilities between men and women, they want women to be pampered and taken care of (The real feminists of old would be rolling in their graves because of what the movement has become).

I still believe we need feminism in Nigeria, especially in the North...but that's Real Feminism, not this crap going around today.

If you ask me out then it is expected you take care of the bills..if you're earning more than me, it is expected of you to take care of the bills...if i ask you out, it is because i see something in you.....PLEASE! What Rubbish!! No shame at all

dingbang:
All these women that will be using molesting excuse to hide their waywardness

I'm telling you. They will refuse to close their legs in secondary school & now use this as an excuse for their partners.

ReinaFarine:
Darling, you ask me out, you pay for the date. I sm wasting valuable minutes of my time to consider why I deem you worthy of my time, my attention and my contributions...
If I ask you out because I see something in you that I want more, I'm gonna pay for the full date no question asked....

When we are in a relationship, if you pick a super pricey place and I earn #80,000.00 to your #360,000 monthly, you don't expect me to drop 20,000 on a date do you. And if I earn more than you I won't expect the same of you. It is a mater of logic. I raised this issue because it seemed to be a matter of controversy among broke ass NL niggers looking for free food.

If the place is within my price range. Say total cost of dinner is #10,000, I don't have a problem paying 50 or 100% of that.
But when you pick the place because you want to make me feel special in that day, you got to pay... Male or female.

Feminism is for both of the sexes honey I agree with you on that.

The stupid idealogy that girls have of:

Only a MAN suggest and sponsors date night... Sexist.

That only the man is responsive for romantic surprises, gifts and gestures... Sexist.
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The stupid notion of waiting on a MSN to take care of all my needs... I mean why else am I with him... Is as sexist as saying I'm only with a woman for sex...

A man is note than his pocket and a woman more than her body

Feminism is treating people right irrespective of gender.
In my situation, my Man earns about 6 Times my salary... So to the best of my ability and my pocket, I take care of him.
It is financial buoyancy and not sexual organ that determines who takes the lionshare.
Thanks

Just helped you highlight the rubbish you took your time to post.

From the bolded, we can see that 70% of your post makes zero sense so we can disregard that. Let me help you with definitions since you seemed to struggle with those.

Feminism - The advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Women's Rights! It has nothing to do with men so it is NOT for both sexes.

Egalitarianism - Believing in or based on the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities.

ideologies:
but y u de vex, na my money according to MMMers

hahahhahahahhahahhahah

Lol bros keep paying

ideologies:
hahahahahaha see painment

you never start, i bet u never heard they existed before, now te source of their funds is ur problem.

But are they doing what u claim churches are not doing?

Why will it pain me? If pastor chris gifts himself 5 more jets, it won't change the fact that you're even broker than when you started paying pastor chris salary aka tithe

I repeat, please go and borrow or steal money and use it to pay tithe, your pastor needs to upgrade his olosho.

ideologies:
hahahaha am not complaining, abeg sware e no concern u

The same mentality as the boko haram terrorist. Yet you will open mouth and condemn them.

If you like sell your siblings and use the money as tithe, pastor chris needs to fuel his new jet biko

donnie:
Sharrap there...

Visit: https://theinnercitymission.ngo then you can drink water and rest.

Your ignorance is suffocating this thread o.

Who told you NGO's don't make profit? They don't even pay tax. Why can't that church directly use the tithes they receive to help the needy?

God help you.

ideologies:
you dont give yet you complain the most, ahahahhahahhahaaa

Those that give are getting bigger, cant you see

They cant stop, get a life!

Who is deceiving you? You want to give #10,000 tithe so God can bless you with #10,000,000....is God a money doubler? Instead your pastors will take your #10,000 and buy fuel for their private jets.

Jesus taught thousands upon thousands and never once demanded anything from them.

Continue enriching and worshipping greedy men and lying to yourself that you're giving to God.

Numbers 23:19 - God is not a man, that he should lie

ideologies:
you dont give yet you complain the most, ahahahhahahhahaaa

Those that give are getting bigger, cant you see

They cant stop, get a life!

Who is deceiving you? You want to give #10,000 tithe so God can bless you with #10,000,000....is God a money doubler? Instead your pastors will take your #10,000 and buy fuel for their private jets.

Jesus taught thousands upon thousands and never once demanded anything from them.

Continue enriching and worshipping greedy men and lying to yourself that you're giving to God.

Numbers 23:19 - God is not a man, that he should lie

zionmde:
The fruit of his labor.
For all those dumb people who will suddenly open their mouth to start blabbing. The gift was from the greatest gospel musicians in Nigeria who found their calling to Pst Chris. They are infact the greatest in africa and have a special place in the world's christian music industry. Those were the people that contributed to buy the jet to say thank u for being the searchlight God used to show us our talents and destiny.
So before u open ur mouth and start shouting tithe, its good u know the source so u would sound dumb even to urself wen u do

No be only searchlight, you should have said Torch Light.

Poor and ignorant sheepies keep deceiving themselves. Go and beg pastor chris for 1 naira na You won't even be able to meet him & even if you did, he will just ask you to pay more tithe.

shejane:
Great news. Let them keep wailing while the church of God is moving. The gate of hell shall never prevail against the church.

More news like dis biko

Lol Church of God indeed. Keep deceiving yourself. Pastor Chris will take you to heaven don't worry

tunary:
daddy freeze go commit suicide very soon

Why should he? If some Nigerians refuse to give up their ignorance, it is not his problem.

When all the audience member die, they will be waiting for their pastor to come and carry them to heaven, afterall they bought jet for him.

lloyds:
Daddy Freeze definitely loading........

Any real and genuine man of God has paid a lot of heavy and it is not bad when God rewards.

This isn't God's reward.

Matthew 5:12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven ...

It is the pastor's enriching themselves and their confused audience celebrating them.

If una like continuing giving all your salary as tithe and waiting for God to throw money from heaven for you.

donnie:
You must think every church is as broke as your church? Did you see the calibre of people that department has produced? And please please don't start imagining those your church choristers.

Another Sheepie spoted.

Does it matter how rich a church is? What happened to helping those in need? Jesus taught thousands of people & fed them without demanding anything from them.

Today we have pastors in Nigeria demanding tithes and offering upandan and using it to buy jets for themselves & sheepies like you are celebrating them.

Hosea 4:6 my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge.

oseka101:
lols aiiir dear u will meet kurege and RSM

Na road patrol duty all dem dey do na, you go see some of dem on the first military post after you enter ekiti.

Dem just dey wait for fresh blood to enter this Tuesday make their jolly start again

Hasn't someone already won this? Think the OP should edit his first post if someone wins so others can stop commenting.

ORAGBON:
....... I was raised in a good Christian family with sound moral up bringing. I believe this contributed immensely to why I was still intact before I met my husband.

Lies...the way some ladies can pretend ehn. Being a virgin doesn't mean you haven't been squeezed and romanced thoroughly.

Some guys will marry virgins & be feeling fly, not knowing their wives are like unopened biscuits that have been tossed around every where and is just crumbs inside.

ORAGBON:
Tunde, was not my dream man, but since he was the only guy that seems a bit committed among all those hanging around me, I had to give in to him, besides, I have been facing a lot of pressure from my parents especially my mum. I was already approaching 28years old.

When all the guys playing with you are scared to get serious with you, then you should have known that your problem pass their power.

You didn't even love your husband before marriage yet you expected him to move heaven and earth for you? Issokay.

ORAGBON:
The challenges started during our courtship, but because I was naive, I didn’t see anything wrong. For instance, when, Tunde was to rent a place, he asked me to contribute to the rent, when he was to equip the apartment he also asked I should do this and do that. Which I obliged. My dad even called to warn me, but I went against his word.(Pls spinsters be warn.if a man wants to marry you, let him do the needful, at least before you move in)

A 28 year old woman who is dependent on her husband, wants the man to take care of everything by himself? God help us.

Where are all the ladies clamoring for equality on NL? See how some ladies react when their man asks them to take equal responsibility financially.

ORAGBON:
Immediately, after our wedding, my husband behaviour started changing. The up keep allowance, he slash into two. When I asked why, he warn me never to try it again, asked if am not earning enough to take care of the house. I actually thought maybe it because of inflation and that he might have some future plans, like investment. Few weeks later, he gotba better job, with over 200% increase in salary. But rather for things to improve in the house, they rather got worse. Rather than getting increase in allowance, the little he was bringing was not consistent anymore. My birthday with come and go, same with our anniversary, but my husband will never get me a gift.

A married woman that can't even spare change to take care of the house without nagging her husband..chai

Wedding Anniversary - He should buy you gift and take you out.

His Birthday - He should take you out.

Your Birthday - He should buy you gift.

Carry on my sister, it is well.

ORAGBON:
There was this fateful evening i came home early than expected because i was not feeling too well, i was amazed to see my help with a tight fitted new jeans which sh didnt have before, and i know I did not buy it for her, so I enquire how she got it. But she said Uncle Tunde referring to my husband gave her.See me see wahala.I wanted to give her the beating of her life, but restrained myself. By the time I finished with her I discovered he even gave her money too.
That evening I confronted him(Tunde) that evening, he was mad, saying how dare me, ask him, that he observed she didn’t have clothes, so he bought her some. I knew water don’t pass garrison. Quickly the next day, i sent her packing. That evening when my husband came back and discovered she was gone, he started showing anger in everything I do.

Which one is tight fitted jean again, is jean suppossed to be loose before?

So because your husband bought clothese for your maid, you proceeded to deal with her, send her packing and confront your husband? Because of clothe? How is he supposed to be happy??

ORAGBON:
That weekend, when I asked for money for weekend. I said he didn’t have. I told him I also don’t have a dime with me. So, he left, on getting back and asked for his food, Before I could simply reply I didn’t cook because I had nothing on me, I had received a sound slap. I felt like tunder, I saw star.
Next day I ran to my parents.....

You can beat your househelp black and blue, but just 1 slap dem give you na em you run

ORAGBON:
Just few days I got an offer for another job in a multinational company. My husband has been offering to also be dropping me off at work along with the kids. Sincerely, I don’t feel anything for him anymore.

Then please go. Is it because of job? With your selfish and self entitled character, it is a wonder how you will survive there.

Even the men loading coca cola crates into trucks 'work for a multinational company'.