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Crime / 21-year-old 400 Level Student Goes Missing by nicho450(m): 7:26am On Oct 21, 2022
Emmanuel Oluwakoya, a 21 year old boy who left home yesterday (Wednesday 19th of October 2022) around 7am going to Lekki, ITF(Industrial Trust Fund) office to submit a SIWE document.

He took a bus going to Lekki from Berger and texted his mum when the bus was departing.

At 11:57A.M, he went off the radar. His number was switched off and ever since then, we haven't heard from him.

However, around 8pm, he sent an sms to his mom saying he entered a one chance bus.

The phone could not be reached from then till now.

Emmanuel is 21 years old, responsible, 400 Level, honors student of Olusegun Agagu University of Science and Technology (Oaustech), he never stays out late and this the first time his whereabouts will be Unknown.

If you have seen him or have ANY information about him, Please call 08023333177 OR 07087799113 OR contact the nearest police station.
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Crime / Re: How Can I Track My Stolen Phones And Electronics? by nicho450(m): 8:57am On Aug 28, 2022
msylva2147:
I only went to the police station in yola and reported and I also gave them the imei number with 5k. I advise you go to the station close to you and try to sort the person in charge and also try and get his contact I believe within two months or less you will recover your phone. it will be easier to track down the person if he is within your state because they will go to the place in question by themselves but if it is outside the state they will have to liaise with the nearest police station to carry out the arrest.


Hi boss
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole’s Senate Ambition Threatened As Massive Defections Hit APC by nicho450(m): 8:19pm On Aug 16, 2022
Na wao

Religion / Re: Breaking: OPM On Fire by nicho450(m): 2:28pm On Aug 02, 2022
This is serious... God help o

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Sports / Re: Nigeria vs Morocco: WAFCON Semi Finals (4 - 5)pens On 18th July 2022 by nicho450(m): 1:38pm On Jul 18, 2022
oluseyiforjesus:
Buhari congratulating them for their last win is scary to me for ds match.......


Did he congratulate them?

Wahala o
Politics / Re: Ondo People Attack Akeredolu For Supporting Tinubu by nicho450(m): 12:53pm On Jul 17, 2022
Everyone should vote for who he/she feels is competent. At the end of the day may God give us who he feels is the right person.


Meanwhile, we all should vote.

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Romance / Re: Big Python Killed At Odukpani,cross River State by nicho450(m): 1:44pm On Jul 16, 2022
I heard the meat is good for the body.
Politics / Re: Buhari Loses To Nigerians As ECOWAS Court Declares Twitter Ban Unlawful by nicho450(m): 2:46pm On Jul 14, 2022
Buhari no send wuna
Phones / Re: ***** Xiaomi Redmi Discussion Thread ***** by nicho450(m): 11:22am On Jul 08, 2022
Is alright. We move
Sports / Re: First Signing: Tyrell Malacia Set To Join Man United From Feyenoord In Deal Wort by nicho450(m): 8:36pm On Jul 01, 2022
I have a feeling that he will do well

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Investment / Re: I Need Business That Can Fetch Me 50k Monthly by nicho450(m): 7:31pm On Jul 01, 2022
Let me follow this post
Celebrities / Re: Anita Drags Paul Okoye To Court For Sleeping With Housemaid, Florence by nicho450(m): 1:11pm On Jul 01, 2022
Is it confirmed?
Politics / Re: President Buhari Meets With Portuguese President Marcelo (Photos) by nicho450(m): 6:58pm On Jun 30, 2022
Bubu!!!!!


Lol
Health / Re: When Last Did You Take Drugs? by nicho450(m): 5:08am On Jun 30, 2022
Cypress042:
Today would make it 2years, 4months, and 3 weeks i last took drugs. So whenever i say my God is good, don't doubt me cool

Wao smiley
Health / When Last Did You Take Drugs? by nicho450(m): 9:58pm On Jun 29, 2022
May sickness not happen to you in this current state of the nation.
As for me, I have not taken a single drug for over two years now.

So let's hear from you. When last did you take drugs?

Education / Re: Is Teaching Job Now A Modern Day Slavery?? Honestly I'm So Angry Right Now by nicho450(m): 9:55pm On Jun 29, 2022
GloriousGbola:


And this school will be charging over 150k per student per term. In addition to wayo on school uniform, feeding etal.

Nigerians ehn, masters of exploitation. The man fit ask you for kidney join sef. grin

Sorry about this.

You can always take it to hold body for the next job If worst comes to worst
Politics / Re: Nigeria At The Intensive Care Unit by nicho450(m): 4:05pm On Jun 29, 2022
PresidObi:
Nigeria is pregnant


Who is responsible for the pregnancy?
Crime / Re: Big Python Strangulates Man Playing With It (video) by nicho450(m): 11:29am On Jun 29, 2022
Comments have been restored
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Writer by nicho450(m): 8:38pm On Jun 28, 2022
I heard you guys don't pay your workers

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Can I Recoup Payment From Someone Whom I Worked For; We Met On Nairaland. by nicho450(m): 2:52pm On Jun 28, 2022
Haba, people are dangerous.

There are people more wicked than us I swear

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Business / Re: You'll Get More No's Than Yes by nicho450(m): 10:09am On Jun 28, 2022
Good one
Travel / Re: How God Saved Me From Untimely Death by nicho450(m): 8:29pm On Jun 27, 2022
PALAPALA02:


Thanks o

It can Only be God.

No other

Yes o

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Travel / Re: How God Saved Me From Untimely Death by nicho450(m): 8:19pm On Jun 27, 2022
Praise God

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Romance / Re: What's Your Take In Lending Your Partner Money? by nicho450(m): 8:18pm On Jun 27, 2022
Pele o
Religion / Re: Osinachi Nwachkwu Song Played To Evangelise In UK While Being Buried. Video. by nicho450(m): 1:45pm On Jun 25, 2022
Good one
Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth by nicho450(m): 10:10am On Jun 25, 2022
Bonesbreaker:
When i read this stuff online I feel so scared to marry


I swear
Family / My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth by nicho450(m): 6:28pm On Jun 24, 2022
In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

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Car Talk / Re: Do You Think This Transmission Will Still Work? (pictures) by nicho450(m): 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2022
Let the other guy come in
Nairaland / General / Re: Photo Of David, The 15-year-old Boy Ike Ekweremadu, Took To The UK by nicho450(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2022
If it is true, I must say he is not looking like a 15-year-old.
Sports / Re: Favour Ofili Nigeria's 100 & 200m Sprinter Is Being Sabotaged By Her US Coaches by nicho450(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2022
GenBuhari:
She is only 19 is probably very trusting.


I concur
Crime / Re: Ghanaian Girl Found Dead In Drain With Her Hands Tied (Photos) by nicho450(m): 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2022
Things fall apart

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